Are you concerned about the number of young people who are abandoning the faith? Are you afraid of forcing the faith on your children? Monica Hinderer, LCPC joins Doug to discuss the importance of passing on the faith to your children. They unpack tips for passing on the faith and the importance of parents leading by example. Resources: The Weight of a Mass https://holyheroes.com/products/the-weight-of-a-mass?srsltid=AfmBOorygmJ7ducfAEZM3vJj6DE7QtmzpNR6PmuI9tuNtebosVwtsU7f The Lamb’s Supper http...
Oct 24, 2024•50 min
Doug unpacks a case study from Impossible Marriage Redeemed by Leila Miller. In this case the husband was unfaithful. Doug discusses how to deal with anger in such a difficult situation and how couples who work through the trauma of an affair can have a stronger marriage than before the affair. Doug also answers listener emails about dating, suffering, and the power of prayer. Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforl...
Oct 23, 2024•50 min
Fr. Robert Altier joins Doug to discuss love in marriage and how love is truly a sacrifice. People tend to mix up love and infatuation and that’s why a lot of marriages tend to fall apart. He also takes questions on when separation is a need for the health of the family or spouse.
Oct 22, 2024•51 min
Jim and Maureen Otremba join Doug to discuss their Banquet of Love Program, a 12-part course that helps you make practical connections between the Eucharist and your marriage. They discuss the 8 intimacies of the Eucharist and how they relate to marriage. Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ The Center for Family Counseling https://www.thecenterforfamilycounseling.com Banquet of Love program https://banquetoflove.org/ Use code 30 OFF for discount...
Oct 21, 2024•50 min
Doug goes to the mailbag and gives advice for people seeking a declaration of nullity. He also talks about the likelihood of divorce when a couple lives together before marriage and shares the importance of finding the right therapist. Plus: The Friday rant! Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Happy Marriage for life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/ Catholic Therapists https://www.catholictherapists.com/...
Oct 18, 2024•50 min
On Doug Hinderer’s podcast Marriage Unhindered , you'll hear about the four stages of marriage with Pete and Carol Tomaselli, who are Retrouvaille coordinators. You can check out the whole conversation here . Spoiler alert: marriage isn’t just rainbows and butterflies (shocker, right?). Here’s the gist of the conversation, and it might hit close to home. Let’s talk about those four stages: Romance The first stage is the "honeymoon" phase. You know it: butterflies , hearts , and all the "we're go...
Oct 18, 2024•15 min
What do you do with children who struggle to control their emotions? Monica Hinderer LCPC joins Doug to discuss how to deal with children who are difficult to discipline. They unpack ways to discipline whether at home, church, or daycare. They also share resources that can help. Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Ruah Woods Institute https://www.ruahwoodsinstitute.org/ The Explosive Child https://www.amazon.com/Explosive-Child-Sixth-Understanding-Chronically/dp/00...
Oct 17, 2024•50 min
Dr. Edward Sri and his wife Beth join Doug to discuss their new Pocket Guide to Prayer. They share how to overcome distractions and dryness in prayer, how to make prayer a conversation with God instead of recitation and the beautiful practice of Lectio Divina. Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Pocket Guide to Prayer https://www.amazon.com/Pocket-Guide-Prayer-Edward-Sri/dp/1954882602...
Oct 16, 2024•50 min
Peter McFadden joins Doug to share how Pope St. John II influenced his desire to help couples prepare for marriage. Peter has helped over 8,000 couples, and together with Doug gives advice to callers on dating, engagement, and struggling marriages. Resources mentioned: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Marriage Fun 101 https://marriagefun101.com/ Hold Me Tight https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sr0jz0P3n_IyP...
Oct 16, 2024•50 min
Should people who have been divorced twice consider a third marriage? What should you do in an unhappy marriage? Doug answers these listener questions and shares an email from a listener who gives her testimony of how Retrouvaille healed her marriage when it was on the brink of divorce.
Oct 14, 2024•50 min
Are you considering a divorce and wondering how it might affect your children? Are you trying to heal from a divorce? Bob Atwell joins Doug to share his experience of the tragedy of divorce as a child and as an adult. Bob talks about how real the pain of divorce is, but also shares how sweet the grace of God is when you turn to His healing love. Resources mentioned: Getting away to heal your marriage https://omny.fm/shows/marriage-unhindered/getting-away-to-heal-your-marriage...
Oct 11, 2024•50 min
Are you living with someone who has dramatic mood swings during the day? Monica Hinderer joins Doug to unpack the meaning of borderline personality disorder (BPD) and anxious avoidant personalities. Doug and Monica discuss several symptoms of BPD including fear of abandonment, unstable relationships and difficulties with identity.
Oct 10, 2024•50 min
Are you looking for a weekend getaway that can bring you closer to your spouse? Pete and Carol Tomaselli join Doug to share their experience of healing through Retrouvaille, a marriage help program for struggling couples. They talk about the three legs of the Retrouvaille stool and share how the support system in Retrouvaille helps save marriages. Resource mentioned: Retrouvaille Website: https://helpourmarriage.org/...
Oct 09, 2024•50 min
Doug gives advice on what to do when one spouse doesn’t want to work on improving their marriage. He also tackles listener questions on betrayal, forgiveness and unpacks 20 small gestures to show how much you care.
