Welcome to fucking Dandy land hosted by Rampage and Gemini. Okay. What the fuck is up everybody? Welcome back to another episode of lick it like a lollipop here in Candyland with Rampage, lollipop is getting Merch. This month, we are going to be dropping some new designs. This is going to be an exclusive merch drop. That's only going to be available on Gemini's website so you're going to have to go to a coven of rejects.com to purchase
lollipop merch. For this exclusive drop, we're working on something really special right now, and I really feel like we have so much of our foundation, really settled. That like, the next layer is going to be us recording in person, and I'm really looking forward to that, but also getting merch out on the streets. I'm excited about the merch. I really like the fact that we're doing a limited like we're dropping it.
It's a couple different things. We're dropping and that's like it that you're going to be able to get from it. So it'll be a limited thing and it's a celebration for it, being the one year anniversary of Lollipop. Yes, it is the happy birthday movement and it's really cool because we've decided that we are going to take the month of July off of the podcast because it is like the peak of Summer. We're going to in season 2 the last week.
Eek of June. So no episodes in July and then we will come back in August with season three. Holy fuck, dude. Were going to be in season 3. All right. You know what the best that was that was the arm. The best thing that I feel like we did for our podcast was making it no guest season 2 and
just having you. And I because, like starting a new podcast together having never Recorded other than coven but it was just the two of us. Then jumping into this podcast, both of us trying to figure out our flow together and like not being awkward in general and figure out our Dynamic and then throw another person in there and like it fell.
Real stressful season 1 but I feel like we needed that and well I mean we had to learn what was working and what wasn't working and having guests was just it was cool to get to know some people and like network with people. People. But I think there's a time and place for that. And we've kind of established that like this podcast is for our creative Outlets together, and I love doing interviews on other people's podcast.
And I love talking to other people, but I just think it was too much to people trying to interview one person. Yeah. And I think that we both kept it, we kept encountering a lot of people who we never put on our platforms that were just like not who they were when we would see them online and then we would try to interview them. And I think we got to the point that we're like, fuck this shit like this is weird now. 10 k, 2 and 3.
Come on. Yeah, I don't know why people were being so weird, but I honestly think that like, A lot of people think oh they have a big following or oh they've reached out to me that they have good intentions, but I'll be honest. It be the motherfuckers who have never listen to an episode. Never purchased an oracle deck, never signed up for patreon never did shit. That went all the trade secrets that like wants someone to help
them get ahead while. Meanwhile, they want to step on you or meanwhile they want to hold you back and that's what blows my mind about the internet as you can get this. This total Persona of someone and it just not even be them whatsoever in person or in real life at all. And I mean, we even had people that were like, I'll never speak this on my platform, but I'll speak it on your platform and then we're like, well, that we got that a lot like multiple
times. People being like this, isn't this, the message that I want to preach on my platform but, you know, I'll come over here and say it over here and then not only is that a bad taste but those are the people who Never going to shout that project out because they don't want people knowing how they're maneuvering off of their page, which is weird to me because like, why do you feel comfortable to speak it to to strangers on their platform, to their following?
But give none of that energy to your following. Then like, who is your following getting, like, how many different layers of your personality are you hiding because you don't feel comfortable to express your all. Authentic self. And I think that's where like I draw the line with certain celebrities or certain creators. Are certain people that I just don't rock with their brand at it. Don't rock with their message I just don't rock with them so don't support them.
I feel like people can have a million different personas. I mean, you can, you have people who go online and pretend to literally be one thing to scam people and then turn around and have a day job. And you have, you know, you have people who maybe like all that they do is put music out here and then they want to go on other platforms and they want to be, you know XY and z or yeah, I think personally I just think
it's fucking weird. And if mine, like if people are going to go and look at me any project that I do, I'm going to be the same fucking person all the time because it would be really hard to be like, oh, I know that I'm like all Zen over here and like peace and love and rainbows coming out of my butthole. But then over here like I'm, you know, doing crazy shit and raging in an alcoholic like it would just be it would just be strange.
I mean, I think a lot of people don't know who they are, so they just conform to whatever is comfortable like whatever. Their Partners doing whatever their friend group does, like people just conform and they don't have any authentic energy coming. 90% of the time. I won't say not, no one, but I'm just saying, like, most people who don't need from the internet seemed as if sometimes, they're not who they say, they are always at not. I mean, it's like half and half.
