Recognize why your growth might be tied to your relationship

Recognize  Reasons Your Relationship Might Be Holding You Back

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Manifesting seven reasons your relationship might be holding you back. If you've ever felt like your relationship isn't helping you grow, or worse, like it might be actually holding you back, you are not alone. So today we are exposing some of the truths about couples that they might not even realize about their relationship. And we'll be right back after this.

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Welcome to Loving Beyond the I Do podcast. This power couple is building stronger marriages one day at a time, talking about real issues on love, relationships, and marriage longevity. Let's break down the barriers and engage in healthy conversation with your hosts, Jason and Tina Marie.

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Hey, hey, hey. Welcome to the show. All right, welcome, everybody. Welcome to another Friday. Yes. Welcome to another episode of Loving Beyond the I Do podcast. We are Jason and Tina Marie. That's me. And we are here to inspire and empower individuals with actionable strategies and insights for developing meaningful and fulfilling relationships using universal principles, effective communication, and mindset shifts.

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So, um, going to the root of why, getting to the why, the bottom of why. Why am I like this? Why do I feel fearful? And, um, in that relationship, it was a lot that happened. Distrust, disloyalty. And so a lot of that led to disrespect.

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So, um, we know that, like you said, most of it is fear, right? So now fear is the number one killer of progress. Yep. And if you are staying in a relationship out of fear, whether it's a fear of being alone, fear of failure, or the fear of the unknown, you're holding yourself back.

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So, yes, so excited to get into this. So how many struggle to open up with their partner, whether it's about your fears, your dreams, or whether it's just about what you want to do in life? Past wounds we hold back because we think that we're going to be judged or rejected.

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So we were definitely united in that. Um, but. And it's funny because at the time, at the point of divorce, um, when we had to write out because we ended up doing pro se. Pro. You know, we did it ourselves. When we wrote out what it is we wanted in the divorce, the non-negotiables became very clear.

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So now we're going to get into reason number four. All right. All right. Avoiding necessary change and growth associated with the law of correspondence. Right. All, uh, right, so let's get into the law of correspondence, which teaches us that the patterns we see in our external relationships mirror the patterns in our internal world.

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So trust me, we are just getting started. If you like those, tune in. That's right. What we covered today is only the beginning. In fact, the next three reasons we're revealing in the next episode. You guys better tune in next week.

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