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Love Lives

The Independentwww.independent.co.uk

Love comes in many shapes and forms. People, objects, places, animals, music, and even moments are all capable of sparking those magical feelings within us. In this new video podcast from The Independent, we’ll be speaking to guests about the different loves of their lives, the stories behind them and what that love has taught them about themselves and their place in the world. Because all of us are capable of loving something – and deep down, it’s the things we choose to love, and how we love them, that often reveal the most about who we are. Welcome to Love Lives with Olivia Petter.

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Episodes

Dr Hazel Wallace busts myths around the clitoris, female masturbation, and the ‘orgasm gap’

We’re back with another episode of Millennial Love where this week, we’re joined by registered nutritionist, best-selling author, and founder of ‘The Food Medic’ podcast, Dr Hazel Wallace. We chat with Hazel about the taboos around women’s health, the ‘orgasm gap’, and how better sex can lead to better sleep. She also reveals which foods to eat and which to avoid during your period, how diet can ease symptoms of PMS, and why it can be so hard to diagnose endometriosis. Hazel’s book, The Female F...

Jul 07, 202232 minSeason 4Ep. 63

Love Island’s Yewande Biala discusses ‘racialised renaming’ and dating as a Black woman

This week, we are joined by author and ex-Love Islander Yewande Biala. We chat with her about racialised renaming and the microaggression she faces every time someone can’t—or indeed won’t—correctly pronounce her name. Yewnade also opens up about her time on Love Island, the difficulties of being the only Black woman in the villa, and why she doesn’t watch the show now. Yewande’s debut book, Reclaiming: Essays on Finding Yourself One Piece at a Time is available for pre-order now. Check out Mill...

Jun 30, 202230 minSeason 4Ep. 62

Writer Salma El-Wardany discusses the importence of female friendship

This week, we’re joined by writer and presenter Salma El-Wardany to discuss her debut novel, These Impossible Things . Salma chats with Olivia Petter about celebrating female friendship, writing Muslim women into popular culture, and why she’ll never post about her relationship status on social media. The two also discuss why we should include men in the conversation around misogynistic abuse, and dismantle the idea that “nice guys finish last”. Check out Millennial Love on all major podcast pla...

Jun 23, 202236 minSeason 4Ep. 61

Intimacy coordinator Ita O’Brien on how to choreograph the perfect sex scene

This week, we chat with intimacy coordinator and movement director Ita O’Brien. Ita is one of the most in-demand people working in the field, and specialises in developing the best practice for sexual and intimate scenes on screen. She’s worked on Normal People, Sex Education and I May Destroy You, to name but a few. Ita and Olivia discuss the role of intimacy coordinators, how they work with actors to help make them feel comfortable on set and why in the past, sex scenes have been ripe for abus...

Jun 17, 202248 minSeason 4Ep. 60

Roxie Nafousi on manifesting the relationship you deserve

This week, we’re joined by Roxie Nafousi, a self-development coach, manifesting expert and author of the Sunday Times bestselling book: Manifesting: 7 steps to living your best life. She describes how manifesting actually works and why practicing it could transform your romantic life. Roxie also opens up about her own journey to manifesting, revealing how she overcame addictions and bad habits to find inner peace and unconditional love with her son, Wolfe. (LINK) Check out Millennial Love on all...

Jun 09, 202231 minSeason 4Ep. 59

Carrie Hope Fletcher on loneliness, fantasy, and leaving long-term relationships

This week, we speak to Carrie Hope Fletcher, an award-winning West End star, YouTuber, and bestselling author. Carrie discusses her latest book, With This Kiss. She spoke about the process of writing romance novels, where she gets her inspiration from, and what drew her to write about a woman whose kiss gives her the ability to see how someone is going to die. She also opened up about breaking up from a long-term partner. (LINK) Check out Millennial Love on all major podcast platforms and Indepe...

