In this raw and unprecedented episode of Lights On, Carl Lentz sits down for an exclusive interview with Blaine Bartel, a former megachurch pastor who built one of America's largest youth ministries before losing everything due to a 23-year secret addiction. For the first time, Blaine opens up about the moment his double life was completely exposed, the "terrifying grace" that shattered his world in 24 hours, and the brutal honesty required to rebuild from absolute rock bottom. They discuss ever...
Aug 20, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 61
In this transformative episode of Lights On, Carl and Laura Lentz confront the uncomfortable truths that most people spend their entire lives avoiding. Together, they reveal the three hard truths that saved their marriage and transformed their lives: why you're 99% responsible for your problems (and solutions), why the relationship with yourself determines everything else, and why comfort is slowly killing your growth. Laura opens up about watching Carl face his emotional illiteracy, while Carl ...
Aug 13, 2025•49 min•Ep. 60
In this raw and unprecedented episode of Lights On, Carl Lentz sits down for an exclusive interview with his wife Laura – the woman who chose to stay when 99.9% of people said she should leave. For the first time, Laura opens up about the moment that made her stay, the day-by-day survival strategy that saved their marriage, and the brutal honesty required to rebuild after betrayal. They discuss everything from losing their entire friend group to why Laura went to therapy for Carl's mistakes, and...
Aug 06, 2025•54 min•Ep. 57
In this deeply personal episode of Lights On, a father sits down with his wife Laura and daughter to reveal the unconventional family culture that has their kids choosing couch time over parties. They dive into the "corny" traditions that actually work, why confrontation leads to clarity, and how making awkward topics conversational changed everything. From discussing porn at the dinner table to the "no snitch" rule they completely reject, this family shares raw insights on raising emotionally i...
Jul 30, 2025•58 min•Ep. 56
In this episode, Carl and Laura Lentz reveal what the growth phase of healing actually looks like after 4.5 years of intensive therapy work. Discover why growth includes failure, conflict, and moments of joy - and why most people quit before reaching this transformative stage. Carl shares his experience completing a rigorous 4.5-year therapy program and why consistency over convenience became the key to lasting change. Laura breaks down how to navigate conflict as a sign of growth rather than re...
Jul 23, 2025•44 min•Ep. 55
In this episode, Carl and Laura Lentz reveal the 3-stage healing framework that saved their marriage after infidelity and public scandal. Discover why most people never truly heal from breakdown because they skip the discovery phase, try to heal while sprinting through life, and focus on cleaning up "leaves" instead of healing the root system. Carl shares his transformative experience at Onsite therapy and why being sorry you got caught is completely different from being sorry you made destructi...
Jul 16, 2025•41 min•Ep. 54
In this episode, executive coach Janet Breitenbach reveals the integrity framework that's transforming high performers and why most people unknowingly sabotage their success. Discover the shocking difference between moral integrity and workability integrity, and learn why doing what you say you're going to do by when you say you're going to do it is the secret to unlocking your potential. Janet breaks down the survival needs keeping you stuck (look good, feel good, be right, be in control) and i...
Jul 09, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 53
In this episode of Lights On, Carl and Laura Lentz dive deep into what it really means to listen. From miscommunication in marriage to growing through silence, they share personal stories about learning to hear each other—without judgment, defense, or distraction. If you’ve ever struggled to truly listen—or felt unheard—this one’s for you. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....
Jul 02, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 52
In this revealing episode of Lights On, Carl and Laura Lentz tackle the hidden baggage that can make or break relationships. With divorce rates climbing above 50%, they share the critical questions you must ask before committing your life to someone. The couple dives into relationship templates and patterns, revealing how your upbringing shapes your expectations in love. They explore the difference between healthy disagreement and toxic manipulation, offering practical tools to spot red flags ea...
Jun 25, 2025•52 min•Ep. 51
In this powerful episode of Lights On, Carl Lentz sits down with longtime friend Andrew Simila for a raw, vulnerable conversation about healing after church hurt. The two reflect on their years of ministry at Hillsong, the fallout that followed, and the emotional wreckage left behind. Andrew opens up about the personal cost of staying loyal, the silence that followed the scandal, and the hard work it took to rebuild from rock bottom. Carl shares how one unexpected phone call with Andrew became t...
