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So , help me , I suck in bed . What do I do ? Go through this ?
Here's a question for you Is marriage overrated ?
Why aren't people getting married anymore ?
A new Pew Research poll found that two in five young adults think marriage is an outdated tradition .
Marriage rates are at their lowest right now . Is marriage really even worth it ? More than half of marriages end in divorce .
If you get married , you have to be stuck with this person for the rest of your life , right , that's why you get married , so that's why it's declining .
Why would you get ?
married if you want to have just one partner when you can have multiple Marriage is stupid .
Welcome to the Married AF podcast , the self-proclaimed greatest marriage relationship podcast in the world . We're your hosts , Matthew and Monica Powers . Got a serious question , baby .
I hope you're ready for it . Is it serious , serious ?
For someone . Here's my thought . Somebody listening this is going to resonate for them , I'm sure of it . You don't want it to . Anyone listening has maybe . I would say the vast majority of people , especially men , have probably thought about this . They've worried about this .
They've been concerned that this could be a problem for them , but there's going to be someone out there who says this has to be about this . They've been concerned that this could be a problem for them , but there's going to be someone out there who that says this has to be about sex .
I don't even know where this is going , but this has to be about sex .
It is , it is .
Especially if a man's worried about it .
Well then , that's the brain of men a lot of the time , but they're concerned about this , but there's going to be someone out there that's going to say oh no , oh no . And there may be a wife out there that's saying yep , yep , yep , and we're here to try and fix that . So the topic of the day , the question of the day , is what if I suck in bed ?
Suck in bed , it's a legitimate fear . Men are scared to death of this . I think there may be some women too . But what if I suck at sex ? What in the world do I do ?
Well , I'll say this If we would have all left it the way God had it designed , where you just sleep with the person you marry , no one would have to think about this . This is 100 true because no one would know you know what episode over ?
that's all you need to know . Just do it the way he created it . But but of course we didn't . We screwed it up . I I love how it's been put in our church so many times . God made it , we broke it . Jesus fixed it Plain and simple . We screwed it all up .
We suck .
We suck so , but when it comes to sex , what do I do if I suck ?
How do you know if you suck ?
Bam , here it comes . I've got ways to tell that maybe , just maybe , you are struggling in this area and maybe you do kind of suck at sex . Wait what Things to be able to recognize in your sex life of . Hey , maybe I'm not so great at this , but we're not just going to point out the bad .
I cannot wait to hear this .
We're also going to do give you some , some tips of things you can do to hopefully improve your sex life . That way , if you suck right now , maybe you won't suck forever , you'll be happier , your spouse will be happier , and this goes goes both ways . Okay , so you know all of the questions .
Yes , and this goes both ways . Okay , so you know all of the questions .
Yes , I know all of the reasons . I've got them right here , right .
But have you diagnosed yourself yet ?
No , I don't feel like I should . Should I Well , I don't have any complaints , I mean .
But I'm curious because if that's a dude thing to think about because honestly I don't think about it- I mean I can kind of diagnose as we go through . That's just TMI .
Well , for other ears it very well could be .
But I mean , how did you find this ?
It was an article I found while eating lunch one day .
I was like you know what , oh , my gosh Bam , this is probably going to be good . What is your research history like ?
You know , let's not talk about that .
Oh my gosh that needs to be an episode .
It should be . No , this one actually came from a website , marriagecom . Oh , okay , so and that's , they're reputable sources . Okay , I'm not looking for .
You didn't get this from the View . I just need to see the vein in your head , just start bulging , it's going to pulsate just a little bit .
The View yeah , see the vein in your head . Just start bulging , pulsate just a little bit . You've . And our view yeah , the view we .
That's a different episode .
Get back to your sex questions my goodness okay so sorry , here are some things that maybe these questions you'd ask yourselves .
Analyze yourself um are these for boys and girls ? This is for any person at all do I ?
I suck at sex , and if I do , what can I do ? So number one and I think this is a no brainer . If you're just not a fan of sex , you've done it and it's just not important to you . You just don't like it , you just don't care about it . You're like , eh , I could take it or leave it . When you think about it , it doesn't excite you at all .
This could be a sign that hey , maybe you're not doing it right .
Obviously .
Or your spouse isn't doing it right . I think this could be a part of it . Hey , maybe your spouse isn't so great at it , but if you still think about it and you're still excited about it and you're like , oh my God , it's just terrible , then hey , maybe this is the conversation to have with your spouse .
