Welcome to fucking Dandy land hosted by Rampage and Gemini. What's up everybody? Welcome back to Candyland. Yes, we are in the month of February, February 1st. Well, we have to start off immediately. Because right before we record, you literally send me the link. I hop on your like I have so much to tell you, let's do this. So let's go. Okay, so the other night, I went to a concert with my dad and I have been holding this story hostage because I really wanted your reaction.
I'm the I guess. But so I was at this concert with my dad and this band is called Lucero and they've been around for, like, 25 years. It's kind of like a, like a drinking beer, kind of like country. Rock Vibe. And so it into Quentin my best friend and tattoo artist ran into him. There, he's there with some friends. My Dad's friend is like a groupie for this band. So basically, like his friend was like, when 2nd was going to Georgia went to Nashville Solomon.
Louisville was going to go see him in Florida. So it's kind of like you know this little small venue and everyone there is pretty hammered and obviously I'm not drinking because I don't really drink but my dad is having a good time and this lady just like started verbally attacking my dad. Like my Dad tried to like get around her. After going to get a drink and coming back, and she like looked at my dad and was like, my boyfriend is coming back. My dad was like, okay cool.
My daughter was Jesus next. Yeah, like she's a he was like my daughter and my friends are right there. I just need to get right there. So excuse me. And she was like, you can back up and was just like, saying all this stuff and my dad was like, I'm literally just trying to get around you lady. Like I have nothing but good like Vibes for you like do you? I don't care about your
boyfriend. Like, I don't care about you, like he was not even like hitting on her because like, when all this happened, I turned around and like kind of sauce. Of it. So this lady literally like, kept being like so weird that every time we would turn around and look behind us, she would be like flipping us off and stuff and with her sanity, honey, you know that kind of gives me anxiety because like she's behind me. So I kept kind of looking back at her.
She kept giving me dirty as look, she wasn't like saying shit to me, but then when my dad would like go get a drink this one time, she bent down and booty bumps. My dad and his like groin area twice hard, Bit down to like swing her hips and booty bump him. So then the third time that he goes back to get the drink. Her boyfriend is standing there with her at this point and he's like do you know that guy like what you're doing bitch?
Like What's your deal? Because I do you know that man like and she's like just doing all this stuff like the hand motions of like sucking dick like like the tongue on the side of the jaw. I'm not going to do it. But you know, every time we turn around and my dad look, At me dead in the eyes and goes, do I have a sign on my forehead?
That attracts crazy bitches and I kept asking him like, do you know that girl because it was like, she knew him or was like mad at him, like, the way she was acting was like, so bizarre, because, like my dad doesn't use social media. Like, he doesn't get on dating apps. Like, I don't know how he would know this woman and he was like, I'm literally so confused, but every time we would turn around, she would be flicking him off. Yelling.
Fuck you. You're You're an asshole and my dad would just look at all of us like this confused look. And we would all just laugh but she just kept doing it. That's fucking. I wonder if he was mistaken for somebody else. This one time when I lived in Montana, I went with my dad's girlfriend of the moment and we went out to this bar and this girl legit was like, kept on looking over, like she wanted to fight me and stuff. And my dad's girlfriend walked over there and was like, what's
your problem? And she's like, she slept with my husband and my dad's girlfriend was like, no, she just got in town. Like Like and so the whole night girl had beef because she thought I fucked her husband because I look like some broad. I wonder if like that girl. Yes, thanks that your dad looks like somebody. Yeah, that's what you're so, calm page, I did knocked a bitch
out for being like honestly. I think my dad was like trying to make sure that I was like safe like he, you know what I mean, they can share like she, yeah, we nothing or whatever. But like, I don't know, like, it's funny because when I go places with my dad, people really stare at us.
Hard fucking core. And my dad's one of those like happy drunks, he's like, put his arms around people, he's like a hugger and so like or Out Swinging his arm around me like Pat me on my shoulder and just like just being silly and whatever. And like, so people look at us like and one day my dad was like, I'm going to get a shirt that says, this is my daughter is like because he will be looking at me. Like I'm the old part, that's
what he always says. He's my people are looking at me, like, we're like a couple or like together because like my dad. Doesn't look really old, you know what I mean? But it also kind of just looks like I don't know. Like people are just paying attention to us and my dad's a real like social butterfly kind of like me. It's Holly where I get it from but this lady was like harassing him and like it was the weirdest
thing. This is why I don't go out in public, like, it was so weird and like honestly, I was just so confused and then my Dad's friend, like his son was there with his girlfriend, why I ended up knowing a bunch of people Mutual with these people. Like they went to the same high school that I went to but graduated like eight years after me, so, you know, whatever. But it was really crazy because they were just laughing like we were all just cracking up. It was just like, what is going on?
