Vacationing Without Your Partner

vacation for our household. Why don't we talk about vacation in which significant other? Because that's the only person I actually vacation with. Well, Okay, so here's the thing. I wanted to talk about vacationing without your significant other because oh without Well no, So I'm going to tell you about the struggle that I have because I have a friend who goes on these trips. Okay, has an incredible marriage, three children, is like stay at home mom, and she

swears that these vacations give her life. But I told her, after the pandemic, I blame everything on the pandemic. I have never witnessed this type of codependency like I have ever in my life, like on my husband. Before, I was full lose, fancy free. I could get on a plane, I could do whatever, no stress. But now even just the thought of it, I'm not sure I can vacation without my husband. Mark. And I know you and Noony go out all the time. You know, it's crazy because

I've traveled without him, I traveled with him. We've never had a real issue about traveling separately. I do know some women that will not allow their husband or their boyfriend to travel without them. They don't trust them about guy's chip. That is absolutely a no no in some household. I'm not opposed to it. I even let Noony go to Japan for like two we one time stop. Yeah, but they actually say it's good for you, and it's good for your mental and it's good for your health

traveling without your significant other. Wait, Japan is on like my bucket list, though, I really need to talk to Noony about his trip to Japan because the boys and I want to go so bad. I've heard it is beyond dope, like it is super like just everything will blow your mind. I've heard it's clean, I heard, it's safe. I really want to go to Japan, so I have like travel envyon I do call you boy, I haven't gone, and he tells me all the time the one place I want to take you to is Japan. But I

don't know why. It just feels like so far away. I don't know why I'm like hesitant on doing. It's like I feel like I need two weeks to go there and fully submerge myself in it. So I guess if I'm in between jobs at one point, maybe I'll take two weeks to get to know Japan. But isn't that a shame that that's what we have to rely on is in order to live our lives? Like I feel like now, more than ever, I've been paying more attention to just be in the moment, just treasure this,

you know, perish what is happening right now. There are so many things that have happened as of late that make me think that way, And that's the reason why I don't want to stop. I don't know. I'm having a really hard time with saying no to things that I know will be great for my mental health and for my spiritual health. Seriously, in the big, big picture of life. I don't ever want to say, well, I

couldn't do that because you know I was working. But that's the hamster wheel that we're on, that's what we all are living in. That is me Like I still work mostly remote, Carolina, and I will not leave my workspace all day. And I know people, I'm gonna get my my lashes done during lunch and I'm gonna get my toes done with my computer on my lap. I gotta change my ways, Carolina, because people aut here living

the best remote life. And I am like you and I both because if I'm not doing something for the kids, I'm doing something for work. If I'm not doing something for work, I'm doing another type of project. So I feel the same way. But let's talk about it. Vacationing without your significant other. I was very inspired by my friend who has a very full life, and she was

giving me, giving me the reasoning behind it. She was saying, as a woman, you need to fill your cup, and you can't fill your cup all the time when you're surrounded by the same people. And I said, well, no, I understand that vacationing without kids is different than vacationing with your significant other. I get that, but I said, I don't know. I went to Nashville. Honey, this is

so embarrassing. After you know, once things were good with the pandemic, you would have thought I would have been ready, ready, Okay, the streets were not ready for this. Mother. I planned, I had my outfits. Honey, when I tell you how embarrassing this is. So we get to the airport. It's Mimosa's Girls Weekend. Yeah, everybody's super excited. We go. We have this great plan. We're gonna stay at the Virgin Hotel in Nashville. I've never been in Nashville. This is

gonna be an experience. The drinks are flowing. We get there, we go to lunch, we have some more drinks. Your girl had a panic attack at ten o'clock at night, where in the middle of the streets, I all of a sudden started like hyperventilating, and I could laugh about it now. I don't know what it was, but somebody mentioned my husband, and all of a sudden, my tears start. I was like, I need to go home. I can't

do this. I need to be with my man. I need to be with my family, and yes there were drinks involved, so I definitely think that had something to do with it. I was just going to ask you that, did you feel like guilt at that moment? Like what am I doing? I have a husband, I have children? Like why am I here? Well, it wasn't even that I was doing anything crazy or solation. I think it was just that reality, like, wait a minute, what am I doing? We're still in a pandemic. Why did who

do I think? I am going to these bars where there are well, really people were still wearing masks and I was still wearing a mask, and then I'm out in these ours and these people were not wearing masks at all, and I was It was the first time that I was ever in an environment where there were more than you know, five to ten people, I guess, and I think that that's when it really hit me.

