Imagine being told all your life that love and sex is between a man and a woman and then bam! comes this person who's same sex as you with undeniable sexual and romantic attraction. What do you do? In this episode, my former student, Mirabella the Latina Russian Barbie, is here to candidly talk about her transition from dating men to dating a woman. We explore the societal perceptions on bisexuality and her struggles (and the fun part!) in embracing same-sex relationships. Then, we ended with a ...
Jun 07, 2022•47 min
Imagine having sex with a founding father, Shakespeare, or even a virtual upload of yourself! Pat Pataranutaporn is a technologist and researcher at MIT where he explores the intersection of synthetic virtual humans and synthetic biology. We had an amazing conversation about virtual relationships, virtual marriage, and virtual sex! Pat shared many interesting things happening with technology and how it can generate, enhance, inhibit, and alter sex, pleasure, and intimacy. We ended with a rapid r...
May 31, 2022•45 min
In this conversation, we enter the ring with MMA and UFC fighter Ashlee “Rebel Girl” Evans-Smith! She shares what it’s like to have a relationship as a pro athlete and the different experiences she had with them throughout the years. Ashlee touches on a troubling past and how she ultimately conquered addiction, and has put herself on a new path of wellness. She also shares with us her spicy sex life and talks about her podcast Sex and Violence. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr...
May 24, 2022•55 min
Dr. Tiffany Moon is a reality tv star from The Real Housewives of Dallas with an impressive CV. She graduated medical school at 23, where she finished in the top ten percent of her class. She is a wife and mother of two and along with being an Anesthesiologist she owns two companies! One being her candle company Aroma-sthesia. We talked about how candles enhance our sensual and intimate moments! Join us in this fun conversation between two powerful and unapologetic Asian bosses! We ended with a ...
May 17, 2022•33 min
Betrayal trauma. What is it? Ever heard of a sex fast or a sex feast? Today I am here with Ashlynn Mitchel, the host of the This is Ashlynn podcast. Listen in on this raw, informative, emotional, and eye-opening conversation. Like always, have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media: luvbites.co and subscribe to my juicy newsletter at www.luvbites.co Links: https://instagram.com/this.isashlynn https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-is-ashlynn maude ...
May 10, 2022•46 min
Let’s talk about Vulvas! Famous urologist & OBGYN, Dr. Karyn Eilber from Cedars Sinai Medical Center, is here today to talk about female sexual health, the pelvic floor, reconstruction surgeries, cosmetic labia surgery, and so much more. Join us in this fun and informative conversation. Then, we ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara '' Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media: luvbites.co and su...
May 03, 2022•44 min
Sex toys! We have seen them, owned them, loved them, and hated them but most of us don’t know the fascinating history of them. My guest, Hallie Lieberman, is a historian, journalist, and author of Buzz: A Stimulating History of the Sex Toy. Cum learn about the history of sex toys and some tantalizing stories behind them. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! Links https://www.hallielieberman.com/ Bijoux Indiscrets - Enh...
Apr 26, 2022•50 min
This episode offers sensuality exercises to maximize your sexual pleasure. Sexual empowerment and dating coach, Erica Wiederlight, is here to give us some guidance and insight. Join our conversation on her mission to help humans feel more alive, confident, embodied, and to have an epic relationship with themselves and others! We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on soci...
Apr 19, 2022•53 min
Hooked up with someone lately? What does hookup culture really mean? Dr. Aditi Paul is a researcher and professor based in New York City. She uses her interdisciplinary skills in tech and relationship science to study social media, online dating, and casual sex. Join me and my friend in our conversation on hookup culture, hook-ups, and one of my personal sex stories. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex an...
Apr 12, 2022•42 min
She went from having no sex for three and half years, to then going on a sexual road trip! My guest Layla London from CuriousGirlDiaries is here to talk about here steamy and wild sex stories. Join us in this conversation on sexual liberation and how being sexually vulnerable has helped Layla evolve to who she is today! Then, we ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara.'' Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on so...
