MSS010 - Orgasm Training and Control

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Today's podcast we have a little phrase More specifically mel la petite mort, the females little death. And you asked me what does that mean? It's an expression in Today we examine the female orgasm and inspire marriages Its like living on the edge. And I won't sing Bon Jovi for you.

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I'm sure. Let's get started.

Let's get this podcast started LK. Are you ready to

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or toy.

Yep. As arousal increases, the person's There are changes throughout the whole body. A head to toe kind chest and your face get all red or pink and rosy. Many artists

You've probably seen it on other people in your life.

Yes, testosterone and have some tension, some tingling building throughout their body, over your whole body. That's called my atonia. And it is orgasm?

No, I didn't. And I would say from our experience,

Yes, absolutely. That's when you're

I think that's great. Back to what you were just

Almost.

Maybe that was you telling me

I think that might have been me saying that?

Well, we definitely agree.

Yes, we agree on that one. Let's talk about researchers show that gentle reflex is part of the spinal

That makes perfect sense. I'll be honest, like I

Yes, so interesting. But if we talk a

I love feeling those

The sexual tension caused by lovemaking or feeling you get. And the afterwards, what some people course your breathing returns back to normal. Women also have that means when you're watching porn, you might be able to just transmitted directly to the brain. There are many nerve

I want to know where that pathway is.

You find that pathway quite often. Let me just submissive, you have to keep those pelvic floor muscles that's kind of the goal. You want that actual climax of that

So that's really interesting news to me, So if

More pleasurable.

pleasurable orgasm.

Absolutely.

So all those kegel like you just said the kegel

Yes, during your orgasm, before, during and

Hmm. I had no idea.

If you think about it, all of us ladies who

Which it pretty much does naturally.

Yeah.,

I honestly thought that was like, is it incontinence? Is

Absolutely. That is it's like building any

Right? But I had no idea that by keeping that muscle

Yes, it's a pleasure for you. It's pleasure

So as a good dominant I could give you exercises to do

Absolutely. That would be part of the

And it would benefit me.

Again, win, win.

I love this. I love it. Okay, I'll let you continue.

Okay, so we were talking about the climax

Now men are so literal, I know men are gonna be out

Well, she would kind of the contractions

Unless you're inside her.

Right? You could feel that.

Absolutely.

If you want to explain about watching someone

Winking is basically when you watch the vagina

Yes. So you can count the contractions by

If it is really powerful. It's like she has

Okay, everybody would need that each one of those 12 contractions for a minute at a orgasms are just physical or just the body, they're also the

All the women in the world are cheering you on right

Well, it's so true. So that's just the very

Alright. What I would say to about the orgasms is I so I mean, orgasms are great for everybody.

Everybody has a part in it. Let me just say Parners I mean, both partners have a great benefit and

right, it's the key to

a happy marriage.

Yeah, complete ecstasy. I mean, it is it's the pathway

I agree.

So when we talk about orgasm control and training, it

Yeah, it builds. I mean, doing like we

Right?

It's part of honing her for your arrival.

Yeah. And again, I mean, that can even be done you know, I'll check in like she talks about like our check in And trust me like, LK, so good at this control. I've given her

Well, I mean, the more you practice, the more We could be standing in Costco, and he could have said the right

Should we give it a try? Hey I bet this would be

Probably. But yeah, so I'm just saying you get

But it's also plain fun. It gives you like, like Giving her a real opportunity to be able to have an orgasm.

And your Sir is helping you learn how to do going through my mind the entire time we're scenning or playing

I don't want to get sidetracked but honestly after say that lk has some of the best orgasm control, probably of

A lot of years of practice.

And as a dominant, there's still like she can

Right.

So like as the dominant I have to think of what my goals can still find that O.

Yeah, we'll talk more about that later.

There really is an art to it, I think I mean, there's

Yeah. Another reason, it also increases

I would say done correctly, I believe it makes doesn't exactly stop. Like I want to say a guy's body like my the body started off on the right path. It's almost an

I think that's the case for most of us ladies. And then we'll talk about orgasm control can be used to create a flexible and what you're trying and doing. Maybe if he's pushing please please please I want to please him. And that's used for and subs. This is great when you're doing this orgasm husband in the fact that he is controlling that.

Definitely.

So by doing this in the beginning, oh, it's

Yeah, there's definitely something very about the orgasms is we also realize that you know, some that we do realize that some people will have challenges

Like you said we could go on and on but the menopausal a woman. That's going to help her find her mind

Right? And again...

Again, another whole subject.

It is, but I also found it fascinating at the beginning and things besides the psychological.

Yeah.

Besides the hormonal?

Like we said, we keep saying orgasm is the

I've been saying that since we were kids. It fixes

I have one more listed that the orgasm the man to not spread his seed to save his seed up. Also, if time, teaching you to have it if he doesn't touch the clitoris, virginal or the clitoral, then this gives you a chance to

And not to get too far off the topic again but the areas down around the pelvis and stuff a lot of places you can

There's so much more than just the button. There is soo much more than a button.

Yes.

Its the easy button, like staples.

And what a great name for it.

But easy isn't always better. So then we go submissive to orgasm or not right? Orgasm is command. No you already are doing this, you know exactly what I mean. sexual plateau. Then he'll quickly reduce the level of order to develop and increased level of sexual tension. It's

Yeah, we talked about edging a lot on husDOM.

Yeah, I'm gonna start singing 30 Seconds

No, go ahead. Everybody would love that. I would love

Yeah, no, no, no, nobody would love it. But simulation. And by practicing this with his subMrs to learn at some point, the repetition may cause the urge to orgasm to usually stronger due to the increased tension of the arousal your mind telling you that you just failed on holding back and wink, funishments, punishments.

