Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude to listeners and shares his personal journey from a hypocritical pastor struggling with porn addiction to becoming an advocate for recovery. After years of attempting behavioral modifications, he embarked on a transformative journey addressing heart-level issues, trauma, and self-awareness, leading to his liberation from addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•14 min•Ep. 691
Tim Ferrara, an Executive Pastor at LifePoint Church in Arizona, boasts over 20 years of business management experience alongside a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing from Arizona State University and an MBA from the University of Phoenix. He founded Discerning Dad to inspire Christians to make God-honoring decisions, authoring "Everyday Discernment" and hosting a top-ranked Christian podcast called "Everyday Discernment" on Charisma and Edifi networks. In this episode Tim and Sathiya discuss: [00:0...
Jul 25, 2024•52 min•Ep. 690
Sathiya Sam discusses the rapid growth of his Instagram following and encourages listeners to check out his content there. The main topic of the episode is "Skills that Kill in Recovery," where he emphasizes four essential skills: processing emotions, communicating one's inner life effectively, understanding childhood correlates with the present, and cultivating self-control. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 689
Sathiya Sam delves into the biblical perspective on sexual immorality, defining it as the violation of God's laws regarding sexual relationships. He outlines three biblical principles for healthy sexual relationships - consensuality, exclusivity in covenant, and the opportunity to procreate - and argues that masturbation violates all three, making it incompatible with God's design for sexuality. He shares his personal experience of quitting both porn and masturbation, encouraging listeners to co...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 688
Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude for listeners and introduces a reflection on King David's story from the Bible. Highlighting the impact of modernizing biblical narratives, he discusses David's grave mistakes, including adultery and murder, yet emphasizes the remarkable forgiveness and legacy David received, being referred to as a man after God's own heart and in the lineage of Jesus. He encourages listeners to embrace the power of forgiveness, acknowledging that no matter the past mistakes, Jesu...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 687
Sathiya Sam explores the challenges faced by men striving for success, meaningful connections, and sexual integrity. He introduces a five-day Bible reading plan designed to help overcome pornography addiction, citing a survey that links regular Bible reading to a reduced likelihood of viewing pornography. He emphasizes the transformative power of engaging with the Bible, discussing three key scriptures—Romans 8:28, Colossians 1:21, and James 2:26—that played a crucial role in his own 15-year jou...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 686
Joshua Johnson, a resident of Whitefish, Montana, is a spirited adventurer and spiritual seeker. He has wholeheartedly embraced the world of outdoor exploration while also delving into the realm of spiritual cartography as an apprentice to Jesus of Nazareth. Joshua's unwavering passion for life shapes his distinctive approach to spirituality. In this episode Joshua Johnson and Sathiya discuss: [01:47] Nature for character and toughness. [09:04] Abiding in Jesus, becoming like Him. [10:04] Spirit...
Jul 25, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 685
Sathiya Sam discusses the impact of artificial intelligence (AI) on the pornography industry. He highlights the rise of AI-generated explicit content, including celebrity deepfakes, and the potential dangers it poses. He also explores the connection between addiction and attachment, expressing concern about the role of AI in furthering pornography addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•15 min•Ep. 684
Sathya Sam discusses managing his sex drive responsibly. He compares it to stewardship of money, emphasizing that while he cannot control his sex drive, he can learn to manage it. He stresses the importance of understanding this before marriage and encourages continuous improvement. He concludes that good stewardship of his sex drive leads to healthy relationships. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•12 min•Ep. 683
Sathiya Sam explores the association between anger and pornography, proposing that pornography could serve as a temporary validation for feelings of anger. He supports his argument by referencing research conducted by Joe Robertson, highlighting the intriguing connection between these two aspects. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•12 min•Ep. 682
Sathiya Sam discusses the significance of gratitude for peace and well-being. He differentiates between momentary gratefulness and lifelong gratitude, encouraging listeners to adopt the latter for a more fulfilling life. He shares his personal journey and how gratitude helped him face challenges positively. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•9 min•Ep. 681
Shane O'Neill is the Editorial Director from Proven Ministries—a non-profit that creates resources for sexual integrity. Shane is also the host of The Naked Gospel podcast. He has a graduate degree in apologetics and is working on another degree in counseling. In this episode Shane O'Neill and Sathiya discuss: [02:53] Porn genres discussion [05:00] Differentiating pornography types [08:51] Understanding pornography genres [09:08] Formation of pornography genres [09:59] Importance of search terms...