You're influencing the younger generation to what you said, that they graduated eight years after you and over there. I wasn't there with them. They were just like, that's my dad's friends. I was just kidding. That could be in Lonesome to go live their best life.
So right before we got on here, somebody that is on both of our patreons was like I love that you and Paige tag team me every month and with our readings because she was talking about how they're always just like like they're aligned. Like, they both just we say different things and fill in different parts of the same message. And so, she's like, I love getting tag-teamed by you guys
every month. And I was like, we love tag-teaming you and I put An Eiffel Tower and then I sent her the three-way song by Lonely Island and Justin Timberlake and Lady Gaga. It's so good. Well well but now that's in my she's like sending laugh
reactions. I'm really glad that we were able to do what we're doing with some of the same people because I feel like that's really just like grounding our message together even further like how we're so connected and like the similar types of people that are Attracted to both of us. Like, are they? Like both of us together? You know what I mean? And it's crazy. How many people are still like, hey, can we do an interview on
your podcast? And we literally said it like, every episode that we're not doing any interviews until the third season and that will be down the road and that will probably still only be like VI Peach, and that's it. I was just gonna say, probably just going to be, you know what though? I would one day. They like drop their podcast and everything.
I'd love to do something next season with Justin Peach and talking about what they're doing, because they're like, pretty influential with what they're going to be doing 20. For sure. I'm really excited about that. I don't really want to do a photoshoot with Peach. Dude her she always just looks fire. Like everything is always like like a professional and she's so
cute. I am, she did this post and she was like if anybody is like wanting ideas whatever like I'll do a like basically you pay her and she'll like if you business advice and you'll talk or whatever. So I reached out to her and I'm like I'm always looking for tips. Like I I'm always about like figuring out what somebody else is doing and she's like oh let's just pick a time. And I'll just talk to you on FaceTime and we'll talk some ideas.
She's just so sweet. Well I want to be on that call three-way three-way threesome there any sign of attack teams of each. I don't know. Like I'm really glad I passed Title 18 by Beach. I'm really glad that were able to connect with like just really Empower powerful and empowering people.
In every way, shape or form. Like, I love it, like, especially, because a lot of the people that I feel like I'm connecting with on a deep level now is like, so deep, like I'll reach out to one of my friends who's an artist and I was like, would you want to trade some artwork for like, you know, reading or like some merch or something? And she was like, yeah, I'd love a reading. I was like, okay, cool. I was expecting her to take a couple weeks, literally, like two days later.
She sends you the finished painting of what I wanted, which is Like an Alice in Wonderland theme with, like the cat and like the clock and wow, Borden stuff, it's like done. And it's so far and I'm like, okay, well, you need to be patient with me. Like, give me a little bit of time. I was not expecting her to just be like wham bam. Thank you ma'am. She was like I was so inspired to do it. I'm just like yes. So it's really that is so joke. It looks so cool. Do you already have it?
No, no. It was just literally like four days ago. I've suggested this. And then two days ago, she sent me the finished painting and it's like an 8 by 10 because that's what size I wanted and it's amazing. It's can't wait to see it. It's so cute. Honestly, she sent me just like a video and a screenshot it, but it's so cute in like, It's just cool like how like aligned people are in like how we all just have this connection in different ways.
I was thinking earlier how we have this connection with like different women and like strong personalities and like hardcore like in their business and stuff and we have never had a like an issue with somebody. Like there's never been any kind of like weird drama thing inside that Circle. Do people that like we both Vibe with are now like getting in contact and like, you know, Jessica and peach or now
starting a podcast together. And it's because of you that like, I met Peach. And that's how she met Jess. And like, I just, I just think that it's so dope. That that, yeah, we have all of these people that, like, are here for both of us and like the energy, but they're strong personalities. And like, we, I feel like we all learn things from each other along the way. My cat is true. Show his strong personality right now. He's like trying to swat at me
and like I can barely see you. It's like it looks like you're in the comfiest darkest cave and I wish. I really like, I told you I was ready to record but like on chill mode. It's been icing here, snow and ice. Well then I'm turning my lights down so that I can match your Vibe. I just don't even have really any lights on. It's just a movie in here but I just can't I just can't right now. Like honestly one of Of my
readings canceled tonight. And it was because she said she had like, a weird reaction to something. She sent me a picture of her face is like swollen poor thing, and she was like, I'll pay a fee. I was like, don't worry about that. Don't worry about none of that. Like you were good with a poor girl like was hurting. Like she was like her. I was like swollen shut. So, yes. I know. So, that's really why I'm in like this chill mode because I had other things To do that.