So first way to tell that hey , maybe I'm not very good at this is when the idea of it and the thought of it , you don't get very , very excited about it , cause I think most people , when it is good and they think about it , they're going to think about it often and it gets them very , very excited and they want to go and do the deed .
Second way , and I think this kind of falls in line with the first one , that anytime the topic of conversation of sex comes up or you begin that act , you begin to get embarrassed about sex embarrassed about sex .
Embarrassed about sex Embarrassed about sex as in I'm just embarrassed , I'm ashamed of it , and this could just be a sign that , hey , I'm probably more fearful than anything that I'm no good at this .
Okay , this is just .
Maybe my small brain is not comprehending the embarrassment of sex , that when sex is brought up , I'm just . I'm too embarrassed to think about it , to talk about it , because we're fully , like you know , very openly about sex and the importance of it , and I think as in you and I yes , or culture in general well , culture in general has got it all wrong .
Right , but I think if you can talk openly with it and not just saying in every conversation , hey , let me tell you about sex , but when those conversations arise , you're comfortable and open to be able to talk about it , I believe that this is we are good , that this is not a conversation enough people have .
True .
Again , not saying that over every single dinner . Well , let's talk about sex .
Let Again not saying that over every single dinner . Well , let's talk about sex . Let me tell you all about it , right ? But I don't think that makes you bad at sex if you just don't like talking about it ?
Well , I think it could , because maybe you're a little bit embarrassed about it .
I think embarrassed is the wrong word to use . Well , I mean , I could understand it .
I could understand it .
Okay .
Because I'm embarrassed for my performance , so to speak .
The third way Are there follow-ups to these ? Because there's so much that I think I need to say , but I'm not saying it .
No , so if you got it , you better say it Okay so what you just said , repeat that . The third way .
No , the second one , but it was the .
Embarrassment .
The ending that you just said . Oh , my word .
Well , I'm not sure exactly what it is you're looking for .
Something about the performance your performance is lackluster . You're not good . Okay that there are times when man we're ready and we want each other . Super bad , but I will be the first one to go . It ain't happening tonight , cause I'm not going to half beep sex .
Yes , you're not going to , you're not going to , you're not going to not go . A hundred percent , yes , yes .
Because , uh , what happened before interrupted what I wanted to do . I had to exert too much energy that I didn't expect to exert , because I was reserving that energy for sex .
Correct .
Does that make sense ?
It makes total sense and I think that's perfectly fine because that's going to happen . Life happens , things happen , but when ?
it's that bad . We're both laying there like , yeah , we'll pick this up tomorrow . Uh-huh , it happens when you are just too exhausted to even kiss you . Better not be bumping uglies .
It happens from time to time , so I think that's where you but it's an unexpected something and it's a hey , we'll press pause and we're definitely going to pick this up tomorrow , no doubt about it Might dream about you real hard , but that's a great , great thing . The third one you have to plan out the entire thing before you do it .
What is this ? A wrestling match .
I mean could be , but what it's saying is you can't be as worse .
You have to have the some of the people in the business I still know you have to have the whole thing planned out .
Like I need one whole thing planned out , like I don't make one , two , three and that's it . It also says that you stick to the same one or two moves and there is no flavor in it at all . I could see that being the case . The fourth way your partner seems very disinterested in sex and this kind of goes along with number one .
But yeah , if your partner is like no thanks , no thanks , no thanks , Now sure that could be . There could be other things .
There could be a lot of different reasons . Maybe they're getting it from somebody else because you ain't interested or you suck .
Or you suck , and I think it could be a legitimate thing that , hey , maybe you're just not so good and it's just not happening . Fifth one you've never asked your partner what they like in bed . You've never had the conversation of hey , I really like this , I want to try this . Sex menu , people Sex menu . Go get the sex menu .
Talk about it .
Test kitchen it .
Write the book Matthew Powers .
Yep , we'll get there at some point in time maybe , but you never ask your partner what it is they like . I think it's very , very important to ask your partner what do you like , what do ?
you want , Not one of those weird in the moment . Oh , you like that . You like that , that kind of weird stuff that you see in movies .
Yeah , no , that's not real . I mean , I'm not sure that happens . And if that's you , that that hey , maybe you're not doing this totally correct .
But in a non-sexual moment you bring it up and you talk about it .
Couples are treat is what I think about .