So here I am talking a big game, swearing that this is the best thing, that this is what I needed after home schooling and being home and working remote and all this stuff. Your girl had a panic attack at ten o'clock at night. They had to take me back to the hotel, put my ass to bed. They were saying, they went out actually, which I loved. I said, I'm so glad that I did not ruin the night for the rest of you guys. They ended up going back out into like two o'clock in the morning and

having a grand old time. You know. But I think that when you travel with somebody, you have that comfort, you have that sense of home with you all the time. So when you don't have it and it's ripped away, it's it's an adjustment. I wouldn't say that I wouldn't do it again, but I would actually be more hesitant to do it now, only because of what happened to me on this one trip. Yeah, oh totally, I'm not

even like I'm serious. And that was and then after it was so embarrassing because they were like, oh, you were just drunk, and I said, no, girls like that was a full blown panic attack. But it also taught me something. It made me realize how attached I am to my husband and that maybe I do need to make a little bit more space for myself and for my friends, because isn't that really what a full life

is all about. It is And you know, they say traveling is good for the soul, and I feel like it just makes you, you know, your way your significant others elsewhere. It makes you gain like a new sense of appreciation. You're like thinking, You're like, where is he? What is he doing? Is he okay? You know I love him. I hope he's now I'll get cheating on me, you know, all that good stuff. I worry about that. I was like, how many days we're gonna be gone?

This man gonna be texting all his excess? Do you really worry about that? Sometimes I'm just like, oh, stop it, get out of here. Do you let yourself go to that place? Um? Sometimes it just gives like I don't know, it gives like ample opportunity. You know. It's I think like, even though they say it takes five minutes to cheat, but if you know your spouse is going to be Let's say I went to Spain for like a week

with Bella and another friend. For those seven days, he knew I was on the other side of the world, right, he could have re sparked the whole relationship with somebody and be like, oh my life, my wife is gone. Let's get this popping again. He could be in her house like five or six days in a row. If he wanted to Andy and then been like, Okay, this is not working and gone to pick me up at the airport. So yeah, in the back of my mind,

I guess it is there. It's like, if I'm gone for a whole week, if this man got that itch, this is the time to go for it. Oh wow. See, First of all, you know I'm team Noony. I love him. I love you too. But I don't feel like he would ever ever ever at this. I really don't, but like for it would never know. No, I think he's smarter than that. But I guess from my perspective, I don't worry about Mark being alone. I will say this. So Mark has always enjoyed seeing me having fun, and

I think that is a really beautiful thing. Whenever I'm out, whenever I'm with my girlfriends. If I face time him, he's not bothered. He actually giggles and he laughs and he's like, oh my gosh, what is this bit chop too? Now you know what I mean. So he is very much a supporter of me letting loose and having fun because he knows that I don't get to do it as much anymore. Well, we were planning this trip to New Orleans, which we just took back in April, and

there was a lot of moving parts. I had to get somebody to come in to help take care of the kids, and it was just a lot. And so I looked at him at one point and I said, honey, I love you. If you want to do this, if you want to be with your friends, because it was all of his friends. I said, go have a good time. I trust you. I'll be here with the kids. It's not looking like we We just couldn't arrange for somebody to come and take care of the children. It was

a mess. And he he looked at me and he said, no, it won't be the same without you. So there was never a question in my mind of and I don't want to say allowing him, because this isn't like ownership. But there was never an issue for me to allow him to go on his own because number one, I know who he is. Number Two, I know who his friends are. I know that if he was going to try to act messy, his friends would remind him in

a second, what are you doing. So I think that there are a lot of layers to maybe taking these vacations without your significant other, you really have to evaluate where are we in our relationship, how am I feeling about my significant other? How do I feel like they will take care of the house while I'm away. There

are just so many things that go into it. Some men, a Latino man, let's say, it might be like, so I know women that are married that there would never they would rather divorce them than let them take a girl's trip. So it has a lot to do, you know, with culture, trust and where your relationship stands. Because I know some women that would never ever ever let their husband take trips to certain countries. Ever, they'd rather just

