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Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Husseywww.howtogettheguy.com
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!  Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

Episodes

123: 2021 Half-Time Talk With Matt and Stephen (relationships after covid, dating apps, body confidence, and MORE)

The year is half over already...what?? Join us to sit down and chat about: Where love is in 2021 The state of dating apps Body image and confidence Being selective about WHO we want to attract How the pandemic has changed desires for a relationship -- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing fo...

Jul 14, 202152 min

122: To Anyone Feeling Single and Lonely...

►► You are not alone. Join my membership FREE → http://www.AskMH.com --- In this clip, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to keep doing what I do. And my answer often comes as a surprise: to help people feel less alone... --- Follow me for more love advice on Instagram @thematthewhussey...

Jul 09, 20215 min

121: What Are YOUR Top 2 Non-Negotiables In A Relationship? (w/ Matt and Stephen)

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?" Find out which ones we agree and disagree with! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and claim your spot to spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]...

Jul 03, 202126 min

120: 5 Secrets to Getting a Relationship Even When You Hate Dating

Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff? In today’s episode, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one...

Jun 30, 20219 min

119: If You've Ever Felt “Not Good Enough” for a Relationship...

Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.” But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone? In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.” In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, ...

Jun 25, 202116 min

118: What's 1 ESSENTIAL quality you look for in a partner? (w/ Matt and Steve)

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and give our responses! --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to ...

Jun 21, 202136 min

117: Think You're Ready to Meet "The One"? Watch This First...

There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.” Which camp do you fall into? 1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone amazing who will remove any lingering doubts and inspire you to get serious? 2) Or is it less about “The One” and more about “The Timing”—meeting a compatible person at the right time in your life? This week, I get to the heart of the issue with 7 tips that may change your perspective on dating and relationships. --- Break Out of the Fast Food Dating Cult...

Jun 16, 202117 min

116: Advice We Would Give Ourselves 10 Years Ago...(Featuring YOUR responses)

Matt and Steve sit down for a live session to talk about YOUR answers to advice you would give yourself from 10 years ago on dating, love and relationships! --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRet...

Jun 11, 202128 min

115: What the Post-Covid Dating Boom Means for Your Love Life

What will your dating life look like in the second half of 2021? As worldwide restrictions started to ease, news outlets declared that the post-lockdown world would likely give birth to a “new Roaring ‘20s”—a bacchanalian frenzy the likes of which our generation has never seen. While it’s true that some will embrace this openness with abandon, new studies are revealing something unexpected: many people are interested in finding a serious relationship as a result of the pandemic, because this pas...

Jun 07, 202111 min

114: Confidence in Dating Is Hard: 2 Ways to Boost Yours Immediately

Amplify your confidence with me & Charlotte Tilbury. Register now for your FREE, live Masterclass on June 9th. Go to http://www.MHandCT.com We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting. Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach. Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “whe...

Jun 01, 202118 min

113: How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection

Perhaps you’ve felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date . . . Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most . . . Or getting laid off from the job you thought you’d retire from . . . Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego. Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide. The way you c...

May 28, 202113 min

112: YOUR Answers to the Most Overrated Things in Relationships

What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships? We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]...

May 22, 202137 min

111: 6 Texts That Move Your Relationship Forward

Learn The Simple Text Response to Regain Momentum in Your Relationship. Get Your Free Training Video at WhatToTextNext.com --- It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?” Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out. Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve ...

May 15, 20217 min

110: Decoding Your Most Confusing Texts From Men

"What does he mean when he texts THIS?" In today's episode, Matt and Steve sit down live to discuss YOUR most confusing texts and what they really mean! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]...

May 07, 202144 min

109: When you and your partner have different standards...

What do you do when you're dating someone, but you're worried they don't appreciate the effort you make? And will they step up their standards when you move in together, or are they going to stay the same forever? Join Matt and Stephen to talk all about standards! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]!...

May 03, 202118 min

108: Being High Value: Does It Make It Harder To Be Attracted To Someone?

When you work on making yourself more attractive, does your dating pool narrow? Are there simply less people who will live up to your standards? Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about standards, self-growth, and choosing people for the right reasons. --- --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% o...

Apr 29, 202122 min

107: Can you mess it up with the right person?

Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move? When you make a mistake, the worst feeling in the world is, "what if I had done things differently?" We talk about how to get over your past failures in love and the mindset that will stop you living in regret. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL O...

Apr 24, 202123 min

106: Should He Come Over On The First Date(s)?

It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy? The answer: it depends on what your goals are... Matt and Steve talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFF...

Apr 21, 202123 min

105: Avoiding a Difficult Conversation Because You’re Afraid of Their Answer?

Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship. We come from a place of fear and anxiety. “What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?” we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer. But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you. P.S. Early b...

Apr 19, 20216 min

104: "He STILL Doesn't Want Kids After 8 Years. What Should I Do?"

What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids? In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about how to do what's really right for you, and dealing with the fight between your head and your heart. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off +...

Apr 14, 202118 min

103: "What If We Have Different Love Languages?" (+ how to talk about being dumped)

Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here ) -- Today Matt and Steve sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language? Plus Matt goes on a rant about how to talk about your past...

Apr 09, 202125 min

102: 7 Mindsets to Overcome the Fear That Holds You Back

Learn More About the Life-Changing Virtual Retreat + Lock in Your Early Bird Discount Now (Ends April 30) . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com ---​ Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life? Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to? Do you find yourself shying away from new things in life, new experiences, new possibilities? Are there things you’ve been talking about doing in your career or life that always seem to stay on the horizon and never actually happen? It’s to...

Apr 06, 202118 min

101: If He's Not Chasing, Why Are You Investing?

"Get serious about people who treat you as serious. Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t think it is. What is undeniably crazy though is taking a chance with your heart on someone you already know isn’t bothered about giving you theirs." --- Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . . http://www.3SecretsToLove.com ​ --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey...

Apr 03, 202118 min

100: What If You Feel Bad For A Toxic Partner? (Advice for Empaths)

Empathy is a powerful emotion. It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally connect to their suffering. But when it comes to letting go of a toxic relationship, this can also be a danger if we prioritise empathy over our long-term well-being. Join Matt and Steve to chat about leaving toxic partners, deciding on when to compromise in love, and of course, bubble baths... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhusse...

Apr 01, 202129 min

99: Women's Safety - It Belongs To All Of Us

I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives. It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with. I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go. Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear. I hope y...

Mar 29, 202124 min

98: Have You Dated These 2 Toxic People?

Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . . http://www.3SecretsToLove.com ​ --- There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present. And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories... The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever. And when you do ...

Mar 26, 20217 min

97: Underrated Skills Everyone Should Learn To Be A Better Partner

We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run: Kindness Respect Clear and compassionate communication But there are also other little skills that make a big difference. Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books. Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impul...

Mar 21, 202116 min

96: Things To Look Forward To

Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.” “Why two?” “You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.” In this episode we talk about: - The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness - Why purpose really matters - Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge --- Join us on our vir...

Mar 18, 202127 min

95: How To TRULY Get Over Your Heartbreak...

Heal your heart and move on strong from your breakup. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com ​ --- I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this brand-new episode is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relation...

Mar 13, 202141 min

94: The Obvious Red Flag You Should NEVER Ignore When Dating

People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. Here we explain why it happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warnings signs appear... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow ...

Mar 10, 202112 min
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