Heart Break Is One Thing, Ego Is Another: EP 269

I am Michelle Juanita Lamont . I am your manifestation master , author , speaker , guide and coach . But today I'm acting as a very influential podcast host that is going to change your life . The universe is sick and tired of you misunderstanding all of the information , all of the direction , all the guides that are coming our way .

And if this is your first time tuning into Manifesting Miracles , well , guess what ? You are getting introduced to your newest addiction . You're getting introduced to pathways forward .

Every time you choose to not scroll , to not watch television , to not be around somebody negative , and you listen to this podcast over and over and over again , your vibrational reality starts to open and expand and sooner more than later , you will start to understand how to create portals , meaning opportunities , frequencies , ways , funnels for the prosperity and the

abundance that you have a birth right to have comes into your reality . Now listen here . Friends , family , soul tribe , your angels and your guides , know that you are trusted in my hands . My intention is only of the highest one .

I want to explain to you how , when you are manifesting at your highest level , not your ego , you are attributing to the enlightenment of an entire planet called Earth , and I want you to understand that when you rise , you help everybody else rise . Understand that when you rise , you help everybody else rise . So I was . You know it's Earth Year 2024 .

And right now there's a very popular song called Please , please , please , by an artist named Sabrina Carpenter , and she has a very , very powerful line . Heartbreak is one thing , ego is another .

And I'm borrowing that because , as I was thinking about that line out of the context of what she was singing , which is it was about the same thing because she was trying to manifest a better relationship and trying to convince her man , you know , like , hey , let's stay in love .

But I thought it was a beautiful way to explain ego confusion , meaning when you're stuck manifesting , because there is . I want to differentiate between heartbreak and ego , and I thought Miss Carpenter did such a phenomenal job at this song that I had to borrow the line . I was like , oh man , I want to do a whole podcast just on this one line .

You know , game recognizes game . So I want to talk to you a little bit about that , and then I want to give you some tips to help you get through it , and then I want to invite you to join me . So let's talk about it , heartbreak . What does it do ? Let's talk about it , heartbreak . What does it do ? It's an emotional pain when a relationship ends .

Our ego is involved in all things that start and end and our heart is also . Our brain has about 18,000 neurons that are firing at any point in time , but our heart , our heart , has 44,000 . But our heart , our heart , has 44,000 , more than double . And ego . Ego is when fears and our desires interfere with manifesting Heartbreak and ego confusion .

And the reason that she's singing about it like heartbreak is one thing , ego is another is because they feel similar but fundamentally they are very , very different . Heartbreak is a response to an emotional loss , while ego confusion interferes with our truest desires , causing conflict , blocking our manifestations and blocking our intentions to create those manifestations .

And when we recognize ego confusion , it involves identifying our fears , our insecurities and 100% our need to control Are all the mitigating factors that are involved when we are not manifesting and we're stuck . See , the ego , as Dr Wayne Dyer would say , is EGO edging God out . But the ego , what it does , is in the muscle of the brain .

It acts out of fear , it acts out of insecurity . It needs to control everything . It leads to conflicting intentions because the ego just doesn't want to be out of balance and the reason for this is because of our amygdala . It's the brain's fear center . It triggers stress .

It has seven different mitigating factors like fight , flight , fear , fornicate , freeze , and the amygdala , the fear center . It disrupts all of our positive energy needed for manifesting . You see , you're emanating this energy and therefore everything around you is mimicking and copying that at some degree , at some vibrational level . I know you understand this .

I want you to understand this even better , so I want you to listen to this podcast at least five times and really grasp this . When you are in the ego-based response triggering all of those fears and those actions fight , flight , fear , fornicate , freeze all of these these response generates stress and anxiety . And what else are they doing ? They disrupt .

They disrupt your positive energy , and all of your positive energy is going to be the emotion that carries you into the field , the quantum field which it's created at . And when the ego dominates any conversation , it can create so much inner conflict and inner dialogue .

I know I used to fight with my ego all the time and I would try to say but what if this doesn't work out ? Or what if this doesn't work out , or what if this ? And what if this ?

