In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of Life Equals Choices, Choices Equal Life , Kim Olver welcomes back Australian educator, consultant, and speaker Jane Newman for the powerful second part of their conversation about transformation in education and life. With over 25 years of experience in teaching and leadership, Jane has seen firsthand the toll modern education can take on the professionals within it—and she's made it her mission to help people realign with their purpose, values, and e...
Jul 24, 2025•12 min•Season 7Ep. 257
In this episode , Kim Olver is joined by Jane Newman, a passionate educator, leader, and founder of New Core Consulting in Australia. With over 25 years of experience in education and a decade in leadership, Jane has become a leading voice in applying Choice Theory® to help teachers and school leaders reconnect with their purpose, manage stress, and rediscover their joy. Jane shares her powerful shift from school principal to national consultant, offering training that prioritizes being over doi...
Jul 17, 2025•12 min•Season 7Ep. 256
In this episode of Life Equals Choices, Choices Equal Life , Kim Olver continues her enlightening conversation with Christine Miles, founder of The Listening Path, about the transformative power of listening to understand. Christine busts common myths around listening—like the idea that understanding means agreement—and explains why real listening is not about offering advice, but about guiding people to tell their full stories. She shares powerful strategies from her framework, including the “L...
Jul 10, 2025•19 min•Season 7Ep. 255
Do you really know how to listen—or are you just waiting for your turn to speak? In this compelling episode of Life = Choices, Choices = Life , Kim Olver sits down with Christine Miles , award-winning author of What Is It Costing You Not to Listen? and founder of The Listening Path , to explore why most of us were never actually taught how to listen—and how that’s impacting our relationships, our leadership, and our lives. Christine shares how growing up with a mentally ill parent shaped her sup...
Jul 03, 2025•19 min•Season 7Ep. 254
In Part 2 of this inspiring conversation, Kim Olver sits down again with photographer, coach, and visibility advocate Angela Acosta to explore how women can reclaim self-worth, confidence, and empowerment—both personally and professionally. Angela shares how her photo sessions become transformational experiences, helping women release decades of self-doubt and redefine beauty on their own terms. Angela also introduces her newest project, Startup Stories , where she’s on a mission to raise the vi...
Jun 12, 2025•14 min•Season 7Ep. 253
In this episode of Life Equals Choices, Choices Equal Life , Kim Olver sits down with Angela Acosta—visionary entrepreneur, photographer, and founder of The Gal Project and Angela Atelier. Angela shares the deeply personal story behind her mission to help women over 40 reclaim visibility, confidence, and self-worth. Through her judgment-free photography studio and her online community, Angela is transforming how women see themselves—one portrait and one voice at a time. Learn how setting an inte...
Jun 05, 2025•13 min•Season 7Ep. 252
In this episode, Kim has a heartfelt continuation of her conversation with Ashley Patrick, a devoted mom and parenting educator, as we explore what it really means to build inclusive communities for families with neurodiverse children. Ashley shares the inspiration behind her mom-and-me craft events, designed to be calm, understanding, and welcoming to all—especially those who often feel excluded from traditional activities. We also discuss the emotional reality of receiving an autism diagnosis ...
May 22, 2025•13 min•Season 7Ep. 251
In this heartfelt and empowering episode of Life Equals Choices; Choices Equal Life , Kim Olver sits down with Ashley Patrick—devoted mom, fierce advocate, and full-time probation officer—to explore the beautiful complexity of parenting in a neurodiverse family. Ashley shares her real-life experience raising her daughter Gabby, who was diagnosed with autism at age two, along with a blended household of seven children ranging from ages 3 to 23. Ashley opens up about the balancing act of motherhoo...
May 15, 2025•14 min•Season 7Ep. 250
In this episode, Kim Olver welcomes back author and Agile coach Bia Dimovski in a powerful continuation of last week's conversation to explore how she applies professional Agile principles to parenting in an intentional, iterative way. In Agile Parenting , Bia shares how her decade-long struggle with infertility shaped her reverence for parenting—and how that perspective led her to reject mainstream trends in favor of meaningful connection, structure, and flexibility with her daughter. Together,...
May 08, 2025•17 min•Season 7Ep. 249
In this two-part episode, Kim welcomes author, coach, and parenting visionary Biljana "Bia" Dimovski to explore her unique approach to raising children in the modern age—what she calls Agile Parenting . Drawing from her own decade-long journey through infertility and her experience as an agile coach, Bia shares how she intentionally shaped her parenting philosophy to emphasize presence, connection, and mutual learning with her daughter. Rather than following conventional parenting labels like "h...