We're going to keep me busy but now that I can kind of chill and relax a little bit. I'm like, Well, and I was like, dang I'm gonna have to stay up late if we're going to be recording late. So us getting to record earlier is bomb as fuck, for me. I, I interviewed Shannon today for coven rejects. I love her. She's so cute. Oh, he's so fucking cute.
She is. So, like, when I, and I've told you like, I have to write down notes when I'm interviewing, because I'll get sidetracked or whatever, all hyper fixate on one thing. And so after we were done, she sent me a message and she's like, would you mind telling me What you were writing down while we were talking. I was like, I should, I should probably.
Yeah, she did. She was, she likes that hearts and whatever but I was like, I should probably tell people that like oh, by the way, I'm really nervous doing these interviews and I have to write down thoughts, or I get sidetracked. I'm really excited about how the podcast for you like is able to network with our podcasts because that's cool, I like that. And that that like that Shannon girl. And I literally found her from
Other person. I just feel like if I Vibe with you, I just need sound and people that I Vibe with and then follow them and then they become like my sister, my brother. Like I know, I feel related to them now. Like, no, I'm like, okay, well, I'll see you on Christmas honestly. I really want Sean and gold to come visit because she was talking about it, but she's
like, super busy. But when it warms up, I'm literally going to push the envelope for her to come visit to because she's like, I've never been to Kentucky. That's so funny that you say that because when I was on live earlier, someone was talking about being neurodivergent and I was like oh we actually talked about that on like it like a
lollipop. We had Sean angle on and then I pulled out her mushroom magic book and I was like she wrote this like super cute book and so a couple people said that they went to Amazon and bought it all of that you know. She's so like 10,000 of those like in the first couple months she's really about so dope sheet Forbes wrote about her like she's pretty late. Honestly that girl like is going places and then this isn't like Arena.
I feel like her potential is just so Limitless the way that she does her stuff because she is neurodivergent. I guess. It's so like unique. We talked about that before. So yeah, I'm like I get obsessed with people in their journey and I have emotional connection to it and it's cool that people feel like that towards us as well. And it's also cool how like were doing readings for people and then they join our communities. And then they Bob with both of us.
So then they join both of our communities and then they they're like oh, by being the sleazy, then they joined his community. It's like Christmas. I get messages from and this is just so funny to me. But every time that I ever dropped a podcast episode with him, anytime that like anything, I'm getting messages from girls being like, Oh my God, he sounds so sexy. Oh my God, he's so hot and I'm like okay so go and his Yeah, he's single as a pringle. It's crazy, it's crazy, it's
crazy. How his girlfriend that he had was like jealous of the Wolfpack text. Y'all, we have a group chat. It's just us three, and we talked, and send goofy stuff back and forth. Sometimes and sleazy, was dating this girl who is not with it. She was always hating on the Wolfpack. That's why I, he had a cycle her out hating on the Wolfpack for no reason, Into like, I don't know. I just I just think it's so weird when people are like you're not allowed to be friends, like it's not weird.
It's a group text to. So like I don't know what you think is I mean menage a trois but like no thank you this think so many people are insecure. And honestly I like people who don't try to control other people and try to like dictate their happiness in life like so anytime I see people in relationships Unfortunately, I hate that when they're in relationships, like that, that's just like constant drama for no
reason. Like, if you are upfront about your feelings and emotions, I feel like that's where a relationship has like security. And there isn't a bunch of like, needing to argue about a bunch of stuff that doesn't matter. Like, I don't know. I saw it takes off the other day and it said me when my girlfriend would say.
I bet you probably deleted it and he said, Yeah, I did the hitch, be quicker next time and I want people have that like mentality type deal and like I laughed about it because at the end of the day, like people are going to do what they want to do, regardless of what you want them to do.
And the more that you try to control them, manipulate them, tell them what to do, the more they're going to resent you and then the more they're going to feel rebellious to do exactly what you didn't want them to do. And it just makes it worse. And that's where you need to stand on your boundaries.
