This episode dives into an incredible conversation with Lockie Phillips from Emotional Horsemanship. We discuss a number of different topics pertaining to horses, the ethical training of them and the world at large. Lockie also talks about the hoof transformation journey with his horse Sureno and how hooves can create a full body and mind reset. Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: [email protected] Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.co...
Jun 26, 2025•1 hr 4 min
Annnd we're back! This week's episode is the Making Milestones return following hiatus and it encompasses the important discussion of building identity outside of the horse world and how the pressures to conform within the sport can impact our decision making. This is a heartfelt episode that goes in depth on discussions surrounding how horse people react to new information and why there may be so much resistance to change. Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmile...
Jun 19, 2025•57 min
Welcome to this enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where we delve into the intricate journey of our special guest, Carol Odell, a seasoned therapist and author of the upcoming memoir "Girl Groomed". In this thought-provoking conversation, Carol shares her personal story of growing up in the horse world while navigating an abusive trainer-student dynamic. Listener discretion is advised, as Carol and our host Shelby discuss sensitive topics including sexual assault and abusive ...
Feb 27, 2025•55 min
Welcome to this week's episode of Making Milestones Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of elite dressage with Susan Wachowicz, the founder of Dressage Hub and the World Equestrian Federation. Join us as Susan shares her eye-opening journey from the glitzy arenas of Wellington to becoming a controversial yet pivotal voice in the horse community. In this insightful episode, we unravel the complexities of the dressage world, addressing pressing issues such as horse welfare, the politics of ...
Feb 20, 2025•1 hr 7 min
This episode explores the often solitary journey of shifting your approach to horse training and the impacts it has on personal relationships and self-perception. Join us as we discuss the discomfort and growth involved in questioning traditional practices and the courage it takes to forge a new path. Whether you're navigating the changing tides of horsemanship or facing personal growth, this episode offers insights into finding comfort in solitude and embracing your true self. Support the Podca...
Jan 31, 2025•45 min
Let's talk about the changes and shifts that I would like to create in my life in 2025 and how I intend to go about it. This is a reflective episode on manifesting the life that I hope to create for myself and some personal changes that I wish to continue to do throughout 2025, as well as new ones I hope to apply. Vote for me: https://entrepreneurofimpact.org/2025/shelby-dennis Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: [email protected] Shop my clothing and br...
Jan 23, 2025•1 hr 2 min
In this special end-of-year episode, we reflect on the transformative events and personal growth that characterized 2024. Join as I dive into the challenges and triumphs that marked this year, exploring the transitions in relationships, personal goals, and the pursuit of a more authentic self. From the unexpected start of the year with a rare night out in Vancouver to the introspective journey of finding joy in solitude and self-care, this episode delves into the journey of healing and self-disc...
Jan 16, 2025•1 hr 47 min
Welcome back to the Making Milestones podcast after a brief hiatus! In this episode, we explore the critical theme of developing self-assurance and trusting your own decisions, especially in the often judgmental world of horse management. Learn how to stand firm in your convictions without seeking external validation, and understand the impact of insecurity on personal relationships and interactions within the equestrian community. Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: ma...
Jan 10, 2025•53 min
Welcome back to the Making Milestones podcast! This week, we dive into the challenges of balancing life's daily struggles with broader societal issues. As I return from a brief hiatus, I share my personal experiences dealing with mental and physical health challenges, business responsibilities, and day-to-day chores. Join me as I discuss how these pressures intersect with societal expectations, leading to burnout and emotional suppression. We explore how societal norms often force us to hide our...
Dec 20, 2024•46 min
In this thought-provoking episode of the Making Milestones podcast, we delve deep into the intricate topic of the "disposable mindset" prevalent in the horse industry. Building upon a previously discussed subject, we explore how societal conditioning has shaped our views on horses as expendable assets, rather than sentient beings deserving of lifelong care. The episode challenges listeners to confront uncomfortable truths about the equestrian world, addressing why such practices evoke strong emo...