I mean, it's not like, I meet everyone from the internet, but I think a lot of people just feel more comfortable to be a different version of Themselves on the internet that they wouldn't be in person. I guess is what I'm trying to say, like you said scam people or to do whatever like some shady shit or to talk shit on people's post or do just be a
hater on some fake page. But then you go and you're like, a teacher or like, fucking who knows what, you know what's been wild about doing the podcast, both our podcast, because we've encountered it, and also coven is, sometimes it's the people that have the millions of subscribers Purrs and are saying that there's somebody and have these huge followings built on authenticity and being themselves and being so loving and then you start talking to them and you're just like trash,
like millions of. This is my thank you. And it comes to spiritual workers is like millions of people following them does not mean that they had. That they're super spiritually. Gifted that they are over abundant and this way, it just means that they've been good at marketing themselves. And their focus has been on marketing and building that up to make a scam for what they lack. And I don't fuck with that.
Also to add to that. That is a lot of people that are trying to sell you something in the spiritual Community. If every fucking thing they say, is them trying to sell you something. Like, here's some advice would also want to sell you this. It's like sometimes they don't want to give you the Trade Secrets. They don't really want to help you and enough in like a real authentic way because they want you to need them. Them, they want you to need their guidance or to like need
them. And I think really, my goal was spirituality is like help people who have their own resources and their own go twos and be able to pull their own cards. Like yes, you'll never be able to eliminate spiritual healing or practitioners completely. But I think that for like a basic question here, they're like, yes, you should be able to pull your own messages, you should be able to trust yourself enough to follow your own intuition. And a lot of people don't encourage that.
I feel like there's a lot of competition in the spiritual realm with those people who are in the spotlight. I think there's like one girl. She goes by like hot high priestess or something and at first, I like her energy but then she just started getting on my fucking nerves. And every time I would see her mama for you page, it was like, you know, it just seemed very fake. Like this is what's getting views.
So, this is what I'm going to talk about, kind of energy or like those messages, that just don't seem authentic. And they just seem so, Well, as like the reason a lot of my messages don't get a ton of interactions because they're not for everyone, they're not meant to go viral, they're not meant for a million fucking people because, you know, when you start talking, generally to people people want to latch onto
things. And I think so many people just find General things that they see that are popular or that are exciting or that they're relevant. Like, the Aaron Carter girl, that is using him for clout in his death. You know, I think a lot of people just see what the Avenue is. Is to get to the top and they just start stepping on whoever in between that they can just think it's so grimy.
And Like and still using the say, I can't even get into the Aaron Carter thing because it it actually like fucking still pisses me off. In the fact that this person still is like commenting on other people's things, your his family's trying to contact you. He's trying to contact like I just it's so fucking tacky to me and I think that comes from a desperation, it comes from, you know, people are good at scamming people in Desperate Times.
Some people are good at scamming people in desperate times and they will find when people are heartbroken or when they're, they're really low and not that they're not gifted, but they use their gifts in a way to be like, see I'm healing you, I'm healing you when they're actually like picking at a scab and whether it be that person or it be other people, there are a lot of people that do that there are people who like they won't be
your friend and really talk to you about stuff unless you have drama going on and then all of a sudden you find that friend all up in your business all the time because they are thriving on that energy. And the only time they feel needed is when they can console you. At the end of the day, I pay attention to the people who are genuinely happy for me or genuinely live in their best life. Do you remember that you're on Tick-Tock love. I ended it. He's like, I can't handle my business.
She ended it. I think so many people do just need a reality check like on actually what their priorities are, what actually is important to them. So that they don't stay in that weak-ass, bullshit energy. Because so many people stay in that low vibration because they don't want To change. They like the drama. They like the good. No competition.
Like, okay, if I don't hang out with people who are elevating, then I don't feel bad about fucking sitting on the couch every day and I'm doing whatever I need to do. Yeah. You find people who support your habits and yeah like I didn't feel bad about doing drugs when I hung out with people who did drugs or like encourage doing drugs like had no problem with it, thought it was sustainable.
