https://www.skool.com/men-rising/about Why do so many relationships feel like a battlefield? Men feel blamed. Women feel misunderstood. And both feel alone. In this episode, I sit down with Harry Kloser-Pitcher , creator of She’s Not Crazy , to unpack one of the biggest sources of tension between men and women: misunderstanding. Harry shares his personal journey with his wife — two educated, self-aware people, both trained in communication and psychology — who still found themselves struggling. ...
Mar 15, 2026•53 min
👉 Join The Men Rising Community here: https://www.skool.com/men-rising/about ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode includes graphic discussion of circumcision and may be emotionally activating for some listeners. This is one of the most real and confronting conversations I’ve ever had on this podcast. In this episode, I sit down with Jenna McLelland , spiritual healer and circumcision researcher, to explore a subject that almost no one wants to look at—but nearly half the men listening have lived ...
Mar 09, 2026•55 min
👉 Join The Men Rising Community here: https://www.skool.com/men-rising/about What if some of the deepest blocks to intimacy aren’t about sex at all… but about purity ? In this episode, I sit down with Mara , also known as Pleasure Creatress , to explore how the pedestalization of purity quietly shapes desire, jealousy, shame, and the way we relate to one another—often without us realizing it. This conversation was inspired by my own experience supporting a Tantra event in Austin, Texas, whe...
Mar 02, 2026•52 min
👉 Join The Men Rising Community here: https://www.skool.com/men-rising/about What is it like to grow up around Orthodox Christianity, ancient culture, and modern confusion — all at once? In this episode, I sit down with Jonathan , a 26-year-old man from Greece, who shares his story anonymously as part of this ongoing series exploring how men from around the world learn about intimacy, arousal, and relating — often without guidance. Jonathan opens up about learning conflicting stories at a...
Feb 24, 2026•49 min
👉 Join The Men Rising Community here: https://www.skool.com/men-rising/about In this episode, I’m joined by Luis Mojica , somatic therapist, teacher, and author from Holistic Life Navigation , for one of the most important conversations we’ve had about arousal, embodiment, and the intelligence of the body. We explore what somatics actually means — and why the body holds wisdom and information far beyond conscious thinking. This conversation dives into how early exposure to porn, without...
Feb 10, 2026•45 min
What does it really take to build healthy relationships — and why are so many people struggling with connection today? In this episode, I’m joined by Tony and Cris of Awakened Amara , a community rooted in tantra, embodied intimacy, and conscious relating. Together, we explore the skills most of us were never taught — the very skills that make relationships, community, and intimacy actually work. We talk about how modern life has quietly eroded many of the social foundations that once supported ...
Feb 03, 2026•1 hr 2 min
What happens when a man finally stops carrying his fears alone? In this episode, I’m joined by Alex Gere — the very first guest ever on the Men & Sex podcast — returning after nearly two years to share the profound transformation that unfolded when he made his relationship with intimacy a priority. When Alex first came on the show, he was struggling deeply. He felt broken. He was facing performance anxiety, fear, overthinking, and the belief that something was wrong with him. He had no idea ...
Jan 27, 2026•56 min
Who decided how we should and shouldn’t experience sex? And why do most of the teachings we inherit focus almost entirely on what not to do — with so little clarity about what a healthy, life-giving relationship to sex actually looks like? In this episode, I’m joined once again by Dr. Kevin Jenson — biblical scholar, theologian, and author of Sacred Not Sinful — for one of the most important conversations we’ve had on the show. We explore: 📖 How religious teachings around sex became rooted in r...
Jan 20, 2026•1 hr 10 min
What happens when a young boy grows up split between desire and fear— between what his body feels and what his culture tells him is dangerous? In this episode of the global anonymous series, I interview a man from Turkey who grew up immersed in Islamic culture and social pressure, carrying a deep internal conflict around intimacy, identity, and belonging. From an early age, desire felt risky. Fear of punishment, fear of hell, fear of being seen as “bad” lived right alongside curiosity and longin...
Jan 13, 2026•40 min
Touch is one of the most essential human needs — and yet most men are profoundly touch deprived. In this episode, I sit down with Kenneth Darby , who has spent over 20 years exploring the world of touch , embodiment, and nervous system health through tantric-style bodywork and somatic practice. What unfolds is one of the most honest conversations I’ve had about what men are actually carrying around touch. We explore: 🤲 Why men are so deeply starved for touch 🚫 The fear of platonic touch betwee...
