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Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Husseywww.howtogettheguy.com
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!  Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

Episodes

93: How to Be Irreplaceable in Love AND Invincible in Life

Create Your Uniquely Extraordinary Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com ​ Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss. It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to: - Increasing your confidence - Expanding your life - Being irreplaceable to the person you want - Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong This is where my dating advice meets my d...

Mar 08, 202116 min

92: Are Dating Apps Now Underrated?

Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today's Episode: Are Dating Apps Underrated? A new study suggests that people using dating apps could be MORE likely to want a serious relationship. Is it true? And what do we think about the common criticisms of dating apps? --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow...

Mar 05, 202128 min

91: What's More Productive: Being Single Vs. Being In A Relationship

Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship? This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions. Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about: How to approach being a "builder" when you're in a relationship Choosing the right partner for your needs Connection vs. compatibility How to not get distracted when you're single --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- P.S. Join us o...

Mar 03, 202118 min

90: When Should You STOP Giving So Much In A Relationship?

►► Learn How to Break Out of the Casual Phase. Get Access to Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com ​ OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me. She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad a...

Mar 01, 20218 min

89: Don't Be Afraid Of Your Weirdness... (with Matt and Stephen)

It's ok to be weird... In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU! --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhus...

Feb 26, 202119 min

88: Don’t Get Into Another Relationship Before You HEAR THIS

Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy? It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my brand spanking new video, I call BS on this idea (please be aware there is no actual spanking). Come on over and I’ll tell you why all the annoying people telling you this are wrong. P.S. We’re one month out from my next Virtual Retreat, March 19-21! This could be your last chance to make it happen. The first one back in October was a huge success, and I...

Feb 24, 20219 min

87: What It Takes To Have Romance In Your Relationship...(w/Matt and Steve)

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us to find out and email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey...

Feb 21, 202123 min

86: 9 Romantic Gestures That Make Your Partner Fall For You...

Whether you’re single or seeing someone on a day like Valentine's Day, here are 9 romantic surprises you can do for anyone in your life to make them go weak in the knees for you. They are subtle . . . They are unexpected . . . And they will make someone fall even harder for you than they already are (because why wouldn’t they be already . . . you’re adorable, aren’t you? Aren’t you! Sorry.) Check ‘em out, friend. Free download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ​ Free download:...

Feb 16, 202110 min

85: When To Open Up In A Relationship (w/ Matt and Steve)

►► Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com --- Join Matt and Steve for a chat on vulnerability, when to reveal yourself in a relationship, and what counts as over-sharing... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey...

Feb 12, 202129 min

84: Want a Deeper Connection? Let Down Your Guard

Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com ​ Happy February! :-) I just made this episode for you. Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out? If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, here is your essential listening for today... Let me know what you ...

Feb 10, 20218 min

83: Why We Get Attached Too Quickly (with Matt and Stephen)

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Hey listeners! Join Matt and I for a chat today on: Why we get attached too quickly (even after only one date) The biggest key to avoiding disappointment Why Eminem was wrong If you want to get in touch, email us at [email protected] --- Follow Matt Instagram - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen Instagram - ...

Feb 06, 202121 min

82: How to Cope with Disappointments in Dating

Join Me on a Bigger Journey & Get Results in Your Love Life. Try My VIP Coaching Experience for Free... → http://www.AskMH.com ​ Quiz for you... What do the following 3 things all have in common?: - Getting nervous on a date - Getting upset that someone isn’t texting you back - Not being able to get over a breakup Can you guess? The answer is in this episode, let’s see if you got it right... You’re going to witness a moment taken from a live, exclusive webinar I held for my Love.Life members...

Feb 02, 20218 min

81: What It Takes To Find A Great Relationship, Being "Happy Enough" Single + New Year Habits...

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today Matt and Steve sit down for a little chat. We talk: - Keeping on track with 2021 goals - Why you don't need to be "100% happy" to attract a great relationship - How to decide what really matters in your to-do list - 3 things you need to work on to have an extraordinary love life...

Jan 29, 202121 min

80: How To Stay Motivated If Your "To-Do List" Is Making You Miserable...

Discover How to Love Your Life Every Day. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat... http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Are you a list maker? I am. It’s how I get things done. But doesn’t life sometimes just feel like an endless “To-Do List”? We wake up, make a list, do what we can on that list, and before we know it, there’s another day, gone. And, if we’re not careful, we get to the end of every day feeling like our confidence has been eroded because we didn’t even get to half of the ...

Jan 25, 20218 min

79: How To Have Real Charisma, Get Rid Of Bad Conversation Habits, And Speak Under Pressure (Even If You’re An Introvert!)

Ever wanted to be a better public speaker? Wish you could feel confident and charismatic when you walk into a room? In this episode, Matt and I sit down to discuss: - Why you can *still* have massive impact as an introvert - How to get rid of your bad conversation habits - The secret to overcoming shyness - How to answer difficult questions under pressure (and look good doing it!) --- If you're serious about upgrading your people skills, transforming your confidence, and learning the secrets of ...

Jan 21, 202128 min

78: 7 Powerful People Skills to Make Your Voice Heard

I’m guessing you don’t just follow my work for love life advice... Unless you discovered my content yesterday, you will have realized by now that the communication skills I teach have massive practical application for your business relationships, your ability to network, your ability to persuade, to captivate, and to navigate challenging conversations in every part of life. I’ve not just used these skills in my own love life. They have been the fundamental people skills I have used to create eve...