Nov 28, 2024•1 hr 8 min
In today's discussion, we delve into the discomforts associated with personal growth and changing perspectives, especially within the realm of equestrianism. How do traditional training methods impact self-esteem and personal development? Explore the dynamics of traditional versus science-based training approaches and the transition between them. This episode emphasizes the importance of questioning outdated norms and embracing new methodologies that promote both human and equine well-being and ...
Nov 21, 2024•59 min
In this episode, we are thrilled to introduce our special guest, Lynda Vanden Elzen from Sound Hoof Trimming. Linda shares her extensive knowledge and expertise in modern hoof care, offering insights into innovative strategies for addressing common hoof issues such as underrun heels and long toes. Throughout the episode, Linda discusses the importance of frog support in horseshoes, the controversy surrounding traditional shoeing methods, and the impact of caudal failure on horse soundness. She a...
Nov 14, 2024•46 min
This exciting episode featuring a special guest, Alexa Linton, an osteopathic manual practitioner and equine sport therapist. Together, they dive into the innovative concept of the paddock paradise system and its benefits for horse welfare. Shelby and Alexa discuss the origins of the track system, its implementation, and how it can transform the way horses are kept, especially in challenging climates like the rainy Pacific Northwest. They explore how these systems can promote natural horse behav...
Nov 12, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Join us this week on the Making Milestones podcast for an eye-opening conversation with Martha Figueroa, a passionate equestrian and advocate for marginalized communities in the Gaza Strip. Martha shares her journey of supporting both people and animals in war-torn regions, highlighting the critical role horses play amidst the ongoing conflict. In this heartfelt episode, Martha delves into the everyday challenges faced by Palestinian horse owners, the impact of military actions on their lives, a...
Oct 31, 2024•1 hr 23 min
In this episode of the Making Milestones podcast, we delve into the intriguing intersections between horse culture and broader societal dynamics. Shelby explores how societal conditioning, capitalism, and the demand for productivity permeate the horse industry, challenging long-held beliefs about the necessity of work for fulfillment, both for humans and their equine companions. Through a critical lens, the discussion reveals how human emotions, societal biases, and the concept of 'earning one's...
Oct 24, 2024•1 hr 9 min
This episode delves into one of the most debated topics in the equestrian community: the use of treats in horse training. Shelby explores the common fears and misconceptions surrounding rewards-based training and offers insights into why these fears might be unfounded. Join in as we unravel the truth behind the age-old belief that feeding treats leads to aggressive behavior in horses. We discuss the science of operant conditioning and how it applies to horse training, drawing parallels with meth...
Oct 17, 2024•53 min
Listen in as we explore the misconceptions surrounding equine behavior and how management practices play a significant role in shaping what many perceive as a horse's personality. Join us as we examine the ethical implications of buying and selling horses. We discuss how horses are often treated as commodities, the industry's pressure on riding and performance, and the often-overlooked emotional impact on horses when they are uprooted from their homes. Whether you're a seasoned equestrian or new...
Oct 11, 2024•58 min
In this episode, we delve into the often unspoken challenges faced by horse trainers, highlighting the misconceptions surrounding the profession. While many dream of turning their passion for horses into a career, the reality is often far from glamorous. We explore the pressures and risks trainers endure, from physical injuries to mental strain, and the often toxic dynamics within the equestrian industry. Join us as we discuss how to navigate these challenges while staying true to your values an...
Oct 03, 2024•1 hr 4 min
This episode tackles a deeply important and timely topic as we approach the fall and winter seasons: the rising costs of horse care and the difficult decisions horse owners face regarding their aging or injured horses. Shelby delves into the unsettling trend of rehoming horses that are no longer rideable due to age, injury, or health issues. She discusses the industry's mindset that often views horses as replaceable commodities and the social acceptability of endlessly rehoming them. The podcast...
Sep 26, 2024•49 min
Welcome back to the Making Milestones podcast with Shelby Dennis of Milestone Equestrian. In this episode, she dives into the challenges and logistics of moving an entire farm, sharing the ups and downs of this significant life transition. This episode offers a raw and honest look at the complexities of balancing personal and professional life during a period of significant change. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars an...
