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Men's Modern Dating Secrets

Christopher Hardersfacebook.com
A no fluff podcast for men ready to find love and be in a powerful relationship with a fantastic woman. What works and what you need to do to get there.
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Episodes

A Special Invitation for You

Behind the scenes of men’s modern getting secrets, I have been working on the next stage of dating education. What’s going to be the difference for men (and women) who are ready to exit the dating life with their right person? After talking to many men and women, I have decided to create the Conscious Singles Network FREE group. In this group, you will get live trainings, a supportive community, and access to resources I’ve created to help you navigate dating life authentically and easily. Liste...

Dec 15, 202311 minSeason 2Ep. 1

Why winter is the BEST time to find the ONE!

Winter is hands down the best time to meet someone who will become your partner. As people decide to go more inside and spend less time out and about socializing, there is a unique opportunity to meet the perfect person for you. Chris explains the psychology behind this and the solution to the most common mistake guys meet when they meet a woman this time of year. If you would like to work with Chris, send him an email at cdharders@gmail.com To your success!...

Nov 07, 202215 min

The #1 Asset to Mastering Your Dating Life

This episode reveals that an unwavering "will to win" or desire for change is the ultimate asset for dating success. It emphasizes the emotional and personal transformation required, highlighting that dating is a non-linear journey filled with discomfort and setbacks. The host encourages brutal honesty with oneself and the realities of dating, stressing that genuine improvement stems from internal motivation and a willingness to make continuous, uncomfortable choices.

Oct 07, 202244 min

Ep 15. What dating system works?

It is super common for me to have men ask what is that correct dating system. And I understand why they are asking that. There is no shortage of advice and opinions out there… Unfortunately, much of the advice is conflicting… And even more of it is flat out wrong. In this episode, I discuss the foundations and fundamental principles that go into understanding the dating process. We start by discussing that you can begin with the end in mind. And you can do this for every step of the dating proce...

Dec 30, 202140 minSeason 1Ep. 15

Ep 14. Finding Quality Dating Advice

In this episode, I cover exactly what to ask your self when you are determining what advice to listen to with dating. More than anywhere else, it can be frustrating to sort through what is true and what is not when it comes to dating. The dating advice industry is filled with bad advice and some people who just look at you with dollar signs in their eyes... It’s unfortunate because I’ve seen it firsthand… And it can be easy to avoid these people that aren’t going to help you get where you want b...

Dec 30, 202148 minSeason 1Ep. 14

Ep 13. 3 Steps to Becoming More Social from Scratch

How you can systematically make your life more social and start meeting women and making connections in your city/town. These principles and practical advice will guide you. Other episode referenced: Flirt Like a Pro ;-) Book a call with Chris: https://www.chrishardersdatingcoach.com/chat

Nov 02, 202150 min

Ep 12. What to do when you don't know what do and you're with a woman

In this episode, I discuss the 5 things that you can do with a woman when you do not know what to do. This is a far too common thing where a guy who doesn't know what to do will just shut down or even leave a conversation that he is having with a woman out of insecurity or fear. When you are getting started talking to women, one of the best things you can do is have a few ideas of how to get things going. I break it down and gives actual examples of what you can do to take this part of your dati...

Oct 13, 202138 min

Ep 11. "There are no good women in my city" <-- The 3 Ways to SOLVE This issue

Want this on video... go to: https://www.chrishardersdatingcoach.com/youtube In this episode, Chris takes on the common complaint he hears from both men and women… Where are all the good people to date??? Chris will outline the three ways to solve this problem… Change location Change expectations Change yourself Enjoy! Want to talk to Chris 1-on-1? Go to: https://chrishardersdatingcoach.com/chat...

Sep 29, 202133 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Ep. 10 Mostly Mindset

Check it out everyone! At long last, episode number 10 is live! Here I start talking about mindset… In dating and the self-help world, I have noticed a lot of unhelpful advice related to mindset, so I hope this episode can begin to set the stage for a man (or anyone really) to consider the dating life that he wants and choose the ones to view his dating Journey and the dating process through that will best help him reach his goals. So often, we defer our opinions and decisions and beliefs system...

Sep 14, 202128 min

Ep. 9: Quality Not Quantity

Let's examine the myth of dating being a numbers game and examine a common trap men fall into when they choose to go this route. And then, let's focus on what you actually want instead. Lots to come in this episode and if you want even more, head over to https://chrishardersdatingcoach.com/training to watch how I recommend clients approach dating which gives them a leg up! Enjoy!

Jun 30, 202122 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Ep. 8 The Friendzone

This could be the most “tough love” I dish out on an episode... if you’re in the friendzone, I get it... it sucks.... and now it’s time to understand why you’re in the friendzone, what can be done for the current friendzone situation you’re in, and how to make sure this never happens again...

Jun 23, 202125 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Ep. 7 Conversational Flow

How can you go from strangers to a date in 10 minutes? In this episode we explore the 3 part conversation formula, the 3 levels to connecting with someone, how to include flirting, and the secret key to knowing *exactly* what topics to ask about without her ever telling you that’s what she wants to talk about... enjoy!

Jun 16, 202147 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Ep. 6 The 5 Love Languages

Ready to become ultimate Boyfriend Material?? Learn these and a lot of eye brows will raise with women... Most men don’t know this and knowing this could *easily* save the crap out of a relationship... you’re gonna love it.

Jun 09, 202130 minSeason 1Ep. 6

Ep. 5 The Friendship Formula

This one concept is foundational to gauging the health of a relationship and likelihood of a healthy relationship forming at all. Enjoy!

Jun 02, 202122 minSeason 1Ep. 5

Ep. 4 Flirt Like Pro ;-)

In this episode, I am discussing what flirting really is. We’re talking about a couple misconceptions going into win flirting is appropriate and not, and then diving into a whole lot of examples. You’ll see how flirting fits into the connection model that I use for relationship building and even how you can throw in some mild sexual banter without being **too** crass. Enjoy!

May 26, 202149 minSeason 1Ep. 4

Ep.3 The Connection Key

What if you had a key that could unlock a relationship or deep connection with anyone?? What if learning this could make you wildly successful in your dating life and beyond?? And what if most of the other men out there had no clue this was the secret...?? It took me 6 years to finally understand the true secret behind building powerful relationships with anyone. It will take you roughly 23 minutes to gain the major concepts! Super excited for this episode because This Is Where It All Starts... ...

May 19, 202124 minSeason 1Ep. 3

Ep 2. Dating After Covid

Let's talk about what's changed and what's stayed the same with dating post-coronavirus. I've personally found 5 things to account for since getting back into dating post-pandemic... Most people are feeling socially anxious... makes sense when you think about having not been too active the past year. Check the mirror... If you slipped into a *ahem* comfortable sense of style and hygiene, now is the time to clean that up! Outdoor dates are the new indoor dates ;-). At least until you and her have...

May 15, 202118 minSeason 1Ep. 2

Ep 1. My Dating Journey

In this first episode, I want to lay the groundwork for what’s the come and give some insight into my personal journey. This way, you know who I am, what I’m about and the breakthrough that I had which clarified dating for me and led me to become the expert that I am. This is *just* the beginning.

May 12, 202116 minSeason 1Ep. 1
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