I'm also just one of those people who, like, I don't go Husband's phone, he doesn't go through my phone, like not because like, hey, I'm hiding something but just like, that's your space where like I have conversations with like my friends about shit that I don't necessarily want somebody reading and like I would assume that there's vice-versa about his life and you know like I just for me if I have to look through your phone because I don't trust you, I'm not going
to be with you because I could be going and doing something else. And if you don't trust me then you should be going and doing Doing something else too, because neither one of us is done anything to Warrant that literally, I feel like so many people don't trust their partner
though. And that's what I was talking to someone else about recently about, like, I hate how people compete within their relationships and I know we but like the intimate ones because I've dated people who like wanted to compete with me or wanted it to be like a competition. And I just don't see why anyone would do that. Like what's good for you is good for me. Like if you're winning and I'm Austin, and then vice versa down the road, then like I'm with it.
You know what I mean? It's balance. Like I would love the opportunity to like be with someone who sees that. Like, it isn't a race against your partner, or your friends or like whatever.
And I know that, we talked about that a lot, so clearly like super important because like being authentic and just being yourself is so key to actually being around the right people because most of the time you're settling in your relationships because you're watering yourself down and if you actually stepped in To who you really were. Maybe you and that person really wouldn't get along or maybe they actually wouldn't really like
you. But when you Dim yourself down and you act like mousy or like, you know, you bite your tongue or hide from what you really want whether it's like in the bedroom or in your real life like at any time. Like some people keep like even personal stuff super private from their partner and it's like, how is that supposed to be
your partner? Like if you can't talk about vulnerable things with them, Yeah, I think that like from a married perspective, I think that there are times that come up that like jealousy gets in your relationship or like you have like an insecure moment because you're projecting or
something. But there's a difference between being able to have a healthy relationship Dynamic, where then you communicate about those things and you're like, yo, like I'm not happy here because of this and like we need to work on that and being able to have those conversations instead of
being a nun. Healthy Dynamic and going well you're not allowed to go do that and let me see exactly what you're doing to prove my point and belittling somebody and then taking away like their freedom and something. So I think that that's important to say to because there is a lot of people have like, a trait of just like walking away. And there are certain times that things are healthy. That you can like talk your way through that.
And also like being vulnerable and talking through it before, it becomes like a major issue is soaking, most things could be solved. Rather like rather quickly, but people like bottle up and they let it like kind of boil under the surface, where it feels like, there's definitely some type of energy lingering at all times, like your relationship is always going to feel unsafe or uncertain or you'll have more insecurities, if you're not grounded in life.
Your own voice and like what you want and what your boundaries are and like, you know, you can approach boundaries for my nice and compassionate way. If you know, your partner is going to take it as an attack. But at some given point, your partner may not be on the same chapter as you and either y'all need to get each other up to speed or like, you need to be firm and what you're about to do.
And I think I see so many people that just water them self down for so long, that you lose yourself. If you lose yourself in the connection, you lose yourself in the friendship. In the bond, whatever it is. And then whenever it's gone, you feel empty? You're grieving at you feel like without something but really the whole time it's probably for your best. Yep. Yes, to all of that. But who wants to let go of the comfort zone? Like not a lot of people. I don't know.
I just I feel like for me I had to get to a spot where I knew that I'm comfortable always walking away regardless of why, and like for me, it took being in an abusive relationship to be that person because I used to be very like people, please e, and I just want, I don't want to step on your toes. I just want you to be happy. Like, I'll be whatever. And it took having an abusive relationship for me to be. Like I will always be willing to walk away if it Doesn't deserve
me anymore. If I if if like I'm if it's continuing to be a problem, I will be okay walking away. And so for me, that's helped me be able to be in an odd way. Helped me to be able to be, like, trusting in my relationship to because I feel like that's okay. I'll I don't mind walking if you would treat me like that. And so I don't feel the need to like, control everything and that has led to their been fucking crazy fucking things.
That like my husband has done. And if you're honest with me, I don't like, I don't care. I'm not you know, don't cheat on me, fucking go Buckwild be Farrell in these streets. I mean at this thing honesty and communication is key and like not looking at other people's relationships to judge what your relationship should be. Like is probably more important too. Because like if it works for you in your person or like whatever, then like it works for you all,
you know what I mean? And I think that's what's important as well in relationships is really learning. What is the fundamentals of your connection? Not what? Other people want your connection to be, and I'll see a lot of people that, like, have relationships under the surface, like keep it real hush-hush and sometimes I wonder like, what does that actually stand from? Like are they just a private person or is there some type of discomfort or like discontent
image? Something like some kind of image that you're not keeping up or like whatever. Like some people keep their Partners like a fucking secret. Like, you know what I mean? And I'm like I don't want to say all those people are cheaters because Maybe they're not. But like I just wonder what that stems from. I don't know. Sometimes I wonder like because I don't post like my family on my social media really.