Jun 02, 202241 minSeason 4Ep. 58

Lalalaletmeexplain on abusive relationships and toxic femininity

This week, we speak to Lalalaletmeexplain, the bestselling anonymous author and relationships educator with more than 200,000 followers on Instagram. Lala posts about all sorts of subjects on her account, from abusive relationships and cyberflashing to f*** boys and coercive control. On the show, Lala talks about how she started the account, her former role as a social worker, and delves into some of the issues she explores. Check out Millennial Love on all major podcast platforms and Independen...

May 26, 202246 minSeason 4Ep. 57

Sophia Smith Galer on sex myths, virginity and virility

This week, we’re joined by Sophia Smith Galer, a multi-award winning reporter, TikTok creator and now author. Her TikTok videos have garnered more than 75 million views. She discussed her debut book, Losing It: Sex Education for the 21st Century , which is all about busting the myths about sex we were taught at school. From virginity and virility to consent and porn, the subjects covered in this chat are wide-ranging. This episode was recorded during a live event held at Waterstones Gower Street...

May 19, 202242 minSeason 4Ep. 56

Laura Bates on how misogyny is damaging our relationships

This week, we’re joined by Laura Bates. She is the founder of the Everyday Sexism project and bestselling author of several books about violence against women, including her latest: Fix the System Not the Wome n. In this episode, Laura joins Olivia to discuss how systemic misogyny affects women’s relationships, why we need to keep talking about sexual violence in schools and beyond, and what men can do to help. https://www.independent.co.uk/tv/lifestyle/laura-bates-misogyny-relationships-rape-b2...

May 12, 202246 minSeason 4Ep. 55

Raven Smith on masculinity, fake orgasms, and #MeToo

This week, we've invited back Vogue columnist and author Raven Smith for his latest searing hot takes on life and love. Raven chats about his latest book, Raven Smith’s Men , and some of the issues it examines, like toxic masculinity, keeping the spark alive in long-term relationships, why men fake orgasms, and consent. https://www.independent.co.uk/tv/lifestyle/orgasm-toxic-masculinity-raven-smith-men-b2072905.html Check out the Millennial Love podcast on all major platforms and Independent TV,...

May 05, 202246 minSeason 4Ep. 54

Dr Michaela Dunbar on transforming your love life with the help of psychology

Millennial Love is back! Season four sees Olivia Petter delving even deeper into discussions around love, dating and relationships. And now you can watch as well as listen on Independent TV and @Millennial_Love on Instagram and TikTok. https://www.independent.co.uk/tv/lifestyle/millennial-love-dr-michaela-podcast-b2068241.html For our first episode of the season, we’re joined by clinical psychologist Dr Michaela Dunbar, the founder of My Easy Therapy and author of You’ve Got This: Seven Steps to...

Apr 28, 202246 minSeason 4Ep. 53

A conversation with the women in The Tinder Swindler

This week, we have a special bonus episode featuring a conversation with the women of The Tinder Swindler. The new Netflix documentary tells the story of a notorious conman who allegedly used the Tinder dating app to live a life of luxury while defrauding women across Europe. In this episode, Olivia speaks to the film’s director, Felicity Morris, producer, Bernie Higgins, and its stars: Cecilia Fjellhøy and Pernilla Sjoholm. They discuss how the film came to be, what it was like for the women to...

Feb 08, 202246 minSeason 3Ep. 52

Emily Ratajkowski on sexual violence, feminism, and learning to say 'no'

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week Olivia speaks to model, actor and writer, Emily Ratajkowski. The two discuss the relationship with your body, self-worth through the male gaze, and what it means to be a commodifiable asset - and the nuances that surround being exploited by that asset while capitalising on it. Emily gives an honest and raw insight into the sexual assault she experienced throughout her life, personally and professi...

