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Breaking Patterns

Apr 24, 2024•48 min•Season 3Ep. 32
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This week on Lick it Like a Lollipop we talk about communication, breaking generational behavior patterns and more 🍒Rampage’s Patreon: www.patreon.com/ContraryCherryCo ❤️‍🔥Gemini’s Patreon: www.patreon.com/Covenofrejects. Tap in for readings and follow us: 🍒Rampage: www.ContraryCherryCo.com ❤️‍🔥Gemini: www.Covenofrejects.com Email us: lickitlikealollipoppod@gmail.com 🍭Submit questions/feedback to www.lollipoppodcast.com 🍬Follow us on Instagram @madeinkuntucky & @gemini_goddess420 @l1ckitlikealollipop

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Welcome to Fucking Candy Land, hosted by Rampage and Gemini. We are so excited that you're listening to us. If you want to elevate the experience and see these interviews on video, you can join either one of our Patreons. They are LinkedIn, the description wherever you're listening to this podcast episode. In addition to getting to watch the full length video interviews, we also both have tons of additional content and support for the spiritual community.

So go ahead and check those out. And then if you're ever interested in readings with us or personally connecting with us, we also have our websites and social medias LinkedIn the description as well. Feel free to share this episode with everybody that, you know, get the look it like a lollipop name spread around. And we hope you love this episode. What's up, everybody? Welcome back to Candyland. Hi, Paige. We have recorded two times in one week this week.

You also. The momentum is poppin. I think really our technical difficulties and delays is Mercury retrograde giving them vibes. So Mercury retrograde is going to fully end on April 24th, but we have a two week shadow period which takes us out to like May 11th, May 10th, something like that. But in other news, it is going to be the two year birthday of the podcast. It is going to be the two year

birthday of the podcast. We're also going to be doing the full moon circle on the 23rd of this month, so that'll still be going during retrograde 2. Yeah, retrograde is about 3 weeks long, but if you account for the two week shadow prior to its starting and the two week shadow once it goes and is over, it's definitely like a total of 6 weeks ish, maybe a little longer, but we have three of them this year. Three, I mean we have three every year, but there's three

this year. There's another one in August. Every time that we have a retrograde or something where like people are over here speaking so much negative and about things and like using it as a reason for things to be going chaotic and for things to be going wrong. I feel like we end up getting the most energetic burst to like get dive deeper into our projects or switch things around or whatever. And I didn't even realize like my new website had dropped during Mercury retrograde.

There's so much like positive change and stuff that's going on inside of life with the Mercury retrograde. And there are people who like they straight won't plan things, won't go to events, they won't go to ceremonies if there is a retrograde. And I just feel like energy is energy and it can work negatively if that's all that you're focusing on. Or you can harness it in so many ways. You can make retrograde waters. You could do all types of different things.

Oils. I think retrograde is a good time for like self reflection, whether you're going to just reflect on, you know, the last couple months or your life as a whole. I think retrograde, the reason people have so many issues is because sometimes what's being called for you is to address what's right in front of you or address what actually is important at a core level rather than complaining about it or perpetuating that cycle or trying to push forward in a cycle that is challenging you.

I know you were having a lot of issues with your website previously, so obviously, you know, retrograde doesn't have to be associated with negativity. But I do think during retrograde that people's shadows kind of come forward and they start to act out of character or their true colors actually, you know, begin to show. So many people have limiting beliefs about themselves, and I think retrogrades trigger that.

You know what though, some people have limiting beliefs about themselves, but some people also think so fucking highly of themselves. And when you're talking about like self reflection and whatever it's, it's always mind boggling to me that there are people who truly believe that they're so understanding and aware of their actions, how they affect other people, how they come across other people.

And no matter how many times you put a mirror in somebody's face and you have like, this is the way that you're showing up to other people. This is the way that you're affecting others or whatever. People can also choose to take a blind eye and have absolutely 0 self reflection, regardless of the fact that the entire world is saying something.

And I'm always like, is that like a really good defense mechanism that you have is like you'll never let anybody else know that you like have a flaw in any way. So then you'll never work on it. Or is it truly that you're? I feel like that's where people, and I think we may have even talked about this before, but like that's where people throw the word narcissist around all the time.

