Here we answer your burning questions for the week

that you guys trust us enough. You guys are so messed up. Yes, some of you are proper messed up that no, we love you. We don't mean that. Like we've said so many other times that we've been to in these episodes, it's so nice for us and for us to read the questions and the troubles and the dilemmas that everybody else is facing, and just to realize how normal we all are and how we are all sort of dealing with these different ups and downs that

life throws at us. So say this to brit almost every week, but reading everybody else's problems makes me feel really normal. I feel like I have been through the exact same things at different points in my life. That is where our advice comes from. It comes from experience. Yeah, you guys definitely help us just as much as we help you, and we have said that before, but I

really really do believe in those words. Okay, anyway, Laura, for like four hours, you've been haaughing on about this story that you've remembered your friend reminded you of, and you're dying. You kind of speak to me on the phone. I can't even understand you. Can you bloody tell me what the story is. I know that I share so much on this podcast. It's actually a bit disgusting. Every so often I see articles pop up in daily mail that have rewritten what I've said on this podcast, and

it reminds me that it probably shouldn't. But anyway, here's another one. So I was to a girlfriend from UNI and we were talking about the podcast, and she said to me, she was like, I can't believe you haven't told that story. And I was like, what story? And

she's like, Dude, that story. And then it occurred to me that I had suppressed this story in the deepest, darkest folds of my memory, because true trauma should just be put in a box and hide away forever, and we should never talk about it, definitely not on a national podcast. Straightaway, she calls me. She's like, I've got this story I want to tell you, but I can't tell you yet. I'm going to read on the podcast, but I'm going to pretend like it's someone that's written in.

She's like, because I don't want to have this to my name, and I'm like, this better be good. Yes, okay, So I was. I was planning and pretending like this was a written in accidentally unfiltered, but you know what, We're just going to throw it into this episode anyway. It's quick. I feel like we've built it up now too much. But god, okay, I better be fair with me. Okay. So I was at UNI and I was can't be

that bad? Ah, so embarrassing. Okay. I was at UNI and I had just started dating this guy and I really liked him. Things were going really really well, and we had gone out this one night and I had gotten very very drunk, like very drunk, and ended up back at his house. I think at the time I thought I was gonna get lucky, but I definitely didn't get lucky. I just passed out in his bed. Did your naked body get stuck in the window again? No, although it does, I have something to do with the window.

So I don't remember. I remember going to sleep. I don't remember much after that except that I woke up in the middle of the night and I really needed to be sick. I was like, oh my god, all I could taste was tequila. Oh, and so I ran to the window, which was directly because it was a he lived a university dorm, right, so like everything is super close to each other. The bed is next to the window, is like next to the kitchenette area two

by two by two, totally tiny. So I ran to the window, which was right next to the bed, and I vomited out the window, only to realize that there was a fucking fly screen. There was a shot like a locked fly screen, and I vomited it into the wise. Did you know that that's what you were doing? No? Well I did as it was happening, and then I couldn't stop it from happening. And then he woke up and I was vomiting into the fly screen. Can you just imagine what that's like. It's like it's like throwing

pasta through a sieve. It's exactly the same. Laura, I feel like I really should have said this as though this came in from someone else. Firstly, I've got a few feelings right now. First, I love that this other story is about window. You've got an affinity to windows. Secondly, I love that you thought this was the worst thing you've ever said, because you have sis so much worse on this podcast. Thirdly, you just reminded me of the funniest stories. Okay, so when I was really young, I've

just literally thought about this. Now. I was eighteen, so just start going out, and I was with my boyfriend who I ended up being with him for eight years. But I started dating him for six years. Just to interrupt you, I didn't. I didn't end up with this guy for eight years. I didn't hear back from him after this, so it didn't really work out for me. Guy, he literally had to scrape the vomit off the window. Can't you imagine. I think you just have to throw

the whole thing out. You'd have to do. You know what I want to know? This is what I want for next week's podcast. If any of you guys have had a story where something horrific has happened like this, like on your first date, and you've continued to see the person, They've looked past it, writ in I want to know about it, because not a lot of people stay through that. Yeah, maybe you pissed the bed by accident and then you ended up marrying the guy. I hadn't know about it. I want to know. Okay, I'm