Even looked around. And saw, you know, those older people that are like in their 30s and 40s with for some reason gravitate towards young adolescent teenage adults. I now see how like that happens. It's because those people don't have any fucking friends their age and no one their age fucks with them because those people work and have goals and have kids and have things going on that they show up for. But these other people that like drugs or just negativity or just
chaos. A drama like that's their activity log of the day, then they like drama, they like going and oh my God you cut me off in traffic. I'm going to yell at you, you know those people who just get like overly worked up about something that's just so basic like on the fuck on but that's their entertainment because that's their focus. I do a crazy road rage though, for real. I mean wow. Why are you so worried because people can't drive it. As long as you don't hit me. I don't care.
Stay awake. You know, I feel like if this, I'll give you an example from this morning, it's the speed limit is, 55 you going, 40 is being a fucking douchebag like, okay, that's a problem. They're breaking the law. They're going under the speed limit. If you If you break check me for like I don't give a fuck cuz I don't get brake-checked when I'm right.
It's not even a break, check, its when people suddenly fucking stop because they weren't paying attention and they were on their phone and they didn't see people stopped. If I'm going to hit you because you weren't paying attention. I don't fucking like, like I'm just mean, I mean, I think my whole fucking hand is out the window because if I'm gonna give you my finger, you're going to see that whole fucking finger. I'm gonna go get my It's done on Wednesday.
My middle finger is going to look fly as fuck. Were you gonna do huh? You got a new nail girl. I'm gonna go and try somebody know because I'm tired of not having my nails did and we're gonna we're going to see what happens. So Jim and I no longer has a day job y'all. I'm still going in there on the mornings because they, yeah, I'll talk to you about that. Oh, they don't want to let you go.
Do they, you know what, though? Honestly, like and I was just talking to you about this, like, I feel like, I feel like I have been, like, running ragged with just so much shit. And I've been like, I just need free time, and I just need two things, cleared up and like, whatever and hiring Tony has been super helpful for giving me free time.
But then I've just been having like different Changes made and like people have been elevating out of mentorship or you know whatever and it's given me like just a little bit more free time with just a little bit less responsibility.
And I feel like I can actually do all of the things that I need to do without feeling overwhelmed and I'm excited for like when you find an assistant for yourself because I I didn't realize stuff that I was doing that was just like, super time-consuming that kept away from other things. And I'm just now starting to handsome, buddy, things. So, like, once you have find your person, like being able to have somebody be like, oh, I have this idea to improve it and
you don't have to do anything. I'm going to go and handle that. I just wanted you to know where you come up with an idea and they're like, I've already contacted a b c and d, The Sounds going. It sounds like a plan. You know what, I just pulled for. You the four of our Earth. It says, in the past you were too frivolous or too cautious with money but now you're making good business decisions and giving to those less fortunate. Shut up. No, you did not.
That's where it is. I've been holding my green money, candle, this whole time too. So the fact you pulled the Earth one, you know, the when you detach from what you think you want things do work out. I don't really think I want like an assistant assistant. I want a creative director or someone unlike like like how me started out doing her hair like I want to, like I need someone with a more creative aesthetic, Vision that brings something to my life that I'm not doing for myself.
So like you said, they're bringing ideas to your life that you weren't doing for yourself. So yeah, like that's what I need but as far as like the day-to-day stuff like I don't know why, I don't really have a lot that I could delegate to someone. It's all in my brain. Perfect. Fucking example. Now that we have to re-record our ads, delete our ads, and add new ones, every single month, assistant Duty, why is that even a thing? You know what?
I think that because Spotify just took over anchor, I think that they're just on an in-between thing, trying to figure out how to make it work. And I think that they are Are there obviously adjusting what they're doing, periodically. I just asked the help guide today and customer support when I reached out. I'm like, so, the Spotify have any, like, any plans on changing this for us. So that, as you know, people using the platform.
We don't have to spend hours going through every episode to do that and he said, yeah, they are working on it. So I don't understand why you would need to remove something that was already there like that student. So basically the ads that we have recorded when we post the ad into the episode, that ad is a pre-recorded segment and so if they've linked up their monetization to that specific recording, you're good to go. If that recording no longer.
It's Nolan void and you're not getting paid for that recording, then it can't be in your episode and they don't have a way right now that they're monetizing it outside. I'd of that reporting. That true sounds like a shit show. Y'all sounds like a shit show. That's the kind of, that's the kind of shit that you know, when we talk about like stuff that goes on behind the scenes like
that's real like that's right. Yeah that's a helluva example because that sounds terrible doesn't like they're changing their breaking things. That weren't broken. They are breaking things that were not broken. Yeah. And I don't like that, I don't like when platforms to start making things more difficult.