Jan 05, 2026•1 hr 21 min
What happens when a boy’s brain is shaped by years of dopamine-spiking stimulation before he ever experiences intimacy in real life? In this episode of the global anonymous series, I interview a man from Aruba , raised in a blend of Latino culture, Catholic/Protestant/Christian influence, and a family environment where exposure to adult content began far too young. He shared openly about: 🇦🇼 Growing up in Aruba and the cultural pressure to “be the man” 📱 The combination of porn + video games ...
Dec 29, 2025•52 min
What happens when you grow up in a country where erotic imagery is everywhere… but real conversations about intimacy don’t exist? In this episode, I interview a man from the Netherlands who grew up with soft-core adult content on TV after 10pm, field trips to Amsterdam’s Red Light District, and a culture where sexuality was visible — but never explained. Despite being surrounded by openness, he still faced the same challenges so many men around the world face: no mentorship, no emotional context...
Dec 15, 2025•50 min
A conversation with a man raised in the Sikh tradition Most men grow up navigating desire, shame, confusion, and curiosity in total silence. And the silence changes depending on where in the world you come from. In this powerful anonymous episode, I interview a man from Chandigarh, India , raised in a Sikh household, now living in Australia. He shares what it was like to grow up in a culture where conversations about intimacy were rare, where guidance was minimal, and where the collision between...
Dec 02, 2025•54 min
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Betty Martin , author of The Art of Receiving and Giving and creator of The Wheel of Consent — one of the most influential frameworks in the world of intimacy, boundaries, and embodied communication. The Wheel of Consent breaks human interaction into four quadrants — Taking, Serving, Accepting, and Allowing — and reveals the hidden dynamics underneath every moment of touch. And for men… this conversation is vital . We explore why so many men are touch-starved...
Nov 25, 2025•51 min
What is Tantra, really? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Leola Watkins —best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed , host of the Talk Tantra to Me podcast, and co-creator of Tantra Love and Tantra Transformation Retreats —to explore how conscious sexuality can lead to deep personal freedom and expansion. Leola offers the best definition of Tantra I’ve ever heard. We dive into: 🌀 The four types of sex —and how each one shapes your experience of intimacy 🔥 The difference between pleasu...
Nov 11, 2025•52 min
What does it really mean to be dominant—in life, in energy, and in presence? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Justin Gottlieb —also known as @tantralovecoach —a sexual freedom coach and facilitator of tantra massage and retreats. Together, we explore how to Dom your life —to lead yourself and others with grounded strength, clarity, and integrity. We dive into: 🗣️ Our word as bond —and how integrity is the foundation of power 💭 Thoughts as currency —why your mental energy matter...
Oct 27, 2025•1 hr
How can men approach women in a way that feels grounded, confident, and respectful? And what does it take to truly master our sexual energy—not just for sex, but for life itself? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Jayde Alexandra , a feminine embodiment mentor and coach, for a powerful conversation about desire, attraction, and evolution through relationship. We dive into: 🔥 How to approach attractive women from authenticity, not performance 💬 Why practicing communication around ...
Oct 20, 2025•54 min
What’s it like to grow up as a man in Canada, navigating sex, shame, rebellion, and relationships? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Raven , a Canadian man sharing his raw experiences and reflections. Together, we explore the universal challenges—and uniquely Canadian perspectives—on sexuality and manhood. We dive into: ⚡ The awkwardness and confusion of spontaneous erections as teenagers 🙏 How religion offered only “no sex until marriage” but never gave the tools to deal with re...
Oct 06, 2025•48 min
We’ve made nudity so complicated. Sexualized. Shamed. Hidden away. But in nature? Everything is nude. No hiding. No judgment. No shame. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Kerry Kott , known as Nature Is Always Nude on Instagram, to explore the human-made complexities of nudity—and the deep medicine of returning to it. We dive into: 🌱 Why being nude is the most natural expression of being human 💔 How culture has twisted nudity into something messy and shameful 🌸 The nude retreats...
Sep 29, 2025•1 hr 24 min
What happens when you dedicate seven years of your life to uncovering the truth about sex? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Alex Liu , the filmmaker behind the groundbreaking documentary A Sexplanation . His mission: to confront shame, take responsibility for a lack of sexual education, and bring honesty back into how we talk about sex. We dive into: 🙏 The impact of religion on sexuality and shame 📚 The cost of growing up uneducated about sex—and how that continues to affect me...