So it leads to overthinking , and overthinking lead to overstress , and overstress would lead to not sleeping and not having enough money and not having enough time and not being happy , and then looking in the mirror and putting all these lotions and potions on and having ready skin and not being healthy Because the ego doesn't want us to change .

And what is the ego edging God out ? It is the death of manifestation . And when we're in ego confusion , it leads to everything that we call self-sabotaging or imposter syndrome . It attracts all of these negative experiences and all it does is creates more and more resistance to the change that is needed in your daily life right now .

It causes a cycle of fear and doubt and that prevents the alignment with our truest desires . So many people are so confused about what they're doing and why it isn't working , but at the truth , in the heart of the matter confused . It always creates an internal conflict in order to prevent you from aligning with this new idea and forward progress .

The misalignment leads to self-sabotage , attracting negative experiences and resisting positive change . And when we're in that cycle of fear and doubt , it just perpetuates and perpetuates and keeps continuing , making it harder and harder for us to even remember what we were trying to focus on , what we were trying to manifest .

It is so easy to stay in your state of ego because ego is comfortable . It's like drive-through food .

We all know it'd be a lot easier if you went and chopped up your own corn and made a nice salad and had some fruits and vegetables , and your brain would thank you and your blood would thank you and your body would thank you and your energy would thank you , and you wouldn't need some of these disgusting liquid death and all these other drinks that you put

into your body , full of caffeine , full of poisons . But it's so much easier just to order DoorDash and it's so much easier to go through the drive-thru and that's what your ego is counting on on . Your ego is edging your light out . Your ego is telling you nah , that's too hard , it's never going to happen for me . I can't do that .

But those fears are predicated on previous experiences . Baby , you are about to break through . You were so damn close and on the other side of all of this , fear is everything that you want . I cannot let you sit there in your seat right now and say , but the drive-thru is fine . I can't let you sit there and say , but DoorDash isn't that bad .

I need you , we need you , the universe needs you , your family , everybody needs you , we need you , the universe needs you , your family , everybody needs you to take some action and to go ahead and live a beautiful fucking life . But you can't get to there with drive-through actions

, door-dash , accountability . You could do something as easy as practicing mindfulness or even meditation . Obviously , I'm always going to be saying meditate , meditate , meditate . Meditation allows the ego to shut the fuck up . Take a seat , take all the seats , because those fears can exist in light . What is that passage in the Bible ? Genesis ?

The only place that fear cannot exist is in the light . You have to understand that these messages are echoing and vibrating through the universe for a reason , and when we're subjugating ourselves to more positive interactions , we start to create these new neuroplasticities to allow our mind to expand and focus on our truest desire instead of our ego-driven needs .

I'm hungry ? It's easier to go to McDonald's . I'm thirsty , go grab a bottle out of the refrigerator . No , go put a filter in something . Cleanse the purified water . Write all the things you want in your life on that water . Drink the water , talk to the water , absorb the water . The water has memory .

There are so many scientific studies done on what water does and that we are all water . Think about it just for a second , not to go off topic , but here I go . Your body is 87% water . Your brain is 91% water . What is oxygen ? What is H2O ? Water is in every molecule of breath that you breathe . It covers 87% of the planet .

It's in the food , it's in the flowers , it's in the air , it's in your body , it's in your brain and we have all . We can all go and Google studies of water . Dr Emoto , water reflects everything back to us . It acts as a mirror . It can even hold memory .

So , if you are not in your positive state of mind , listen to another one of my podcasts and then another one and another one . I even have them on youtube . Binge it all day long and , if you want to see how you do and keep track . Get a journal . You don't have to go to my store and buy my journals , but I would love it if you would support me .

All my journals have different meditations with a code on there . You scan the code and then you hear a handwritten , self-recorded meditation from me on money , on manifesting , on forgiveness , on self-love , and then I have the perforated sheets in there .

So if you're doing any spell work or practices , you can tear them out , you can burn them , you can put them in water , whatever you need . But either way , just grab a journal and keep track of your thoughts and feelings all day long . When were you in ego and when were you in mindfulness ?

How many times are you speaking positively and negatively into your life ? What are you eating that is positive or negative in your life ? What are you drinking that is positive or negative in your life ? What is the flow of you ?