Oh yes , with trudy yes , when she calls him yes he hates all of it hates every bit of it but he doesn't care , but he does because he's trying to get over his wife .
But , um , yeah , you can't , just you can't go about it that way .
You got to not in the moment not in the moment .
Talk about it beforehand or after or any other time . Say , hey , I want to talk about this . It's been on my mind .
I would like to do this , don't do it right before you . You know , jump the gun of , know we're about to get it on or in the moment of maybe a little foreplay , that that's not the time to start that conversation .
No , have a . Have it outside of that , for sure , that way your partner , maybe when no one is thinking about sex . Yes , Well , and I mean you're always thinking about sex .
It's a dude thing , it's fine , it is but that way your partner can kind of digest , digest it a little bit Like okay , because I , you know , speaking for us and there's others out there .
Hopefully we can have the very open dialogue where it's a hey , I want to try and this , this , this and this , and it may be wild and crazy , but we have a very nonjudgment test kitchen , like you know . Hey , as long as we're not harming each other , ourselves or our relationship , sure , we'll give it a shot .
Doesn't matter what it looks like , but we're going to give it a shot .
Or bringing another person in , absolutely so .
that's not on the table , never will be on the table .
That's non-negotiable .
But everything else it's like all right , well , let's give it . Your partner may need a moment to digest that and be like , okay , all right , okay , we will certainly get there . Another way where you might not be good at this how many of these do you have ?
I got about four or five more and then we're going to get ways that you can try to overcome this . You treat sex like just another task . This kind of goes to me with the , with the schedulable sex , which is not for us and it can work for some people , but if you allow it to be just something on the schedule like oh God , I got another 8am meeting .
Oh , I hate this meeting . I have to do it every week . If it can become like that , then that's , you're probably not not very good at it . You're probably not very good at it . Another one you never engage in foreplay .
You only get right to the point . You're thinking I don't understand how you get right to the point if you don't have some kind of something . No , well , you have to have some kind of something , and foreplay isn't Because if you're already sucking at it , how are you supposed to get the other one where they need to be ? To jump right to it ?
oh , you're , you're , you're exactly exactly right . Um , and I think you know , foreplay goes a lot further and begins way ahead of time , not just the 5 , 10 minutes , 15 minutes , however long before . I mean . You can initiate this a whole day in advance , yeah , and it's way better when you do that . But we'll get to that .
Another one you are only focused on yourself , and I think this is a huge one . When you're worried about you and what you're getting and how you're feeling , yeah , you can totally kind of it can be bad , very , very bad for the other person .
That means you't know .
If that means , you suck , though I think it could . It doesn't only mean that you suck , but it definitely could , because your partner is not getting .
It means you suck as a person .
Well , it means your partner is not getting what they want or what they enjoy . Another one you keep apologizing . Could you imagine that you keep apologizing over and , over and over again ?
What are you apologizing for ?
Who knows , there could be a number of different things that you're apologizing for . What exactly ? Oh my gosh , all .
I think of is forgetting Sarah Marshall . Does it hurt you ? Because it hurts me .
Would you do that for me ?
No , god put our mouths on our face for a reason .
No .
God was a city planner . I'm sorry .
Last couple here you were way too pushy and this kind of goes right off of the last one Is you're only concerned about yourself .
I don't understand .
You're too pushy because you're only worried about getting what you want . It's a classic sign that you could be bad at sex if you are constantly begging for it .
Wait , what do you mean ? You're bad at sex because you want it all the time .
Wanting it and begging it are two totally different things . Wanting it is letting your partner know you want it , begging for it , it's a whole other level .
I mean , I don't care who you are . I've never experienced that .
No , I don't care who you are . I think if someone is constantly begging , for it begging is not a pretty sight .
No , it doesn't look good on somebody . No , but I mean , there could also be other reasons for someone to have to beg for it , especially if one person's not into sex .
There could totally be so many different reasons .
Okay , go to your things , cause that . Well , how to fix it ? Or ?
You don't do any of the work Could be very one-sided . You can suck at this Boring and I think this one I see this one all day You're overconfident when you hear people brag about how you're overconfident you hear people talk about how great they are at something you know .
I just related to guys in their high school sports stories oh , yeah , about how great they were and how amazing they were . I think of d'angelo at the office .