And I think it's literally just some people unable to absorb in people's feedback of this is the way that you appear with your actions and your words and your energy to the outside world. Yeah, that narcissist word really did get popular.

Like it just blew up. I don't know if it's like the TikTok psychologist or just the new wave of like mental health awareness, but just because someone is telling you something that you don't want to hear or that you don't like to hear doesn't mean they're being narcissistic, doesn't mean they're projecting. Yes, there is a difference, which is why you're always encouraged to use discernment and use your intuition and you know, to be sober in your

thinking. A lot of people will be under the influence and say whatever they wanna say. And then when they're sober, they won't say those same things. So, you know, you just have to be really mindful of like, who is relaying the information to you? What type of energy are they presenting in their own world? Because I promise you, the last thing I'm gonna do is take to heart what someone else is saying if I don't respect that person or we have issues. You know, people like to stir drama.

And I don't know what it is about the Internet or people thinking they can just say whatever they want to say on the Internet and there's like, no consequences. But that could be really triggering for people who are trying to take accountability when you're weighing in all these outside opinions. You know, sometimes like people project onto you because they want to limit you, limit you in

some way. I agree with that, but I also think that sometimes people aren't trying to project on you. Sometimes people are literally like, hey, this is the way that you're showing up or you're, you know, all of these things keep happening because you're not able to truly look at yourself and make any changes. You're you're only seeing things from your one perspective and you're not seeing things from

another perspective. And I think that a part of that, like figuring out who do you listen to, is, yeah, you don't listen to a random stranger on the Internet being like, hey, you seem like you're a bitch. But if you have people that have known you for a long period of time, whether they're your friends or they're just inside of your world, being like, hey, this is a consistent pattern. You see the cause and the

effect. This is why this keeps happening, because this is your behavior pattern. There are people who literally cannot absorb that type of information and so then they deem everybody else being like a narcissist. And I I've encountered only like a hand like selection of those people.

But inside of my own personal growing journey, I've had to really learn that I don't have to have any type of emotion or hold any fucking feeling for the fact that somebody else isn't taking accountability for the way that their actions are making myself or other people feel.

And that's such a difficult thing to come to terms with because we want to be like, well, no, If they just, if they could just hear it and they could just understand why what they're doing is wrong and how they're affecting other people, I know that they could be a good person. People do that inside of relationships. They do that at work. They do that in all fucking

areas. And, you know, honestly, a lot of people have the the limiting beliefs that they've inherited, you know, from their parents and their communication styles and they're expressing expression in their childhood. And that's the type of communication that they're showing up with normally. Like so many people don't know how to get outside of that box that they have been put in.

So if your parents were passive progressive or, you know, had some type of hindering hindrance in their communication, you're going to have that unless you take the time to understand yourself and understand communication styles. You know, I've seen that a lot on the Internet. It's like a lot of people are just listening to like respond and not to actually comprehend. And so you know, trying to express yourself when there's no comprehension can be frustrating

for sure. See, and to go back on what you were saying about some people are like raised that way or what not. I, I've known people who they know how they were raised. They know the different characteristic traits and they outwardly have been like, oh, I'll never be that way. I'll never do that pattern. I'll never do that. But then in their day-to-day life, everything that they do is like mimicking and reflecting

that. And I, as I like, psychoanalyze it. I'm like, is that because, like, are they repeating that because they're so hyper focused on not doing it that then they do it because it's all that they think about? Or again, are those people who can't self reflect and are like, I would never want to do that but I refuse to believe that that's how I'm showing up.

I think right now there are a lot of people who are afraid to sit with themselves, which is why there's so much like drugs and alcohol, just like promoted at everything. Whether it's a school event for your child, playing sports or something, there's alcohol there or you know, like people that have developed addictions to video games or porn or anything. It's just like there's so much numbing that a lot of people don't address these issues are concepts.