leave him. But I see Colombia hence beautiful women never And you know, my husband took a trip to Dominican Republic with a group of his friends. This was like ten years ago before we were married. And I remember thinking, this is not a good idea. These guys are gonna go out there, They're just gonna have fun, They're gonna go to strip clubs. This could be very bad from my relationship. And I remember when he came back, I kept trying to like go through his computer. I kept

trying to go through his phone. I kept trying to see if he connected with someone, and you know when you go back to these countries. Let's say I'm Dominican. If you go back to this country and you're an American man, and you're an attractive American man, you're gonna meet a whole bunch of women that are gonna want to become pen pals with the hope that they might

end up on nine. Like any girl to stress, be real when your man won't go to these countries and as latinas is how he had talked about who ordering the bottles. You know, different lifestyles. This is why I mean you work so well, Caroly, because I'm gonna be a stressed about the Domini Kanas taking my man, and you're like, Mark, go have fun. Your friends will check you. My friends will order the whole husband. That's a fact, Carolina. I like, I've always traveled. I've always traveled on my own.

My husband's never been one to be like, Na, you can't do a girl's trip. But I do know men that be like, hell, nah, you're going to men's trip. On an all girls trip. You're just gonna try to meet men and try to while out and be crazy, and some men equate women on vacation with you letting your looser side out, girls gone wild. Yeah, exactly, because you know what I've go on vacation. I wear different

things that then I would wear New York. It's like, if something is a little see through, I'm like, yeah, it's okay, it doesn't matter if the base iss here for it. Exactly when I'm on vacation. When I'm home and in my local area, I'm very covered up, I very buttoned up. I would never girl, if my nipples got hard, I would be like, oh my god. When I girl, it is different. Who want to play beach volleyball?

Don't worry about my my my bikini bottom going in my ask girl, I'm a serve and I'm like, no betaking, honey said, I said, come on, Mangha like whenever your home, you're like a little nun. And then after it's like when you out, you are wild and out letting them tats show. Baby, I'm here for it. No, you know where you know what's great? Carolina. I was off a Memorial Day weekend and that was the first time I ever wore a throng bathing suit and noone he didn't care.

I thought, wait, first of all we must discuss. You were one of those like, well, but they're very popular right now. So you were showing them cheeks, girl, you would letting them cheeks out. I was in Miami and I felt so left out. Last time I went to Miami and like, wait, hold on, but the got the thong and the flag has got the thongs and the ball that's at the thong. What I So I went

back home. I ordered me a couple and next time we went down the memorial that we get, I said, oh, look what I got, and you know what he said. He was like, don't worry about it where in Miami. Hence, when you're away and in different spaces, you act a little different. That was my thoughty moment, and I loved it. I need to bring out my inner thought. E honey, you have to help me bring her out because I'm always too concerned. And you're absolutely right. I went to Miami.

I think it was back like in March or something, just this past year. You know, my parents lived there, and you are right at the beach. It is a free for all, and here I am in my granny bikini underwear, you know, or bikini bathing suit at full coverage because I've got two kids, and meanwhile there are women with kids wearing them thongs. They don't care. They're bending over picking up all of the sand toys, but not me. I'm here trying to be like super conservative.

I need to let go of that. I need to shed that inner judgment of like what are people going to say to me, and just let loose. You know, it was cheeks everywhere, girl, I'm telling you, cheeks everywhere. It was like Donga Land. I swear to god. I was like, da, I am not gonna be the only one with the grandma bikini. I'm buying me a little throng situation. But I but I sat on my back, on my butt most of the time. I'm never gonna alle you. It's not like I was walking up and

down the beach, you know, cheeks clapping and nothing. I was still very self conscious, but I went for it. That's the first Yeah, yeah, try it. Well, let's go back to Let's go back to the guys traveling on their own though, because I feel like you touched on something that is really interesting that never entered my mind. Locations that are restricted for your significant other to go to. So for example, UM, I will say this. I've I've discussed at length with Mark, my husband, how I feel

about strip clubs. I am not here to shame anybody. I think you gotta do what you gotta do. I just let him know. Look, it makes me uncomfort while thinking about you touching another woman. And I laid it out at the very beginning of our relationship. I said, I know you're going to be in situations where your friends are gonna go and you're going to be a

part of the crowd. I'm not expecting you to be the guy who stays back at the hotel, because you're your own man, but I expect you to hold yourself to the standard that I think of you. Right, And Mark and I discussed it and he said, look, it's not my style, Like, it's not my vibe. Yes, well I go, I'll be the guy that has drinks, I'll hang out. He's like, but I'm not trying to get lap dances or you know, do anything of that nature,

because he knows what it means to me. On the flip side, I also think that, like you mentioned, there are women that get wild out there that they order a stripper or they want to go to the clubs, or they want to flirt and dance and be you know, wild and crazy. I'm not putting myself in that position.

