In this episode, Kattie and Allan explore the topic of when spouses agree on certain church related topics. It may not be as straightforward as it seems. Join us for our 6 week online course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 130 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course! Go to Thinkific to register today. If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with...
Aug 30, 2021•50 min
After taking the summer off, Kattie and Allan are back with an update of the past few months. They also give 3 reassurances for those couples just starting off their mixed faith marriage. Want to share your story on the podcast? Click the link to book your interview! Kattie and Allan will also be speaking at the Red Lion Inn in St. George on September 12th at 2pm. Details are on the events page of the Facebook group. They are also bringing back their 6 week mixed faith marriage workshop with Nat...
Aug 20, 2021•42 min
How can you connect as a couple after a spouse transitions away from former beliefs? The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 104: Connecting Post Faith Transition appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope .
May 25, 2021•35 min
Jon Ogden joins Kattie and Allan to discuss his new solution to the question, “How do we go about teaching our children in a mixed faith family?” Jon and his partners have developed Uplift Kids, a great online teaching resource for families of any religious situation. On Uplift Kids, you have over 30 existing lessons, and a new lesson each week. Allan and Kattie have signed up for the service, done their first lesson, and absolutely LOVED IT! Head to Upliftkids.org and use promo code “tightrope”...
Apr 27, 2021•43 min
Kattie gives an account of her experience traveling to Kansas to be a witness in the Membership Court of her dear friend Natasha Helfer. The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 102: Kattie’s Kansas Experience appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope .
Apr 20, 2021•42 min
Kattie and Allan discuss the tender topic of supporting a friend through an official LDS Disciplinary Council. Friend of the podcast, Natasha Helfer has been summoned to a Membership Council (Disciplinary Council) on Sunday April 18th. Kattie and Allan discuss their support of Natasha and how you can support as well. The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 101: Supporting a Friend in Need appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope ....
Apr 14, 2021•27 min
Kattie and Allan look back at the three years that have passed since the first episode of Marriage on a Tightrope. They check in with 3 couples they met early on in the podcast to see how things have changed in their mixed faith marriage. Thank you for sticking with Marriage on a Tightrope for 3 full years. You, the listener, is what keeps us going. The post Marriage On A Tightrope: 100: Then vs. Now appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope ....
Mar 08, 2021•1 hr 4 min
Trigger Warning: Discussion surrounding sex, pornography use, and the guilt/shame that often accompanies those topics. Disclaimer: Kattie and Allan Mount are not certified relationship or sex therapists. In this episode they share their experiences on the topic of sex, and when advice is given, they try to keep the advice centered on healthy communication surrounding these topics. Second Disclaimer: As with all episodes of Marriage on a Tightrope, Kattie and Allan try to remember the listener wh...
Feb 04, 2021•1 hr 23 min
Ashlee and Shane tell their Mixed Faith Marriage story. They provide such a unique yet familiar perspective. We know that so many will appreciate this great couple! Looking to improve your sexual intimacy? Not sure how to negotiate changes in sexuality in a mixed faith marriage? Join us on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain for a special Sex & Intimacy Masterclass presented by licensed Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer and Allan and Kattie. What’s included: 2 hour online presentation by Natasha ...
Jan 27, 2021•1 hr 24 min
TRIGGER WARNING: Suicide attempts, suicidal ideation, mental illness. Alex and Megan Rosenhan sit down to tell their mixed faith story. Much of the episode focuses on Alex’s diagnosis of Schizoaffective Disorder, how that correlates and in ways led to his faith transition, and how they both have been able to navigate this “new normal.” Looking to improve your sexual intimacy? Not sure how to negotiate changes in sexuality in a mixed faith marriage? Join us on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain ...
Jan 22, 2021•1 hr 21 min
Active believing member Chris Rich sits down with Kattie for a one on one chat. What story are you telling yourself? Do you want to share your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Sign up here on Calendly Do you need some help strengthening your mixed faith marriage? Join us for Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan. There are 3 options available: 6 week course starting January 19th. Join 24 other couples and learn how to str...
Jan 07, 2021•1 hr 4 min
Disclaimer: This episode focuses on one couple’s experience in a Mixed Orientation Marriage. This is not meant to be represented of the all mixed orientation marriages, or the general experience of LGBTQ individuals. Each individual’s experience is valid. Marriage on a Tightrope fully supports the LGBTQ community, LGBTQ individuals, and hopes for dramatic changes in culture, policy and doctrine concerning LGBTQ in the church. Trigger warning in this episode: Suicide attempt In this important and...
Dec 30, 2020•1 hr 33 min
Shane and Wendy Adamson join Marriage on a Tightrope to tell their Love Story. This episode is especially relevant for transitioning women. The Adamson’s provided us with such a beautiful episode, we hope you all enjoy! Do you want to share your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Sign up here on Calendly Do you need some help strengthening your mixed faith marriage? Join us for Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan. There a...
Dec 08, 2020•1 hr 13 min
Andrew and Kaity Maughan join the podcast to tell their mixed faith story. This great couple is just a few months into their mixed faith marriage and already have some great lessons learned they wanted to share with all of you. Do you want to share your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Sign up here on Calendly Do you need some help strengthening your mixed faith marriage? Join us for Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan....
Dec 01, 2020•1 hr 35 min
Kattie and Allan have a special Thanksgiving episode and discuss gratitude. They read multiple listener posts about gratitude and wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving! Join the next Workshop on a Tightrope in January 2021. This 6 week course is taught by certified therapist Natasha Helfer, and Allan and Kattie. In this course, you spend 3 hours per week with the three instructors, and 24 other couples. Lessons learned include: Negotiating behavioral changes, intimacy & communication, parenting...
