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Man Alive

Shana Jamesmanalive.libsyn.com
If you're not satisfied with your love or sex-life, and could use some insights into what makes women want more of you, tell me more about yourself here and we'll schedule a time to talk: shanajamescoaching.com/consult Don't forget to check out my new podcast, Practicing Love! -- Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Whether it's more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy… What is true success? How can a man actually reach the end of his life and look back without regret -- having lived and loved fully, rather than having been stuck in fear or a life he was "supposed to" lead? Man Alive is a series of bold, raw and gritty conversations with experts on success, power, sex, love and legacy for men who...are clear they want amazing lives?! For the past 15 years Shana James, a dating and relationship expert, has worked with thousands of men and women around the world and collaborated with hundreds of teachers and coaches. She has led workshops for dating companies like Table for Six and Match.com and been matchmaker for an MTV reality show. Shana doesn't buy into the need for rules, games or limitations. She works with men individually to find their unique power, confidence and leadership abilities, breaking open the boxes that keep them stuck, dissatisfied, or settling for less than amazing in any area of life.
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Episodes

#253: Stop Self-Sabotage

When we learn to shift the ways we self-sabotage, in our love and business lives, we can reach new levels of success, personal satisfaction and impact! Today's guest has gone to the depths of his own psyche and soul to bring you tools to empower yourself.

Jan 12, 202335 minSeason 1Ep. 253

#252: Overcome Performance Anxiety

Performance anxiety is common for most men, but it can be a thing of the past. Today's guest helps men overcome this anxiety by teaching tools for men to become better lovers and have more pleasure themselves in the process.

Jan 05, 202334 minSeason 252Ep. 1

#251: The Foundations of Heart Centered Sex and Sensuality

When you integrate your heart into your sex life, not only does it go from what can feel like "fast food sex" to "gourmet sex," it also becomes connected, healing and transformative. Today's Man Alive podcast guest talks about bringing depth into sex and sensuality.

Dec 22, 202240 minSeason 1Ep. 251

#250: Cliteracy to Coreplay: Understanding Female Arousal

If you are a heterosexual man who does not understand female arousal, your sex life will not improve and your relationships will suffer. Today's guest is the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman . Learn what it takes to have more pleasure and connection in your sex life.

Dec 15, 202233 minSeason 1Ep. 250

#249: How to Avoid a Disappointing Love Life

Disappointment in one's love life is a common experience these days. Divorce rates are high and many people are attempting to figure out where we've gone wrong - culturally and personally. Today's guest has supported clients to heal their love lives and create healthy relationships for over 30 years.

Dec 08, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 249

#248: Live Happier and Healthier

Though most of us start out with the deck stacked against us in how we are taught to mentally and emotionally approach life, we can unfuck our approach to life and set ourselves free to live healthier and happier.

Dec 01, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 248

#247: How to Stop Our Disempowering Stories

We can unconsciously add stress to our lives with the stories we tell ourselves about our experiences. While this realization can be painful, it is also a doorway to incredible amounts of freedom and possibility. Today's podcast guest co-wrote a documentary film entitled: “Is Your Story Making You Sick?” We discussed the potential for relief from pain and stress.

Nov 24, 202238 minSeason 1Ep. 247

#246: Healthy Masculinity and Femininity in Relationships

The concept of masculine/feminine dynamics in relationships can be viewed through overly simplistic lenses. Today's guest goes deep into the nature of humanity to illuminate the benefits of both masculine and the feminine, and how balancing them can bring us together in healthier, more authentic ways.

Nov 17, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 246

#245: What is Orgasm Honestly?

Sadly, the average orgasm lasts between 10 and 51 seconds. You are not limited to this quick burst of pleasure though! You could orgasm for hours, and experience a heightened state of pleasure. Find out more as we talk about what orgasm actually is.

Nov 10, 202231 minSeason 1Ep. 245

#244: What is Honest Sex?

How does sex become great? In Shana's new book, Honest Sex, she counters the common misperception that we are outgrowing marriage and long term relationships by bringing an issue she has found with her clients and her own relationships -- many of us have not matured enough to create the emotionally-connected, sexually-satisfying relationships we long for. Honest sex is a pathway to deepen connection and keep relationships alive.

Nov 03, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 144

#243: Radical Intimacy and Honest Sex

Intimacy can be scary, as it relies on being vulnerable. It can also be confusing if we don't know how to let down our guard or create the safety needed to reveal our tender parts. But without intimacy, relationships fade and spark fizzles. Zoë Kors has created a map to intimacy that any person can follow and everyone benefit from. Whether you are just discovering intimacy or want to go as deep as possible, this episode is for you.

