Let’s get real: saying “no” is hard—especially when you’re exhausted, juggling life, health, and expectations. In this raw and no-BS episode, Danny and Tyler crack open what it really means to set boundaries as men. Danny shares his ongoing fight with cancer and how it's forced him to reevaluate everything from weed habits to people-pleasing. The guys dive into what healthy boundaries look like (spoiler: not ghosting, not snapping), why conflict avoidance is killing your peace, and how to stop b...
Jul 11, 2025•58 min•Ep. 54
In this deeply personal and raw episode, we peel back the layers of manhood, trauma, and transformation. Tyler and Danny dive into childhood experiences that shaped their emotional responses, reflecting on their relationships with their fathers and how those early lessons manifest in adult life, from silent retreats in the desert to childhood “gladiator fights” in school bathrooms. Through powerful storytelling, moments of humor, and candid vulnerability, they explore generational cycles, the ch...
Jun 13, 2025•54 min•Ep. 53
Danny and Tyler return for an engaging and introspective conversation about reestablishing rhythms, the deep benefits of jiu-jitsu, and navigating complex societal conversations. Tyler shares personal insights about returning to the mat after his medical treatments, highlighting jiu-jitsu's role in physical health, mental regulation, and community connection. The discussion dives into balancing modern and postmodern perspectives, including the importance of maintaining one's principles while res...
May 30, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 52
After an extended break, Danny and Tyler reunite in this deeply personal and unfiltered episode. Tyler shares raw updates from his ongoing battle with cancer, including the grueling reality of daily treatments, mental burnout, and the quiet moments that test his resilience. Together, they explore how manifesting isn’t just about positive thinking—it’s about confronting the darkness too. Meanwhile, Danny reflects on his own crossroads, from wrestling triumphs and family shifts to the looming unce...
May 16, 2025•58 min•Ep. 51
Tyler’s back from a month-long hospital stay, and the story he shares is nothing short of incredible. From misread charts to breakthrough moments, this episode walks through the emotional highs and lows of his leukemia diagnosis and recovery. We talk about: The moment Tyler was told he had cancer The unexpected lessons learned in isolation The healing power of community and male friendship Facing fear with humor and heart The importance of listening to your body and seeking help early This one’s...
Apr 18, 2025•54 min•Ep. 50
In this deeply personal and raw episode of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast , Tyler and Danny reflect on two years of podcasting while navigating an unexpected life event—Danny’s leukemia diagnosis. Recorded from his hospital room, this conversation is about brotherhood, resilience, and the importance of listening to your body. They discuss the warning signs Danny missed, the power of community, and how men often avoid medical care until it’s too late. With humor, vulnerability, and honesty, this epi...
Mar 21, 2025•34 min•Ep. 49
In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast , Danny returns from an epic trip to Mexico, sharing wild travel stories, unexpected limo rides, and thoughts on making Cabo a second home. Tyler and Danny dive deep into trust—whether in relationships, on the mat, or in everyday life—and how setting boundaries shapes who we become. They also explore the eerie connections between true crime cases and a controversial book, discuss gut health struggles, and reflect on personal growth through discomfor...
Mar 07, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 48
Show Notes: (00:00 - 05:30) Welcome Back & Last Episode Recap Reflecting on the previous episode and its unique format The challenges of recording remotely and dealing with background noise (05:31 - 15:45) Retirement Plans & A Rollercoaster of Emotions Danny stumbles across early retirement qualifications and thinks, “Why not?” The excitement, the panic, and then the gut-punch realization it doesn’t apply The unpredictability of government jobs and the looming shutdown (15:46 - 28:00) Th...
Feb 21, 2025•52 min•Ep. 47
Danny is soaking up the sun at Cocoa Beach while Tyler holds down the fort, but not everything is as relaxing as it seems! In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts Podcast , the guys talk about the highs and lows of personal growth, dealing with misunderstandings, and embracing the past to build a better future. From sweaty grappling sessions at the Big Frog Retreat to Tyler finally getting to use his beloved soundboard, this episode is a mix of deep conversation, laughs, and a little bit of chaos...
Feb 07, 2025•38 min•Ep. 46
In this raw and reflective episode, Tyler and Danny ask the big question: How do you gauge success? Together, they unpack the complexities of defining success in a world obsessed with appearances and material achievements. From navigating personal failures to finding strength in consistency, they discuss the lessons learned from jiu-jitsu, parenting, and building meaningful relationships. The conversation also delves into dealing with loss, maintaining a presence at the moment, and working throu...
