People break up with their partner for many different reasons, such as their partners not satisfying their needs, infidelity (physical, emotional, financial, etc.), changes in circumstances (e.g. moving away), etc. In these cases when you want to break up with your partner, does that mean you don't love them anymore? With such a serious question, LRJ tries to dig deep to figure out what this question means and when/if this can happen. Questions Asked - What does it mean to love someone? - Is the...
Mar 06, 2024•40 min
What is a Situationship? The term was created in Urban Dictionary in 2006 and according to the Cambridge Dictionary, a situationship is "a romantic relationship between two people who do not yet consider themselves a couple but who have more than a friendship." Meaning there is no label on the relationship with the person you are interested in and the people that are interested in you. Also you are doing all the emotional and physical parts of the relationship without the commitment of being in ...
Feb 28, 2024•32 min
You and your partner are unique individuals with distinct expectations and desires from one another. What if your partner isn't happy with you and wants you to make more money and wants you to keep improving? When your partner requests or suggests changes in your behavior or habits, it can be challenging to differentiate between their demands and genuine areas for self-improvement. LRJ delves into this subject to explore where the boundary lies. Questions Asked: - How would you handle your partn...
Feb 06, 2024•35 min
Congratulations to David on the arrival of his first baby! It goes without saying that having a baby brings sleepless nights and the challenge of figuring out how to balance raising a daughter with managing social and parenting life. LRJ has a conversation with David about his experiences before and after becoming a parent - discussing the challenges he faces and how he deals with them. Questions Asked: - How do you deal with the stress of having a child? - What are your plans for raising your d...
Jan 20, 2024•1 hr 1 min
What is the meaning of life? We've all heard this question before, and it might be the most frequently asked question in the world. However, it seems like no one has the answer. What could the meaning of life be? Is it money, career, happiness, or love? In this episode, LRJ attempts to explore what this question means to us and the personal significance we find in life. Questions asked: - How do you find the meaning? - What do you value? - Do you have to travel to find the meaning of life? - If ...
Dec 20, 2023•51 min
In this episode, one of our listeners asked LRJ for advice on their relationship. Our listener's boyfriend initiated a breakup because he believes he is unable to provide the life she desires. She wants to get married, but her boyfriend doesn't want to waste her time. LRJ aims to investigate and understand the situation, offering suggestions for our listener's next steps. Questions asked: - What is the boyfriend's level of readiness for marriage? - Is it an age issue? (31F and 29M) - Is there a ...
Dec 12, 2023•28 min
Your partner is considered your other half, but how much are you supposed to share with them? Should you share your bank account details and passwords with your partner, or should you keep your phone password hidden from your partner indefinitely? There seems to be boundaries when it comes to privacy and transparency. In this episode, LRJ attempts to find where those boundaries lie. Questions asked: - What should you share? ○ Phone password ○ Bank Account ○ Keys ○ Toothbrush Should you tell your...
Dec 03, 2023•40 min
The term "Body Count" in relationships refers to the number of people someone has slept with, and people often ask this question to other people and even their partner when they get to know them. Would you rather your partner have fewer partners in the past or more partners in the past? And is it important to know about the person's past in terms of their relationships? In this episode, we bring in Pam and her friend Phyllis to dive deep into this topic. - Questions asked: ○ What is too few and ...
Nov 25, 2023•44 min
The term "Body Count" in relationships refers to the number of people someone has slept with, and people often ask this question to other people and even their partner when they get to know them. Would you rather your partner have fewer partners in the past or more partners in the past? And is it important to know about the person's past in terms of their relationships? In this episode, we bring in Pam and her friend Phyllis to dive deep into this topic. - Questions asked: ○ What is too few and ...
Nov 16, 2023•45 min
收兵 (Sau1 Bing1) literally means "collect soldiers" and is a term used in Hong Kong to describe someone (usually a girl) who has guys doing all kinds of things in order pursue the girl in hopes of a relationship or maybe just to get in bed with her. Usually guys would buy gifts, offer rides, buy food, and even help fix devices/appliances for the girl. In this episode, we invite Kerry to discuss why and how Hong Kong girls would 收兵. - Questions asked ○ What do guys usually do when they are 兵s? ○ H...