Oct 20, 202249 minSeason 1Ep. 243

#242: Honest Sex Series: How to Be Honest About Who You Are

Being honest about who you are is one of the foundations of a relationship that strengthens and deepens over time . The more you know yourself, the less likely you'll be to lose yourself, in an attempt to keep the peace or make someone else happy.

Oct 13, 202232 minSeason 1Ep. 242

#241: Honest Sex Podcast Series: Honesty About Erectile Issues

In honor of the release of my new book, Honest Sex , this episode is one in a series of podcasts focused on bringing honesty to various aspects of sex and relationships. Today's episode covers the vulnerable topic of talking about erectile issues. Our guest, Shari James, supports men who want to overcome erectile issues without male enhancement pills.

Oct 06, 202234 minSeason 1Ep. 241

#240: Creating a Connected Dad Life

Being isolated as a father is not good for dads. It is also not good for dad's kids or romantic relationships. Instead of having women in mommy groups and dads going it alone, today's podcast guest is supporting dads to live a connected dad life!

Sep 29, 202229 minSeason 1Ep. 240

#238: How to Go Beyond Playing Small

Playing small in life keeps life small and often unsatisfying, or even painful. Breaking out of the fear and resistance to being bigger is not always an easy task though.

Sep 08, 202233 minSeason 1Ep. 238

#237: The Beauty of Awakened Seduction

Today's Man Alive podcast guest, Zan Perrion, is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today.

Aug 25, 202231 minSeason 1Ep. 237

#236: Become More Manly AND More Whole

Today's Man Alive podcast guest, Mark Divine, combines the wisdom of warriors with the wisdom of monks to teach people to become powerful and inspiring leaders.

Aug 18, 202242 minSeason 1Ep. 236

Relaunch: Be an Awesome Dad Without Losing Your Life

Being a dad is Being a dad is simultaneously one of the most amazing and challenging things you can do in your life. Today's Man Alive Guest, Larry Hagner, helps you bypass the pitfalls many men fall into that can take away your happiness, health and sanity.

Aug 11, 202232 min

#235: Love Lessons We Need But Never Got

Learning to love without a roadmap makes it incredibly challenging to have a satisfying relationship. Katie Hendricks, along with her husband Gay Hendricks, has been teaching people to give and receive love better for 50 years!

Aug 04, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 235

#234: Daily Practices for Better Sex

Optimal sexual performance becomes less of a "sure thing" as you age. To make sure you remain sexually healthy and powerful, check out Men's Sexual Health Coach Brian Ayer's wisdom and daily practices.

Jul 28, 202237 minSeason 1Ep. 234

#233: Essential Success Principles

When someone achieves success from a young age we get to study their tactics and apply their wisdom to your own business visions and goals.

Jul 21, 202227 minSeason 1Ep. 233

#232: How to be OK When Life Is Hard

Do you see certain parts of yourself as strong and other parts as weak? If so, it may be time to question your assessment of yourself, and how you came to believe this!

Jul 07, 202238 minSeason 1Ep. 232

#231: Financial Strategies to Create Wealth Now

Curtis May has been a financial advisor for 35 years. He believes typical financial advice does not work for most people and instead teaches people effective strategies to build wealth. You don't have to be uneducated or follow what the big financial institutions say. You can take your finances into your own hands.

Jun 30, 202232 minSeason 1Ep. 231

#230: Adapt and Overcome More than Seems Possible

Today's podcast is a welcome relief for the days and phases during which we feel defeated or taken down by personal challenges. Today's guest, J.R. Martinez, has overcome immense pain and challenges. He shows us how to adapt and turn struggles into opportunities.

Jun 23, 202240 minSeason 1Ep. 230

Reimagining Men´s Sexuality Relaunch

Can you image what your sex life would be like if you didn't feel doubt or shame about your performance in bed or your ability to give a woman pleasure? Karen Brody and I talk today about what this could be like for you -- the passion and connection possible as you reimagine your sex life!

Jun 16, 202236 min

#229: Loving, Lasting Relationships Through the Power of Us

In a world where we spend a lot of time acting independent, or falling into codependence, there is another way. We can learn to evolve to interdependence and focus on Us, rather than only You or Me. On today's episode, Terry Real discusses his new book: Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship.

Jun 09, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 229

Relaunch: Can a man still be a hero in this modern age?

Historically, male heroes have been the John Wayne type -- stoic, dominant, emotionless. In the modern age, this type of heroism does not work and often causes men to sacrifice their own well-being. Today's guest shows us what a hero looks like in this day and age.

Jun 02, 202245 min
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