This is a snippet from my Q&A with Dr. Frank Anderson for our workshop Healing Trauma. For more information, visit my website . This interview is brought to you by my friends over at Drink LMNT! I love this product as it’s a sugar-FREE electrolyte drink mix that tastes great and has clean ingredients. LMNT has been gracious enough to offer all of you a free sample pack with any purchase! I hope you all enjoy the interview and take advantage of this offer from Drink LMNT. Get your free sample...
Oct 31, 2022•12 min
In this latest episode, I'm joined once again by the incredible Dr. Steve Hayes to talk all about panic disorder. If you aren't familiar with Dr. Hayes, he is the co-founder of the ACT Therapy model, also known as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy . In this conversation we talk about: His personal experience with panic, how it started, and what it's like now Common sources of panic disorder and patterns of avoidance How to approach panic attacks and what to consider if you are experiencing panic...
Oct 25, 2022•53 min•Season 2Ep. 12
This week I'm joined by my co-author of On Grief. The poet William Bortz and I talk about: The difficulty of putting difficult life experiences into words and the healing power of poetry to help us reflect on what's most important to us. William shares his story of becoming a poet, sharing how he conceptualizes putting complex emotion into words How poetry and writing allows us to have more empathy and how both reading and creating poetry expands our understanding Touching on substance abuse, tr...
Sep 20, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 11
In this episode, I am joined by one of my mentors, Jim McNeish. This is a much more personal conversation, as it much more closely resembles one of our mentorship sessions. We talk about my experience with quickly gaining a large platform and navigating the complexities that come with that, my thoughts on taking political positions as a therapist on public platforms, inner conflict, and what to do with parts of your personality that you don't like. I am very grateful to have Jim as a mentor of m...
Aug 09, 2022•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 10
This week I'm joined by the incredible Dr. Leah Katz! We unpacked a lot in this episode: the concept of connecting with your "inner child", what it means to "re-parent yourself", Trauma healing from the perspective of Carl Jung, IFS, and more... I hope you enjoy our conversation! Leah Katz, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist practicing in Portland, Oregon. Originally from New York, she completed her doctorate training at Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology. While living in New York, Dr. Katz wo...
Jul 05, 2022•51 min•Season 2Ep. 9
It's not unusual for trauma therapy to disrupt some of our patterns and habits, within ourselves, and within our homes and partnerships. In this episode, I talk about what this can look like, and what we can we do to adapt to these changes. You can find more information like this in my latest Trauma Workshop: A Free Mind. Available on my website: www.matthiasjbarker.com. Get an ad-free podcast feed here: https://www.patreon.com/matthiasjbarker Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands...
Jun 21, 2022•13 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Free Webinar Next Week!!! https://matthiasjbarker.com/pages/recovering-confidence?utm_source=linktree Things to look for when looking for a therapist and things you can do before booking an intake session to increase the probability that therapy will be helpful and fruitful. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 23, 2022•21 min•Season 2Ep. 8
a conversation with Dr. Hillary McBride, author of The Wisdom of Your Body, about the effects and lasting impacts of online counseling, including how this affects the relationships between therapist and client, and the impact of video conferencing in modern counseling. Get an ad-free podcast feed here: https://www.patreon.com/matthiasjbarker Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
May 11, 2022•49 min•Season 2Ep. 7
A podcast comparing and contrasting three philosophies of how to “be a man” and how those philosophies conceptualize masculinity and gender. Get an ad-free podcast feed here: https://www.patreon.com/matthiasjbarker Citations: De Beauvoir, S. (2010). The second sex . Knopf. The section on the feminist split of cultural feminists and the integration of queer-theory can be seen in more detail here: Halley, J. (2002). A Map of Feminist and Queer Theories of Sexuality and Sexual Regulation . YouTube ...
Apr 26, 2022•49 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Secure Spot For April 18th Live Webinar with Matthias J Barker! https://matthiasjbarker.com/pages/understanding-emotions? A podcast discussing various ways of measuring and conceptualizing happiness, the data on long-term relationships and dynamics to keep in mind, and what exactly "nagging is" and how to go about resolving it. Get an ad-free podcast feed here: https://www.patreon.com/matthiasjbarker Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands...