so sorry. Continue with your story. So I was eighteen and i'd been with my boyfriend since I was sixteen. I had been out on a bender, you know when you need to drinking, been out in a bender. I was walking down the main street and we're going home and I saw a kebab shop, and you know, everyone loves a kebab when you had been out drinking. And I said to the guy, I was saying, oh, babe, I want a kebab. Did you say it like that? Like that, babe, get me a kebab? And he's like,

oh okay. So he got intop of kebab and he got you know how big a kebab is? I ate it in about two point two seconds. I inhaled it. I was like, that was amazing. Can I have another one? He was like like, you just had a whole kebab and I was like, don't you tell me what I can eat? So I had another one. I had two whole kebabs. Then the taste was so good. I was like, can be a third kebab. He's like, Brittany, I'm going to put my foot down. You don't need a third kebab.

You drunk. And I was like, don't you dare tell me what I can and can't eat. Get me a third kebab. Got a third kebab. By this time, I've never eate this much of my life, Like, don't you kebab shave me? He was kebab shaming me. We barely made it home. I laid down and then I got the wave of nausea. I vomited a kebab. It was almost whole. It came out whole, and I was just like pulled it out like a whole kebab and I was like, oh my god. And then I proceeded to

vomit for like four hours of kbab. This is disgusting. It was disgusting. Did you've went into a window screen? This is what I want to know. It was one of my worst moment was the worst night I've had. I feel like I was eighteen, So we're allowed to tell that story. I'm a mature, classy woman now, as she says as she swirls her wine. But also, guys, just to really reiterate, Well, we haven't. We haven't iterated it, but I'm going to reiterate. What I'm about to say

is that we don't condone binge drinking. We don't think that this is smart behavior by any means. Yes, it's made for some funny memories or lack thereof, but be sensible. This is not funny stuff. Oh it's funny to look back on, like fifteen years later, but we absolutely know we don't condone it. But we can look back from fifteen years ago and have a bloody good laugh and still be very surprised that we both here to tell

the tale. All Right, Well, I guess it's pretty obvious that we have made some pretty terrible life decisions and still making them. But this is what I always say. Our good advice comes from the terrible life decisions that we've made. We can tell you not to drink because we've done it. I've done it. Go around, it's not worth it. Trust me. Anyway, I think it's probably time that we should get into the questions. All Right, I'm coming at you hard and hot and dirty. Oh I

like that. It's how you like it when I come at You're like that. Oh God, I'm very overwhelmed and flustered. Now, Okay, so this is an interesting one. My boyfriend constantly wants to give me a facial in the bedroom. I don't really love it, but do I just roll with it? Okay, I don't actually know what a facial is. My jaw is on the floor. Yeah, Brittany just sprung this question on me. We did not discuss this question. You just

threw that in there. I did. I went rogue. Okay, So a facial is when a guy comes on your face. Well I got that, but I didn't know that before. I have never heard anyone actually say call it a facial. Actually, leading on from our last episode, the whole discussion around porn, I think giving someone a facial is a very porn esque move. Like I think that men who are really sexually aroused by doing that. Like I just I don't know. There's something about it that I feel feels quite degrading,

Like it feels is quite it feels a bit porny. Yeah, it feels so porny, and it doesn't feel like there's a lot of respect or love or care for me. It feels a little bit like I'm being degraded. But I totally understand that there's different strokes for different folks and definitely not hit a kink shame. If that's something that you get off on and it's done within like a mutual and respectful way, and you get off on

it as well, then like all for it. But if this girl is saying that she doesn't like it and her boyfriend keeps pushing for it, like know that that line in the sand can be pretty hard. It's so it's so invasive, Like if you don't want a guy to come on your face, don't allow for that. It's such an intrusive thing. I completely agree. I can see both sides of this. Absolutely. I don't think there's anything

wrong with it. If you're in a relationship and he wants to do that and you are happy to do that, go for it. I mean, you're in a committed relationship, you trust each other as long as you've spoken about it, and you're both on board with it. I don't see a problem with it. I see a problem with this only because she has said she's not happy with it. Maybe she's happy for it in a blue moon. It just sounds like it's his thing. I don't know where

he's gotten that from. But maybe if he's think is obviously that he doesn't want to finish inside you, maybe he doesn't have to come on your face. Maybe it could be somewhere else. But there's so many other options. So I think you just need to be really honest with him if there's ever anything you're uncomfortable with in the bedroom, whether that's the first time, a one night stand, a relationship long term, it doesn't really matter. It's your prerogative to say no and to be honest and say

you don't like something. So you need to find a compromise with your partner. Also, it's just like so messy. Imagine if you have your mascara done and your makeup done and your hair done like that's that's a whole lot of clean up love. That is what you're worried about.