May 01, 2025•17 min•Season 7Ep. 248
In this powerful conclusion to her three-part series, Kim Olver continues her candid conversation with Republican guest Mike Corey, modeling what it looks like to engage in respectful political discourse amidst deep national division. Together, they explore the complex dynamics of DEIB (Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging), systemic inequality, white privilege, and the legacy of racism in America—all without shouting or shutting down. With curiosity and compassion, Kim and Mike discuss c...
Apr 24, 2025•26 min•Season 7Ep. 247
In Part 2 of this candid conversation, Kim Olver reconnects with childhood acquaintance Mike Cory to explore the widening political divide in the U.S. — not to change each other's minds but to model what respectful political discourse can look like. From energy policy and healthcare to abortion, transgender athletes, and diversity in education, Kim and Mike openly share their opposing views while holding space for mutual respect. This episode offers a rare glimpse into what’s possible when peopl...
Apr 17, 2025•24 min•Season 7Ep. 246
In this episode, I am joined by a high school acquaintance and thoughtful conservative voice, Mike Cory , for an honest and respectful conversation about the political divide between Democrats and Republicans. Rather than aiming to debate or “win,” Mike and I model how to listen for understanding, even when we disagree. With topics ranging from gun laws and media mistrust to Medicaid, Christian values, and government corruption, this conversation explores the values beneath the views—and reveals...
Apr 10, 2025•23 min•Season 7Ep. 245
In this episode, I dive into one of the most important—and challenging—topics of our time: how to have respectful, meaningful conversations with people who hold different political beliefs. I share my personal reflections on the growing polarization in our country, the danger of misinformation, and the importance of listening with the intent to understand—not to change someone’s mind. Then, I sit down with Mike Cory , a high school aquaintance who reached out during a tense political time, genui...
Apr 03, 2025•14 min•Season 7Ep. 244
In this powerful conclusion to my conversation with Hussein Paymozd, we continue exploring his transformational leadership journey. Hussein shares how he evolved from a more authoritarian, top-down style to a leader committed to helping his team meet their basic psychological needs at work. He explains how his communication shifted when he adopted an internal control mindset, moving away from external motivators like rewards and punishments and toward a more inclusive, inspiring approach. Hussei...
Mar 27, 2025•16 min•Season 7Ep. 243
In this episode, I sit down with Hussein Paymozd to explore his leadership journey and the profound impact Choice Theory psychology had on his approach. Hussein shares how his early experiences with mentors influenced his leadership style and reveals the pivotal "aha moment" that inspired him to rethink his methods. He dives into the powerful shift from an external control approach to a more effective strategy — one that prioritizes his employees' five basic needs and emphasizes internal motivat...
Mar 20, 2025•14 min•Season 7Ep. 242
In this episode, Paul Cline and I continue our deep dive into Transformational Leadership. We explore how ongoing training empowers leaders to cultivate employees that grow beyond their starting point—and how investing in your staff can elevate your entire organization. If you’d like to learn more from Paul, visit advancedideas.com or whop.com/life-transformation . Missed part 1 of our conversation? Click here to listen. And if you’re ready to level up your coaching skills, explore our 60-hour c...
Mar 13, 2025•18 min•Season 7Ep. 241
In this episode, I interview Paul Cline about progressive leadership—what it is, why it’s important, and the transformational mindset behind it. As you listen, evaluate for yourself whether you have what it takes to lead with true transformation. If you enjoy this conversation, be sure to return next week for part 2 of our interview with Paul Cline. You can register for our Basic Intensive Training in Choice Theory and Reality Therapy here , or if you'd rather get your questions answered, set up...
Mar 08, 2025•17 min•Season 7Ep. 240
In this episode, Kim explores how to navigate the painful transition when an intimate relationship comes to an end. Whether it's due to divorce, distance, or a conscious decision, the loss can leave you wondering how to move forward. Kim breaks down Kübler-Ross's stages of grief—reminding us that the process is uniquely personal—and shares practical strategies to help you let go with grace, rediscover balance in your pain, and step confidently into the next chapter of your life. If you're ready ...
Feb 27, 2025•23 min•Season 7Ep. 239
Join me in this engaging episode as I explore the art of negotiating in intimate relationships. Unlike typical negotiations focused on individual gain, true success in your most personal interactions requires a collaborative mindset—one where both partners embrace, “I want to win, and I want you to win too.” Discover how shifting your perspective, practicing empathy, and unleashing your creativity can lead to win/win/win outcomes that benefit you, your partner, and the strength of your relations...
