Recognize why your growth might be tied to your relationship Pt. 2

**Episode Title:** Seven Reasons Why Your Relationship Might Be Holding You Back - Part 2

**Hosts:** Jason and Tina Marie

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**\[00:33:15\]**\
Tina: Unresolved past traumas, which is associated with the law of attraction. Again, you may say the law of attraction. What are you talking about? Past traumas in the law of attraction, Baby, we got some learning to do. So this is another tough one. But it is so important to talk about when we're talking about past traumas. A lot of people don't want to talk about them or we don't want to face them, but they're in our relationships whether we know about it or not.

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Jason: Yes, yes, yes. Because trauma, whether past relationships, childhood, or other experiences, they don't just disappear. It follows you into your current relationship.

**\[00:34:02\]**\
Tina: That's right. Shaping how you interact, how you communicate, how you love, or how you don't love.

**\[00:34:06\]**\
Jason: Absolutely. So I am going to share with this with you how this aligns with the law of attraction. Because what you hold on to internally manifests externally in your relationship. Did y'all get that? What you got inside comes out. So if past traumas are unresolved, they will continue to shape the dynamics of your relationship, which often leads to you repeating the negative patterns.

**\[00:34:37\]**\
Tina: Right. The negative patterns of what the trauma brought to you because they haven't been resolved. So the law of attraction teaches that like attracts like but if you're carrying unresolved trauma, the energy of those unresolved issues will attract more of the same energy in your relationship.

**\[00:35:09\]**\
Jason: So however, by healing past wounds, you start to attract more healing energy leading to healthier dynamics and a better relationship with your partner and with yourself.

**\[00:35:27\]**\
Tina: This law helps you see how your energy field impacts your whole relationship and emphasizes the importance of healing to manifest a higher quality connection with yourself and your partner.

**\[01:13:36\]**\
Tina: So start replacing old narratives of pain and put in new beliefs of love, healing, and trust, just as Lisa did. You can do that through affirmations, visualizations, intentional mindset shifts, or replace old narratives.

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Lisa: Part of my own therapy was writing poetry. And that evolved into spoken word poetry. I found that I was mostly writing about the trauma, the healing of the trauma, and becoming the confident person that I could see myself becoming.

**\[01:22:50\]**\
Jason: And guess what, guys? For people who have the book and you really do some real work, you can get the downloadable workbook, Manifesto Joy Field Relationship Workbook. You can get that from our website and explore these principles as we talked about.

**\[01:23:10\]**\
Tina: Make this year the year of inspired action. Go say yes to your dreams and your relationship goals. Until next time, remember, love is a choice. Yes. And you deserve the choice of a joy-filled relationship.

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