With everything you've said, Brett, If your partner has every right to ask for something like we all have different fantasies, and it's nice to be in a relationship where he feels open enough that he can ask for something, But at the same time he needs to respect that if that crosses your boundaries and it's something that you're not comfortable with, then he shouldn't be pushing for that. And

I think that that's really unfair of him. If you've explained that you don't feel comfortable and it's a no, then that should be enough, Like no should be enough having said that, And this goes for every aspect of a relationship, like literally to the point of what you like to eat, Like I'm talking any aspect. If you haven't communicated something ever before, how are they going to know If you have never said that you don't like that,

they're never going to know. If you're going with it and rolling with it, he's going to think, Oh, she's into this too, she likes this too. Whether that's you saying, yeah, babe, i'll have Indian for dinner, but you hate Indian, he's going to keep ordering the Indian on that as well. Like we can't expect people to understand on nonverbal cues, like I think that often we might feel a certain way or we might feel like we're expressing a certain thing.

But unless you actually verbalize those words and make it very black and white for people, you can't expect that they know what you mean or that they got the gist. Like that's an unfair expectation. So, like brit said, with everything relationship, you have to say if you're not comfortable with it, and physically say those words so that he's

well aware. But like we touched on, if he's still pushing for this and this is like the only way that he's able to get his rocks off, then I feel like he's been watching way too much porn and that's something that he, like, you need to deal with, And that's a whole other issue. I don't think it's the only way he can get his rocks off. I think it's just something he likes and he thinks it's okay because she hasn't said anything, so I of course

it's not the only way. He's just rolling with it because it's been allowed and it's what they've been doing. If it is something you have been doing up on this point in time, like it's okay for you to now change your mind and say you don't like something. Yeah, thank you. Next yes, thank you by Felicia. I don't want you to come on, Mandy. It's very messy clean up. Yeah, it's like you use your money maker. Oh maybe it's

good for the skin, all right. Question number two, please do not try and just swing another one in here. I stick to the script, bretty okay. Question number two, how do you know if and when you should be a proactively going for a guy, i e. Making the first move because maybe they're shy or be Do you wait patiently for them to make a move. If he's into you, surely he'll let you know. Right. Guys are

just as nervous of rejection as girls are. Guys are just as scared that you're going to say no, especially if it's someone who you've met quite a few times and you kind of have like an acquaintance or a friendship with. They might think that that you don't like them as well, And so I think, grab that ball by the balls, not literally, but get in there and ask him out for coffee. For sure. I'm so about sending out the first message, chasing them sliding into their dms.

I've asked people out in public in the bars. I've messaged them, I've you name it. I think if you're interested in somebody, there's absolutely nothing wrong with approaching them first and letting them know that you have that interest. And I think these days, if it's online, which let's be real, ninety five percent of nine our interactions and communication is showing somebody you're in tested straight away. Might be literally on Instagram liking two photos, giving them a follow.

You could sit on that for a few days and see if they reciprocate, or you could just slide straight into their dam. I actually did this once to this guy who I was really interested in. I didn't know it much Sorwy on Instagram, liked a photo, gave him a follow, and then I just slid straight into his dam. I didn't even wait and I just said, dude, you're actually so funny. I've laughed at your Instagram page for an hour. We should grab a coffee sometime if you're keen.