They just push people away or shut down in some way and like self medicate. And I think that is where our society has gotten so lost when it comes to what's truly important and what truly holds value and taking care of your neighbor or, you know, knowing your politicians, like we've talked about before, you know, so much of this is a product of people being numb to life, numb to their circumstances, rather than facing these obstacles or challenges head on.

It's like, no, I'm a victim. No, like I'm a victim. And I, I just, I don't want to change or you know what I mean? Like I'm stuck in this. Also too, I find that people use the like, while I was under the influence of ABC or D alcohol, whatever, as an excuse for the actions that they had. Like, yeah, that was bad. Yeah, I said those things or I did those things, but I was drinking.

It's not that big of a deal. When I'm sober, things are great and it's like, no, but you still have those actions. You still did those things. Your words or your whatever still have an effect. If you're not able to hold responsibility for the way that you behave when you're doing something, you shouldn't be doing that. Yeah, I don't know what people like when they're saying certain things. I don't know what's going through their mind. It's like, are they truly able

to sleep with their actions? You know, like people that say like, I couldn't sleep at night, like that expression. I do wonder how some people sleep at night thinking like, oh, I'm doing my best, this is my best. And it's not. It's like there's just no way that all the the screws are tight and in place, you know, like some screws are loose in there and you're projecting or you are absorbing or you are numbing or you are just completely aloof to that. Like you're just aloof to the

solutions. And honestly, with the Internet, there's so much opinion. Like it's not fact you're you're self diagnosing yourself or you're telling yourself this is what the solution is. But that's just someone's opinion usually, you know, like right now, the podcast, this is our opinion. People can take that and run with it or use it or hate it or love it or whatever it is.

Like, you know, that's the thing with this day and age of communication, so many people are talking and you can choose what to absorb and what to listen to. I wonder so like people who go to counseling, right, like you're really creating somebody to listen to whatever your version of reality is and then give you advice based off of

that reality. So like, not that I'm saying counseling's not great, but they're also like people who go through life just being like mass energetic manipulators about things. Or if they're those people who can't have the self reflection or whatever, If those people go into a counseling thing and they're like, Oh my gosh, and this is what I did. And this is like the awful way that they're responding or whatever.

I wonder if that is also like curating this false reality around where then there's this like backing up and endorsing certain behaviors or whatever so then people don't need to do that self reflection because they've gotten the OK from somebody that's like a professional or whatnot. Does that make sense? Kind of. I mean like I get like. If somebody has a. You're getting someone your version of the story, and then they're giving you advice on your version, your perception,

your understanding of that. But that could be right to the truth. Is that what you're saying? Yeah, like, if if I go and I'm like, I randomly walk up to somebody and I punch somebody in the face and everybody else is like, wow, she just walked up and punched somebody in the face. And I'm like going to counseling. And I'm like, this man was looking at me so weird across the Parkway. And, you know, like, and I make like some fucking skewed version that's in my mind about why it happened.

Then my counselor's gonna be like, OK, well, we need to go through your traumas about like why this is affecting you and people being so mean. And meanwhile, I'm the whole fucking problem and I'm just walking around punching people. But now my counselor's told me that it's OK.

So here I fucking go. Yeah, I mean, that person could have some type of paranoia or have something like maybe they did feel like that person was looking at them, but were their actions actually justifiable to the root issue? Yes. I mean, just like people like might go to counseling and be like my child's mother is terrible and whatever, but the whole time like it's them or. Not you nailing, Not you nailing. What I'm talking about on the fucking head is the example

psychic page. You know, like you have perceptions, they have perceptions. There's going to be a clash in understanding. It's not all gonna be true. It's not based on fact. It's based on your perception. Kind of like that saying that that says like every person who sees you is perceiving you differently then you are actually perceiving yourself. Like you look different to every person you meet than how you

look to yourself. And like, sometimes when I'm talking, I can see like my facial structure, you know, like around my eyes. And I'm like, this is what I look like kind of thing. But like, without mirrors or cameras, we wouldn't really know what we look like. What do you think about how like ancient cultures thought that taking photographs took a piece of your soul?