Jul 25, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 680
Sathiya Sam discusses strategies for men to bounce back after a relapse during recovery. He emphasizes the importance of regulating the nervous system, avoiding negative behaviors, and connecting with others. He also encourages listeners to engage in hope-inspiring activities and to seek help if needed. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•11 min•Ep. 679
Sathiya Sam discusses gospel artist Kirk Franklin's struggle with pornography addiction, his journey to recovery, and the impact on his marriage. He emphasizes the importance of addressing underlying issues rather than expecting marriage to resolve them. He also criticizes the dismissive response from Franklin's pastor when he confessed his addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 678
Sathiya Sam discusses the difference between lust and attraction, with the aim of alleviating the guilt and condemnation that Christian men may feel. He introduces a game in which listeners identify whether a scenario represents lust or attraction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 677
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of focusing on aspects beyond merely quitting porn for a successful recovery. He emphasizes the significance of connection, processing inner emotions, and building a deeper spiritual life. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Jul 25, 2024•12 min•Ep. 676
Geoff Steurer is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 24 years of experience helping couples and individuals heal from the impact of sexual betrayal, unwanted pornography use, and partner betrayal trauma. He is the co-author of, ""Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity"" and the host of the weekly recovery podcast, ""From Crisis to Connection"". He has produced workbooks, audio programs, and online courses to help couples rebuild broken trust....
Jul 25, 2024•53 min•Ep. 675
Sathiya Sam discusses maintaining a relationship with God during recovery from addiction and sexual sin. He emphasizes the importance of a well-rounded relationship with God, which starts with simple spiritual disciplines and involves practicing radical transparency. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 674
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of letting go of past mistakes and embracing a new identity for a brighter future. He provides practical steps for this transformation and encourages listeners to seek support. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 673
Sathiya Sam discusses the physical symptoms of porn addiction and recovery. He explores how porn addiction can affect men's health, relationships, and connection with God, with symptoms ranging from headaches to sexual performance issues and mood swings. He also discusses the physical symptoms of recovery, emphasizing that these are normal and a sign of the body adapting to a life without porn. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 672
Sathiya Sam discusses the negative impact of pornography on romantic relationships. He explains how porn creates a false sense of intimacy, leading to emotional, spiritual, and physical issues. He also offers advice on how to counteract these effects. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 670
Jim Ramos, founder of Men in the Arena in McMinnville, Oregon, aims to empower men to become their best selves in Christ and make a positive impact on their world. He's a renowned speaker, podcaster, and author with a passion for God's Word and engaging storytelling. Jim's books include Strong Men Dangerous Times and more. He embraces life with courage, following Jesus' promise in John 10:10. He enjoys hunting, fitness, tropical vacations, and meaningful conversations over Cafe Americano. In thi...
Jul 25, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 670
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of sharing personal stories, using her own struggle with pornography addiction as an example. He provides guidelines on how much detail to share, emphasizing the need to balance openness with the potential impact on others. He encourages listeners to consider their sharing goals and audience and to share privately with trusted individuals before going public. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 669
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of addressing the root causes of problems rather than opting for seemingly logical solutions. He uses the example of internet filters for porn addiction, explaining that they often fail as they don't address the underlying issues. He encourages listeners to embrace counterintuitive strategies for personal growth. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 668
Sathiya Sam emphasizes the importance of self-investment for personal development and recovery, drawing from his own experiences. He underscores the value of such investments and shares an empowering business success story. He encourages listeners to take action, invest in their recovery, and avoid settling for subpar solutions. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•15 min•Ep. 667
Sathiya Sam underscores the crucial need to remove superstitions from the recovery journey. He focuses on this issue specifically within the context of Christian men who are contending with pornography addiction, emphasizing the role of rational and evidence-based approaches in their healing process. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 666
Graham Cochrane is the author of "How to Get Paid for What You Know" and is a business coach to over 3,500 premium customers worldwide. He founded The Recording Revolution, a 7-figure online music business, in 2009. He now hosts over 80,000+ monthly followers on his podcast, YouTube channel, and blog, talking about business, mindset, productivity, and psychology. Graham has been featured in Business Insider, Yahoo! and The Huffington Post. In this episode Graham Cochrane and Sathiya discuss: [04...
Jul 25, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 665
Sathya Sam shares a personal life update about the birth of his son, Judah Daniel Sam, and discusses the transformative experience of fatherhood. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagr am...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 664
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of understanding the intent behind one's actions and desires, particularly in relation to lust and pornography addiction. He emphasizes the value of identifying intent when engaging with pornography and offers guidance on finding healthier alternatives. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagr am...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 663
Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude for the support of listeners and discusses the topic of deconstructing arousal. He shares his personal experience with trauma and its influence on preferences in pornography. He suggests seeking specialized therapy like EMDR to heal from trauma and mentions the importance of inner child work. He provides a crash course on addressing trauma and preferences, acknowledging that it is not a comprehensive guide. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, ...
Jul 25, 2024•13 min•Ep. 662