That's it. And in my mind, who cares if he writes back and says no, or if he doesn't write back. And he did and we ended up hooking up and

having a great time and it was amazing. But on the flip side, to what you're saying, britt Like, I also think that there's situations where maybe you've known a guy for months or years or whatever, and maybe you guys you know, you're at the same work or you've got the same friendship group or something, but you've had this long term crush on them, and maybe you have great banter or great energy, and you think, like, why

hasn't he asked me out? Like there's something here. I know there's something here, but he hasn't ask me out yet. There's a very good chance that he is just fearful of rejection as well. There's a very good chance that he doesn't think that you feel the same way. So

I think, what have you got to lose? Like, unless it's a really close friendship circle where things are going to be a bit awkward for a little while, ask the guy out for a drink, or you're going to keep waiting and he's going to find another girlfriend, or you're going to get a boyfriend. Like, these are just opportunities that could pass you by, and I can guarantee you and won't be you getting a boyfriend. It'll be

him getting a girlfriend. And you're kicking yourself, why didn't I say something earlier, like I feel like that's always the case. Do you know what a really good, like

very modern and contemporary example of this is. And you guys might have seen it on the media recently, but Jimmy Fallon recently came out and said that when he had become friends with Kate Hudson, that he had a massive crush on her and he would have asked her out, or he really wanted to ask her out, and like they were friends for ages and like he'd interviewed her and they'd worked together and they just stayed friends and then she got a boyfriend and now she's married to him.

And then Kate Hudson had come out and said, I had a crush on you the whole time. Yeah, why didn't you do anything? Why didn't you make a move. So he was kicking himself because he's like, I didn't know, and she's like, of course you didn't know. You didn't ask me. Do you know what came out after that came out? It came out that the exact same thing

happened with him, Jimmy Fallon and Nicole Kidman. Kidman had this huge crush on Jimmy Fallon to the point that she got her agent to set it up so that she could go to Jimmy's house and they were going to talk about like maybe an interview or whatever. So they set it up. She goes to Jimmy Fallon's house. He turns up in like pajamas stool he track pants, opens the door, lets her in. She comes in. This is Nicole Kidman. He says, I didn't even pay her attention.

I just sat there and played my video games and sort of half heartily talked to her over my shoulder. Nothing gave her nothing. Nicole Kidman was like, I've really worked for it. I was there for four hours trying to strike up conversations about like records and PU six mid day, she's like, maybe we should crack a wine? What about wine at this work meeting? And she's like after four hours, I was like, wow, he has no

interest in me. So she left and she told him this later on, and he was like, are you kidding me? I could have had a golf Kidman again, he just gave it nothing because he thought there's no way this person would be interested in me. Honestly, some guys are so oblivious, just like some girls are oblivious, Like, if you haven't necessarily given him reason to think that you like him for fear of rejection, then there's a good chance that he won't act on it because he thinks

the same thing. He's scared that you're going to reject him as well. I think if you like a guy as a woman, we can make the first move. It's twenty twenty own that make him your bitch. Confidence is sexy, and a lot of men actually like that. They like it takes a pressure off them if a woman comes and approaches them, they're like, oh wow, like Ae, she's confident,

be she's sexy. See I didn't have to do any work. Also, just on what you just said, there's this really great like love coach who we've talked about a couple of times, Matthew Hussey, and he sort of explains this theory. He's like, as a woman, if you don't go out and get the men that you want, then you're always going to be the woman who settles for whatever wants You. Just means that you're always the receiver of whatever comes to you. You never get to choose the person that you want

to date. And so I think it's really important that if you do have feelings for someone, or you do think that there's someone who you have a connection with, like, you need to be proactive in that because because you know what the saying is wrong. Good things don't come to those who wait. Okay, you can tell them late Laura is the pessimist. I'm the optimist. No, Look, they're the realist. I'm not a pessimists. They equally come to

those who wait, but they also don't. No, I think opportunity favors people who are proactive and also ready for it in their life. Yeah. Sure, you may get lucky. Someone may walk into your life who sweeps you off your feet. That may happen. That's also very Cinderella Disneyland like whatever. You have to be proactive if you want to end up in a relationship with someone who you really want. I am just like the perfect example of both of those things, because for ever I've been the

one that is proactive and I'm going in chasing. But I still have to tell myself good things come to those sit wait, brit So I'm just like a little bit a little bite, all right. Question number three Does that mean we're doing four questions today? Do you want three or four? Well, you threw in that really crazy first question, so I think we're going four. We can girls, I need your help. I think my friend, she's my old best friend, is about to ask me to be

her bridesmaid, but I really really don't want to. We were so close until she met her fiance and then she just ditched me. What do I do? Do I just say yes and get it over and done with? Or can I say no? Oh? Man, that sucks, It's so tricky. I think this happens a lot. I mean,