So more often than not, whenever we're out. For example, when we were in Tennessee, a young guy came up to me, a little young Harry Styles look alike, and he came up you stopping kid out of here, A little a little young Harry Styles look like And he came up to me and I looked at me and I said, baby, how old are you? And he said I'm twenty six And I said, honey, I could have birthed you. And then I started talking about said what's your style? And then I started being his like mama

wing woman. Instead of me getting all of that, you know, because some women really crave that attention or they want that feedback from a younger man and makes them feel like they still got it, I went the other direction. I said, Okay, let's see who at this bar could be your girlfriend. You need a younger woman. And we started talking. Do you know that this kid on Instagram still follows me a messages me. He is adorable? He was like his couga mentor youre like I got you

don't care about it. Point these cool gas out. I'm gonna tell you which one you're gonna go. Absolutely, I love that I became his marina and the club I was like looking for girls and I was like, hey, ladies, do you look at this man? He is adorable. What's your name? Where are you from? And I was just connecting him. I'm I became the connector. So I think that when you look at your relationship and when you value it and you respect it, you know, yes, was

I flattered that this kid came up to me? Sure? I mean, who isn't I'm a mother of two that works from home. I barely get out. I'm always at Target, Like give me a break, you know, Like it's a good little ego snack. But it depends on what you do with it. From that point of course, you're not going to act on it. Some women might act on it, Carolyn.

And you know, let's say you're in a marriage, sexless marriage, not getting much attention that girls trip boom, you're at the resort, You're in this dominicano over here serving you to drinks. Talk about you know what I'm saying. If you're missing that attention and you don't have that mental fortitude or maybe that connection with your husband, and you're just looking for something vast and quick. It might go down. It might go down, and not in the best way,

if you know what I mean. Um, I always think that whenever I am away from my husband, though it gets me more excited to be with him, I think about that first night when I come back. Hey, hey, then it's all versacchi on the floor. And that's because you're you still you're still hot over your husband, you still love him, and you're like, when I get back, this man gonna get the ride of his life. But that's not that every relationship. So we gotta be careful

with you know, those whole those separate vacations. You've got to make sure that your relationship isn't a good space and that one person is not itching they got that itch. You know. I'm saying, if you've gone more than a few months without having sex, you'll know how. I don't know, Carolyn. I know people. I know people married people that they're like, Okay, my marriage is sexless. Now at this point, we're just married, but we don't really have sex, and sex is not

important to us. Look at Carolyna's face right now, honey, no, and you know what they're And again I'm not passing judgment because what you're saying is a reality. But I think that is such a vital and important part of

a relationship. For me, it is the way that I connect on a physical level, but I definitely think that mentally it gives me that release where I need to feel my husband, if you know what I mean, I need to And so if you don't have that, if you're lacking, I guess I could see where it could take a wrong turn. I think that the difficulty comes from there are some people who love to travel, and

there are some people who hate to travel. And if you're in a relationship like that and you're constantly the one that's going here, there, and everywhere, it's definitely going to cause some resentment in the relationship if it wasn't discussed prior or if it hasn't been a habit throughout the relationship. Because I know people too who were like,

oh man, he never wanted to go out before. Now he wants to do A, B and C. And they're resentful because that was never really the pattern of their relationship. So I don't know. I think a healthy balance is really kind of aren't we all looking for that? Here's what I think, Carolina. I'm an explorer, right. I love exploring. I love if I go to a certain country or a city, I want to see everything. My significant other not so much. He wants to lay by the beach.