Like if we go out on like a date night or something, I'll post a picture of me and Brian. But for the most part like I don't have pictures of us up on social media and things and a part of that is just like my family is really private. Like my husband doesn't want to be on social media, he doesn't do that and I don't want my kids online because people are
fucking perverts. So Sometimes I do wonder what like, you know, doing content and like being like, where people are watching you sometimes I do. Wonder, how much do I have to share to? Like, let people be in and how much do I am? I supposed to keep to the side? No. Yeah, and I'm just genuinely curious, like, I'm not judging either way because, like, I want to like feel like a lot of my
life is pretty profit as well. And like, normally, whenever I am in a relationship, it's extremely private. And so we In like exclusive for like, at least a six months to a year, you know, I mean, like, I don't just get into a relationship or start talking to someone and then be like, blasting them all over my socials, but I eventually like would post them if it came to that point, you know what I
mean? But like, I just think sometimes, like, when people are too vocal on social media, they're like absent in their relationship to, you know, like, I don't know. I have my thoughts and opinions on different things, but I just am genuinely curious. What motivates people to keep like there? R Prophet like are there dating life?
So private but like you know some people don't fuck with social media like they don't want their whole life out there and like I respect that I just love to like kind of I don't know, I guess like people's brains, you know what I mean? And kind of like see what other people think about just different concepts with dating because dating is such a fucking like, interesting concept. I think that it's really cool that you and I have Different Dynamics with things.
Like we honestly live such different lives. Like you don't have kids or like a husband or anything like that. You can go do what you're wanting to do. Like it's just so different and so I do think that that's why we have this like duality of audience and things too because we speak to both of those experiences.
And the way that like, you talk about dating sometimes and like like what you want I'm like I hope that you get that, but also I know how fucking frustrating it is to see the same person every day, like, no matter how much you love them. And, like, working through all of the, there's so many different things that have come up being married and like being around other people that are married, that I wouldn't have imagined coming up before I was married.
Well, I think, like you said though, it's just such a parallel existence to be like with a person every single day, like, you know, you're about to be with that. And every single day for me it's like I don't know if people are coming or going, I don't know, I don't know day-to-day like how people are going to act because you've already watched it in the
last six months. How people like ride this roller coaster and they get on this adrenaline how and they first meet me and then that plummets out like later and then they're like, whoa, I'm ground zero right now. Like I need to go do me and it's not like I don't even think that people mean for it to be anything personal because I
don't take it personal. I think it's like I Don't want to embarrass myself or I don't want to like promise something I can't do. I don't want to like create some kind of like Grudge because I think some people in their mind or like I'm going to go you know do me and then maybe in the future I could like hit her up and she wouldn't be mad or like we'd be cool. You know what I mean?
I think some people like their reasoning is like I'm not at the level that she's at. So I don't want to embarrass myself. I'm just going to exit stage and like I don't take it personal but like the dating World itself, people are so possessive and like controlling like If we are not in an exclusive relationship, the expectation of thinking that you're just not going to talk to anyone.
Elses so weird to me, I could see like if you're in an intimate relationship and you're having sex with someone and then maybe asking them like hey like what's up are you know what I mean? Because that's like safety and sanitary issues. Like if you're fucking someone else I would at least just like want to know so that I can make my decision on that. Not like you telling me Oh you're the only person but I don't know that.
If I like being celibate and dating has been so easy because like taking the intimacy portion out of it, it's like, do I like you like, can I sit with you and watch TV and not say a fucking word can page. If you would slept with anybody that we just had the fuckery over the last, what happened? How long he's better than the last?
Yeah, if you had slept with any of these people, I would have flown to Kentucky to shake you because I would have been like what is going on because homie, who like could you imagine You know, if you had slept with homie who had his either, he messaged you or his mom a message or whatever happened there the post, or like any of these people, I could I could list but we've already dog them. We don't need to give them any
more back there. But what I'm saying is like, I think the dating world needs a fucking reality. Check it needs like some soap, its mouth, we need a scrub, we need a scrub around here. Like, it's not healthy the way people act as so unhinged. And that's why Why? I'm just like, so over the people who like lead One Life online or lead one life and then like that's not really them. I also have to correct myself because I was out here rooting for you to be a hoe in these streets.
I did not say, hey, I don't think that's the person for you. I was just like, oh, if you want to go do that, you totally should. So, let's just let me just be honest with that and good behavior. I Listen, I'm your friend and I support you getting some but also I think that none of these people are like worth anything. But like if you want some in your trying to get some have a
nice time. Yeah. So like I said, taking taking that factory, y'all don't stand a chance unless you actually have a personality because I am not attracted to people that I cannot actually connect with like I don't care. It just doesn't work for me anymore. It's just like I can't do surface level. Like I don't know.