I've noticed that Well, that bought the blue checkmark are going up like hundreds of followers, though, like a month, I have noticed that and that's annoying that they're like suppressing regular Creator content and if you're not paying
them. So I love that we've already built a rose in the foundation with the podcast because at the end of the day, Instagram, at this point, for me is just a tool for my own creative expression because I post stuff for my business and it doesn't get any interaction because they're not showing Showing it to anyone.
It can be extremely heartening and, you know, uninspiring for a creative person to want to put an hour or two hours into a real or into a Tick-Tock, when they're not showing it to anyone. So I just want to give a piece of advice, everyone. That like, you're building the brand that is yourself. Whether you're selling something or you just, you know, you're just funny or you're just cute or just whatever, you know, you're selling yourself.
And at the end of the day, these platforms, think that they can live. Alice but like if one day if we all just were like we're going to do it Instagram blackout we could shut down their platform for a whole day and they would then start listening to people. And it's just the fact that we're always competing with one another rather than coming together that keeps us doing this. Because now it's like, oh, the people who bought the blue checks, and the people who earned them are upset.
And then the people who are just realized that, you know, not everyone, really needs a blue check because not everyone's that important like, I promise you that just because you have a blue truck, doesn't make you any more important. But for some reason they sold us that like symbol blue check for the last 10 years. So we put this importance on it. That, oh my God, someone's in my likes with the blue check, that's important. But now that you can buy them.
It's like they're going to suppress. Everyone's content who's not paying for their platform. Its everything's moving to a paid platform, just like 8 Grand and Beyond. It's just kind of shitty to me that people don't realize that by buying their blue checkmark, they made it so that everybody who doesn't want to do. That is now, like, all of our content is suppressed like you fucked us over by you guys. Trying to be somebody that you want by not earning that blue checkmark.
And to me it's the everybody gets a trophy and I feel like if it works for you and you fucking got the blue checkmark and you're like oh like I feel shit talked about or whatever like and fucked us over but like go do you and I I just say that like someone was non ten twenty fifty thousand followers should not only be getting to the 5% interaction and I know there's huge creators with 100,000 followers that are not even breaking a thousand likes now and it's like that's 1% of their
fault. Wing is seeing this and that's just unacceptable at this point. Brooke is doing that to Facebook. I used to get so much energy. Alright, pictures on Facebook. Like I used to get. That was what got the most interaction? And so I would make big announcements with like photos. I haven't switched up what I'm doing. I get literally 1/1000 of the interaction that I used to get
on that fucking pot. Grazie, that you say that is the less I use Facebook like stories and reels and stuff that when I do post something, it gets so much interaction like this weekend. I posted one of those cap cut Clips but with no sound like, just the cap cut it had over 700 views on my story. I barely even see 700 views on
an Instagram story. And I have tripled the amount of following on Instagram. It's weird because they're trying to push their platform to a paid platform, but they know they're never going to be able to make Facebook paid because there's a certain amount of older generation people. There that don't give a fuck about a blue check. They don't care about any of that stuff. So they know Facebook will always run on ads and they need
more content creators on there. So, I feel like they're giving me better interaction on Facebook, then they are Instagram, but they want me to link my Instagram and Facebook together and I refuse to, I want to do that. And also, I keep on getting asking me to do paid reals. And yeah this audience whatever I'm like I'm not going to pay you for that my so the chiropractic office that I go into they wanted to do like a Facebook campaign or whatever.
So I set it up for them. We did a budget, we did the budget that Facebook recommended. You're going to meet this many people in this area, not one single person out of the 30,000 people or whatever, it said, it contacted called our office. Like that's that's just fucking weird to me. You're taking and that's like, I don't think that anybody who paid for their, who pays for anything is getting what they're paying for people who paid for
their blue checkmark. And they're like, I'm gonna get personalized customer service with Instagram and Facebook. You're going to get the same old shit that you did before. You're going to report a counselor is scamming to be you. They're not going to do anything about it. You're going to have to wait, 48 hours to hear back. You're going to get a response that says get more clarification. They're never going to respond.