Nov 11, 202143 minSeason 3Ep. 51

Turning your dating disasters into comedy, with Diana Vickers and Chiara Hunter

This week we’re joined by the dynamic duo that is actor and musician Diana Vickers and singer-songwriter Chiara Hunter. Together, they are Ki and Dee, a hilarious comedy duo making light of the trials and tribulations of millennial life, covering everything from fears around turning 30, friendship, and of course, dating. Today, they join me to discuss the inspiration behind their hilarious viral videos. We talk about some of their dating disasters, the agony of heartbreak, and why some breakups ...

Nov 05, 202136 minSeason 3Ep. 50

Toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, and attachment types, with Toni Tone

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week we’re joined by author and writer Toni Tone to discuss her new book: I Wish I Knew This Earlier: Lessons On Love, which focuses on all the things Toni wishes she knew about relationships in her 20s. In this episode we talk about the importance of looking for green flags when you start dating someone, the difference between compromise and settling, and what narcissistic abuse actually means. We als...

Oct 22, 202140 minSeason 3Ep. 49

Sex Education’s George Robinson on playing Isaac, ableism and intimacy co-ordinators

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia speaks to actor George Robinson, who is best known for playing Isaac in Netflix’s hit series Sex Education. The two discuss how George helped to shape the role of Isaac, what it was like working with an intimacy coordinator for his scenes with Maeve (played by Emma Mackey) and what some of the myths and misconceptions are when it comes to sex and relationships and people with disabilities....

Oct 08, 202138 minSeason 3Ep. 48

Join Millennial Love LIVE on Wednesday!

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove Olivia will be hosting a live Millennial Love event on Wednesday - and there's still time for you to join! You'll get to hear from author of Alonement, and former Millennial Love guest, Francesca Specter, The Vida Consultancy's Director of Relationship Psychology Services Dr Madeleine Mason Roantree and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. The discussion, held on Zoom, will look at the chang...

Sep 26, 202151 secSeason 3Ep. 47

Having an eco-friendly love life, with Aja Barber

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia speaks to writer Aja Barber. The two discuss the fascinating links between sustainability and romance, looking at all the surprising ways with which consumption affects the way we behave and think in relationships. Touching on everything from wedding dress shopping and first date outfits to gender binaries and consumer identities, the episode is as wide-ranging as it is interrogating. They...

Sep 24, 202141 minSeason 3Ep. 46

Being single, fabulous and living life on your own terms, with Paris Lees

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia speaks to writer Paris Lees. The two discuss the joys of being single, how Paris found herself experimenting with the idea of celibacy, and why we fetishise authenticity so much in relationships. They also talk about transphobia in the dating world and Paris’s new book, What It Feels Like For A Girl, and how it felt for Paris to revisit her childhood. Finally, they discuss the perils of so...

Sep 10, 202142 minSeason 3Ep. 45

What’s the difference between a Soft Boy and a F*** Boy? With Maisie Peters

This week, Olivia speaks to musician Maisie Peters. The two discuss the crucial differences between Soft Boys and F*** Boys, how to reclaim the power in relationships, the nuances of writing songs about your love life, and why she’ll never explain who a song is ‘about’. You can download Maisie’s new album here: https://lnk.to/YSUFT Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove . Hosted on Acas...

Aug 27, 202129 minSeason 3Ep. 44

Shame and sexuality, with Will Young

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia speaks to Will Young. The two discuss the shame we attach to sexuality and how Will was encouraged to keep his own sexuality a secret when he entered into the public eye as a Pop Idol contestant in 2001. They also discuss the positives and negatives of labelling one’s sexuality, and what the music industry can do to become more inclusive of those in the LGBT+ community and adapt contempora...

Aug 13, 202141 minSeason 3Ep. 43

Interracial relationships, narcissistic men and Love Island, with Candice Brathwaite

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia speaks to Candice Brathwaite. Candice is the bestselling author and journalist, whose debut book, I Am Not Your Baby Mother, about being a black British mother, was a roaring success. She joins Olivia to discuss her second book, Sista Sister, a collection of essays about the things Candice wishes she knew when she was growing up, covering everything from family and friendships to money and...