Jan 17, 202129 min

76: Is Your Anxiety Sabotaging Your Relationships?

Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back? It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of angry or upset subside...

Jan 11, 202116 min

75: 4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to hi...

Jan 07, 202112 min

74: Single in This Pandemic? 6 Ways You Can Still Move Your Love Life Forward

Maybe you began this year with visions of finally creating the love life you always dreamed about. You told yourself: “This is the year I’m going to meet my person.” But then 2020 happened, and it made dating even more complicated, more exhausting, and more futile than it seemed to be already. And now you sit here, at the end of another year, with this feeling in the pit of your stomach. A feeling of frustration, resentment, and even panic. “I’ve lost an entire year of progress in my love life b...

Dec 20, 202020 min

73: Will Your Long-Distance Relationship Work? Ask These 4 Questions...

If you find yourself currently in a long-distance relationship – or “situationship” – then I made this for you, my loyal friend. In it, I give you the 4 questions you should ask to figure out if it’s all worth it. Because let’s face it, long-distance relationships are HARD. WORK. T hey require dedication, commitment, loyalty, and a real vision for the future. Do you ever find yourself worrying if yours has what it takes? Or wondering if the person you are giving all of this mental and emotional ...

Dec 15, 20207 min

72: *SPECIAL EPISODE* - Q&A Ask Matt Anything! (with Stephen Hussey)

It's finally happened... Matt and I are back in the same room, together at last! And we're taking YOUR questions. In this special Q&A episode, we talk: How to communicate when you have different expectations from a guy you're dating Matt's #1 secret to overcoming your deep insecurities and avoid comparing yourself to other attractive people Books to build your happiness How to keep motivation when you lose focus Is Los Angeles overrated? Hope you enjoy, and let us know your thoughts and feed...

Dec 06, 202045 min

71: If You're Feeling Anxious or Depressed, Listen to This...

I wanted to step outside of the dating conversation for this week’s new episode. Relationship or no relationship, the quality of our lives is the quality of our emotions. And many of us feel plagued by our emotions. Whether it’s depression, anxiety, sadness, shame, guilt, fear… we can find ourselves living in a constant state of suffering. If you can relate to this, please listen to this before you do anything else today... I’ve had moments in my life where I was scared I’d never feel better, es...

Nov 30, 20208 min

70: 3 Ways to Make Sure He Meets Your Needs

Transform Your Life and Claim Your Happiness NOW. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat… http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com --- I get SO many questions about standards in early-stage dating every week... How do you set standards? How do you know if your standards are too high, too low, or are scaring people away? How do you communicate your standards in a kind and honest way? What if all of my standards are fulfilled by someone except one important one? To answer some of these questio...

Nov 25, 20207 min

69: 3 Texts That Boost Attraction And Move Things Forward (+ Special Announcement!)

Get your copy of Matt's brand new program, out TODAY! "The Momentum Texts: 67 Counter-Intuitive Texts That Lead To REAL Relationships" Click here to download > > > MomentumTexts.com (Grab your copy before midnight on Saturday November 21st PT and you'll also get our free audio coaching bonus!) --- In this episode, I'm going to give you a sneak peek behind the curtain of our new program and share 3 key text messages for different stages of a relationships to create intrigue, sexual tensi...

Nov 19, 202016 min

68: 5 Texting Mistakes That Keep You Single (and What to Send Instead)

I’ll keep this short, because I really want you to just get to the new episode and start listening. This is one of the coolest and most informative episodes I’ve ever made about how to create and sustain attraction in early dating... I talk about the 5 texting mistakes that kill attraction , and how to avoid them. If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early stage dating... If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere… And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing d...

Nov 15, 202015 min

67: How to Know if You Should Keep Trying with Him

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with a guy is? Should you let him know you’d like to go on a date with him? And what about after the date… Should you let him know you’d like to see him again if you felt the date went well but he’s not being proactive about setting up another one? Where is the line between showing a guy you like him, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested? It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple. You may have heard me say, “In...

Nov 10, 202021 min

66: What Does (And Doesn’t) Work In A Dating Profile

Lockdown is back (for some of us). And if there ever was a year for online dating, 2020 is the biggest opportunity there will ever be to do it. In this episode, we talk: – What makes you stand out in a dating profile - Annoying turn-offs to avoid - Why you STILL shouldn't want to try to compete with everyone else --- Follow Stephen: Facebook - @stephenhusseywrites Twitter - @stephenhhussey Instagram - @stephenhhussey...

Nov 06, 202021 min

65: Why Have We Made Dating So Complicated?

Is there a spooky presence lurking around you? Do you have a “ghost” in your love life? Are you the victim of a “haunting”? Is there a “zombie,” back from the dating-dead, knocking at your door all of a sudden? Are you like me and had to look up at least two of these three 2020 dating terms that have been created by twenty-something writers at magazine websites? I made a Halloween-themed episode about these – apparently new – dating phenomena. I tell you practically what you should do about each...

Nov 02, 20208 min

64: He Won’t Commit, But He Won’t Let You Go Either?

Are you seeing someone who won’t commit but who doesn’t let you move on either? You’re about to hear a phone call between me and a young lady who had this issue and wanted to know what was going on in his mind. If you check out the video on my YouTube Channel also get to see me portrayed as a detective getting to the bottom of the case… In this episode, you’ll learn about the psychology of someone who won’t commit, and what you should be doing about it if you find yourself in this situation. Sta...

Oct 28, 202013 min
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