He wants to lay by the pool. Sometimes he wants to watch TV in the hotel room for three hours. So I have to wait, I have to like weigh out. Okay, what am I gonna want to do. I wanted to go to Spain. I'm gonna go with girls. They're not gonna have a problem being up at seven am talking about we're gonna go to an excursion. Him not so much. So you know what, I'll save him for Camcoon, where we'll do nothing but just veg out at this hotel. So I guess, you know, figuring out like which vacation

alone is the best one to do. Honey, that is so smart And I really love that you brought that up because I would say this. I feel like we are again. And by the way, guys, please don't roll your eyes at me. I'm telling you we are not a perfect couple. We fight, we we it sounds like, oh my gosh, this relationship is so perfect and it's steady. It really isn't all the time. But I will say this, like on on so many fundamental levels, Mark and I

really click. So, for example, like what you just said, whenever we go somewhere we like to have, we'll say, Okay, we want to have the adventure, we want to do the fun things, we want to see the sites, but then again, we also want to relax and we want to have some downtime, so we make sure that there's

a good mix or you know. The one thing that I will say, if you're thinking of traveling right now, the number one thing that I do before I even go anywhere is I look up the hashtag on Instagram of the city that I would be visiting, because there are so many gems and insider info that you can find on that one simple hashtag if you really do

the research, and I go to a trip Advisor. I always go to trip Advisor to research the hotel that I'm going to stay out because there are really there are a ton of people who will provide really great feedback on that place that you're going to. So I think that having a plan is essential for me because I am a planner. That's like how I live my life. And then going based off of like what I've learned or what I've seen, And then I asked Mark, like, well, what do you want to do? What do you want

to see? And then we kind of find that that mix of Okay, well you wanted to go here, we won't have enough time to go to the volcano, so let's do this instead. You gotta find ways to compromise. This fool wanted to take me volcano surfing. Honey, he wanted to take he wanted to take our kids volcano surfing. I said, no, you will not be taking my babies to the top of a volcano. No, thank you. Smrk G. You've got to be in good standing which a spouse when you go look in you sit down there. Oh

my gosh, I am crying right now. What do you do before you go on a vacation though? Have you ever done that? Do you look up the hashtag and look up the locations on Instagram? Because I feel like that has been the greatest resource for me lately. TikTok is amazing. Girl. You go on TikTok. These people are living near life and sharing it with us. There's so many visiting Panama. Boom boom, boom boom, and there are your ten things that you need to do. Social media

is a great tool to use when you're traveling. I'd love it. Before it used to be like Expedia, those type of websites that I would look and but now it's like people around here, living in life and sharing it with us. So definitely I stopped. I stopped the hashtags see what's going on. But one thing I can tell you that Carolina, sometimes I'm disappointed. I'm like, yo, this ship looks so fire on Instagram or on TikTok, and then you get there and you can't even take

a picture. It's like three people. I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna go here and I'm gonna take this amazing picture on this flower wall, and yeah, I'm gonna go and this walkway is amazing. I'm gonna do a video of me walking out. Girl. People trampling you to death to try to take the same picture. So don't always go off of what looks good on social media because you know what you saw it. But Sol did three hundred thousand other people, so it could turn into a mess

if you go off of those social media hotspots. Very true, you don't need those butterfly wings in the background. Girl, you look fine, You're no, but it's true. I think that now more than ever, it's about show oating. I think people love to put up They went here, they went there, they went everywhere. I need to up my TikTok game, honey, because I am just so lost on it. Did I tell you? The other day I opened it up for the first time, and like, I don't know,

four weeks it was wild. I had a talking dog, I had a a guy making leather wallets, and then I got some swingers up in there, Florida swingers. I was like, what, I did not look for this. I was not looking for the Florida swingers. It was like, what is happening that misread you? The algorithm had No. They don't even know me because I'm never on TikTok, So I think it was just throwing me a bunch of stuff, just trying to see what I would like or what I would keep on exploring. And I really

need to curate my TikTok. But that's a great piece of advice for people. And you know what, I think that overall, if you think about it, maybe you're not in a relationship. Maybe you're that friend that the people in a relationship can rely on to motivate and say, hey, let's go, let's go to the wineries on Long Island. Let's just get out for a day trip or a

weekend trip. Maybe you're the thing that your friend needs to motivate them to get out of that rut, because we all need that person to tell us that we've been there too long. You know, we need we need you to like that fire under our ass, Carolina, that is your home. Girl, Bella German. Okay, this woman has planned so much stuff for the past few years. She is the planner. She's the person that says, okay, can't get a pa Panama, Okay, no problem. Oh yeah, I'll

think about it. Two days later, email itinerary the Panama flights to Panama, hotels to Panama. Like she is that person. And I appreciate her so much because I don't have the time or the desire to plan trips or plan outings. But this girl, when I go visit her, she's like, Okay, so We're gonna go to this farm, okay, and then we're gonna have brunch here, and then we're gonna have dinner here, and then there's gonna be food trucks here