Nov 06, 2023•38 min
Engaging in ongoing conversations with your romantic partner about finances is an endless conversation. How do you navigate everyday expenses such as rent, groceries, dining out, and travel costs? Moreover, how do you handle major financial matters such as joint bank accounts, downpayments, mortgages, and raising children? Additionally, are there alternative ways to contribute to the relationship beyond financial means? In this episode, we welcome back our special guest, Steven, to discuss this ...
Oct 30, 2023•49 min
Hong Kong and Australia are very different in terms of culture from lifestyle, work-life balance, and especially in dating. So what is it like to live and date in Hong Kong vs Australia? Is life better in Australia because work-life balance is better or is life better in Hong Kong because it is a lot easier to meet people? We talk with our guest, Tim (accountant by day, raver by night) to ask about his experiences in these two different cultures. - Questions Asked: ○ How are the dating prospects...
Oct 18, 2023•1 hr 6 min
In this thought-provoking episode, LRJ delves into a fascinating phenomenon happening in China's parks. Discover a unique tradition where parents seek potential partners for their children, driven by concerns about their future marriage prospects. Why do these parents engage in this practice? What are the reasons behind their worries about their children's ability to find a suitable spouse? Would you be comfortable if your parents took such an active role in your love life? Moreover, would you c...
Sep 28, 2023•34 min
Corporal or physical punishment is very common in Asian households by parents to discipline their children. However in Western culture, any physical pain or discomfort on the child by the parent is unheard of. In this episode, LRJ talks with Ayon, Quinson and Anson on their experiences being physically punished by their Asian parents and how they feel about their experiences afterwards. Questions Asked: - How do you feel about physical punishment as a form of discipline? - Would you beat your ow...
Sep 13, 2023•39 min
LRJ welcomes back one of our favourite guests - Eric T, to talk about his experiences dating in his 30s. Many people on the internet nowadays comment on how bad dating is at the moment. Some of the issues include, ghosting, differing commitment levels, catfishing and more. In this episode, LRJ dives deep with Eric on these topics to understand more on how dating is like in the current landscape. Questions Asked: - What is dating in your 30s like? - What is too much (too foward) when you are goin...
Sep 05, 2023•1 hr 3 min
There have been relationships that have ended because someone or both parties feel that they are "too comfortable" in the relationship. In this article by marriage.com, Rachael Pace (Expert Blogger lol) explains that being too comfortable in a relationship means feeling at ease with your partner without the desire for change or improvement. Have you ever been "too comfortable in a relationship?" LRJ dives into the article's 30 points on what might be considered "too comfortable" and what we feel...
Aug 24, 2023•52 min
In a recent SCMP article, divorce rates are increasing in Hong Kong, where 1 out of 3 people are getting divorced, and remarriages have tripled since 1991. LRJ sheds light on the shifting attitudes towards family, emphasizing the need for couples to receive necessary tools and guidance to navigate the complexities of relationships and marriage. Questions Asked: - Why are people getting divorced? - Are poor people more likely to be divorced or wealthy people? - Is getting a divorce a bad thing? O...
Aug 17, 2023•37 min
On the 29th of June 2023 the Supreme Court of the United States ruled Affirmative Action unconstitutional to end race-conscious admissions. In top universities, they have been pushing for racial diversity on campus to increase the number of African American and Hispanics, but now that number will decrease after the Supreme Court decision. LRJ goes into this topic to discuss our opinions and whether we support affirmative action or not. - Questions Asked: ○ Is affirmative action such a bad thing?...
Aug 10, 2023•34 min
Have you ever experienced a couple in Hong Kong getting a bit more intimate than you feel comfortable with in public? In this episode, LRJ dives into the strange topic of public display of affection (PDA) in Hong Kong and explore how it differs from various cultural perspectives. - Questions Asked: ○ Should any PDA be allowed? What are the limits? ○ What is the max level PDA that you would do and accept? ○ What are the differences between Western Countries and Hong Kong? - Instagram: https://www...
Aug 03, 2023•38 min
Modern era dating has become quite complicated where you have to know how to play the game. In this episode, we talk with Christina whom we have met through our friends from Dragonboat (Tina from LRJ episode 7). We talk with Christina about various topics about dating: online dating, dating preferences, ghosting, and etc. Questions Asked: - How did you get into Dragonboating? - How is it using dating apps in Sydney, Australia? - Is it a red flag to date someone with no dating experience? - Is it...