Nov 26, 2020•30 min
Kattie and Allan asked listeners on Facebook and Instagram “What is the most pressing issue in your Mixed Faith Marriage?” On this episode, Kattie and Allan discuss what you, the listeners, responded. Most of the comments fit into 3 general groups: Communication & Intimacy Children Negotiating the Tenders (behavioral changes) Also…back by popular demand, Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan. There are 3 options availa...
Nov 17, 2020•47 min
Kattie and Allan discuss healing for your marriage, yourself, family relationships, and church relationships. Want to be a guest on Marriage on a Tightrope and tell your story? Send us an email at Marriageonatightrope@gmail.com and check our availability here on Calendly The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 090: Healing appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope ....
Nov 10, 2020•50 min
Kattie and Allan give an update on how General Conference weekend went. They also talk about a recent chat with their 8 year old daughter Zara about her baptism, and explain how they are “taking her lead”. If you’re in Arizona, Kattie will be visiting and holding a Ladies meet up on Thursday November 5th. For more info, join the Marriage on a Tightrope Facebook Group and look in the Events section. Has Marriage on a Tightrope been helpful in your marriage? Help keep the podcast alive by donating...
Oct 12, 2020•33 min
In this episode: Kattie talks about how her approach to General Conference has progressed over the last 3 years Allan and Kattie address a listener email about the believing spouse having to change to make space for their transitioning spouse Allan talks through a recent physical breakdown and how important it is to “know your limits” The post Marriage On A Tightrope: 088: General Conference & Knowing Your Limits appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope ....
Sep 29, 2020•50 min
Dr. Jennifer Finslayson-Fife joins Allan and Kattie again to discuss garments and sexuality in a mixed faith marriage. The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 087: Garments & Sexuality with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope .
Sep 16, 2020•47 min
September is Suicide Prevention Awareness month. In this episode Kattie and Allan are joined by Jon and Rachel to discuss their experience with severe depression and suicidal thoughts. The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 086: Suicide Prevention with Jon and Rachel appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope .
Sep 10, 2020•1 hr 38 min
In today’s episode Allan & Kattie explore the topics of miracles and fear. How can they have a respectful conversation with out tearing each other down when they clearly disagree? We have a couple spots left for our September course. Go to Eventbrite to find Workshop on a Tightrope event or click the links through our Facebook group or Instagram bio. The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 085: Miracles and Fear appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope ....
Sep 02, 2020•1 hr 2 min
Anne Buckle is an episcopalian who found herself head over heels for a Mormon boy. She sits down with Kattie to tell her mixed faith marriage story as someone who has never been a member of the LDS church. Sign up for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course “Workshop on a Tightrope”. The last session of this year begins September 22nd. For more info and to register, go to Eventbrite and search “Workshop on a Tightrope” or follow this link . The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 084: Anne Buckl...
Aug 26, 2020•1 hr 14 min
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife was kind enough to join Kattie and Allan for a 1 hour Q&A. Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a relationship and sexuality educator and coach, as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois with a Ph.D in Counseling Psychology from Boston College. She wrote her dissertation on LDS women and sexuality, have taught college-level courses on human sexuality, and currently teach online relationship and sexuality courses and live workshops to LDS individuals and c...
Aug 20, 2020•54 min
In this episode, Kattie and Allan talk about how they handled their “back to school” blessings for their 4 childrens. They also give a number of tips on how to approach family milestone events. This can be sibling baptisms, ordinations, etc. Temple sealings is the example that Kattie and Allan spend the most time speaking about in this episode. Sign up for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course “Workshop on a Tightrope”. The last session of this year begins September 22nd. For more info a...
Aug 17, 2020•38 min
Kattie presents her portion of a session she helped present at Sunstone Symposium this year. The topic of the session was “Reframing Your Mixed Faith Marriage”. Kattie spoke specifically about her experience and advice on Self Care in a mixed faith marriage. Registrations for the September session of our 6-week online course “Workshop on a Tightrope” are open now! Spots fill up quickly, so sign up now on Eventbrite while there is still room The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 081: Self Care appear...
Aug 05, 2020•42 min
Allan and Kattie discuss Allan’s new style of prayer and other ways that a non-believer can strike remain an active part of the LDS community while not sacrificing authenticity. The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 080: A New Style of Prayer appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope .
Jul 27, 2020•20 min
Carol Lynn Pearson sits down with Kattie and Allan to share her life experience. So many of the lessons and wisdom shared by Carol Lynn ties directly to how to flourish in a Mixed Faith Marriage. Go to carollynnpearson.com to see her impressive body of work and to purchase a signed copy of any number of her books. We will also be giving away 5 signed copies of her new book “I’ll Walk With You”. To win, tag @marriageonatightrope on IG with #IllWalkWithYou and show us how you are loving and accept...
Jul 14, 2020•1 hr 24 min
Jason Mount, older brother to Allan and current LDS Bishop, sits down with Kattie and Allan to discuss faith transitions and mixed faith marriage. The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 078: Jason Mount (Brother and Bishop) appeared first on Marriage on a Tightrope .
Jul 02, 2020•1 hr 18 min
On this episode, Jen and Jameson Holman talk about their experience being an interracial couple in America in 2020. We feel that race is too important of an issue not to dedicate some time on the podcast. We hope you all enjoy learning from the Holman’s. We also have just a few spots left in our “Workshop on a Tightrope” 6-week online course. Go to eventbrite for more details and to sign up! The post Marriage on a Tightrope: 077: Interracial Marriage (Jen & Jameson Holman) appeared first on ...
Jun 19, 2020•1 hr 47 min