You're going to follow up. It's the same fucking thing and everybody's paying $15 a month to say I have personalized customer service. I mean, the thing is is like they didn't want to get rid of this Gamers to begin with. So their solution was selling us a blue check and that's what I said earlier about spiritual people. When they're always trying to sell you something. They in their part of the problem. Like Facebook's part of the problem.
That is part of the problem. With the scammer issue, they wanted their Ratings and data usage to go up when it was declining. So when there was 20 million accounts per person, all of a sudden, it looked like it was new user data. And that's the problem, with this whole situation is when meta started being publicly
traded on a stock market. And a lot of these people, these Governor's, these people that wanted to ban Tik-Tok the people that are on the Supreme Court have investments in meta, it's fucking public knowledge. You can go to this certain way.
Site and see all the publicly traded stocks in fucking, I guess America. I don't know if it's America are period, but you can basically see each individual person on the Supreme Court that is a governor that has their hands on the government, is also invested personally in their personal finances in Meadow, and there was other pop-up companies that haven't been announced yet that are like taking investors to build their platform, and it's basically, a Great.
Competitor of tick-tock. And you're telling me that you didn't want a walk. It's not just Clapper, no, it's not Clapper. It was another app that hasn't been developed. I'm talking, like, a bunch of rich people have got together with some tech companies and they're like, build a new app that we control Meta Meta, tried to buy Tick-Tock from its owner and he would not sell good like eight years ago. Five years ago or something.
I like it its developmental phase, like when it was just being like piloted, they tried to purchase it. Meaning, they never wanted an algorithm. That was actually going to give you exposure without paying for directly. Hey, never wanted an algorithm. We're you everyday people such as like that. Jesse Lawless girl, if she would have never went viral on Tick-Tock. I mean she wouldn't be famous in my opinion, right? Like who, what was she doing before that? I mean, yeah, it's her like no
shade. I'm just saying there are a lot of creators that hit that million two million dollar amount and now they're doing A full-time creative work. Yeah, I mean yeah I don't know all the stuff that I think she was a hairdresser before she did Tick-Tock and now she's hey pumpkin and everybody and making money on it. So hey punkin. Make that dollar. I think it's a wonderful strategy but that's what they
never wanted. They never wanted that to actually be possible so that Joe Blow could come up on his everyday lifestyle and actually make money and get exposure to his business, to his creative, whatever to his I lent, you know, there's so many people with sick, talk that have been linked with really great networking opportunities, that would not have happened without this platform that basically is for the people because that's not ran by the government, or by
meta. Who's ran by the government because of the lobbyists and the people. And that's why I like I encourage everyone to, you know, listen to podcasts. Find people that inspire you and do what inspires you You because that's what we need more of in
the world. We need people who don't care if they're going to get seven likes or seventeen thousand likes, like they're going to post it, they're going to show up, that's what I always do. I might not be the best at what I do every single time, but I try to over deliver, I try to show up. I try to make sure that I'm putting the energy out there because if you don't put it out there, you'll never know. So earlier I made that real for us and literally got like eight likes.
Okay, cool, like, whatever. But they do that because it's taking you Off of that, they hear the word Zoom. There's hot words like Zoom is a hot word. Lincoln bio is now became one any.com anything. That's taking you off of their platform, that's encouraging you to sign up for anything is instantly demoted on Instagrams,
algorithm. Which is fucking stupid because if you let people just Network through their people are going to go and use it more because they can find things, they can be. Now, people are not using search engines on, like, Instagram and Facebook to find like before used to go onto Instagram or Facebook. And you used to be able to be like hairdresser near me or something like that. And used to be able to go and let the parents to G page and like see who's near you now.
People you going use Tick-Tock instead because it's so much more user-friendly than it is to be over on Instagram, and people are going to be showing videos and stuff of their creative aspects over there as opposed to going on Instagram where they know nine people are going to see it versus Millions. I mean if Instagram wasn't being so lame with how they rolled out the blue check mark, they could have maybe actually enticed people but like giving you my government.
Name and linking it even though I'm being tracked on my phone, I know that I'm not going to blast my government name on the mother fucking Instagram header just to pay you $15 to do that. It makes no sense to me. Like I can verify my identity with Instagram and them, not need to verify my identity with everyone. Yeah, I think it's like a safety measure. And some of these people are not seeing that like, especially for like sex workers. There are psychos that follow you.