Sep 21, 2024•40 min
After a brief hiatus, we're diving into a bit of everything in today's episode. First, I'll share a personal life update, discussing the busy summer months, managing multiple business ventures, and the challenges that come with it. Next, we delve into the transitional stages of horsemanship, exploring the shift from traditional training methods to more science-based, rewards-focused approaches. We'll talk about the realism and effort required to change long-standing habits, both in ourselves and...
Jun 25, 2024•1 hr 13 min
Today, we're diving into a multifaceted discussion on some pressing issues in the horse world, recorded live while running errands. The focus? A tragic incident at a dressage competition where a horse died after bolting and running into a stone wall. We'll explore the underlying causes of such extreme behaviors, from training practices to environmental stressors, and why it's crucial to address them. This episode also touches on the role of the equestrian community, media, and organizations in e...
May 25, 2024•1 hr 4 min
Welcome to a poignant episode of Making Milestones where we delve into the highs and lows of life, tackling issues such as financial struggles, seasonal depression, and the pursuit of dreams. We explore the roller coaster ride of adulting, highlighting how things like unexpected repair bills and new business ventures can test one's resilience. However, amidst the tumult, we spotlight the strength of community spirit and the magic of dreaming big. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles...
May 06, 2024•42 min
Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where we uncover one of the most debated topics in the equestrian world - positive reinforcement vs negative reinforcement in horse training. We dissect these two methods, clarifying common misconceptions, and shed light on aversive pressure versus neutral pressure. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscr...
Apr 26, 2024•1 hr 17 min
Welcome to an enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where I shift focus from horse training to delve deep into the world of personal growth and spiritual awakening. Listen as I share my journey of self-discovery and transformation, shedding light on critical areas of self-awareness, ego death, and the value of authenticity. I also confront society's inherent flaws within our capitalist system and propose embracing spirituality as a reinvigorating solution. We explore the harsh r...
Mar 27, 2024•1 hr 17 min
In this compelling episode of the Making Milestones podcast, Shelby about her transformative journey from a traditional to a modern, compassionate horse trainer. This shift not only revolutionized her approach to horse training but also challenged her identity and provoked a deep internal reassessment. This episode encompasses upturns and downturns as Shelby faced disillusionment, professional obstacles, and emotional turmoil on her path to transformation. Navigating through turbulent times, she...
Mar 20, 2024•1 hr 18 min
In this eye-opening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, we delve into an often overlooked issue within the equestrian world: misogyny. Despite being a predominantly female industry, gender biases still pervade, creating an oppressive undercurrent that female riders and trainers have to navigate. We also delve into gender-related issues beyond women's experiences, acknowledging the struggles of non-binary individuals and members of the LGBTQ+ community. Support the podcast: Shop apparel and...
Mar 11, 2024•1 hr 48 min
Welcome to a captivating episode of Making Milestones podcast, where we delve deep into my personal narrative of neurodivergence. This episode presents my life's journey from being diagnosed with ADHD to embracing this newfound understanding and how it transformed my worldview and interactions, especially with horses. Support the podcast: Shop my store: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Subscribe to Patreon for Q&As, tutorials and more: http://patreon.com Check out my website / buy my book: http://...
Feb 28, 2024•1 hr 1 min
How is horse welfare impacted by patriarchy and capitalism? Listen to find out. *note* sorry about the audio on this, I used a new mic and it was not great but didn't want to re-record as I felt it was a good discussion. Order limited edition merch: https://milestone-equestrian.creator-spring.com/ Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Shop my store: http://shopmilestoneeq.com See my blog, training help, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Order my book: http://milestoneeq...
Dec 30, 2023•1 hr 10 min
Talking more about lessons I've learned in 2023 and things I want to work on in the new year. Support my work: http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca Year end / new year journal prompts: https://instituteofyou.org/year-in-review-50-powerful-questions-to-reflect/
Dec 27, 2023•1 hr 12 min
