🎙️ MediateThis! is back to serve up a dose of reality for your wallet and your sanity — welcome to Part II of our Best Tips & Practices series. This episode tackles a truth few want to hear: cheap legal help can cost you more in the end. But don’t be fooled — the priciest attorney, mediator, or guardian ad-litem isn’t automatically the best either. We break down: Is your case right for mediation? How to hire a competent mediator. How to spot mediation versus manipulation, success versus set...
Jul 04, 2025•29 min•Season 1Ep. 132
🎙️ MediateThis! serves up a dose of reality for your wallet and your sanity — welcome to Part I of our Best Tips & Practices series. This episode tackles a truth few want to hear: cheap legal help can cost you more in the end. But don’t be fooled — the priciest attorney, mediator, or guardian ad-litem isn’t automatically the best either. We break down: Why “you get what you pay for” holds true in family law. How to spot overpriced legal pros. The non-negotiable truth: no one works for free,...
Jun 20, 2025•18 min•Season 1Ep. 131
Raising a child now costs $319,000 . Yet most parents are told to make it work with a court-issued child support number based on income and overnights. 🎧 In this episode, Florida Supreme Court Certified Mediator Matthew Brickman breaks down the real numbers behind raising a child in 2025—housing, food, transportation, healthcare, and more. You’ll learn: What child support is really designed to cover Why the number almost never matches real-life parenting costs The hidden costs that blindside di...
Jun 06, 2025•9 min•Season 1Ep. 130
Divorce is tough. But when your child is dealing with mental health challenges, it adds a layer of urgency most families aren’t prepared for. In this episode, Florida Supreme Court Certified Mediator Matthew Brickman tackle the sensitive intersection of child custody, mental health, and mediation . 💡 Learn how mediation can provide a compassionate, structured approach that supports both parental rights and a child’s emotional needs—without escalating to court. Whether you're navigating anxiety,...
May 23, 2025•13 min•Season 1Ep. 129
A listener writes in and asks, "Are there rules or guidelines to introducing children to a new partner after a divorce and can my spouse legally prevent this?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which...
May 09, 2025•13 min•Season 1Ep. 128
Matthew Brickman speaks with Lawyer and Forensic Scientist Tad A. Nelson on MediateThis! to discuss retirement plans from mediation - there isn't one. With over 400 jury trials under his belt, Board Certified in Criminal Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization for 30 years, and recognized as a Super Lawyer over 10 consecutive years, Tad Nelson is a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom. His reputation for aggressive representation, combined with an unparalleled level of expertise, ha...
Apr 25, 2025•36 min•Season 1Ep. 127
Matthew Brickman speaks with Lawyer and Forensic Scientist Tad A. Nelson on MediateThis! to discuss the the impact someone having a mental heath crisis can have on employment and divorce. With over 400 jury trials under his belt, Board Certified in Criminal Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization for 30 years, and recognized as a Super Lawyer over 10 consecutive years, Tad Nelson is a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom. His reputation for aggressive representation, combined with a...
Apr 12, 2025•41 min•Season 1Ep. 126
Matthew Brickman speaks with Lawyer and Forensic Scientist Tad A. Nelson on MediateThis! to discuss the correlation between divorce and the effect it can have the psyche post-divorce. With over 400 jury trials under his belt, Board Certified in Criminal Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization for 30 years, and recognized as a Super Lawyer over 10 consecutive years, Tad Nelson is a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom. His reputation for aggressive representation, combined with an un...
Mar 28, 2025•41 min•Season 1Ep. 125
Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. sit down for their 3rd interview on MediateThis! to discuss the correlation between divorce and the effect it can have the psyche post-divorce. Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate...
Mar 14, 2025•50 min•Season 1Ep. 124
Matthew Brickman and Dana Casperson reveal tactics on how to your find your power in negotiation, mediation and everyday life situations. Dana is a practitioner of "constructive conflict", award-winning performing artist, TEDx speaker, and best-selling author. She works with individuals, workplaces, and communities worldwide as a trainer, coach, consultant, and dialogue designer. Dana draws on the knowledge and insight gained from her experience and training as a mediator and conflict analyst as...