If you put any type of sexual explicit content on the internet, you have psychos that follow you. I was like those that follow me and I don't even put explicit content on the internet. So I know for a fact that there are plenty of psychos, what are you looking at me all crazy? You like, your booty cheeks up on there. You'll be posting your whole movies just now notice. That's sexually enticing. No, I don't do it. Yeah, your Instagram. What do you talk about it?
Like five years ago? I don't know. I just know. They exist. Thank you. I'm just trying to call me out y'all. They do be creeping for the titties. They do you can continue but they do. Nice hitch is trying to call me out. Okay well I don't I'm not blasting everything on there like What I was going to say is people that do sexual content that have put their full name on there that have children. And children are in schools.
Like that's some weird connect, the Dashi, and I don't have all that, so I don't know booty on there. I have, I have my own opinions about people, putting their kids on their stuff anyways, and just because like online Predators stalkers. Like all the things are a real fucking thing. And I am crazy about true crime and I don't care that it makes me a helicopter parent likes. Scammers, literally take pictures that I have of mine.
I did one video with mac and scammers fucking took it and made a fake page about me and then use that video. Like, you can go fuck yourself. I'm good. You can go fuck yourself. So since we're live on Tick, Tock the stick. Oh, shit. I forgot the or live on 6, October. Yeah, y'all sorry. That's hello. Maybe, now people who ran over to your Instagram to go. See the Movies the boobies, the off to scroll cattle. Wavy scroll. This is all I got to say fuck
what anyone else is doing. Because half the people that you think are doing better than you are, fucking not doing good at all and they are trash and they are living a trash reality that they have convinced you and this illusion because of what they wear or what they drive, or wherever they work or what the fuck ever that they're cool. Or that they're popular that
they're successful and happy. But it is the people with the most white Immaculate kitchens that Be the most miserable motherfuckers because anything that looks like it came out of Home and Garden Magazine screams infidelity. Okay, so someone looks like their shit is to spotless too white to clean. You need to check it because I probably saw their husband on the. Are we dating the same guy page on Facebook? Pretty sure he was in an episode of cheaters.
What's crazy is? They posted someone in that group and he was on that like get married before, you know, Them show. Really? Yeah, that's not enough to already know. He's a red flags and I didn't know what would be Either he married a girl, he never met and of course got a divorce because like how is when does that ever work? Okay, I want to know who that is, but that sounds like love is blind. And I watch Love is Blind. Maybe said I was being here. That could be here man.
Why are you out here? He's just looking for love. Thank you. This fish is online. It was from 2015. They said it's when he was on there. Oh, I don't know. I don't know, I'm just saying, he could be, I'm gonna put you on Wife Swap. Did she is human joked about it with Brian? I would frighten somebody else's husband, like, what about whenever we were in, you saw and you told that, girl, that she wouldn't be in a good wife.
I did say that she said that you are being a ho and I know you had dick in her mouth and her around your mouth. Last night I did, he was like, and you have a husband. I know it's fresh, you've only known him for two months and a quarter of that you've been married. But You got a dick in your mouth and it wasn't your husband, but I know you were drinking vodka so I know you couldn't remember.
That's what happened. I know you fucking road that bitch in two wheel drive after you drink some vodka. And put our lives in danger. After you sat there and begged us and pleaded all fucking day that that gonna be the one fucking thing that we do and you didn't know how to do it. You think she drank vodka before?
I think that she drank I think that she was already drinking before we went and I thought I did not want to go on that fucking thing and then she was like it's a whatever and you guys wouldn't be able to go If I didn't and then the fact that we are fucking slipping and shit, and she doesn't have the fucking mental capacity to be like, oh, maybe I'm not in four-wheel drive, I think that bitch was fucking drunk and I think that she was shocked, she made it down to the bottom.
Well, we made it, y'all, we made it y'all. And I had appreciation that we did. Make it cuz it could have been like her death. It sounds like I hope her husband listen to that podcast episode. No, she blocked me on everything. Yeah, because she listen to that episode. I want to know you fucking listen to it, too. How weird, like, what did she do? Like a burning Bolson, like, ceremony, with all the things that she's bright from your brand, and my brand I wonder that too.
May I wonder if you know what I want to know is I wonder what version of events. She went back and told her friends, but the thing is her friends are all drinkers. So she goes back and is like all I was doing is having some drinks, they're going to be like, oh she's not going to be like it was a spiritual event, you know, whatever.