Jul 18, 2023•1 hr 34 min
When it comes to searching for a life partner, our preferences and types can vary. But how does it differ when we're seeking someone to marry? In this episode, LRJ delves into the qualities we look for in a spouse and explores the importance of non-negotiables. Join us as we navigate the intricacies of finding a lifelong partner. Questions Asked: - What criteria you have in a spouse? - What are your non-negotiables? - Is there a minimum timeframe before you get married? - Does religion matter wh...
Jul 10, 2023•56 min
Taking a break from deep diving into relationship questions, LRJ asks each other some "light-hearted" topics (some also about relationships) to get to know each other a bit more. Questions Asked: - What is your go-to break-up song? - Should you tell your partner that they’ve gained weight? - Have you ever had a crush on a cartoon character or celebrity? - Do you think "once a cheater, always a cheater"? *LRJ has been selected as one of the top 80 podcasts in Hong Kong, ranking #30. Check it out!...
Jul 05, 2023•38 min
Going through a heartbreak or break-up is a universal experience, and everyone copes with it differently. In this podcast, LRJ explores their personal journey of healing from break-ups, sharing what strategies worked and what didn't. Join LRJ as they delve into the various ways people navigate through heartbreak, offering insights and valuable lessons along the way. Questions asked: - What are the common ways people get over their exes? - What is the worst part of going through a break-up? - Wou...
Jun 23, 2023•40 min
Many people long to hear the three special words "I love you" from their loved ones, especially those they are romantically involved with. In this episode, LRJ discusses the significance and timing of expressing love. Questions asked: - When do you say "I love you"? - Is there a difference between "I love you" and "love you"? - Does saying "I love you" so often lower the value behind it? - Is there such thing as too soon to say "I love you"? - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lrjpodcastandch...
Jun 12, 2023•36 min
LRJ is taking a break from the relationship topics to talk about the benefits and risks of using saunas and steam rooms. Jon and Ryan dive deeper into the topic to share their experiences and thoughts on heat exposure therapy and why they do it. Questions asked: - Where did saunas originate from - Why do we feel good after using the sauna - Benefits of using saunas - Dangers of using saunas - Who shouldn't use saunas - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lrjpodcastandchill/ - Email: lrjpodcasta...
May 31, 2023•18 min
In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, LRJ explores how mental health issues impact relationships and how it can influence communication patterns, intimacy, and overall relationship well-being. Questions asked: - How would you feel if you dated someone with a mental illness? - How would you deal with your partner if they developed a mental illness? - Would you stay with your partner if it affects your own mental health? - What are some common causes for bad mental health? References: https:/...
May 26, 2023•53 min
There's always societal pressure for people to get married, whether it's from your family, friends, and/or strangers. But nowadays it seems as if the sentiment towards marriage has changed and people start to question it. So why do people want to get married? How do you know this person is even the one you want to spend the rest of your life with? And how do you communicate with your other half on where to put the sponge? As David Thuan has been married for 4 years now, LRJ discusses with him on...
May 15, 2023•57 min
Breaking up with someone is always a difficult conversation to have, but how do you know when to break up with someone? Is it still possible to save the relationship even when you feel like you should break up? How much effort should you put into the relationship before you call it quits? And if you do end up breaking up with someone, how would you do it? References from the episode: Predicting marital stability and divorce in newlywed couples - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10740681/ - Instag...
May 08, 2023•38 min
Social media is part of everyone's lives and everyone knows the negative effects it has on people's lives, but what role does it have in a relationship? Does it only create envy/jealousy and promote stalking? Or is it a good way to know more about your love interest or officially establish a relationship? LRJ looks to answer these questions and we also did some research! References from the episode: : From #RelationshipGoals to #Heartbreak – We use Instagram differently in various romantic relat...
May 01, 2023•38 min
Leslie just got back from her trip to Paris and she was left traumatized. From getting followed in the metro to living in the sketchiest place in Paris, Leslie shares her experience of visiting the "most romantic city in the world" for the first time. - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lrjpodcastandchill/ - Email: lrjpodcastandchill@gmail.com - Youtube: LRJ Podcast & Chill
Apr 23, 2023•40 min