Um , whenever he takes over from michael and he talks about how he can dunk a basketball and remember he can't dunk a basketball , so Jim gets him down there in the warehouse to dunk the basketball and he ends up hurting himself and going to the hospital . I think of that really , with the whole overconfidence thing .
Yeah .
I mean , you know overconfident people and they just don't live up to the hype yeah , yes a hundred percent of the time . Don't meet your heroes , people a hundred percent of the time , all right . So say you suck in bed .
Okay , you're bad at this I'm I'm sucking in bed you're no good at this , I am no good at this and you've kind of walked through some of this stuff and you're thinking , well , that could be me . How do you fix that number one way ? What do you think the number one way would be to how to begin how to fix this ?
I don't know .
I've never been told to suck in bed well , that's true , but it goes along with everything else tell me powers that we've ever said work on communication in bed goodness , what a freaking shocker that is work on communication that word is so powerful in every situation what in the world people think . Sex is only physical .
It says and they could not be more wrong . Talking during sex is important .
During sex . During sex Well , I do talk during sex .
Before sex , after sex all important . So how do you begin to improve ? You talk about it . If you're married to someone who loves you so much , they will openly talk to you about this and they will let you know hey , this is really good and this really isn't , and you can begin to work on .
But be prepared to hear things you don't want to know .
Uh , totally . But if you're , you're serious about trying to make it better , this will work . Work on your confidence levels . And see , I think this is huge with you because you were you're one of these most confident people ever .
I've been told this , but I don't understand that .
Well , you are , and if you can kind of divulge just a little snippet , because your confident levels are through the roof and a lot of people lack a whole lot of confidence , not just in sex , but throughout their entire lives . So what is it ?
How are you so , dadgum , confident with not just here , but just about everything that you do Someone who is lacking confidence ? What is one little thing that they could begin to do that maybe would start to turn the tide for them just a little bit ?
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I get asked this question a lot and I don't understand . Because I don't see my confidence ? Maybe because I don't see myself ? I Maybe because I don't see myself I'm not on the outside looking in , but for me I guess it has a lot to do with my personality . I just want to prove a lot of people wrong .
Okay .
When I'm told I cannot do something , when I'm told I cannot do something that strikes a nerve from the head to the toes of my body and I have to do way more than they said I couldn't do ,
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not to show off , just to prove a point .
And when I do that it's just like hmm , did that , that is true .
So I don't know if that can pertain to being better at sex .
Maybe some of them , but I think , even with that , a lot of people if they're told they can't do something , they believe it If they are told they can't do something they believe it .
Someone tells you you can't do something .
I'm completely opposite . You're opposite , but outside of the sex thing , I think , just in general , people are told well , you can't do that . They're going to be like , yeah , you know what ? They're probably right , I can't , I'm going to fail , I'm not going to be able to do that .
And that and most people are also afraid of confrontation .
I welcome it , and maybe I need to beg people to tell me you can't do that , maybe . And when you say you welcome confrontation , you're not looking to pick fights .
It's not like I'm looking to fight . I am not afraid of it and I will hit it head on , get the problem out the way and move forward . That's a part of communication .
That's exactly it . If a problem arises , you're not going to run from it . You're going to be like all right , well , let's not scared of it .
I'm not scared to talk about it . I welcome knowing you have a different perspective than I do . But it's not going to be an arguing back and forth or even a debate . I just want to hear your side , Then I will let you know my side and then most of the time , it changes the person's mind who has something .
When they hear me say why I do this or do that they were , it's a , usually a .
Oh , that makes sense . That's just the important of open dialogue . Yes , but most of the time I am .
I'm not a pessimistic person and their mind , most people's mindsets , are that way , and I'm the one who's gonna find that itty bitty ounce of light and whatever destruction is going on , because I will not sit in doom and gloom no , you will not if you do not thrive in that well , this is for everybody .
you are going to find exactly what it is . You're trying to look for Period , whether it's good whether it's bad , you will speak it to existence . No matter what the situation is , you're going to look for that . You're going to find that .
So , when it comes to your confidence , I mean , you know , remember what the Lord says about you you are his masterpiece , absol , absolute masterpiece . So that goes along for everything . But how to overcome when you suck in bed ? Here's another one , and we talked about this briefly try new things appetizers appetizers what are your appetizers ?
What's going to get you to the main course , what's going to help lead you there , which leads into foreplay , which you know earlier , one of the things you don't engage in foreplay , you don't like foreplay . That's going to be one of the things . Try something brand new . What this says is switch things up , do things different .