Oh, that's a good question. I don't feel like I feel like you seeing pictures of yourself takes a piece of your inner piece because you're dissecting it and judging yourself in a way that you never would if you hadn't seen something reflected of you. But I don't feel like you actually having an image taken of you takes a piece of your

soul. Yeah, I mean, I do think like, you know, those old photographs that people thrift and then they hang them on their walls of like people from the 1800s and things. I mean, when you look at those pictures, it's like they're looking at I'm looking at their souls. So I do think that there is some type of imprint. I don't know if it's like capturing a piece, but I do think it's putting a piece of

your soul into a time frame. Like, you know, you take a picture when you're 10 and then you take a picture when you're 30 and you're two different people, right? Like the 10 year old no longer exists, but the 30 year old does. It doesn't make the 10 year old any less real. So it has to have some soul imprint, right? It has to have some kind of like connection to your soul Because why do people feel so creeped out when people thrift pictures and hang them on their wall?

I could never do that. I'll take a mirror hanging up. Cool thrift that, don't care. But like a picture of like, you know those 1800 pictures, the family pictures where the woman sitting down hands flat, the man's beside her like arm on the shoulder? They're creepy as fuck. Do you want one in your house? No, but I wouldn't say that I feel like it's a piece of their soul as much as so a lot of people aren't affected by pictures, though.

We happen to be sensitive to energy and be able to sense energy and be able to pick up on different things. So I can totally see like somebody's energy, you being able to see somebody's energy in their their face or whatever, or pictures being able to capture somebody's aura and being able to connect with that. But I don't know if I necessarily feel like it's a piece of their soul.

As much as we can read energy even through photographs, which is why there's one of the exercises that we did inside of mediumship class was to be able to have a picture or an object from somebody and be able to pull energy off of that to do a reading. Because things that are connected to people have their energy on it, even if it's not

like a piece of their soul. The same way that you can have like a piece of jewelry from somebody or whatever and be able to like pick up on an energetic vibration from them.

I do think that there is like, I would call it almost like like a thumbprint, like every picture you take is like a thumbprint, you know, like you are imprinting on something like, and it is your energy kind of like, you know, I've seen pictures of people and I'm like that person's not, I don't like that person, you know, like, I don't like that person or kind of like children how they can like see through the veil very rapidly and like quickly and like may stare at you when

you're spiritually open and aware. Like children are very connected to that energy. I think pictures have like that same, like pictures worth 1000 words. I, I believe that.

I do believe that. I do think I'm not superstitious about it. I love taking pictures clearly, but there's definitely some type of energetic thing because when I look back at photos when I wasn't happy and I post those to like my story or something, people will be like, you can tell that you've you've worked on yourself or you can tell in your energy you are a different person or that doesn't even look

like you. I've had people say like, that doesn't even look like who you are or you know, like this energy feels weird or whatever. And like anytime I post those pictures, like people be like, damn, is that you? Or you know, like, I don't know. It's just funny because you personally can really see your own evolution through pictures. Like, oh, I look older, Oh, I look whatever. But other people, strangers, friends, acquaintances, like they're picking up on some type of energy as well.

And I've been told that, like, my online persona is very intimidating. Like we've talked about this, but other people have told me this as well, that like, I give off this very like, unattainable, unapproachable energy. But then you meet me in person and I'm like, really like really nice. Way different than what people perceive me to be. And, you know, I think that's really interesting. It really is 'cause like, I'm giving, I'm serving up looks.

It's giving looks. And then you meet me in person, you're like, wow, Paige is so nice. And like, she's actually giving and kind and caring. And I think a lot of my clients see that version of me because, you know, they get to know me in a different way. But just strangers on the Internet, how they're perceiving me as like, unattainable and unapproachable. But yet I've got guys in my DMS that say the dumbest shit, like, I like your face. That was a new one.

I got like yesterday. I was like thanks. You like fucking morphed at myself. Thanks so much. Speaking of like seeing things. OK, so have you ever seen a blind person that's with an ugly partner? Because I haven't blind people be having the hottest fucking people by their side and I'm like, they can't see them. So they're not going off of their physical appearance yet the physical appearance be

fucking smoking. And I'm just like, do they are they like, Hey, can I touch your face real quick? And they're just seeing like if it's symmetrical, are they like I, I don't know what, how do they how are they doing that? How do you just how do you just pick them? Are you asking your friends like, hey, on a scale of one to 10, Oh, she's a sixth got to go. And then like going back in the pool and like picking somebody else out. How are they always so attractive?

