We’ve all experienced this relentless form of self-torture . . . Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself looking back and wondering how things could’ve turned out had you acted differently. Had you known then what you know today. Pretty soon, you’re living in the timeline where you didn’t “ruin everything” with that person . . . ultimately punishing yourself over a parallel universe you’ve created in your mind. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I answer the que...
Mar 03, 2023•18 min
We asked you what your biggest fears for the future were, and you answered! No matter how confident we feel, we all have worries about what lies ahead. The future is unknown. And many of us can’t help but occasionally let our biggest anxieties and worries about where our life is going get the better of us. It could be about your career, your relationships, or anything that keeps you up at night. In this new episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about what it takes to either overcome t...
Mar 01, 2023•1 hr
Listening to our gut when something’s off can save us a lot of time and stress when we’re dating . . . but what if we can’t tell the difference between when our gut is warning us and when our anxiety is trying to sabotage us? What if the red flags we think we’re seeing are actually our fears in disguise? If you have a tendency toward anxiety, this second-guessing can make the early days of dating extra stressful, because you may have a hard time separating an important concern from your ever-vig...
Feb 27, 2023•13 min
I don’t like it when I hear people say, “You need to be happy first before you find a relationship.” It’s not that the sentiment is a bad one, but saying to someone who is facing challenges in life that they need to be happy before they can be with someone seems highly unproductive to me. As if it’s not hard enough being alone when we want to find a partner . . . we now also have to achieve this elusive feeling of happiness before we do?! I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to be happy befo...
Feb 24, 2023•5 min
Today we have a special guest: “accidental” entrepreneur and online marketing expert Amy Porterfield! Matt and Amy discuss: How to lead yourself (and think like an owner) Steps to build self-trust Choosing a career that fits your desired lifestyle Learning to find your 10% edge Finding the business you can start NOW Making time for building your dreams (and the power of "slow success") And MUCH more!
Feb 22, 2023•1 hr 15 min
In today’s new episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. ►► Invest in Yourself & Finally Believe in Your Own Worth. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat...
Feb 20, 2023•14 min
Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from them ;) You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message they send is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.” And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait...and wait… “Why aren't they replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you. But she’s too busy with her phone to notice. You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds. Sound familiar? We’ve all had t...
Feb 17, 2023•7 min
Today, Matt answers a question from a listener who feels she is independent, successful, and ambitious, but is only meeting guys who fit a more "beta" male stereotype (who take the backseat in a relationship), rather than the driven "alpha" guys she would like to meet. Matt talks about some practical strategies to meet the right kind of person for you, and how to think about the qualities that you value and seek out in a relationship. --- Do You Have a Question About Your Love Life? Join Love.Li...
Feb 15, 2023•31 min
When everybody seems to have found “their person,” it can make us feel so behind and deeply afraid. This is the very moment we fall prey to saying “yes” to the wrong person, just to put an end to the feeling that we won’t find anyone and will miss our chance at having an amazing relationship. But choosing temporary comfort is a short game, and as we shrink our view of the world, we lose sight of just how much abundance is waiting for us. In reality, those who are successful in love play the long...
Feb 13, 2023•13 min
We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships. But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves. It will capriciously take a person from us at a time we weren’t prepared for. It will injure us when we need to be active. It will rob us of our finances in a bad business deal we thought was a sure thing. It will take away a relationship we thought would la...
Feb 10, 2023•11 min
Today I’m thrilled to share this conversation with the excellent Jay Shetty. We talk about everything from learning to love your own company, living without comparison, dealing with insecurities, how to find the right relationship, doing the deep work on self-understanding, and much much more! Jay is a New York Times Bestselling Author, host of the “On Purpose” podcast, a storyteller and a former monk. Check out Jay’s new book: 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go --- Get Real...
Feb 08, 2023•1 hr 24 min
Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again. --- Get Real Results in your Love Life This Year... Reserve Your FREE Spot on My Live Virtual Event → http://www.DatingWithResults.com...
Feb 06, 2023•16 min
Find it annoying when your partner doesn't open up and share with you? Then check out this short clip where I show you the simple but amazing power of "pre-framing" to get more of the behavior you want them (or anyone!) to show. --- >> Learn The 5 Heartfelt Techniques That Help Men Open Up To You. Go to MatthewHussey.co/GetHimToTalk...
Feb 03, 2023•7 min
We asked YOU for your biggest fears in dating and you gave us answers! In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about the common fears in early dating that hold us back, make us insecure, and cause us to self-sabotage. We give some practical tips on how to break through these limiting beliefs and feel your best when dating and meeting new people. --- Download our free guide on how to get out of a dating rut. Go to 3SecretsToLove.com ! --- Register for my FREE live training "Dating...
Feb 01, 2023•1 hr 1 min
Have you ever felt like a magnet for avoidants or wondered if commitment-phobic people are all that’s left in the dating pool? It’s as if you can’t even get anything off the ground, because consistent communication is never in the cards with the people you’re dating. And when you’re dating someone where everything’s falling into place EXCEPT for the fact that they’re avoidant, it can be tempting to rationalize any reason to stay. But why do we do this, and why does this situation make us want to...
Jan 30, 2023•19 min
A huge number of relationships that end, should end. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But how do we know if ‘ours’ should have ended. We leave with a giant question mark: “Did I just lose the person I was supposed to be with?” ⠀ That lack of closure is a horrible feeling that eats away at us. We don’t always get perfect closure. But there is a way of being proactive about getting peace of mind if you feel like you have someone who is worth fighting for. ⠀ It’s through a simple conversation, and I tell you how...