Jun 18, 2025•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 50
Your experience is real—but is it the whole truth? In this episode of Lights On, Laura and I unpack how to honor what you've been through without letting it hijack your future. We talk about healing, empathy, church hurt, relationships, and why holding your experience with humility might be the most powerful thing you can do right now. This one's honest, unfiltered, and necessary. Let’s keep getting better—together. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at...
Jun 11, 2025•55 min•Ep. 49
Charles Metcalf joins Carl Lentz to talk about untouchable confidence, overcoming shame, and what it means to believe God chose you . This raw, hope-filled conversation will challenge your perspective on yourself and your purpose. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Jun 04, 2025•56 min•Ep. 48
In this episode, Cody Jefferson and I keep it real—talking about healing, mindset shifts, and what it actually takes to get unstuck. If you're tired of surface-level fixes and ready for real transformation, this one’s for you. We dive into inner work, truth, accountability, and living with purpose. No fluff. Just an honest conversation that’ll push you to take action today. Let’s go. #lightson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/priv...
May 29, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 47
Your experience is real—but is it the whole truth? In this episode of Lights On , Laura and I unpack how to honor what you've been through without letting it hijack your future. We talk about healing, empathy, church hurt, relationships, and why holding your experience with humility might be the most powerful thing you can do right now. This one's honest, unfiltered, and necessary. Let’s keep getting better—together. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice a...
May 21, 2025•42 min•Ep. 46
This convo right here is special. I sat down with my good friend Chris Durso — a real one — and we got into it. We talk about leadership, trauma, healing, therapy, church in New York, and what it actually means to get healthy. Chris opens up about his battle with PTSD, abuse, and what healing has looked like for him. This one’s honest, raw, and filled with hope. If you're trying to figure out your faith, your friendships, or just how to keep going when life hits hard — this is for you. See Priva...
May 14, 2025•49 min•Ep. 45
What if your biggest complaint is actually a clue to your biggest breakthrough? In this episode, we explore how to turn frustration into transformation using the power of self-awareness, honesty, and the “Three C’s” — Clear, Conscious, Committed. Whether it’s in your relationships, career, or personal growth, this conversation will challenge and empower you to see your complaints in a whole new light. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19....
May 08, 2025•44 min•Ep. 44
In this episode, we dive into real talk on faith, identity, alcohol, and finding balance in your 20s. Unscripted, heartfelt, and full of moments that might just shift your perspective. We explore parenting, purpose, and the question that keeps coming up: “What else might be true?” Perfect for anyone navigating life, growing in faith, or figuring it all out one step at a time. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my...
Apr 24, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 43
"What if Hollywood's breakthroughs could be in spiritual storytelling?" Carl Lentz sits down with filmmaker John Irwin to talk about his new project House of David, the miracles behind its creation, and how faith and filmmaking collide in powerful ways. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Apr 10, 2025•55 min•Ep. 42
Go to https://meetfabric.com/LIGHTSON and apply today, risk-free. Carl and Laura dive deep into your questions! They discuss the joys and challenges of getting older, their parenting philosophies (including a debate on spanking!), and how to rebuild a marriage when it's tough. They also address a common issue: balancing church with kids' activities and dealing with church-related guilt. Plus, don't miss the story of a hilarious trash-talking moment on the basketball court! Tune in for honest ans...
Mar 26, 2025•43 min•Ep. 41
In this deeply personal episode of “Lights On,” Jay Williams opens up to Carl Lentz about his remarkable journey. From a meteoric rise as a basketball prodigy at Duke and a promising NBA career with the Chicago Bulls, to a life-altering motorcycle accident that nearly claimed his life, Jay shares the raw emotions and physical challenges of his recovery. He delves into the depths of his mental struggles, including suicidal thoughts, and the profound realization that his identity was wrapped up in...
Mar 19, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 40
Carl sits down with Josh Broome, a former prolific adult film actor, author, and speaker, for an incredibly raw and powerful conversation. Josh opens up about his journey from a troubled childhood to the heights of the adult film industry, and the dark realities he experienced within it. This is a story of hope, healing, and the power of transformation. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....