Apr 05, 2022•48 min
What is spirituality and how can it lead to better sex? Soul sisters Janelle and Aleesha (hosts of The Permission Givers Podcast) are here to share their wisdom on taking back one’s POWER, the benefits of sensual eating, embracing your energy, exploring emotional intimacy and much more! We also talked about how spirituality and mindfulness can lead you to have better sex, body positivity, and relationships. Then, we ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...
Mar 29, 2022•52 min
Erectile dysfunction affects 30 million men in America alone! In this episode, I am chatting with the hosts of the Men’s Health Unscripted podcast, Patrick Alonso and Cameron Carrothers. They are 4th year pharmacy students who on their podcast provide education on men’s physical, mental, emotional, and sexual health. We talk about the plethora of ways erectile dysfunction (ED) is handled from stabbing your penis, using pharmaceuticals, and natural remedies backed by scientific research. We ended...
Mar 22, 2022•54 min
This is for both men and women. “Act pregnant now to get pregnant later!” Listen to this episode and you’ll know why. Today I am joined by Gabriela Rosa! renowned fertility specialist, best-selling author, Harvard university awarded scholar, founder of the Rosa institute–an organization dedicated to helping couples make healthy babies. We chat about sex and the stigmas around fertility and pregnancy, stages of ovulation, and tracking vaginal mucus. All great stuff! We ended with a rapid round of...
Mar 15, 2022•51 min
Sex clubs are not meant to be intimidating. In this episode, NSFW’s (New Society For Wellness) founder, Daniel Saynt, talks about his journey and teaches us all about sex clubs. NSFW is a members-only adult club that focuses on sex positivity and education through fun experiences and workshops. I also share my experiences with sex clubs. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follo...
Mar 08, 2022•43 min
What if understanding sexual arousal and desire can significantly improve your sex life? In this episode, Dr. Lori Brotto - one of the most celebrated sex researchers of our time, shares important and interesting findings on sexual arousal and sexual desire, their differences, why a lot of women report low sexual desire, what factors contribute to arousal, and so much more! Get ready to take some notes. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and ...
Mar 01, 2022•40 min
Consensual adults hanging out in an alluring atmosphere where pursuing pleasure is not only accepted but encouraged. In this episode, sex party host, Mr. Jon Price shares with us the details of organizing a high vibe sex party in your own home/space from start to finish. I share my experience with good and not-so-good sex parties. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on...
Feb 22, 2022•42 min
*Trigger warning* This episode dives deep into abusive behaviors. What is a toxic relationship? In this episode, Lauren Colletti, a psychology doctoral student, candidly shares her personal experience with a toxic and abusive relationship. She shares signs of toxic and abusive behaviors, and her sexual experiences in this relationship. Finally, Lauren talks about her journey getting out of that relationship. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Ta...
Feb 15, 2022•37 min
What is online sex work? OnlyFans has more than 1.5 million content creators around the world and, you bet, a lot of them are online sex workers. In this episode, Dr. Chelsea Reynolds (professor and researcher of sex and media at Cal State University Fullerton) shares with us the nitty gritty of online sex work, various struggles online sex workers go through, and different perspectives on sex work and online communities. Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! Links: https://twi...
Feb 01, 2022•38 min
We all experience sexual anxiety at some point in our lives whether we want to admit it or not. In this episode, Matt (from Culver City) candidly shares with us his poignant experience with sexual anxiety and porn addiction. I share how normal situational sexual anxiety is and it’s nothing to be ashamed about. We chat about effective ways to heal from porn addiction and how to best approach sexual anxiety before, during, and after sex. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" L...
Jan 25, 2022•32 min
Most of us have experienced burnout. How does it affect our relationship and sex life? In this episode, Dr. Nicole McNichols, a professor of sexuality at the University of Washington, shares with us all the hot topics of sexuality including: the negative effects of burnout on your sex life and your relationship, how to stimulate your sexual desire, incompatible relationships, and how and when to talk to your kids about sex. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and le...
Jan 18, 2022•33 min
Sex can be so simple yet so complicated. In this episode, Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus (a sociologist and international speaker on sex and intimacy) answers my big questions What exactly is great sex!? And what can we do to have great sex? We chat about the importance of sexual mindfulness in enhancing sexual experiences (she has an awesome book on this, see link below). I share about my method of fostering sexual desire and my sexual mindfulness study based on 5,000 participants. We ended with a rapid r...