Jan 27, 2023•5 min
We all like to think that love transcends all other issues, especially that of money. But our BELIEFS about money say a lot about what we value, our fears, and dictate the way we choose to live every day. Do you believe in saving every penny? Would you stay in a fancy hotel on a vacation? How would you feel if your partner bought themselves an expensive car without talking to you first? In this episode, Matt is joined by money expert Ramit Sethi (host of the hit podcast “I Will Teach You To Be R...
Jan 25, 2023•1 hr 51 min
Have you experienced a situation where in spite of having dated someone for a short time, it took you weeks (sometimes even months) to start to feel like you’re over them? And have you found it’s EXACTLY at that moment—the moment you decide to move on with your life—that they suddenly pop back up like clockwork? Even though you know better, they somehow draw you back in with the hope that this time, things will be different. This week’s new video will allow you to finally rid yourself of the hol...
Jan 23, 2023•17 min
Shoutout to one of my favorite human beings @edmylett for giving me the honor of being a guest on his show. Love you brother. I urge all of you to listen to the end of this, because I believe in my soul that the punchline is one of the most important lessons I’ve ever stumbled upon for my love life, my family life, my business, my friendships...MY LIFE. And if you want to make the trash cans of every part of your life shine, then apply for my retreat now while you have that feeling. Don’t wait. ...
Jan 20, 2023•6 min
This is something a little different for you today. I wanted to share a beautiful conversation I had with my good friend Humble the Poet, where we talk about how to love yourself, set boundaries, and build healthier habits around love and attraction. In this new episode, we go deep. It touches upon some incredibly important truths relating to how to get back in touch with ourselves (and what makes us happy), so we can make better choices in a partner. I found his words incredibly heartwarming an...
Jan 18, 2023•1 hr 41 min
Do you find yourself watching from the sidelines as other people you know go after and get the very things you most desire? Whether it’s love, an amazing job, or a high-value social circle of genuine, supportive friends . . . perhaps you feel envy watching other people work a room better than you—feeling like you can’t tell interesting stories, you’re not charismatic, or you aren’t someone strangers feel drawn to. Most people don’t realize that this phenomenon is not down to personality—it’s imp...
Jan 16, 2023•36 min
One of the most special moments in life is when we feel seen and in turn see somebody else for who they genuinely are. But this level of DEEP connection requires vulnerability. Truly opening up, being vulnerable and allowing someone to see us at our very core can be terrifying. It’s especially terrifying if we’ve opened ourselves up and been hurt in the process. We all have those negative reference points from our past. Maybe it was the way we were brought up, something that happened at school o...
Jan 13, 2023•6 min
We asked YOU what is the #1 piece of love advice you'd give yourself in your 20s, and boy did we get some good answers :) Join Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson as they discuss their biggest lessons from their 20's and look at how much they are following through on today. --- The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January. This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available (...
Jan 11, 2023•53 min
Have you ever been a victim of the most painful kind of ghosting . . . where you’re haunted by the fact that you never got closure with someone? It’s the sort of thing that can consume your thoughts as you obsessively look over the final exchange you had with the person and enlist your friends to help you dissect it, hoping they can spot a clue you might have missed. The reality is that this need for clarity and closure is a bid for control in a situation where you have none. Not only that, but ...
Jan 09, 2023•19 min
I truly loved this conversation my friend @lindseystirling . So often in life we’re told how important it is to love ourselves without any explanation of what that actually means or how to practically apply that advice. If you’ve ever found yourself struggling with this concept, one practical tool is to recognize how we love other really important people in our lives. Our parents, children, siblings, nieces, nephews, old friends . . . our love for them doesn't have anything to do with whether th...
Jan 06, 2023•4 min
Why is it we become “too nice” with someone we like? It can feel like there is a before/after switch, where we decide we’re attracted to someone, feel the butterflies in our stomach, and can’t help but tighten up and struggle to express our real selves. And often, this can result in us being too accommodating, or giving polite-yet-boring responses, or in trying too hard to be liked instead of allowing natural chemistry and flirtation to happen. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson ...
Jan 03, 2023•31 min
Happy New Year, Friend! Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the New Year's resolutions people make, and I'm curious how you're feeling about yours today. After indulging during the holidays, we often place our hopes in the hands of our future selves, determined that this will be the year everything changes. Of course, having goals is a good thing, but the biggest challenge with New Year's resolutions is how quickly they can buckle under the weight of our expectations. But it doesn't need to b...
Jan 02, 2023•23 min
When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this clip, I share an important message about how you choose to set healthy boundaries in a relationship when you've been burnt in the past. Check it out and make sure you don't let your demons define your relationship dynamics going forward...
Dec 30, 2022•5 min
Can you have a relationship that starts great - but becomes sexually boring? Can it happen with someone you're truly meant to be with? It's always a hard moment if you're with someone who ticks many of your boxes, but one crucial aspect of the relationship isn't working. So how much should you work to get the spark back? Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss why the spark fades, how to get more honest with your partner about your intimate needs, and strategies to inject sexual excitement int...
Dec 27, 2022•24 min
As we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset our standards, don’t we? And yet, have you ever worried that you’re being too picky? And have you ever wondered if this “pickiness” is the thing that’s stopping you from finding a relationship? I was on stage when a woman stood up and asked: “Matthew, should I listen to my mum and lower my standards?” It’s a hard thing trying to figure out if the re...
Dec 26, 2022•6 min