Do they have blind people like dating things where they're like this person's rated A10? Do you like their personality? You know, I do think blind people touch people's faces. I don't know how that goes in the beginning, but I do think that I've seen that in real life. And because I took sign language in college, I guess that's not blind people. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I. Didn't even blink. I was like oh she speaks sign language for blind people.

Cool. Yeah. And you're like, Oh yeah, I think that they definitely can sense energy. I think what I learned when I took American Sign Language was that like if you don't have one of your natural senses, then another one is amplified. So like a lot of the deaf people have like an elevated sense of sight or an elevated sense of smell or an elevated sense of intuition or whatever it is. Like that's what we were taught, is that when one natural sense is reduced or non existent that

other ones elevate. So maybe like their intuition's just on point. Like, like, I know this motherfucker's hot because their energy is on fire. They're like, listen, your personality is great, but I have a heightened sense of smell, so you need to douche more often. I can't see what's going on down here, but I can sense it with my

intuition and my sense. You know what this reminds me of when you listen to the Dumb Blonde podcast and she's like Lumi deodorant is the best and she's like, I had hot puss. I don't know what she says and it's like she's like, I had steak coochie and I used it's like, I don't know how she says it, but every time I think of someone smelling or stinking, I think about her like saying these crazy things about herself, 'cause like we all see Bunny girl you, there's no way

you're stinking. Like even if you were, people are like, I love your stench. I love the way you smell. You know, like when? She tells people to smell her left armpit and everybody's like, you smell good and she's like, it's rain. Yeah, that's so funny to me because, you know, I do think that a lot of people have a heightened sense. But once again, humans are hard

on themselves. You know, like this deaf person or blind person could be the literal most attractive person, but because of the perception of being without or less than or limited or put into a different category limits people's confidence. But when I took American Sign Language in college, we had to, like, go out into the, like, real world deaf community, not just students, but like, real community. And they did like Tuesday night volleyball and Monday Night Football and all of these

different little things. And at the time, it was really inconveniencing because I was literally going to school full time, had two jobs, like, and now you want me to go set and watch Monday Night Football for three hours to get these community hours. And if you don't get these community hours, it's like 80 or more. It says like too much. It was a lot like what's 80 hours when I have homework, a job, a literal life and

everything in between. But we would go out and interact with people in the deaf community and there were so many people that you could tell were just straight like players. Like they were straight pimping, like popcorn player and like attractive too, like but just popping their shit, like just

bouncing around. And I noticed that they all express themselves in different ways, whether it was like they're like really kind of loud wardrobe or like body piercing, not like body modification piercing, but just like jewelry and you know, cartilages and nose rings and just different things, you know, and I think every community has its own, but it really taught me a lot about how close knit these people are.

Like they, they kind of stick together because like they are limited and who they can communicate with. And they literally loved like the students, 'cause we all like had to go to these. I mean, like we, there was no option. But the thing that was so crazy about them is if you went to them, you were not allowed to

talk, no talking at all. And in school, you got into like your first day of class and the teacher is deaf and the only way you can communicate with the teacher is to write things down. There's no talking. It was. I've actually heard that it's super that it's super rude for you to be around somebody who is non hearing and for you to be having conversations. They feel super out of it.

And I mean, it would be the same thing if everybody in the room was signing and you didn't know what the fuck was going on. And, you know, you'd be like, I feel completely lost here. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. So if you're inside of somebody's safe space where that's the way that they communicate or whatever, you're going to figure out how the fuck to make it happen.

Literally facts. I think so many people don't realize that that's not accepted, that it's very fucking rude to the point where like in school, if you were caught talking more than twice, like, and you got onto your third time, they would just flunk you for this semester. Like you're done, you're not coming back. And it was a lot, like, it was a lot. I thought, you know, learning it would be really cool because my cousin ended up actually having a deaf baby.