Jul 30, 202142 minSeason 3Ep. 42

The pain and pleasure of crushing on someone for over a decade, with Natasha Lunn

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia speaks to author and journalist Natasha Lunn. Natasha runs the popular newsletter called Conversations on Love, for which she interviews authors, celebrities and a wide range of experts all about love, dating and relationships. We discuss her new book of the same name, which features interviews with the likes of Roxane Gay, Alain du Boton, Esther Perel and more. Given that our books came o...

Jul 16, 202156 minSeason 3Ep. 41

Abusive relationships, love-bombing, and female sexuality, with Charli Howard

This week, Olivia speaks to model, author and entrepreneur Charli Howard. Charli is known for her body neutrality advocacy on Instagram and beyond, having written about the pressures she faced as a young model in her debut book, Misfit, in which she describes how she was dropped from her modelling agency for being “too big”. Today, she joins me to talk about why body confidence and self worth is so integral to finding success in love, why women posting pictures of their bodies on social media is...

Jul 02, 202143 minSeason 3Ep. 40

Bonus episode: An exclusive extract from the Millennial Love book

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This is a very special episode of Millennial Love. Regular listeners might notice that we're outside of our usual schedule – that's because instead of a normal show this week, we're releasing an extract from the Millennial Love audiobook, which is being released on 8th July along with the written book. For those who might not know, the Millennial Love book is about examining the contemporary dating landscap...

Jun 25, 202136 minSeason 3Ep. 39

Why we all need to stop people-pleasing in relationships, with Emma Reed Turrell and Michelle Elman

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia speaks to psychotherapist Emma Reed Turrell and life coach Michelle Elman about the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, and why people-pleasing can hinder our success at finding love. They also discuss how people-pleasing can harm our sex lives, too, and why it’s necessary to set boundaries with a partner in bed. Michelle offers her tips on boundary setting at the start of a...

Jun 18, 202139 minSeason 3Ep. 37

Playing it straight in the fashion industry and beyond, with Jack Guinness

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia is joined by model, writer and broadcaster Jack Guinness. Jack is the founder of The Queer Bible, a LGBT+ website he launched in 2017 that has now become a book of the same name. Packed with essays written by a range of LGBT+ icons, including Sir Elton John, The Queer Bible is a celebration of the works and lives of the global queer community. In this episode, Jack and Olivia discuss the b...

Jun 04, 202143 minSeason 3Ep. 36

Maybe it’s time we stopped believing in fairytale romance, with Niomi Smart

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia is joined by Niomi Smart. Niomi is a hugely popular lifestyle YouTuber and the founder of Smart Skin, a vegan and cruelty-free beauty brand. They discuss how beauty regimes can boost your confidence, what self-love actually means, and how much of your relationship you should share on social media. The bulk of this episode, though, is about a big breakup Niomi went through last summer. She ...

May 21, 20211 hr 1 minSeason 3Ep. 35

Romantic fiction, cheating and heartbreak, with Georgia Toffolo

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia is joined by Georgia Toffolo. The reality TV star-turned-author has just released the latest instalment in her series of romantic novels, Meet me in Hawaii. Georgia, or ‘Toff’, as she’s known,s poke all about what drew her to writing about romance and how much of what she writes is drawn from her own experiences. The pair also talk about heartbreak in addition to how Toff has navigated dat...

May 07, 202145 minSeason 1Ep. 34

How being a Jehovah’s Witness shapes your views on sex and dating, with Jodie Chapman

Support Millennial Love with a donation today: https://supporter.acast.com/millenniallove This week, Olivia is joined by author Jodie Chapman to discuss how being a Jehovah’s Witness shapes your views on sex and dating. Jodie has just published her first book, a novel called Another Life, which tells the story of Nick and Anna, who meet when they’re young one summer and working at the same cinema. Nick and Anna come from two very different backgrounds, as we soon discover, with Anna having been ...

Apr 23, 202151 minSeason 3Ep. 33
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