Apr 12, 2022•17 min•Season 2Ep. 5
A conversation with Dr. Julie Smith on Grief and exploring the paradox of needing time to rejuvenate, rest, and distract yourself from the pain, while also needing to open yourself up to feeling the emotions of grief and loss. Dr. Julie Smith is a Clinical Psychologist with over a decade of professional experience, having previously worked in the NHS, with veterans and the MoD, in addiction and crisis centres, and now in private practice. She is also an online educator and social media star, sha...
Mar 29, 2022•56 min•Season 1Ep. 4
A conversation with Motivational Interviewing expert, Casey Jackson, on the process of change and how to come alongside people we love in their process. Casey has worked in Behavioral health for over 30 years and is a member of the international Motivational Interviewing Network of Trainers (MINT). He is the lead author of the Motivational Interviewing Competency Assessment (MICA) and has presented at many conferences in a wide variety of professional fields for line-level staff as well as admin...
Mar 01, 2022•1 hr 25 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Welcome to SEASON 2 of the Matthias J Barker Podcast! I have exciting announcements! We found out the gender of our second child, we're moving to the southern United States, and I'm excited to share my plans for season 2 of the podcast. Support my podcast with a cup of coffee and get access to exclusive and ad-free content on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/matthiasjbarker Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 01, 2022•16 min•Season 2Ep. 1
A conversation on the importance of eating well to not just have a healthier brain but have a better life. Pre-order Dr. Amen's new book "You, Happier" releasing March 1st, 2022. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Dec 21, 2021•55 min•Season 1Ep. 32
A discussion on what makes conflict terrible and how to make it better. This content is a summary of the Gottman’s “four horsemen” research that can be found in their book: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 23, 2021•25 min•Season 1Ep. 33
Thoughts on entering a career in psychology and making online psychological content. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Nov 09, 2021•22 min•Season 1Ep. 32
Thoughts on entering a career in psychology and making online psychological content. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Oct 26, 2021•26 min•Season 1Ep. 31
Trauma Workshop: https://matthiasjbarker.com/pages/trauma-workshop ACE Quiz: https://www.npr.org/sections/health-s... Statistical data: Chapman, D. P., Dube, S. R., & Anda, R. F. (2007). Adverse childhood events as risk factors for negative mental health outcomes. Psychiatric Annals, 37(5), 359–364. The discussion on the findings studying the children of holocaust survivors/mothers who endured trauma and the studies on rat-pups can be found in the introduction of this paper: https://www.ncbi...
Oct 12, 2021•22 min•Season 1Ep. 30
The path to building emotional warmth and intimacy with the person you love. *Theory of bids derived from the Gottman Method. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 28, 2021•14 min•Season 1Ep. 29
A conversation with Dr. Anderson about IFS, the role of empathy in connection and its applications in our lives. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 23, 2021•59 min•Season 1Ep. 28
A mindfulness exercise on gratefulness and centering in on your values in the midst of hardship. Song by Cathartic Fall, find him on Spotify! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Sep 15, 2021•15 min•Season 1Ep. 27
A conversation on what parenting is and how to move towards forgiveness. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 20, 2021•18 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Why we call celebrities “stars” and complications in pursuing fame. Inspired by Carl Jung and Jordan Peterson’s lectures. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 13, 2021•15 min•Season 1Ep. 25
A case for marriage and it’s advantages over long term dating. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jul 06, 2021•12 min•Season 1Ep. 24
A reflection on false solutions and real healing from childhood trauma. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 29, 2021•19 min•Season 1Ep. 23
The interplay of shame and self-criticism and how to find freedom. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 22, 2021•18 min•Season 1Ep. 21
Its been a while! Here's what I've been up to Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Jun 15, 2021•12 min•Season 1Ep. 19
a method for solving deep core arguments Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Apr 28, 2021•14 min•Season 1Ep. 18
A breakdown of the kinds of personalities that irritate us the most and how to respond. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 30, 2021•16 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Making meaningful connections and developing new relationships into lasting long-term friendships. Intro song: Tides by Surname Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mar 24, 2021•12 min•Season 1Ep. 16