Sep 22, 2025•55 min
In this episode of Men and Sex , I’m joined by Lona —a sexual bliss coach and neo-tantra teacher—for a deep conversation about roles, polarity, and stepping into more assertive, embodied energy as men. We dive into: 🎭 The power of playing with roles in the bedroom—specifically D-D-L-G (Daddy Dom / Little Girl) dynamics 📚 Why No More Mr. Nice Guy struck such a chord with men, and how we’re now living in an era where many recoil from masculinity altogether ⚡ How exploring the Dom or Daddy role c...
Sep 15, 2025•59 min
What happens when you grow up in a culture that almost never talks about sex? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with RD , a 21-year-old man from Ukraine, to hear his raw and unfiltered story. This is part of my series interviewing men across the world to uncover the common threads in how we were shaped around sexuality. We talk about: 🇺🇦 Growing up in a post-Soviet culture where “no one was ever having sex” was the running joke 🛑 The silence and shame around sex—and how it shaped id...
Sep 11, 2025•50 min
Most men have never been taught how to truly touch themselves—let alone how to touch a partner. And it shows. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down again with Victoria Angel Heart to explore: 💔 The difference between genuine giving and manipulation disguised as generosity ⚡ How rushing to the finish or “taking” without awareness erodes connection 🛏️ Why your self-pleasure practice is the training ground for every touch you share with someone else 💓 The power of devotion—bringing reveren...
Sep 01, 2025•39 min
Desire is more than just wanting something—it’s a mirror for how we live, love, and create. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Melody Lubin —a mentor of feminine arts and embodiment—for a deep dive into desire, capacity, and sexuality. We explore: 🌹 The subtle layers of wanting—and why most men miss them 💡 How fear of not getting what we want keeps us playing small 🛠️ The responsibility that comes with truly owning our desires 🛏️ Why your desire in the bedroom reflects your pot...
Aug 25, 2025•58 min
For centuries, sex was seen as sacred. Not sinful. Not shameful. Not shallow. But somewhere along the way—we lost that connection. In Episode 50 of Men and Sex , I sit down with Hannah Haazal —a sacred sexuality educator, ritual artist, intimacy coach, herbalist, and death doula—whose work is about restoring the holy power of erotic energy and helping men become deeply embodied, present lovers . We explore: 🌬️ How most men have been living (and having sex) from the neck up 🌹 The ancient world ...
Aug 18, 2025•1 hr
Sex isn’t just physical. It’s spiritual. Subtle. Mystical. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Jessica Bird —a powerful speaker, intuitive healer, and erotic channel—to explore the deeper truths of erotic energy and what it means to return to our erotic innocence . We dive into: 🌬️ The subtle, sacred nature of sex—and how to become attuned to its presence in all of life 💓 What it means to be a heart-centered erotic man in today’s world 🌿 How sexual energy exists all around us—in ...
Aug 11, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 49
This episode is a doozy —and one of the most eye-opening conversations I’ve had on Men and Sex . I sat down with a deeply informed anonymous guest, a man who has dedicated himself to understanding the full impact of circumcision—physically, emotionally, sexually, and culturally. And he came ready to share what most people never hear. We dive into: 🔍 Why do we circumcise? Religious tradition, cultural habits, and outdated medical myths 📉 The truth behind the so-called “health benefits”—and why ...
Aug 04, 2025•1 hr 11 min
If you are a heterosexual Male that wants deeper intimacy, better sex, and more embodied connection in your relationships—this episode is for you. I sat down with Ashley Jones , a gifted love, intimacy, and embodiment coach who works with women, couples, and men to rewire the way we relate—inside and outside the bedroom. Together, we explored: 💡 What’s actually required to create a deeply nourishing dynamic between a man and a woman 💦 How understanding a woman’s pleasure changes everything—emo...
Jul 28, 2025•55 min
In this potent episode I sit down with Tyson Adams —a leading expert in porn addiction and semen retention —to explore one of the most urgent issues men are facing today. We talk about: 📺 How porn has rewired our brains to crave novelty and disconnect from real intimacy. We've been trained to "bond" with screens 🤖 The rise of AI influencers and why more men are falling in love with digital women 💸 Why this conditioning is making us more likely to give our money—and our attention—to robots 🧠 ...
Jul 07, 2025•57 min
Most men were never taught how to touch themselves with intention. They use masturbation to release pressure —not to build power. In this live training, Victoria Angel Heart and I guide you through a whole new approach to self-pleasure: one that expands your nervous system, sharpens your focus, and strengthens your capacity to hold more sensation, emotion, and energy. We cover: 🛑 Why most masturbation patterns are based in anxiety, shame, and quick escape 🛠️ 5 powerful tools— breath, sound, mo...
Jul 03, 2025•51 min