It says play a dirty game , try role playing with one another . Hey , it works . It can be great . It can be a lot of fun . Go to the test kitchen , figure it out . Like we said earlier , nothing or not nothing . It may work and it may change things for the better .
Here's another one that I like Dedicate a night to your partner's needs Strictly your partner's needs , where you're not worried about what happens to you , you're not worried about getting yours , you're not worried about what feels good to you and making sure that you're satisfied . Dedicate a night strictly for your partner .
Dedicate everything to them and making them get what they want I feel like that could be .
That could turn into an issue long term why is that ? Because when you are only pushing for one person on that time , at that time they're going to be more excited about that day for them than the day for you .
That is true . I can see that . Now my hope would be that , if this is you and you do something like this , that it can become something that is worked in regularly , where you are focused on your partner's needs but that's reciprocated from them to you , and that's the way it's supposed to be .
Right , it just goes back to making sure you're doing everything for your partner , and if both of you are doing that , oh buddy things are going to be great , but we are selfish people . We are . We are selfish , selfish people , and only word about ourselves . The next one work on your explain . Well , I'm not very emotional I disagree .
You have to have a strong emotional connection with your spouse , okay . And if that's not there , that kind of emotion absolutely but that's not there the way I was understanding .
That was you want to cry a lot or you have feelings for weird things .
No , how strong your emotional connection is with your spouse , I understand that that's something , because the physical side of it is never going to excel if the emotional side of it is not stronger than ever .
Yes .
So you need to work on your emotional connection .
But how do you do that ?
Intentional time with each other , focusing on your partner's needs , making sure you're meeting each other's needs .
Putting them at number two .
Yes , putting them at number two in your life , above yourself and above your children and above other people . And you begin to do that . Work on their love languages . Understand their love language , make sure you are working towards their love language so they know how much they are loved , and then that just builds the emotional connection .
Spend quality time with one another . Put these phones away . Don't sit on opposite sides of the couch scrolling TikTok or Instagram or any of that stuff . Spend intentional time together . Works on the emotional connection . I like that .
This one kind of goes along with try new things , but actually give foreplay a shot and let it start way , way in advance , even days in advance .
Explain . Give me an example .
Be flirty with one another , oh yeah . Be touchy , feely . Let the kiss last a little longer than it normally would . Send flirty text messages to each other , let your partner know that , hey , I'm feeling this , I'm thinking about you , you are on my mind in this way .
I love when I get those messages from you that can be Thinking about . Hey , beautiful , I can't get you off my mind . I've been thinking about you all day . I'm like , ooh , yes , he has .
That's an act of foreplay which can only help enhance things down the road . And let's see here Take things slowly .
It's not a rush .
Don't just rush into it .
I mean sometimes it has to be .
Yeah , there's great times , especially if you have your children . There's absolute great times for that to happen . It can be quick , it can be amazing , it can be amazing , but take things slow , enjoy it , pace yourself . It's not a sprint . It's not a sprint . It's not how fast you can get to the finish line .
You're not running for the Olympics , you're not trying to get there as soon as you possibly can . There's a whole lot more to that . Take your time and enjoy each other . Last one I have here Be spontaneous .
That's my favorite .
Why .
Spontaneous sex .
Why is that ?
Because you don't know what's going to . You don't know , you did not expect it to happen .
True .
You don't know when it's going to happen , where it's going to happen , how it's going to happen .
I would say , to go along with being spontaneous , take control . I think this goes both ways . I think women probably really appreciate when their man will take control . But I know for men especially , they love when their wives will just take full control , will initiate and just be in control . It's a turn on for guys .
Yeah , especially when they don't expect it .
Totally . But I would say for men and women be spontaneous , but take control of the situation . Let your spouse know I'm in charge of this .
And when they do rush uh-uh .
Uh-huh , let them know .
No .
Openly communicate during . Let them know open can openly communicate during . Let them know they're trying to rush through , they're getting a little too excited . You're in control . You slow them down . Let them know . Hey , I'm in control and I'm gonna do this the way that I want to do this , and if you are able to do that , it can change the game you can .
Anything you'd like to add for how to improve sex if you suck at sex .
I'll be honest , I was not prepared for you to say you suck at sex .
No , we talked about this briefly this week , but you did not want all the details .
I said please don't tell me anything . I have to hear all of this for the first time while we record , because this has got to be hilarious , because I never thought about things like this .