I'd rather you be like a hot mess Express and like be vulnerable about like whatever whoever you really are then like hide that and try to act like some fucking watered-down version of yourself and be like, I'm normal, even though you go home and you hate yourself like, you know what I mean? Like just air out the dirty laundry are out the skeletons. Like that's what I like. I like when people are real with themselves and they can be like, yes.
Yes, I'm working on this or yes, I need to work on this or you know what I mean, are just be accountable for where they're holding their self back because like that's some energy that I can grow with that's energy that you grow with that. You can learn with that, you can actually build a bond with. I'm like not real big on like jumping into anything.
I feel like it's going to have to be like a longevity of like actually going through some different seasons together without actually dating like exclusively. Just kind of like hanging out. Not rushing people, not rushing myself because y'all be showing us your colors around 3 months at my at Max, Phi 3 months, you already done it. So, but three months in, you're embarrassing yourself. And we're talking about you, honestly, I don't mind because it really is kept things, you see.
Juicy juicy. It's a good candy store. Today aka the Dollar Tree and they had big lollipops. I got three of them. The big Rhino I was looking for, I was like, oh we could have come here and I could have gotten the lollipops for the photo shoot. I didn't realize that they had those there, but I bought a bunch of candy. I bought like nerds and Snickers and Junior Mints and the shape of Hearts.
I found out that you can get big boxes of, well, not big but you can get boxes of fruit snacks there and thing. They're always so fucking expensive when you go and get them other places. So I was like, oh, this is a steal, you know, it's crazy. We were just talking about Five Below and then they made a whole, I know they've been going live, every single night, and I've been like, oh, this must be a part of their life. They're like new.
Because they're always like, switching up what they're doing. It's their content and getting views and things. And so Mimi, and Haley each. Go live on their pages and Bunny Goes live on her page and they're all live in each other's videos. And I've been noticing, they've been doing that every night since they've been in Vegas.
Not that I'm like, stalking. But I, you know, I absolutely love it because the Vegas house is fucking gorgeous, like that bathtub is just everything that they've missed serving everything. Like, I'm happy to know someone who could just upgrade there. Bathroom like that because that's totally me in five years. I'm gonna have a bathroom like
that. Like so yeah I'm really excited for bunny because getting this TV show and being able to film it in Vegas is going to be so vital for her because it's just like giving her so much Publicity just things that she deserves and she's doing it. Herself first. She's like, We're going to she's doing it herself. Her production company is putting it on. She's gonna have it on patreon and then they'll bid to sell it to a network after they've already been doing it.
So she's already like building up her audience even further herself because I see people in her comments all the time, how do I get to watch the show and whatever and she tells him to join patreon and they say they will. So she's getting all these new People. And I've noticed that there's so much less that's jelly rolls, husband and their wife, and there's more, that's funny,
that's funny. And y'all better take note of it, she's actually about to hit a million followers on Instagram. I mean, she's already hit like 5 million on Tick Tock, but she's not said a million on Instagram and I'm really pumped for it because when I saw it went up to 900,000, I was like she's in the home stretch and she's going to be grinding it in said, hit that Millie.
And I love that because she's such a good person and she really does deserve it because it's like she doesn't put people down to get where she is, you know. Like she's just so kind and like, oh, we'll take care of it or oh, like no problem. Let me know. Like, she's just like, I don't know, she's not one of those people. It's like, oh, I'm famous do
this for me for free. She's like, okay, how much you charge and I'll pay you double like and that's what I fuck with her about because like that's how I feel about things is like I don't want people to feel like I'm trying to take advantage of them or You know, I like that real bitch energy and that's why I mean, her connect on like a soul level because I don't I don't want to take advantage of someone who's on the come up, were on the rise or even someone who's hit their arise and then
try to get something for free from them. Like that's just not me. And I know a lot of people are, always trying to get Brands to sponsor them or writing people because they have followers, like, oh, send me free stuff, like, that's icky and energy. Like, you know, if you want to collab with someone and it makes sense like, do you. But people think Think like, oh, I have a lot of followers.