Mar 12, 2025•56 min•Ep. 39
Carl opens up a deep conversation with Miles Adcox, mental wellness expert and founder of Onsite. He shares his personal journey into psychology, emphasizing the crucial role of empathy and presence. Learn how to navigate difficult times, understand the power of human connection, and embrace your whole self, including your 'shadow side.' Miles recounts a moving story of helping someone through a dark period, showcasing the transformative work of Onsite. Discover the significance of being present...
Mar 05, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 38
Carl Lentz & Mike Signorelli discuss the intersection of mental health & spiritual warfare. Mike shares his journey battling trauma, balancing therapy with faith, and addressing the demonic. They explore discernment, deliverance ministry, and the rise of occult practices.Follow Carl on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/ Follow Mike Signorelli on his YouTube Channel - https://youtube.com/@mikesignorelli_ B-side for iPhone https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522...
Feb 26, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 37
Russell Brand opens up to Carl Lentz about his spiritual journey, recent embrace of Christianity, and how faith has transformed his life. He reflects on his past struggles with addiction and fame, the challenges of balancing personal ambition with serving Christ, and the importance of surrendering to a higher power. Brand also shares his views on ministry vs. entertainment, the influence of comedians on his communication style, and his desire to spark spiritual revival. He discusses the "evil on...
Feb 19, 2025•55 min•Ep. 36
Join the thousands of parents who trust Fabric to help protect their family. Apply today in just minutes at https://www.meetfabric.com/lightson Help us normalize vulnerability. Become a BSider today: https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing Want to financially support B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp ------------- Carl and Laura discuss marriage, communication, and conflict. They stress clear communication, avoiding resentment, and the dangers of contempt. Carl's week-long experiment of ...
Feb 12, 2025•59 min•Ep. 35
Carl sits down with Pastor, Author and Filmmaker Erwin McManus to discuss something we all struggle with: communication. Erwin's new book, "The Seven Frequencies of Communication," is a game-changer. They dive deep into what it really means to connect with people, not just talk at them. They discuss how important it is to understand your own communication style and how to recognize the different frequencies people are on. Carl and Erwin hit on some tough topics like the state of the church, how ...
Feb 05, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 34
Is it true you cannot be a Christian AND a Democrat? Is there one candidate really "chosen" by God? How do we remain loving and kind to those who do not share our political beliefs? Carl meets with Dr. A.R. Bernard, a trusted advisor to multiple presidents and founder of the Christian Cultural Center megachurch in Brooklyn, New York to discuss the crucial impact on the political landscape in NYC and our nation! Dr. Bernard shares his unique background, including his Panamanian heritage, his expe...
Jan 29, 2025•55 min•Ep. 33
Carl sits down with Bryce Crawford, a young Christian influencer making waves online. Bryce shares his inspiring story of faith, from a near-death experience to sharing the gospel with unexpected people, including a self-proclaimed Satanist. They discuss the challenges and opportunities facing Gen Z, the impact of social media, and the importance of vulnerability in family relationships. Bryce offers valuable insights for parents on how to connect with their children and support their mental hea...
Jan 22, 2025•51 min•Ep. 32
In this special episode of Lights On , Carl is joined by his entire family—Laura, Ava, and Roman—for a raw and vulnerable conversation about the growing pains of family life. Together, they open up about marriage, parenting, faith, and the challenges of raising teens in today’s world. From discussing how kids mirror their parents' relationship to tackling tough topics like honesty, boundaries, and mental health, this episode is filled with humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom. Whether it’s navig...
Jan 15, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 31
In this episode of the Lights On, Chandler Moore sits down to discuss the transformative moment of winning a Grammy and how it changed everything. He shares the personal challenges of balancing influence and pain, opens up about the creative process behind his songwriting, and delivers deep wisdom on why comparison kills creativity. Whether you're an aspiring songwriter or just someone chasing a dream, this conversation is packed with gems. LIGHTS ON! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/priv...
Jan 08, 2025•51 min•Ep. 30