friendships change when people get into relationships. Some people are better at managing their friends and their connections with their friends when they're in a relationship, but some people, some people are really shitty and they just completely let their friendships fall by the wayside. I do think that they're a period where people are afforded a bit of time to invest in their relationship over their friendships. Like I do think that that happens as a natural give and

take that happens in friendships and lifelong friends. Real lifelong friends will understand that there will be ebbs and flows in your friendship and that sometimes you'll be able to spend more time with them and see them more, and other times that's going to be less because life is just demanding and as we get older and you have kids, and you have a relationship and you have work, there are so many other things that you need to juggle

and real friends understand that. But on the flip side, if she's just completely ditched you and then come out of the woodworks as someone who's now in a really happy part of their life and they're getting married and being like, hey, I want you to be involved in this, I can completely understand why you're now at this crossroads with this. Absolutely, I think this is quite a hard one for a lot of people to come to terms with.

That transition from when you are young and free with no responsibility and friends to when people do start to get into serious relationships and they get full time jobs and they get life stresses. There is this transition and we can never really pinpoint it from being young and free to being an adult and a lot of the

time you don't maintain the friendship that you did. It doesn't mean that you love each other less or that you care about each other less, but what it means is life gets in the way and you can't dedicate enough time. Some people really take offense when a friend doesn't have as much time for them anymore. But I think that we need to get to a point where as an adult, you have to be a bit more understanding.

So I don't Me and my best friend, we've been best friends since we're five years old, so our whole life, and we are in pole opposite. So she is married with two little children, she lives in Queensland. Her and I will not speak for months and months and months. That doesn't change it with us. It doesn't change the way we feel about each other, or the fact that

we would still do anything for each other. When we speak to each other, it's exactly the same, like nothing has changed, and that's because we both know that the love is there and we just busy people in this situation. If you absolutely do not want to be her bridesmaid, you don't have to be. I don't think anybody has to do something that I don't want to do. If you really really don't want to do it, there are

ways out of it. And I did have a look at some things that you can say and some reasoning that's going to soften the blow, and you can say to you, your friend, look, I love you when I adore you, I really want to be a part of your wedding, because there's no you know, I would. I really want to see you too, Ti the Knot, and I want to celebrate your love. But financially and in terms of time, I can't commit to that because being a bridesmaid is bloody expensive. It's a big financial commitment.

It's huge, Like I think, I think that's a really easy way of getting out of the responsibility if you want out, Because if you haven't been super close over the last few months, then she probably doesn't know your financial situation and she doesn't know what's going on in your life in regards to work. So it's very easy for you to say, actually, I can't afford to do this.

I mean, I've been a bridesmaid. I was a maid of honor last year for two friends, and it costs thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars when you count up like the shoes and the dress and the hen's party, days off and travel. Yeah, honestly, it's such an expensive

thing to be a part of. So I do think you should only be a bridesmaid for someone who you feel really really passionate about and you love them, and they're going to be part of your friendship circle for a really long time because it is a really big responsibility. My only other part to this, which I think is really worth considering, is the reason why she's asked you to be a bridesmaid is because she does love you. And maybe she hasn't shown that recently, and maybe she

hasn't been the best friend. But if you do want to rekindle that and you do want to work on that friendship and you do want to get back to a place where you were before, maybe this is your opportunity to do that. And the fact that she's asking you really shows that even though you may not have seen each other that much over the last little period, you are still someone who is so important to her and is so important in her life, and you can have a conversation with her about how you feel a

little bit rejected. You'll have plenty of opportunities for that to come up as a bridesmaid, because you will get the opportunity to spend a lot of time together when you go dress shopping, and you'll have dinners and you'll you know, I just think it's a real opportunity where you can reconnect with someone who you have loved and they've been in such an important part of your life. That's a great point. Keep in mind that if you do say no, even if you have a great reason,

it's going to cause some tension. She's going to be disappointed. She's going to be upset, even if you say, financially, I absolutely can't. I like to think that a real friend, and I like to think I would a real friend will understand that. She'll say absolutely. I get that, but you do need to be prepared that it's there'll be repercussions from that. Whether she wants it to be or you want it to be or not, the tension will be there. It might change things even more. Alrighty, I