You should have send me free shit, or you should just whatever it gets on my nerves and Bunny does like the quite opposite. She's like, let me show you why you should do this. Like let me show you what I'm doing. Like you know instead of like
all talk and not doing shit. She also is always if someone is end because I've listened to her podcast from the very beginning and any time that anybody was ever talking about their come up, and then wanting to do something that she knows how to do. She's always like, oh I can help you with that. We can help you with that. Me and Mimi will give you tips after we're done recording like I have ideas for you and she's consistently been that person and has continued to be that person.
No matter how much she's doing. Like she also is so she's always showing gratitude and saying thanks to her audience and the people supporting her and she Being somebody who's like, been there from the beginning. And like, what? Like, I remember when she was doing post, sending people money for like doing Raffles and spending money, like, spell this out so many times in the comments. And like, if I notice you, I'll send you money.
She sent me money for hot wings one time, and, like, she's just, I've watched her hustle to build her platforms. And it's so fucking cool to see somebody put in energy on everything that they've been saying they were going to manifest and fuck. He make that shit happen and I'm watching her is such an inspiration to me.
Like, I'm so glad that I found her like four and a half years ago and like just started connecting with her journey at that point because watching her on the rise like from being sober and just like really hustling and all that. It's like damn like I love that the other day when she wrecked the Mercedes and jelly was like I mean you bought it and she's like I don't like I bought it for you and no I feel bad and they're like he's like do Let her drive without her glasses.
I was cracking up. I was like a sofa. Like that's how this happened. She didn't have her glasses on. I know. And I could see that because she always talks about how she's blind. So, I mean, obviously, you should be backing out the G-Wagen if you don't know where the rocks are because those are pretty stationary like those are. Those were Boulders. They really were. He's so close were calder's. We have Boulders so to keep you in the Driveway. I don't know.
I think people that do what they say they're going to do good, things always happen to them because you're not stepping on people to get there you're not hurting people to get there like you're you're staying true to you. You're not selling yourself short, you're not selling yourself out. You're not selling your soul. You're not changing who you are to get people to like you, but you're just showing up in your Ross form.
You know, being the wildest version of yourself and people just will either like that or not and I know that people are always wanting to throw shade on.
Ever, but it's like the way that you respond and stay in your powers, most important thing because people are not always going to support you well enough you know that you're putting yourself out authentically and that you're like you're showing exactly who you are, act like that also helps you to give less of a fuck when people try and pull you out of your power and say things about your name that are untrue because you know that
you've already showed yourself. Like you don't have to defend yourself because your actions consistently in your character. You've already proved that. Yeah, and that's the thing is like a lot of people want to tell everyone what they're going to do, but it's like, you got to show people. You got to, you got to lead by example, because if you're just saying it, you're never actually making that change or making
those moves. Like, it's just talk and I think that's why bunny was able to do what she's been able to do is because like, you know, whenever she met jelly, she did whatever she could to make sure that he had what he needed. So, he could do what he needs to do, because she believed in him and then look. So it's just like, she deserves Everything is. It's the most wildest story.
I can't wait for like these documentaries and like these movies to start coming out about them because like the story in itself, like the world really does need to hear because it's inspiring. It's inspiring to watch people that like, were in prison or like, wherever doing whatever, like, come up and be able to help people on the way they
didn't have to step on nobody. They didn't have to sell yourself out and I think that that's what's so cool about like, owning your own production company operating from your own record label. Well, you know, not having to answer to anyone and that's ultimate goals. Like, that's Altima goals right there.
I don't know for sure that it was the war that he was in but jellyroll went and did a concert at the prison that he had been at. And I think that he did it in his old Ward, but he brought struggle and Adam, Calhoun was him and literally set up a stage there and did a performance for the inmates that were There. Okay. Johnny Cash, calm down. Yeah, it was fun. It was fucking dodos. So cool. And that's like, giving back to, I don't know.
I feel like he is spending so much money getting like youth programs, and to juvie and stuff like that. Like, he's really doing something with the stuff that he has, and he actually donated the all the proceeds, from the concert in Nashville, To the juvie down there. Yeah. That's what I'm saying.
Like Okay. So crazy, you know, life can really change and I think if anybody wants to learn anything from this episode is like your mindset, your energy, your intentions matter, and it's the reason that you're either getting what you want or not getting what you want. Period. And unfortunately, we are taught to do well in to fear into like, you know, anticipate the
timeline or anticipated. But like at any given rate like I know, Know that like what is for me is going to happen and like, I'm just so in that power that's like even if it is five years down the road, or even if it is 10 years, like I will get it period. Like it'll happen and so I think that's exactly what they did. But both of them were I'm gonna do this and then they did and now you can watch it from the sidelines because some people never thought it would happen.