I mean , I know it's real , I know it's and there's different reasons for it . I'm not just saying , well , you're bad , you suck . I mean there can be trauma in the past that causes things to trigger , and I don't want to discount that at all . There's definitely , you know , need to talk to people , have to go to therapy about it .
You know , men , especially as you get older , you got a problem with the stuff working sometimes .
That's a real thing and listen , females have the same issues .
Females have the same issues , but men , especially if that's you , listen , I know a guy , he can help correct that , for sure , not going to mention anything else . He can help correct that for sure , not going to mention anything else . But listen , you need help .
I know a guy , he can make sure you help out . Not that he helped you , but we hear the stories .
I hear the stories . They're incredible .
I don't believe that those things actually happen .
It's hard to believe it , but then again I can totally see it because I mean it's a basic need for men .
The amount of men buying Cialis right now yes , and the amount of men buying Cialis right now ?
Yes , and this goes to another level .
And the success stories . I've heard from it , from patients that he's had Life changing with their spouses . Yes , changes their wives are taking them to the doctor .
Changes the game , help him . And if that's you , because it's natural .
Because that could also make you suck in bed . But then it also brings your confidence down and you don't want to do it , but your wife takes you to the doctor . Fix him , because I need this taken care of .
I need him , great open communication .
I want him and this is real , don't be ?
embarrassed if this is you , because this is not unnatural . A lot of men run into this .
Because we've heard that stress , anxiety , certain medications that you're taking can honestly kill all of the things where you're supposed to use it and you can't yes and if you don't use it , you lose it . That's a real thing totally a real thing .
You got to use it , so use it and also kills uh prostate cancer it does . It helps with that . Yes , you need to . I think the studies are . You need to finish 21 times a month and it reduces the risk of prostate cancer dramatically , like almost wipes it out completely . So if you're listening , keep that in mind , both men and women .
21 times a month is and the older you get , the worse prostate becomes an issue . It's a huge issue for men especially , and uh does that mean , there's not just people , aren't just having sex anymore ?
Uh , yeah , definitely .
But that doesn't make sense to me because the amount of abortions that were happening and we overturned abortion stuff and now birth rates are out of control , which blows my mind , because where are these babies coming from if nobody's having sex ?
Well , birth rates are down across . I mean , there's a there's a fear with people that if we continue the decrease in the amount of births that we're having worldwide , it will extinct the population . It is the lowest it has ever been in the history .
Since they've been keeping up with this , yes , Prior to abortions oh , yeah , yeah , since , like the 1800s , we're at the lowest rates we have ever seen when it comes to births across the world .
It's not just in the United States , it's in countries all over the world where where there is a fear of , if we keep this up , not saying in 20 years we're going to be extinct , but in thousands of years , if this keeps up , we will cease to exist , all because we stopped having kids . And there's a proper way to have kids .
I mean , like you said from the very beginning , god created all this . He created it in a certain way and if we did it according to the way he did it , we wouldn't be in all this mess to begin with . And when it comes to sex , how he created it , I mean there are not really any limits thrown on that thing . So enjoy , enjoy , enjoy .
Read the book of Psalms no songs of Solomon . I mean read Psalms also . It's incredible . You need to read the whole thing .
Songs of Solomon . So help me , I suck in bed . What do I do ? Go Ed , what do I do ? Go through that . Listen , see if that qualifies you at all . And if you do , there are some steps you can take to try and get better .
And even if you don't , there are some steps where you could probably improve it anyways , because why would you not want to continue to try and improve this , not just for yourself , but your spouse , your family , your future ? You'll be more productive at work . You'll be a better parent .
It's going to improve every area of your life , I promise you that On both sides , male and female , 100% . So any final thoughts ?
I don't know .
No .
I want to know if I suck at sex . Now I'm going no .
No , not at all . I can promise you that I already knew the answer to that one .
I know you did Just because of you . I know You're welcome . I love you .
Let's get out of here . I love you , god . We love you so much . We are so thankful for what you are doing . We're thankful for these conversations , just the platform that you have given us , lord . We just pray that in the right moments for the people who need to hear sex . You created it .
We are thankful for it and , god , we pray that people will do it according to your design , because your design is perfect in every single way , lord , and we thank you for that . God , just thank you for everything that you do . We love you , we look to you and all that we do in Jesus name , amen .
Amen .