love it when we agree question number four. I wouldn't want to be in a position though. Question four. I'm in my mid twenties and I've become open with the idea of dating someone with a child slash children, but I've never done it. I'm unsure how to navigate it, and I wish to seek advice on doing it successfully. It's all new territory for me, and none of my girlfriends at all have ever dated people with children, so I just can't even turn to them for help. How

do I navigate this? I have a girlfriend who recently started dating a guy. Not so recent but she started dating a guy who has a kid, and their relationship became very intense, very quickly. And something that I noticed through social media and through her Facebook that made me feel a little bit uncomfortable was that I felt like she was using the child as a bit of a

pawn in their relationship. And hear me out when I try and explain this, but she was posting photos of herself and his kids and being like, oh my god, I love these kids so much, you know, another wonderful day with boys, and I just felt a little bit

like she was overstepping the place of the mother. And maybe I say this now because I feel like fear protective of Mali, and I think like if I was not with Matt and Matt brought another woman into his life that was posting those sort of things, yeah, that was posting photos of her relationship with my children, Especially if there hadn't been a lot of time between our separation, I think I would feel extremely fiercely protective over my children and the fact that somebody else was almost trying

to take my role. That would be my biggest advice if you are if you're going to date somebody who has children, know that in the beginning of the relationship, know that they're not your children and you are not responsible for them. You're not responsible to discipline them. The only job that you have as a partner is really to be friends to those kids and to support their when and if they need you. But you can't take

a parental role straight away. I completely agree with that, But I am going to throw a spanner in the works and da da da da da and say that I feel like that's only in the beginning of a relationship. Okay, I know both spectrums. People that are my age whose step parents they see as parents. Oh and that's what

I said at the beginning of the relationship, yph. So like absolutely the beginning, because I don't want any of you to think that we're saying that if you're a step parent, that you don't have that responsibility and they're not your children, because a lot of you see them as your children and they become your children. No way. I mean, my parents both my parents are divorced, I have step parents on both sides, Like absolutely not, Like that's not what I'm saying, And I hope that I

didn't come across as that. I mean, when you're first getting into a relationship with someone who has children, be very mindful that you're navigating a new territory and respect those boundaries. And I say this so that you are able to have as much of a mutual and healthy relationship with your partner's ex as possible. And she has feelings too, and it's going to be really, really hard for the other person to see her kids with someone else.

Even if you are the nicest human in the world, it's not going to take away from the fact that her family unit is now with someone else. My advice is really just to take the lead from the person you're dating. He is going to tell you how he likes to do things. He's going to let you know so what mark you can go to. He's going on, you know what's okay and what's not okay. When it comes to saying yes and no to things to the kids, You're gonna go off of him. You're gonna literally just

take your lead from him. In the early days, because that can cause a problem with you and your new partner as well. If he thinks you're overstepping the mark, if he thinks you're you're doing too much, you're not doing enough. Literally, go with the flow. You're there to be a friend to the child at the start, and just focus not on so much on the children, but

on your relationship with your partner. It is a big responsibility to get into a relationship with someone who has children, and you do need to accept the idea that they are always going to be a part of your life and that you can't create space between your partner and his children. Like you need to be really supporting and nurturing of that relationship because that relationship will probably be number one. That's the role, that's the responsibility he has

of bringing children into this world. You're not competing against each other. You're working together as a family. Give as much support and comfort and love as you possibly can. That's a tricky one. It's so tricky. Don't mean to put you off either, because it can be a beautiful thing and you can have a beautiful relationship, and I think a lot of people it scares them, and you do have to realize that it's not going to be a normal relationship like dating someone without kids. But don't

let it stop. You bring you through four questions in that you really got wild tonight. Well, you know, I just thought why not? We like, why not? Why not? We're just here for here for a long time, not a good time. I'm here for both times. I'm ready double time. You guys, thank you so much for writing your questions in. Keep them coming. You can write to our Instagram at Life Uncut Podcast. Just put ask Uncut

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But you don't talk about the discussion group on the page. The magic happens in the discussion group. So, guys, thank you so much to everybody who has written in questions for today's episode. We hope that you got something from it. We hope that our advice has been helpful, enlightening. Who knows even gave you a giggle. I learned something. I learned what a facial was. See next week Legends Hit Subscribe five Stars in Chaffalt because we love