Like that's what I fucking hate. I hate when people go when, I know that somebody's telling just like the most fucked-up version of something because I'm like, there's plenty of reasons for somebody not to like me. Ally doesn't need to be in there like you can tell the truth. I mean I think with this person she was bipolar or had some kind of undiagnosed or something going because not that that's a problem. I just think the way she shifted like I want to be friends with
you. All as take pictures, let's make memories to fuck you bitches to let's make memories to fuck you. You know and my thing was that is that I feel like it's still somebody's responsibility even if they have a mental health thing to pay. If you know that you have mental health stuff going on, don't drink. Let people know that you're going on the trip with that.
Hey, just so that you guys know whatever, it's nothing personal have conversations the next day when you come out of it and be like, yo, you know, when everybody's trying to sit there sweet, little Juber was sitting there like Are you okay? Can we can we talk about what was going on? You seem kind of upset. We just weren't no, no, no. Don't get upset. She's the sweetest little fairy flower and you're going to be mean to her on a fucking hole coat and right there, fuck that shit.
There's a lot and I think this just goes to show like people will treat you how they feel about themselves and that's just the facts. Like so many people portray and it's normally the people who are doing too fucking much. The ones that are the most unhappy.
So the next time you glance at your favorite celebrity or your favorite fucking influencer and they're doing too fucking much, it's because they are so miserable that, the only joy in their day, is how other people perceive them, because they perceive themselves something differently and they don't like themselves and they hate themselves. So they like how you perceive them. Because they only wish that they could feel that way about
themselves. And I think a lot of that goes into like, especially in Jim's with me where I used to, like, settle for that happen. Half out bullshit, but now I'm willing to be like, no, there's no fucking way I want you to throw it all the way in this time. Well, I think that also like pushes those half wishy-washy people completely out of the picture because it's like, well, there's no need to have you in the picture. If you're already not checking these boxes.
Instead, the old music. Oh, they can change or I'll change them or oh, I'll influence them or you know. What I mean and like, are even in a way I could look at us, I'll manipulate them to do it. I want or I like them. So they'll change for me, kind of thing. And that's a manipulation tactic that people fucking do and I can admit that I used to be that person.
I used to think like everybody was a work in progress but now I realize that not everything is my job so I'm not going to be your work mama, like I'm not I'm not taking care of you. Oh, totally a manipulation thing and it's noticed a What and relationships by men doing it but actually women doing.
It isn't something that people really pay attention to, it's always like I just wanted to make him, you know, better, like I just wanted to help them but it's a man says that to a woman and is like, you know, calm down like you're being crazy loud, like, you know, whatever, then it's that he's stifling her and he's stopping her from being herself and he's making her small and whatever. And it's something that I've
worked really hard. In my relationship with is being like, that's a part of your personality and like if I love you that's a part of your personality. Like if it's not hurting or you know it I mean like I think at the end of the day there's going to be certain things that I can
compromise on that. Like someone's going to do and I don't I don't like it that I'm like, okay I'm I still love that person like I know that but at the end of the day, there are things like in the fucking habitual core part of someone that like, if they are always Glass half empty or just like pessimistic or like rude to people when they're upset or they project that because they can't regulate or deal with their emotions and there's no place for them in my life and
other people. They may see that as like, well, they didn't have a dad or they didn't have a mom or whatever. But like now I'm like, no, there are fucking adult and they need to develop emotional awareness because projecting that onto strangers or servers or whoever like I of going by that like you are how you treat your server or someone in a service industry whether that's like a janitor or someone you feel as if they're beneath you. Like I love like a good like
leader or person. That's like I'll take the trash out. So I'll grab that like you know what I mean? Like you can be a leader and a provider and then also compromise and hold hold down some of the basic for things. Like I hate a man who's like I've worked all day so I can't do shit when I come home it. If you're a woman and you have that agreement like, okay, she doesn't work. So she handles a lot. Okay, that's a compromise, like that.