And like I was told LK I really don't like the word would be an opportunity.

Right. But if you're like a performer like me, not reacted the way you were asked to. So that's the whole

It would ramp up so quickly, right then LK, that y

Yeah, you know, I punished myself for

You would be thinking holy shit, what's coming.

Right. Because the submissives mind isn't something else that again, you don't hold on to that because

Because we'd be going somewhere else pretty quickly.

Right. So the flip side of orgasm control, go and stop, go get high, high, high stop. Get high high high. Mr. Fox.

By bondage.

Bond. James Bond, no bondage, James bondage.

I'll bet you LK.

James bondage.

I'll bet you there is already a porno named James A forced orgasm is consensual BDSM or kinky sexual

(Sinnging)

The whole bondage thing though, like there's a whole Right? If you're edging it, you tie them up and you tease them. physical, but it's also a lot of psychological intensity that's bound. Regarding multiple or forced climax, the dominant can

Use your five senses.

Yes. Yeah, what you say to her can also be incredible

We're gonna go into total sexual denial next,

I don't know if I'm gonna like this.

I can tell you I don't think anybody likes it,

Three days with no water, I think.

Okay, so if you put them out in the desert total avoidance of any type of genital stimulation to any part on a man or woman. Remember, the brain is the largest sexual It could be your submissives favorite turn on our fetish.

And it is though, like we talked about like if I is the verbalize. But if I've locked up under lock and key, your

Like that pleasure center.

You don't, I know you don't, LK you're so creative mindfuck of the whole thing.

And I have a funny little side note, that was or is still we still talk about to this day. And I'm sorry husband loves. So it's kind of funny, but we still talk about

it's hilarious.

Sorry, his hole, wherever you are. If you

It's great.

We're also going to talk about the use of a

I'm going to add even to that whole using the dildo in So to think that during that scene, you're gonna have an to extend penetration and orgasms and just to extend that

Yeah. And, you can use it during your orgasm

Right, which is great on so many levels, like even

The real thing.

Right? Not just fill my hole, but the real cock she'll

Yeah. So there you go.

There is not much hotter than your submissive

Yes.

And really needing it.

Right. There's nothing more sexier

Alright, and beginning training and honing her skills.

Lots of practice, practice practice, We can talk a little bit about so many people talk about rules

Yeah, to be honest, I would say the whole rule is explicit permission in order to come. And really, that rule

We can talk a little bit about the different

LK, it's like ooo,

Yes, yeees. And you'd have one of those

That's hilarious. We have the touching cue. The touching cue is the touch in the

So the verbal cue has the tone of voice and shall we. A couple can use a visual cue. And again, it's just

I think you're right and every podcast somehow you're

Ah, ok.

I love it.

I don't know I think that is how my mind works

What kind of helicopter?

See what you have done to me? You're in all these noises I want to like upload a helicopter After so many years with you I guess it's just...

I love it. I really do

Transforming me. Um, I'll hand it over...

Little by little, I'm transforming you. Little by

Im going to hand it over to you to talk

If you're edging or practicing forced orgasms with

Okay, so I have a couple of common question is, when do you want to do it? Whenever you both Deem just a little period of time where you practice that. It annually to add some freshness to your dynamic and you can also aftercare. I also advise people to make sure in your downtime

It's not handy during a scene No, but later on. Yes,

Yeah. So you can go back and read what worked

And the key for us Dom's probably is to go back and

Of course, afterwards, it would be too Share that with your sir, in downtime even. It's very

I'm gonna go back to your number one because when do

Yes.

Every single scene. Probably from the very first

Because my number one rule if I don't come So the whole time I'm trying to perform for my sir and not do

Right. I would say that that element is in almost every happen. They're going to somehow have my control on them. And no in the exact same scene. Which I would think it is in most

Well, an actual training sessions where

So the scene is just that.

Yes.

Okay.

Yes. And people do ask me how many course, once you get pretty in control of yourself, and he's you're showing me what you can do. And then you take it a

If a guy asked me, how many times I would tell him,

Right. Make a plan. What's your intention?

Right. And then I would use that and figure out how

And hopefully, it takes a really long time to

Unlike most goals, because in my mind, I'm thinking

Your going to ask the man is a four, we'll do

Right. I would set a goal.

And then it is really fun to sit down with the that come up sometimes during those sessions. OOr maybe you're

Somehow we ought to come up with like, when I say

Yes, we've done it in the we've done it in

So maybe give everybody like, drop down menus or

Absolutely. You know, there's a couple

Maybe this is a good one.

Yeah, I think so.

I'm liking it.

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Anymore little French comments put in there LK before

How do you say fuck me in French?

I don't know but I bet that's pretty universal.

Fuck Me?

Yeah, I bet if you said that to a French man, he would

You would think I say fuck you,fuck me.

No, I doubt he would think that. Baiser Moi Baiser Moi Say like you mean?

Baiser Moi...

There you go.

Oh, wait, I want you to fuck me. Here is, I want you to fuck me.

You know I'm gonna put this in the podcast.

Right here. Oh, what it doesn't say it to me

You mean it doesn't talk dirty to you? What kind of

I have to get it to say it because I can't say

Oui Oui

Ready?

That's a lot to say. That's a mouthful

Je veux que tu me baise Why don't you just hide your skirt up and I get the idea. Je veux que tu me baise, Nevermind.

Just touch yourself lk, I'll understand.

We're just ending

Alright.