on Thursday. Shout out to that friend that is the planner and come up with all these great things that we can do together, because if you leave it up to me, we'll be doing the same thing over and over again. Those people matter. They have immense worth, I'll tell you that much. And that's my sister. I love her, and she's always, you know, putting things together. Even when we have family vacations. She's like, okay, so we have reservations at these five restaurants. When do you do you

guys want to go? Should I cancel? She's our little planner and we love her and we appreciate her so much for that. Everybody needs a Bella. Everybody needs a Bella in their life. And now some of my friends have gotten into becoming travel advisors or travel agents, which is something that I feel like Bella could really do well with. I'm gonna send you this link um that my friend is doing after after we record this sounds exactly like what my friend just started doing. She's um,

this is a different mom um. She has twins and she has a daughter, and she just started working again. And she said, you know, I really love traveling. I love helping other people. And she has start did her own business and now everybody goes to her. She will plan excursions, she will seek out the best places to go and have brunch. She'll say, these are the three locations that you can go to. Whether you want Mediterranean, if you want tapas, if you want whatever. She'll she'll

suggest a bunch of different things for you. She'll make the reservations. It sounds like Bella's already doing this and she doesn't even realize that she can be making a ton of money from it. Don't give her no idea, as Caroline did. She gonna watch start charging and then I'm gonna send you hadn't even let her like live her life, have her establish her business for other people. All right, I'll let her make some sad money real quick.

So she loves doing it as it is over. If you bring up a great point though, because traveling can already be really daunting for a lot of people packing thinking of what and like I said, for me, it's arranging childcare, making sure that you're leaving everything. I had to leave uniforms, I had to leave snacks, I had to leave everything set for my sister, who again I mean we both have beautiful, amazing, gracious, lovely sisters. My

sister flew in to come and take care of my kids. Yes, because we had nobody to take care of them when we went to New Orleans. So my sister took time off from work to come and fly and somewhere. She's from New Hampshire, so she went to She drove to Boston, left her car in Boston against bella next time, I need a dog sit here, so continue. So she went from New Hampshire, drove to Boston, left her car there, flew to New York. I went to go and pick

her up. She stayed with my boys. Took a day off of work on Monday, so that we came back on Sunday night. And she was like, I'm not going to bounce on Sunday. She's like, look, I'll take Monday off. Just take me to the airport. But all of that coordinating can be so overwhelming for somebody that they need someone in their life to tell them, like Okay, I got you. You worry about taking care of home. I'll worry about telling you where we want to go, what

you need to do, what you need to pack. And that to me is so a essential when you are trying to plan a get away for yourself. So, moms, if you're listening, and even if you're not a mom, like I said, whether you're the friend, or whether you're the burnt out mom, or whether you are the the auntie that can come and help out, we got to look out for each other because this is what life

is about. It's experiencing, it's going to other places, it's about learning about other cultures and really just being in the moment. I will tell you this, I really wasn't looking forward to go into New Orleans because of the stress, and it turned out to be such an incredible trip. And we came back and I said to my husband, my heart is so full. My heart is so full because I saw you enjoying yourself. We did something together as a couple, and we made those memories and I

will never ever regret that. I love that you guys did that trip together, and when you got home, it was just like the whole weekend I need some alone time. Yeah, yeah, you know, so listen. Tell us what your thoughts are. Do you go out like do you ever feel like you had some pushback from your significant other or are they totally like go? Do you be free? We would love to hear back from you guys, so make sure you hit us up on social media. I'm at the real Carolina, hit me on the d M. I am

honey German. I want to hear the countries that are actually banned in Yo Crib from anybody traveling to us. Brazil. You mentioned Brazil nine Fance is so gorgeous. Are you watching it this season? Really quickly before we go, She's she's so nasty. Don't play about my brother, please my brother. Please don't just my blood when you cheat card and go. My brother is still gonna be here, so don't. Oh my god, wait, we gotta do a whole episode one

fiance because this season is so wild. The guy from Ethiopia talking about how he might just get his green card. I was dying these people. I don't understand, Carolina. It was a language barrier. It was a language barrier. We're gonna talk about that. I felt so bad for him because I do agree with you. I think that just didn't know how to express himself and he didn't get the actual, like the realization of your saying the surfact. Okay,

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