Feb 28, 2025•43 min•Season 1Ep. 123
Dana Casperson is a practitioner of "constructive conflict", award-winning performing artist, TEDx speaker, and best-selling author. She works with individuals, workplaces, and communities worldwide as a trainer, coach, consultant, and dialogue designer. Dana draws on the knowledge and insight gained from her experience and training as a mediator and conflict analyst as well as her 40 years career as a performing arts innovator. Dana’s work integrates conflict engagement practices with choreogra...
Feb 14, 2025•41 min•Season 1Ep. 122
A listener writes in and asks, "How does domestic violence affect how a case will be viewed and ultimately the outcome?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. ...
Jan 31, 2025•10 min•Season 1Ep. 121
There may be some very important terms missing from your divorce contract, especially when there's property to sell involved. Let's talk about it. Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getti...
Jan 17, 2025•15 min•Season 1Ep. 120
A listener writes in and asks, "What if my spouse and I completely disagree on the best interest of the children, does the judge make the decision for us?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you...
Dec 27, 2024•13 min•Season 1Ep. 119
A listener writes in and asks, "Are there rules or guidelines to introducing children to a new partner after divorce? Can my ex-spouse legally prevent this?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which y...
Dec 20, 2024•13 min•Season 1Ep. 118
A listener writes in and asks, "What if I am paying alimony and suddenly laid off, what do I do while waiting for a modification if I cannot afford to pay?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which yo...
Nov 29, 2024•11 min•Season 1Ep. 117
A mediation client asks, "Can I bring a court reporter to mediation?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you ...
Nov 15, 2024•5 min•Season 1Ep. 116
A listener writes in and asks, "How are life insurance policies and wills affected by a divorce?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If you have a matter, d...
Nov 01, 2024•10 min•Season 1Ep. 115
A listener writes in and asks, "My name is on the house, can I change the locks?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If you have a matter, disagreement, or ...
Oct 18, 2024•8 min•Season 1Ep. 114
Matthew Brickman in a farewell episode to Sydney Mitchell, former co-host of the MediateThis! Podcast. Matthew Brickman is still here to answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If...
Oct 04, 2024•5 min•Season 1Ep. 113
A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, Has Divorce in Modern Times Become Tougher on Mothers or Fathers?" The answer to that question is...yes. Tougher on both the mother and father, depending on the perspective as Matthew breaks down how it has changed for both parties and what you need to know to make yours easier. Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who y...
Sep 20, 2024•15 min•Season 1Ep. 112
A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, Can an attorney guarantee a particular result in a divorce case - especially if the circumstances are heavily in one person's favor?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the...
Sep 06, 2024•12 min•Season 1Ep. 111
Kim Hudson provides a well-researched and compassionate approach to bridging the worlds of linear and circular thinking. She reveals a core pattern to the inner workings of linear and circular thinking, which holds the key to crossing the distance between them. With this framework we can expand our leadership potential, bring indigenous wisdoms into modern practice, support the co-existence of masculine and feminine perspectives, transform our societal and organizational approaches to issues lik...
Aug 23, 2024•44 min•Season 1Ep. 110
Matthew Brickman provides a complete A-Z walkthrough of how the iMediate Inc. Mediation Process works for online mediation for matters in: Divorce Paternity Parental Rights Child Support Timesharing (formerly Child Custody) Alimony - Spousal Support Business and Family Disputes of all kinds If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479 Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certi...
Aug 09, 2024•19 min•Season 1Ep. 109
A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, What can and what cannot be mediated?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If you have a matter, disagreement, or di...
Jul 12, 2024•17 min•Season 1Ep. 108
A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, What are the benefits of online mediation vs in-person now that we're in 2024 post-covid and why should I choose virtual?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in w...
Jun 21, 2024•14 min•Season 1Ep. 107
A listener writes in and asks, "Are there hidden players at my mediation unknown to me?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If you have a matter, disagreeme...
Jun 07, 2024•24 min•Season 1Ep. 106
A listener writes in and asks, "What Are the Implications of Parental Kidnapping Both During and Post-Divorce?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If you ha...
May 17, 2024•9 min•Season 1Ep. 105
A listener writes in and asks, "In 2024, and moving forward, do you see the price of divorce rising with inflation?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in. If y...
May 03, 2024•10 min•Season 1Ep. 104
A listener writes in and asks, "If I'm paying alimony and suddenly laid off, what do I do while waiting for a modification if I cannot afford to pay?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points: Assume nothing. Know who you are before you get married. Know who you're getting married to. Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in. Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're g...
Apr 19, 2024•6 min•Season 1Ep. 103
