TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, white supremacy, white fragility, sexism, racism, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. We also discuss peer reviewed studies and medical definitions. We are not doctors, but we do suggest therapy. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table — a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are a...
Dec 11, 2025•2 hr 20 min
TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, white supremacy, white fragility, sexism, racism, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. We also discuss peer reviewed studies and medical definitions. We are not doctors, but we do suggest therapy. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table — a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are a...
Nov 18, 2025•2 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 11
A note from the editor: Hey, y’all — this is The Artist Formerly Known as Trisha Cheeks. I want to start off by apologizing to the homies at WBQC for the delay in this upload. I got into my head about editing when I woke up today and said “f**k! I can edit the thing IN Substack. I am such a loon.” Anyway, this topic is right on time, apparently. We talk about ADHD and navigating the world as a neurodivergent Black woman with our neurotypical friends. Thank the Black Jesus that I already prepped ...
Oct 29, 2025•1 hr 52 min
TW: The Hotties discuss for the listeners the following: sexual content, police/state violence discussion, and the presence of explicit anecdotes. Listener discretion is advised. You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered...
Sep 17, 2025•2 hr 29 min
“If you can tell me what to do, then you can tell me what to do. But if you can’t tell me what to do… then you can’t tell me what to do.” — Jill Scott (Source: Albumism.com/Google) You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfilter...
Aug 28, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 8
You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We're not here to...
Aug 05, 2025•1 hr 40 min•Season 1Ep. 7
You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We're not here to...
Jul 22, 2025•1 hr 25 min
You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy * Romance We're not here to...
Jul 22, 2025•1 hr 38 min
Welcome back, hotties! 🤎😘 You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy...
Jun 30, 2025•1 hr 47 min
Welcome back, hotties! 🤎😘 You know the gist, but we’ll say it again: Welcome to the table—a safe, sexy, and unapologetic space where Black joy, creativity, community, and pleasure are always on the menu. The Unfriendly Black Hotties are here to educate & stimulate — and we love using our words to amplify Black voices through bold, unfiltered conversations. Here at the lunch table, we keep it flavorful, colorful, and always authentic, diving deep into: * Erotica * Kink * Love & Intimacy...
Jun 18, 2025•1 hr 48 min
Welcome to Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table , the podcast where we don’t apologize for taking up space, speaking our truth, or getting a little naughty. Let's get down to the nitty gritty before we, your favorite Black femmes with too much to say and zero time for respectability politics. Around here, we’re soft and sharp. Hot and unfriendly — depending on the day. This week, we’re reflecting on something we need more of: M-Sub and yearning. Turn us up, take your time, and maybe… keep...
Jun 04, 2025•1 hr 17 min
The stress that causes the most negative effect on Black women is chronic, or ongoing, stress. As a result, Black women’s bodies may produce more cortisol continually over time. According to research submitted in 2022 to the Women’s Health Reports “Studies have observed that Black women may be excessively burdened by physiological impacts of chronic stress caused by health disparities associated with chronic stressors, including discrimination, neighborhood stress, daily stress, family stress, a...
May 21, 2025•1 hr 43 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Welcome to The Unfriendly Black Hotties , the podcast where we don’t apologize for taking up space, speaking our truth, or getting a little nasty. Before we, your favorite Black femmes with too much to say and zero time for respectability politics, let’s get down to the nitty gritty. Around here, we’re soft and sharp. Hot and unfriendly — depending on the day. And today? We’re kicking things off with a celebration. It’s National Masturbation Month, baby! So we’re getting real about pleasure — so...
May 06, 2025•56 min