Because when you're practicing mindfulness and when you're doing meditations and when you're listening to my podcasts , mindfulness and when you're doing meditations and when you're listening to my podcasts , you are starting to expand the vibrational reality in which you are currently creating .

In All of that , mindfulness and meditation can help you become more aware of when the ego is taking over . This was a very difficult thing for me to understand . That's why I explain it to you and I help you and my coaching clients and in my classes , in bite-sized pieces , because it is such an expansive idea that you can't consume it in one episode .

And when we start to reprogram our brain , you shift your focus , almost subconsciously after you do this enough times , from the ego-driven needs to your authentic goals . And when we write it out pen to paper , this can't be on our computer , it's a , it's a .

It's a it's your brain secretes this thing when you take a thought and you write it down your hand to paper . It's been studied and I just can't think of it in this moment .

But there's a reason that why so many people who get stuck from their ego-driven realities where they cannot manifest and they're subjugated to all of their fears and all of their doubts and all of their insecurities .

There's a reason why less than 10% of the people go out there and create their own lives , because everything that is supposed to help you ends up becoming something that teaches you a lesson you don't know how to get through . And I was stuck for so long Working , working hard , being ego-driven .

I would see people having these different beautiful lives and I'm like I guess I wasn't pretty enough for that matrix . I guess I didn't come from the right vagina for that one . Guess I'm not the right shape for hers . And all of those thoughts were merely illusions of my ego . Saying Michelle Juanita Lamont was just not enough , and so I acted that way .

I accepted friendships and relationships . That taught me that . I accepted jobs and positions and paychecks . That taught me that I accepted hands on my body because I didn't know how to set boundaries . I accepted pain and suffering because when I complained about it , it seemed that nobody cared .

The person who I needed to show up for me , the white knight on the horse , it was me , higher self , me , vibrational me , frequency me , just like it's you . And I'm telling you right now from the bottom of my heart no matter where you are on this journey , the universe's intentions and plans to use you is huge .

Studies show that people who work with coaches like myself achieve almost overnight successes . I've seen people who say they could never manifest money , manifest hundreds of thousands of dollars . I have seen people who say they could never find the right partner get engaged in weeks .

I've seen people move mountains and hit goals and hit sales quotas and expand and become artists and become creators .

After working with me , you know I provide accountability , expert guidance , personalized strategies and the likelihood of you manifesting those goals well , they become significantly easier when a master is looking at you and saying no , what about that , what about this , what about this ? And getting you in alignment .

You see , the brain prefers similar patterns and routines , even if they are negative , because they feel safe . This is due to the brain's wiring for survival , not happiness . Nowhere in the brain is it wired for happiness , isn't wired for happiness .

But when you try to change , the ego just consistently resists because the fear is the unknown and between our amygdala and our equilibrium , you only have a 20% chance if you're doing everything else right . You only have a 20% chance if you're doing everything else right .

So you have to be able to coach and be navigated through this resistance in order to keep you on track and keep you in your goals with somebody who isn't judgmental , who leaves space for you , who understands . And I don't expect you to be anything else than who you are , because who you are is magnificent .

And , yes , I hope now you understand the difference between the emotions of a heartbreak and the confusion and the blocking of an ego , and the importance of overcoming it . I want you to go in and start practicing mindfulness . I want you to affirm who you are . I am abundant . I am a manifesting manifester . I am a manifesting manifester .

I am worthy of everything I desire . Abundance is my birthright . I am the creator of my reality and I'm obsessed with manifesting miracles . What I want you to remember is that the universe is on your side . It's always providing you with opportunities to manifest everything that you desire .

And if you right now , if you're ready to overcome that ego confusion and unlock your full manifesting potential , I invite you to work with me . I invite you to push the button and book your first free session right now . Together , me and you , we can create the life that you've always dreamed of . I want you to trust the process .

I want you to see how powerful you are and trust and lean into the universe . But , most importantly , I want to show you that you can do it all on your own after a little bit of guidance from me . You're so close you don't even understand . I'm so proud of you . I'm so thankful for you . I'm so excited to hear what is going on .

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