Lowered Expectations

Dom alpha beta - BCD 43

Bubby has a new play partner and is in need of some advice.

Rethinking Marriage - BCD 42

We're getting married, but in our own way.

Rituals & Routines - BCD 41

Restarting an active D/s relationship means figuring out what works and what doesn't. So, we did.

Comprehending Submission - BCD 40

Now that everything isn't all doom and gloom, we've found some time to get back into an active kink life. Things got off the rails, but we got to a great destination regardless.

Dominant Vulnerability - BCD 39

As a Dom, remembering to stay open is important. Even the ones in charge need to feel loved.

A kick in the ass - BCD 38

Sometimes you need to give your partner a kick in the ass. For me and Bubby that time has come.

Emotional Politics in Polyamory - BCD 37

A partner Bubby and I share recently came back into our lives and it sparks an important discussion.

Love & Grumpiness - BCD 36

Everything sucks. Support LTASEX: Patreon.com/keepitsexy Follow: LTASEX.tumblr.com @NotJeromeStuart @LTASEXBlog

Checking In - BCD 35

It's important to check in with each other.

Seen, Heard, Understood and Valued with Devi Ward - BCD 34

This week, I'm joined by a new friend of mine Devi Ward. You may know her from Sex is Medicine, her podcast on using sex as a tool to heal your soul. In this episode, we go deep into talking about what the soul needs to be satisfied. The answer may surprise you. Hint: It doesn't come from a store. Support LTASEX and Behind Closed Doors: Patreon.com/KeepItSexy Host: Jerome Stuart Nichols Guest: Devi Ward medicinesex.com...

Love through vanishing vulvas with Alicia Beth - BCD 33

This week, I'm joined by Alicia Beth HIV, sex educator and former host of Raw Sex Radio. In this episode, the bulk of our chat focuses on lichen sclerosis, an autoimmune disease that attacks the genital tissue. We also venture into dating with this disease and similar ones that affect one's sexuality physically, as well as tips for partners of those affected. Support Behind Closed Doors: Patreon.com/KeepItSexy Host: Jerome Stuart Nichols Twitter & Instagram: @NotJeromeStuart Guest: Alicia Be...

Make me over, please - BCD 32

Exploring body image, confidence and why it's ok to feel "meh" about your partner. Bubby and I love each other and have great sex. Yet, I'm ambivalent about his looks overall. We explore what this means for us and in general. Support LTASEX: patreon.com/keepitsexy Guest: Bubby Nichols

Accepting pleasure with Garland Jarmon - BCD 31

Support LTASEX on www.Patreon.com/keepitsexy Pleasure is a tricky bitch. In this episode of Behind Closed Doors, we explore what it means to give and receive pleasure. Our guest, Garland Jarmon of Spiritual Eros shares his expertise on the topic and even helps me learn to open myself to the joy. Host: Jerome Stuart Nichols Guest: Garland Jarmon - SpiritualEros.com...

How to handle a mental health crisis - BCD 30

Support LTASEX on www.Patreon.com/keepitsexy Bubby was recently hospitalized after a suicide attempt and a major freakout. Dealing with that has been more stressful than I imagined it would be. Here's how we worked our way through it. Host: Jerome Stuart Nichols Guest: Bubby Nichols

Devotion, commitment and service - BCD 29

Support LTASEX and Behind Closed Doors - http://www.Patreon.com/KeepItSexy This episode marks a turning point for Behind Closed Doors. I address this in the intro then we transition in to discussing what it means to sacrifice for your partner, remembering to enjoy the good times and what mature love really feels like. Guest: Bubby Nichols Produced by: Jerome Stuart Nichols

Dealing with poly drama - BCD 28

Even when poly relationships start off smoothly, they can get off course quickly. Bubby's new partner is already causing trouble, so we talk about what to do.

The joys of new poly partners - BCD 27

I'm always happy to welcome new lovers to the family. Bubby recently got a new partner and it's going pretty well.

No more drama - BCD 26

Once the storm is over, it's important to get back to normal. Having fun is super important to maintaining long, strong relations.

Is this true love? - BCD 25

Life with Bubby and his borderline personality disorder is often very tough. Even still, our relationship is strong and devoted, even if we forget sometimes.

Dom sub emotional therapy - BCD 24

Now that things are settling back into a rhythm within my relationship, we're taking some time to really get those lingering feelings out.

Softer Side of Sadism with Mistress Morgana Maye - BCD 23

This week, Mistress Morgana Maye stops by to discuss the lesser known, softer side of sadism. It's not all whips and restraints.

What do you want from a submissive? - BCD 22

Fatherhood, Diversity and New Perspectives with John Pressick - BCD 21

Exploring depression, anxiety and mind fuzziness - BCD #20

The truth about anxiety, depression and related problems is they're way more complex than people know. This will help you understand how that all works for us and how you can help yourself.

Depressingly Aroused with Miko Technogeisha - Behind Closed Doors #19

This week, Miko Technogeisha guests to talk about depression, passion, self awareness and arousal while in the depths of despair. Get more from Miko: Here are all my links. www.technogeisha.com www.lifeontheswingset.com @Technogeisha http://www.facebook.com/miko.technogeisha Can also like me on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/Technogeisha miko@technogeisha.com Can also find me on Fetlife at Technogeisha and on G+ as Miko Technogeisha...

How to give less fucks - Behind Closed Doors #18

After a long, drawn out period of stress and fighting, me and Bubby are settling back in to the calm, no fucks given lifestyle I prefer. Here's how we're doing it.

What being a sadist, Dom & owner is really like - Behind Closed Doors #17

BDSM practitioner, writer and awesome lady Jaki Griot stops by to chat about the realities of owning a chubby submissive, the joy of sadism and other incredibly kinky topics. Pervertsofcolor.tumblr.com Leatherlibrary.org Jakigriot on Fetlife.com

Behind Closed Doors #16 - Restarting Dom Sub

After a gigantic blow out, things are peaceful between us. So, we took the time to set the new rules of our restarting D/s relationship.

Behind Closed Doors #15 - Frustration

I am frustrated ... again. This is perhaps the most raw I've ever been. It's a very raw ep but it's very honest as well.

Behind Closed Doors #14 - He Resents Me

After a visit with his therapist, it has become clear that Bubby resents me. Ugh. Of course he does.