Feb 20, 2025•24 min•Season 7Ep. 238
In this episode, we dive into the transformative "Alone Stage"—that often challenging period between relationships. Instead of rushing into a new romance, I explore how embracing solitude can help you heal, gain clarity, and learn invaluable lessons about what you truly want (and don't want) in love. Discover why this time of grieving and reflection might just be the secret ingredient to creating a happier, healthier relationship next time around. For more insights, check out my book, Secrets of...
Feb 13, 2025•19 min•Season 7Ep. 237
In this episode, I continue my fascinating conversation with Alyssa Utecht , a transformational life coach and intuitive guide on a mission to help others find their voice, reclaim their space, and step fully into the life they love . Alyssa believes that healing our relationships—with food, finances, family, and ourselves —creates the foundation for living authentically and unapologetically , leading to more joy, ease, and abundance. We dive into the powerful tools Alyssa shares with her client...
Jan 30, 2025•17 min•Season 7Ep. 236
In this episode, I sit down with Alyssa Utecht , a transformational life coach and intuitive guide who empowers others to discover their voice and reclaim their rightful place in the world. Alyssa believes that healing our relationships—whether with food, finances, family, or ourselves—enables us to show up authentically and unapologetically, opening the door to greater joy, ease, and abundance. In Part 1 of our interview, we discuss the biggest obstacle people face when making decisions, practi...
Jan 23, 2025•20 min•Season 7Ep. 235
In this episode, I wrap up my conversation with Dr. Gary Sanchez about his WHY.os system—an innovative tool to uncover your operating system: your why, what, and how. It has proven 100% accurate for me and for thousands of people Dr. Sanchez has worked with. In Part 2 of our interview, we dive into what might be even more powerful than your WHY alone, how to leverage your WHY.os personally and professionally, and whether it’s better to build a team of like-minded people or those who complement y...
Jan 16, 2025•29 min•Season 7Ep. 234
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Gary Sanchez—better known as Dr. Why —to explore the nine core “WHYs” and the revolutionary WHY operating system (WHY.os). Dr. Sanchez boldly claims he can help anyone find their “WHY” in just five minutes, and he once did exactly that in Florida with every audience member over a remarkable 14-hour span! Beyond revealing what truly drives us, Dr. Sanchez also guides people in creating a powerful personal brand that truly reflects their deepest motivations—som...
Jan 09, 2025•24 min•Season 7Ep. 233
In this final segment of our conversation with Tony Lamar2, we explore the transformative work of Reentry+ and its role in helping formerly incarcerated individuals reintegrate into society. Tony clarifies the distinction between justice-involved and justice-impacted individuals, explaining how Reentry+ provides critical support for both. We wrap up with Tony’s powerful message of transformation and evolution for everyone touched by the justice system. You can hear Part 1 here . Be sure to regis...
Jan 02, 2025•15 min•Season 7Ep. 232
In this episode, I have the opportunity to interview my colleague and friend, Tony Lamar2. Tony is the Visionary Architect for Reintegration and Mental Freedom® who has overcome systemic barriers to inspire others to reclaim their strength and potential. With years of lived experience and professional leadership, Tony has shaped criminal justice reform in Georgia, influenced initiatives nationwide, and dedicated his life to helping those impacted by incarceration redefine reintegration. In part ...
Dec 26, 2024•18 min•Season 7Ep. 231
In this episode, I talk about the only thing everyone has to do and how everything else is done because we want to, rewriting the painful stories we've fabricated in our heads, and how to turn the painful events in our lives into GLOW, the acronym for gifts, lessons, opportunities, and wisdom. These are tools to use throughout life to minimize the experience of pain. You may also want to listen to Part 1 and Part 2 . Finally, you can register for the Relationship Recharge Retreat here ....
Dec 19, 2024•16 min•Season 6Ep. 230
In this episode of Mental Freedom at Work, you will hear the part of the webinar I did for the Southland Development Authority about using Mental Freedom at Work. This part takes a deep dive into the Unconditional Trust Challenge and your responsibility once you gain the clarity resulting from trusting people for the right thing. You will find Part 1 of Mental Freedom at Work here . Part 3 will be dropping on December 19. You can register for our Writers Group here ....
Dec 13, 2024•16 min•Season 7Ep. 229
In this episode, I talk about Mental Freedom, how it began and the first prinicple of Responsibility vs. Response-ability. I offered a webinar to the Southland Development Authority and this is the audio version of that broken up into three parts. This is part 1. If you like it, you can come back on Dec 12 and 19 for parts 2 and 3. If you want to learn more about taking a Mental Freedom Experience, you can learn more here . There is an advertisement at the end for our Writers Group if you are in...
Dec 05, 2024•18 min•Season 7Ep. 228