You know what I mean? And I think that's why I'm like so attached to Bunny at the hip like She could do no wrong in my eyes. I know should we call her our godmother? But she really does inspire so many people and thanks to her like I'm able to connect with so many of you know their fans like that also have like connected with both of us and like she brought us together.
It's just like this woman is leaving this path for so many people and it's so inspiring whenever you see the path for yourself, start to open up because you get out of your own way and you start believing that you know what, I can have that too. Dude, that is my godmother. I say all the time. One day I'm just one day just I don't know I just remember finding her page and starting to follow her and I never would have imagined that following somebody would lead to everything.
Like I wouldn't have had that reading that I had with you. I wouldn't have probably started the podcast. I wouldn't have You know, like it literally and and nothing that she even did other than being herself. And so it's it's also a weird concept that to then think that now people listen to us. When I don't know. It's like this whole round about circle of like healing and sharing and I just think it's dope.
I'm grateful. I'm really grateful for everyone that I'm crossing paths with right now. I know that there's like a lot of Change and uncertainty. So it's cool to like see people even come and go because like people even impression and some people don't like, that's why
you like, remember some people. And you don't I want to be one of those people that people remember regardless like if we like our friends or we are we staying each other's lives are not like I don't want to be like, you know, I didn't like her or like you know I want to be that person is like leaving a good impression on the world and like trying to create that ripple effect. And I think like when you show up as yourself and you With that energy, like doors, open
miraculously for you. Like you starting the podcast and stuff. It's like you have to be in the energy or the frequency of like what you're looking for to like are you up to see it? Anyway, it's your to be able to see it. And like someone said, one time, you know, when you see people healing growing not only touching other people's life but then like maybe making money as well or like creating art or doing something that makes them. Really happy weather like and all levels and forms of
abundance. You can't unsee it. Like you want that for yourself, whether you're making money or you're just happy doing it either way. It's the same thing. And I think that a lot of us search for that outside of ourselves, but really the whole time. It's like within you, it's within you to find that like, who are you? So then you can then surround yourself with people that match that vibration, or that are in that frequency or in that Arena.
And even if it's just like, wow, I want to be like that person. And having people who inspire you, even from a distance that you may never talk to is still so important. Yeah, following gray people that inspire you. Like if I hear that like, Beyonce inspires you, I'm just like, you need to check yourself but like, no offense, I think a lot of celebrities like Our trash. I like the things I do is trash. So like when people idolize them, I'm like, wow, like your life has almost no meeting.
It couldn't have that much, it's because they idolize the things that they're able to do. They idolize the way that they aesthetically look. And the life that they portray that they have, they don't have to. They don't actually idolize like how the person is and treats
other people and whatever. / and that's what's crazy is like we don't have that many good role models and Society of people that have good character and that behind the scenes are like good people, like all the way down to like Bill Cosby, you know what I mean? Like people idolize that man forever and then all this craziness came out, you know.
I just think that deep down like so many people are sick and twisted but they put on a good show so you just need to be careful of what shows you're watching in general, whether like in real life or on TV or whatever like just what you actually absorb really does affect your mindset because you're picking up that vibration regardless. Yep, maintaining your vibration is key.
But right now, everything is really rapidly manifesting because we had all those portals and we are like, approaching the two, two, two portals. So, like, it's really been a big portal since last year when it was 22. 22, 22. You know. So it's like this past year has been hitting different. I have been in this energy of being organized and like setting myself up for like longevity success and not being overwhelmed because I make
myself organized now. So that as things keep growing, they expand in a healthy way and I don't feel overwhelmed. And I feel like if I lay those foundations out while Things Are You know, before things are crazy busy because as soon as things just started, getting busier for me, I just kind of was like, in shock mode real quick and didn't know what to do. And I want that and I want that long term without being stressful. So it's just been a season of organization for me.
Well, I need to organize some stuff last year, I was feeling real organized but this year like I did organize for a while. That was kind of like the goal but I could definitely organize something. Paperwork and go through some stuff and probably get rid of some stuff. I like cord different papers and stuff. I don't need really like, I don't need to keep up with all that we all have something. Yeah, yes we do.
We all got something, but I am just grateful for you grateful, grateful for the opportunity, the podcast, the friendship that everything. Yes. And I think, To be here in Candyland and we're grateful that we have been able to connect with everyone and different ways. Especially recently, I feel like it's more and more people are coming out of the woodwork out of the spiritual closet. Yes!
Open up getting it poppin. And yeah, I'm looking forward to next time, I'm grateful, it's all just going to get better and bigger. Yes, baby. So we will see you all next week. Bye.