Jan 24, 2025•53 min•Ep. 45
Episode Summary: Danny and Tyler are back for Year 3 of The Last Boy Scouts podcast! In this reflective and inspiring episode, the duo discusses their holiday experiences, personal growth, and the tradition of writing letters to their future selves. They share insights on balancing ambition with self-compassion, redefining goals, and embracing the lessons of failure. Tyler opens up about processing life's unexpected turns, including the first anniversary of his brother's passing, while Danny ref...
Jan 10, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 44
In this heartfelt and reflective season finale of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast , Danny and Tyler take a candid look back at the highs and lows of the past year. From personal growth and challenges to shared victories and unforgettable memories, they recap a year filled with lessons about resilience, manhood, and the power of community. Why flexibility in goal-setting matters and how to handle setbacks. The importance of facing rejection and teaching resilience to the next generation. Navigating t...
Dec 20, 2024•57 min•Ep. 43
In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts , Danny and Tyler explore what it means to "stand on business" and the importance of loyalty in various facets of life. From reflections on Thanksgiving and family reconciliation to intense rivalries on and off the mat, they explore the moments that challenge our values and require us to choose where we draw the line. The duo shares personal stories from the jiu-jitsu world, dissecting a contentious one-star review that sparked a discussion about gym loyalt...
Dec 06, 2024•58 min•Ep. 42
In this powerful episode of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast, Tyler and Danny dive deep into the complexities of aging as men and explore what it means to remain "dangerous" as we get older. Inspired by a poignant quote from Act of Valor, the hosts discuss the sacred nature of living by a code, the role of masculinity as it evolves, and the tension between relevance and wisdom. Along the way, they break down the recent Tyson vs. Jake Paul fight and whether it was staged, touching on age, athleticism,...
Nov 22, 2024•1 hr•Ep. 41
In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts Podcast , Danny and Tyler dive deep into the concept of ownership, exploring how taking responsibility for our actions and choices—good and bad—can transform our lives. They discuss many men's struggles in seeking help, learning from mistakes, and building accountability in their relationships. Through candid stories, humor, and insights from their journeys, they shed light on the challenges of self-improvement, the courage needed to ask for support, and th...
Nov 08, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 40
Ever struggled with tech? Yeah, same here! In this episode, Tyler and Danny come clean about last week’s audio mishaps (don’t worry, we think we’ve got it sorted). From the joys of learning podcasting on the go to deeper conversations about wrestling, jiu-jitsu, and navigating life’s unexpected lessons, the guys explore how to embrace imperfection and keep laughing through the challenges—on and off the mat. Set against the crisp backdrop of Utah’s mountains, they discuss life’s rapid pace, wrest...
Oct 25, 2024•47 min•Ep. 39
In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts , Tyler and Danny tackle the ups and downs of their weekend, starting with technical glitches during their mountain recording session and reflecting on the recent belt test. From discussing the importance of perseverance on the mat to digging deep into personal reflections on relationships, the guys share powerful insights about personal growth, conflict resolution, and the journey to becoming better men. Tech Troubles in the Mountains : The guys face equip...
Oct 11, 2024•44 min•Ep. 38
In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts , Danny and Tyler reflect on their journey through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and life's challenges. They discuss the physical toll of training, the anticipation of upcoming belt tests, and the sense of progression that comes from consistency. Shifting gears, the conversation dives deep into personal growth, vulnerability, and the complexities of male relationships. The hosts talk about how men handle conflict, addiction, and the struggle to find a balance between...
Sep 27, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 37
In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts podcast, hosts Danny and Tyler dive into their recent adventures, discussing everything from work-life balance and parenting challenges to their favorite pastime: jiu-jitsu. They touch on personal growth, overcoming workplace conflict, and the lessons learned from being a "white belt for life" in both jiu-jitsu and personal development. The hosts also break down the exciting matches from the Craig Jones Invitational (CJI) and ADCC, sharing their thoughts on...
Sep 06, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 36
In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts , Danny and Tyler dive deep into the daily grind of maintaining a routine amidst life's chaos. From the physical demands of jiu-jitsu training to the emotional challenges of fatherhood, they explore how to stay disciplined when motivation wanes. They discuss the importance of non-negotiables, accountability, and how to lead through routine, especially when life gets overwhelming. Tyler shares his struggles balancing his training schedule while being a singl...