That's not a deal-breaker because y'all made a compromise, but it's when it's just like forced upon someone, like this is part of my personality. I'm a man's man and I don't touch dishes and I don't change diapers and all that weird old fart mentality like no, no thanks. You know, I don't know why but when you were talking it made me think of the restaurant that we went to in Moab and how fucking
good it was. But also how surprised that seemed like people were that we were like super nice and tipped out the like the waiter who came and helped us and stuff like that. It was like the next day when we came back and like they had made a comment about like the tip that we gave her whatever I was just like do you guys not get tips like do. People not tell you that they're thankful, you know what I mean? I don't know. A lot of people suck at typing. I mean, I try to do like 35%
likes. I don't know. Some people tip like 50 60 %. I don't do that every time. Like, if you were exceptional, then I'm going to give you a really great tip. But like I'm at least going to give you like way over, what's expected, you know what I mean? Like if I said here for an hour, I'm at least giving you fucking ten twelve dollars because I fucking set here for an hour and that's even in my bills, only 15, you know what I mean?
I think so many people don't see that it's not really in my opinion about the amount of food that you ordered. It's how many fucking bar drinks? You ordered a hell on, you said there is like should will be what your tip is based on because some people go to like a sports bar and drink like, you know, half-price beer for fucking for hours and so their tabs only $30. So they're like, well, 20% only five bucks there for four hours, a great scene. So units, it will.
That's Somebody else could have sat out so that they could have made money on that table. They could have turned that table like four times. And if every person gave them twelve dollars, that would have been $50 or close to it, you know what I mean? Yeah, like you said here for four hours and all you drink was beer, that was half price and you're tipping on the so normally your bill would have been 60 but you're tipping on. This half-price thing first is
like the time you set there. I think I should equate because if you said there were four hours and their shifts, only 45, The fuck one of their tables, just took up half the time. You know so many people don't put other people's energy into appreciation and I think that's why you better respect your own energy and what you give your attention and energy to. So then you can see how to respect other people's because if you don't respect yourself, you're not respecting no one
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only Gemini bitch. Yeah, we've heard we heard that there was people who pretend like they want to go by Jim. And I know that there's a one and only and all but like if you're not even If you don't go to your profile they have been tagged in the one and only Gemini and one. It's fucking private. You have like 200 followers and your name is the name of a sea creature.
You're not going by Gemini, so that's fucking hella weird to me. And it's just not coincidental that the that the person making the post tagging this person and calling them. Gemini is literally the same person who took A bunch of the ideas that we've had from the
podcast. And at first, I was like, it has to be subliminal, somebody can't actually just be going out and fucking copying your shit like that and using your words and regurgitating them back and going and doing your exact ideas and then all of a sudden it's literally like you're trying to Brand my name to somebody else and I just I fucking hate it and I think that like I would never want to copy any of these people
ever. It's just so weird to me like that strangers are really doing that because it's like I would never in my life want to be like someone that I say that I don't like or that I don't, you know what I mean? Like wow I don't know. I think it's only going to get more and more like that because the more that you elevate, the more people want to take what's working for you and try to make it work for them in there. I'm fucking name bare.
Minimum, have your own name? I mean, it's a big ask, but like just let out a little bit of respect on that. I mean, at the same time like if you don't even have the Gemini Emoji in your header name, I don't know if you're really a gem of that because most giving us tell everyone there. And like, if your friends gotta announce that you're now, the one and only gym and I'd strange considering your friend keeps copying me. So, shout out to the girl that
probably doesn't know. She's the one and only Jim and I but your friend is a copycat bitch. Yeah. It's real funny to watch, somebody get limited edition pieces that you wear and then flaunt them like it's their aesthetic. That's blowing my mind too. And though, the fact that like, I don't comment on it and I don't even bring awareness to it. I just let these people think that it's fine, but deep down, I know. And yes, fine. I mean, he's out.
I'm just like, do you boo? Because by the time you're copying the flavor. I've already upgraded the recipe. So, So sorry, not sorry. No I Honestly, I just think it's funny, like, I'm not mad about it. I just think it's hilarious and I eventually people are going to be like, hey, why are you doing all that? That's awfully similar, you know, if we were doing it first. So if you looked at chronological order, you would see the original recipe. Don't think that, we don't see it better.
And don't think that I give a fuck, because I don't, because I'm literally on a whole other way. I don't care, but I want everyone to come to the full moon Power Circle. By the time, this episode airs, it will have already passed, but this is an every month thing. So happen Champion, you can wherever you're listening to the podcast. You can go into the description and go to Rampages website and go sign up for the full moon
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Yes, but you know who just called? Jackie on the phone. Why? Well, it's just a lot of things that happen with the fact that this girl disc. Okay, let's get off of the podcast so you can hug you all secrets.