Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards). NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate superpower. Get ready to change your dating game and waste less time as you find the love you deserve. Originally Aired: Aug. 13, 2023 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategi...
That "hey" text from your ex just popped up – now what? We're tackling the tricky return of the "zombie ex," helping you decode their motivations and navigate your own mixed emotions. Before you fall back into old patterns, learn our strategic approach and the crucial questions you need to answer to decide if this blast from the past deserves a second chance, or a firm block. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategi...
Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love. And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leave you wondering if love is even worth it. The truth? It is, but only if you're protecting your time and heart. Let’s dive into five ways to quickly tell if a man is worth your energy… or if it’s time to say that magical four-letter word: NEXT. NEXT STEP: Book a c...
In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb , we’re diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic, and the secret power of being still. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracting the love you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.” Let’s break them down—and show you how to tap into the emotional blueprint that makes a man fall deeply (and lastingly) in love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/...
In this spicy episode, we’re joined by Love Strategies’ very own Macy Matarazzo—Senior Love Advisor and resident truth-teller—to unpack why so many women find themselves drawn to criminals, bad boys, and rule breakers. From dreamy mugshots to emotional mayhem, we explore the surprising psychology behind “bad boy” attraction and what it might reveal about your own dating patterns. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestra...
Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fantasy, and discover how to find genuine connection instead. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
In this video, I’ll uncover the hidden “mind viruses” that could be sabotaging your chances at real connection. These are common, contagious beliefs that quietly sabotage your dating life—without you even realizing it. And the worst part? They often sound like empowerment… but end up closing you off to the very thing you want most: real, lasting love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (and why that’s a very good thing). A Gift From Me (On My Birthday): To help you get there, I created a free training just for women over 40+: 👉 LonelyToLove.com Inside, I walk you through the step-by-step process for getting clear, aligned, and ready to attract rea...
Tired of swiping left based on political affiliation? We're diving into the surprisingly complex world of dating across the aisle, challenging the notion that red and blue can't find common ground. Forget the simple advice – we'll equip you with a strategic mindset to navigate differing views and discover if love can truly conquer political divides. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can't seem to make a connection with someone new? It's a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a charming first date, and have men begging for that second date, and many more. Many people believe that charm is something you either have or don't have, but that's not true. Charm can be learned and developed, just like any other skill. With a little bit of ...
Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication to captivate the right guy. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Have you ever gone on a first date, clicked with someone, and started planning your future together before you even finished dessert? If so, you're not alone. Many women overinvest in a man before seeing if he's worth it. Unfortunately, this can lead to heartbreak and disappointment when things don't work out. However, there are ways to break this cycle and find lasting love. Originally Aired: Apr. 24, 2023 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love th...
Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from being misled in the confusing world of modern romance. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
He’s not giving you what you need in the relationship and it’s time for some “feedback”. Should you try and fix him or just it go? In today’s podcast, we discuss the one thing you should NEVER do in a relationship. Originally Aired: Mar. 24, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Tired of the emotional rollercoaster and predictable heartbreak that comes with dating "bad boys"? This week, we're diving deep into why this pattern persists and, more importantly, how to break free for good. Discover the surprising psychological factors at play and gain actionable strategies to finally attract the healthy, fulfilling relationship you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
Society will tell you that men only want to date younger women. But our experience, having coached over 44,000 women on how to find love, is that this is NOT true. In fact, here are 10 reasons why men love older women. Originally Aired: May. 06, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your dating life? This episode reveals the surprisingly common mistakes people make that actively push potential partners away. Learn the key behaviors that lead to loneliness and how to avoid these self-defeating patterns to finally find the fulfilling relationship you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
The path to acquiring dating skills can often be a slow and painful process filled with missteps, and lessons learned the hard way. But what if you could accelerate this process? Here are 7 Psychological Skills Every Successful Dater Needs Originally Aired: May 19, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
Tired of dating guesswork? Learn the five must-ask questions that cut through the small talk and reveal a man's true self, fast! Stop wasting time on dead ends and start gaining real insights into his values, relationship style, and future aspirations. This episode unveils the secrets to smart dating, empowering you to find the right connection sooner. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
In today's dating landscape, mastering the art of texting is essential. Like flirting, which we've covered in previous podcasts, "Love Texting" is a skill anyone can learn and perfect. Originally Aired: Jun. 02, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Sick of dating advice that coddles you? We're cutting through the fluff with the brutal truths you've been avoiding. Prepare for a no-holds-barred conversation about your dating habits and why you're stuck. If you're ready for real change, this episode is your wake-up call. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
It's time to stop wasting time with the wrong men. Here's the three major signs you're wasting time, and the exact step by step strategy to avoid it moving forward. Originally Aired: May. 03, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Want to know if your date is really a good person? Words are cheap, actions reveal everything. We're showing you how to observe behavior, not just listen to promises, to truly understand a potential partner. Learn how simple things like the “Phone Test,” “Daily Dinner Test,” and the “Coin Flip Test” help you figure discover lasting love NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session...
When capturing a man's attention, the usual compliments like "You're so handsome" or "You're funny" often fall flat. They're overly familiar and can feel insincere because they could be said to just about anyone. To truly stand out and make an impact, it's crucial to delve deeper. Here's a guide to giving compliments that not only catch his attention but also touch his heart. Originally Aired: May 10, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love thi...
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life? We're flipping the script on red flags and asking: what if you're the problem? Discover the 7 hidden habits that might be sending good guys running, and learn how to transform them for lasting love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
Beyond butterflies and fireworks, what truly makes a relationship thrive? We're diving deep into the often-overlooked power of emotional protection. Join us to learn what it means, why it matters, and how to cultivate it in your own love life. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