Aug 16, 2024•56 min•Ep. 35
Tyler and Danny break down the intense superfights, from the young prodigies showcasing textbook techniques to the thrilling overtime battles that kept everyone on the edge of their seats. Hear behind-the-scenes stories of camaraderie and the buzz of anticipation that filled the air. They also reflect on the emotional black belt promotions, the impact of elevation on the competitors, and the heartfelt speeches that rounded out the event. In addition, Danny shares tales from his adventurous road ...
Aug 02, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 34
In this episode, Danny and Tyler welcome ATC Jeremy, an air traffic controller and motorcycle enthusiast. They delve into Jeremy's journey from the Air Force to civilian air traffic control, his love for motorcycling, and the profound experiences of riding across the country. The discussion covers the challenges and rewards of both careers, the importance of finding community and support, and the personal growth that comes from stepping out of one’s comfort zone. Tune in for inspiring stories, p...
Jul 19, 2024•59 min•Ep. 33
In this special episode, Danny and Tyler record from Danny's 1973 Volkswagen Transport CamperTop parked near the picturesque Provo River. They reminisce about their childhood memories, discuss the Provo River Restoration Project, and reflect on Nick's life celebration in Denver. The episode emphasizes the importance of gratitude, the impact of good sleep routines, and the emotional challenges of balancing life, work, and parenting. The hosts also share stories about local events, their families,...
Jul 05, 2024•43 min•Ep. 32
In this episode of "The Lost Boy Scouts," Tyler and Danny explore the importance of living in the present and how practicing gratitude can significantly enhance mental well-being. As they share their journeys and experiences, they explore the struggles many men face with depression and anxiety, often rooted in dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. This episode offers insights into how embracing the present moment and cultivating a daily gratitude practice can lead to a more fulfilli...
Jun 21, 2024•56 min•Ep. 31
In this episode, Danny and Tyler delve into the complexities of dealing with anger and practicing benevolence in modern manhood. They discuss the impact of anger on personal relationships, the importance of curiosity, and the need to seek understanding rather than be understood. The hosts share personal experiences and insights on navigating emotions, handling anger, and teaching children to be curious and empathetic. Show Notes: Danny and Tyler reflect on the challenges of managing anger and th...
Jun 07, 2024•57 min•Ep. 30
In this episode, Danny and Tyler delve into the complexities of balancing various aspects of life, including parenting, training, and personal growth. They share personal experiences and reflections on navigating challenges and emotions while striving for growth and self-improvement. Danny opens up about his struggles with anger and frustration, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and managing these emotions. He emphasizes the significance of finding healthy outlets, such as martial art...
May 24, 2024•55 min•Ep. 29
In this episode, the hosts, Danny and Tyler, recognize distractions and prioritize personal growth for success. They share personal experiences where distractions like self-medication, relationship issues, and external pressures hindered their focus on goals. The conversation emphasizes the need to prioritize self-improvement over distractions and how behavior patterns developed in youth can impact one's ability to prioritize effectively in adulthood. The hosts discuss the role of relationships ...
May 10, 2024•56 min•Ep. 28
Hello Fans! While Danny and I are busy setting up our new studio, we're bringing you a bold and unfiltered original recording. This week, we dive into the complexities of "Boys and Sex," inspired by Peggy Orenstein’s insightful book. Be warned—it’s explicit and raw. Mom, you might want to skip this one! We're eager to return soon with fresh, original content. Until then, enjoy this deep dive. In this episode, Danny and Tyler tackle the critical topics of masculinity, sexuality, and consent, with...
Apr 26, 2024•51 min•Ep. 27
In this episode, Danny guides Tyler, and they delve into the power of breathwork as a tool for regulating emotions and maintaining focus. They discuss their personal experiences with breathwork, highlighting how it has helped them navigate challenging situations, such as arguments, training sessions, and moments of heightened emotions. The hosts emphasize the importance of nasal breathing, breath control, and the impact of breathwork on the central nervous system. They share insights on how brea...
Apr 12, 2024•54 min•Ep. 26
In this episode, Danny and Tyler share their thoughts on the significance of resilience and ego in various aspects of life, particularly in sports like wrestling and jiu-jitsu. They talk about the challenges that come with competition, the impact of ego on personal growth, and the struggle to maintain a balance between confidence and humility. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and managing ego both on and off the mat, and how it can influence relationships, personal devel...
Mar 29, 2024•55 min•Ep. 25