Jan 11, 2022•45 min
Happy New Year my Luvs! Let’s start 2022 with vivid clarity on what we want. I want to help you get clear about your sex and relationship expectations whether you’re dating around or already in a relationship. In this episode, Dr. James Stein (professor of relational communication at Utah Tech University) and I talk about how our sex and relationship expectations in our 30s are so different from our 20s. We also talk about masculine energy and feminine energy in relationship and sex. I’ll have t...
Jan 04, 2022•37 min
This episode is free therapy! It’s the holiday season and a great time for deep self-reflection, which is why is episode is perfect for our end of the year sex talk. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeshana Johnson, a licensed clinical psychologist, and chat about how our culture, religion, and family creep into our bedroom. I share about how my culture influenced my sexual guilt and shame, and how I can now be sexual and religious at the same time. Dr. Jeshana, being an amazing therapist, s...
Dec 28, 2021•43 min
BDSM is becoming more popular worldwide. In this episode, Dr. Tara interviews Eva Oh, a prominent international professional dominatrix, about her life, her work, and her subs (shhh). Peek into the fascinating world of professional BDSM and power play. Finally, Eva gives us great tips on how to start power play at home! We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! Links: https://www.eva-oh.com/ For more sex and relationship re...
Dec 21, 2021•43 min
Do you carefully choose your sex toy? If not, you really should. In this episode, Isabelle, the founder of Désirable (a woman-owned and woman-designed sex toy company) talks to us about good and bad sex toys, and her inspiration in creating beautiful dildos. Since there are so many dildos in the market, Dr. Tara asks *what are the top 5 characteristics of a good dildo?* Make sure you write that down and don’t buy shitty toys! We ended with a rapid round of "Hot or Not with Dr. Tara"! Listen and ...
Dec 14, 2021•31 min
Why are some people super affectionate while others are not? In this episode, Dr. Tara interviews Dr. Kory Floyd, a prominent affection researcher who developed a well-known theory called Affection Exchange Theory, about all things affection. Dr. Floyd explains how this theory applies to all of us and how affection affects our brains and bodies. He also shares with us on how to spot fake affection, shocking results from studying twins (super interesting!), and some non-traditional ways to show a...
Dec 07, 2021•50 min
Regular masturbation is healthy. In this episode, Dr. Tara chats with Cat, a sex and pleasure educator & founder of the IG community UNGIRL, about what mindful masturbation means and how to do it for maximum pleasure! Cat talks about challenges when it comes to masturbation and why you should really try masturbating mindfully. We ended with a rapid round of "Hot or Not with Dr. Tara"! Listen and learn my luvs...Oh! and have an orgasmic day! Links: https://www.instagram.com/weareungirls/?hl=e...
Nov 30, 2021•38 min
It’s 2021, you’ve heard about open and polyamorous relationships, yet it’s still this mystical thing that is often misunderstood. It’s time to clear things up! In this episode, Lorrae Jo, a sex empowerment coach & founder of the IG community Slutty Girl Problems answers all my questions about open relationships and polyamory. Lorrae shares her experiences in initiating and navigating non-monogamy. Dr. Tara talks about her perspective on the topic. Lorrae talks about common myths of poly and ...
Nov 23, 2021•42 min
In this episode, Dr. Madeline, the coolest OB-GYN, answers sexual health questions we’re all curious to know: the most common STDs, painful sex, penis enhancement, and so much more. Dr. Tara normalizes sharing sexual health record. Dr. Madeline advises on what you should do to care for your sexual wellness and shares the one question she gets the most in the doctor’s office! We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For mor...
Nov 16, 2021•32 min
How bad can a first date be? In this episode, Megan -Dr. Tara’s bestie- shares the worst date she’s ever been on (and she flew all the way to Miami!). We dissect the situation with humor and style. We chat about different dating expectations, dating etiquettes, and how NOT to act on a first date. Dr. Tara drops some knowledge on setting expectations. We ended with a rapid round of "Hot or Not with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh! and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship re...
Nov 09, 2021•39 min