Oct 08, 2024•50 min
Are you in a relationship and looking to marry? Do you have a child who is trying to find the right spouse? Yvonne Brizzolara joins Doug to discuss the importance of truly knowing your partner before marriage. They also share red flags that should impact the decision to marry. Resource mentioned: Now and Forever: Getting to know your partner before marriage https://www.amazon.com/Now-Forever-Getting-partner-marriage/dp/1533275459...
Oct 07, 2024•50 min
Greg Schutte joins Doug to discuss God’s design for marriage and gives advice to callers on pornography and alcohol addiction in marriage. He also talks about how to reconcile in difficult situations.
Oct 04, 2024•50 min
Do you feel your marriage is hopelessly broken? Doug shares a case study from Impossible Marriages Redeemed by Leila Miller. In this case, the husband was living a double life and had a sex addiction. Doug speaks to the value of prayer and the power of confession and the rosary in bringing healing to your marriage. Impossible Marriages Redeemed https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf...
Oct 03, 2024•50 min
Should couples in unhappy marriages stay together? Doug shares insights into how a couple can stay married when one spouse is unhappy and calls out for help. He speaks to the importance of putting your spouse first and foremost in your life.
Oct 02, 2024•50 min
Do you discuss marital intimacy with your spouse? Doug discusses marital intimacy and the cross; how physical intimacy in marriage leads to God and that marital crosses are good if they are used to grow in holiness.
Oct 01, 2024•50 min
Conor Gallagher joins Doug to discuss his book Well Ordered Family, unpacking how to bring order to a chaotic family. They talk about relationships and how temperaments factor into the equation of managing a strong Catholic family. Resources mentioned: Well-Ordered Family: The Family Management System https://tanbooks.com/products/books/well-ordered-family-the-family-management-system/?srsltid=AfmBOopOp0y5i71snGWaXSuyu4Cm4mavVEDoJDZTfGSKrD4A8UXbCcDc Well Ordered Family Website https://wellordere...
Sep 30, 2024•50 min
Doug shares a letter from Alice Von Hildebrand. In this letter, Alice urges her friend to eliminate the distractions that get in the way of focusing on her spouse. Doug discusses the benefits of marriage counseling; what it is and isn't.
Sep 27, 2024•50 min
Should you marry someone you’re not attracted to? What should you do if your spouse records your fights? What if your boyfriend’s mother is too attached to her son? Doug tackles these questions and more on Marriage Unhindered.
Sep 26, 2024•50 min
Are you questioning whether you are dating the person you want to marry? Dr. Mario Sacasa LMFT joins Doug to discuss dating advice and top lessons he learned as a marriage therapist. Doug and Dr. Sacasa discuss what prayer, communication, and fun should look like I a great relationship. Resources mentioned: Dr. Mario Sacasa’a website https://www.drmariosacasa.com/ The Temperament God Gave You https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-temperament-god-gave-you/...
Sep 25, 2024•50 min
Were you bullied at school growing up? Has it impacted your marriage? Jodee Blanco joins Doug to discuss the trauma bullying victims endure. They discuss the tendency of bullied individuals being attracted to narcissistic people who are "bigger than life." Resource mentioned: Jodee Blanco’s website https://www.jodeeblanco.com/
Sep 24, 2024•50 min
Are you feeling trapped in the ‘if only’ cycle in marriage? Doug shares three magic ratios to keep the love alive. Doug also begins to unpack 8 things you can do differently to improve your marriage.
Sep 23, 2024•50 min
Doug tackles a case study from Impossible Marriages Redeemed by Leila Miller: high school sweethearts who struggled the first year and fought over the husband’s alcohol abuse. Doug answers email and gives advice for those struggling with scrupulosity and lack of intimacy in marriage. Plus: The Friday afternoon rant! Resources mentioned: Impossible Marriages Redeemed https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf Values First Therapy – Dr. Johann D’Souza https://www.valuesfirsttherapy...
Sep 20, 2024•50 min
Are you worried about your child’s mental health? Are you worried about the mental health of your child’s friends? Do you know the warning signs of those struggling with mental issues? Monica Hinderer joins Doug to continue their discussion on mental health and the emotional well-being in children.
Sep 19, 2024•50 min
Should you marry someone you’re not attracted to? What should you do if your spouse records your fights? What if your boyfriend’s mother is too attached to her son? Doug tackles these questions and more on Marriage Unhindered.
Sep 18, 2024•50 min
John Edwards joins Doug to share his work of introducing the person of Jesus Christ to the person in the pew. He shares his inspirational conversion from drugs and alcohol to now leading other men closer to Christ in the Catholic Church. Resource mentioned: Just a Guy in the Pew https://justaguyinthepew.com/
Sep 18, 2024•50 min
Do you ever feel anxious? Do you have trouble making decisions? Dr. Johann D’Souza joins Doug to discuss anxiety and its effect on marriage. Dr. D’Souza shares insight into what can help a person who struggles with anxiety. Resource mentioned: Values First Therapy https://www.valuesfirsttherapy.com/
Sep 16, 2024•50 min