So it was cool at the time to know it and be able to like, you know, but he actually goes to a full school for the deaf. Like he's gone like Monday through Friday and comes home on the weekend. Like he's at a school for the deaf 'cause they have to teach them how to integrate into

society. And it's not easy to like, you know, for one, there's that language barrier, but for two, there's just like a level of acceptance that like wasn't normalized when our grandparents were growing up, you know, like it was very much like, these are these people and we're over here, you know what I mean? Like it wasn't normalized. So I think that understanding how other communities operate is super important if you want to be courteous and kind of

well-rounded. Kind of like how everyone has evolved in like their music forms and different like evolution in like the music industry where instead of it's just like, OK, well, this type of person makes this type of music or this is what's accepted over here and not over here. And people are starting to just say, fuck that. Like I'm gonna do whatever I want. I don't care if you're accepting it or not.

And I feel like, you know, so many people are starting to wake up that we create our own reality. And whatever you're allowing and consenting to and agreeing to is what you're bringing in. So if you're, you know, not understanding other people and their beliefs and communities or at least respecting them, then you're going to get that reflected back to you where people are not understanding you

and not not respecting you. And I think it's just like, it's a full wheel of Fortune circle, you know, like we have to learn these things if we want to come together. There's too much separation. Something that you said just made me think of a post that Peach made today. And she was like, thank God that I didn't listen to you guys when you told me that I needed to have a niche and that I had to

only be able to do one thing. Because it's so wonderful to be able to be versatile and to go into any room of people in any event, and not have to say like, oh, all that I'm able to do is rap and that I'm able to take these different opportunities for different things. And I think that, you know, putting yourself in situations, learning ASL, learning how to communicate, you know, in all of these different ways. You have your, I know that you have your degree in

communication. And so that's something that obviously is important to you is being able to communicate with people and put yourself into different rooms and be able to adapt to what other people's, you know, communication style is or whatever. And be able to being able to share your message and stay yourself while also being able to formulate and conduct yourself around the needs of other people is something that is very special and takes a lot of energy and and work to be able to do.

Thank you. I think communication is the most important thing. Like in the world, miscommunication is the cause of war and famine and bullshit like miscommunication. It's people saying they're going to do something and not fucking following through on it. It's people acting like one way and then behind your back going

the other way. You know, there's so many levels to it, but I truly believe that as we elevate and as we grow and as we continuously strive to be better individuals just for ourselves, that the world and its whole fullest capacity elevates. And everybody elevates and benefits from people being able to communicate, to express themselves effectively and openly and to really just say

what the fuck you mean. You know, the people online that got the Twitter fingers and they say shit that they wouldn't say in in real life. That's what's wrong with this whole thing. You know, we talked about this before how like children used to be able to go home and turn off the bullshit, but now they're so glued to it. It's like their life. And I remember how I felt when the Internet came out, like putting on an away message, like in the shower, BRB. Like no one cares.

No one cared, no one fucking cared. You know, like, I don't know, the Internet is a funny place. Think it really in its fullest capacity has the has the most beautiful, what I want to say developments that we've ever seen in the existence of humans, like having the Internet and having access. But I'm still team. The Internet should be free for everyone. The Internet should be fucking free. We should not be paying for the Internet. It should be free. I agree with that statement.

I also like just going on the, you know, kids and and phones and whatnot. I think that it's important too for people to be like, hey, the dramas following my kid home. They're obviously like on their phone upset or whatever and take their fucking phone. And that's like the whole, you know, being a friend before being a parent mentality. Well, I don't want to upset them by taking their phone or make them feel limited or, you know, make them feel without or

whatever. I feel like I never want my kid to be attacked in their own room or in their own home. So if there's something that's happening on the phone or whatever that is going to make them feel unsettled and like they can't have peace and recharge inside of their room or inside of their home, that's a problem. And it's my responsibility as a parent to step in and be like, don't really care how it makes you feel in the moment.

You need to have this time. There was nothing worse than being in like middle school or high school and having fucking issues at school and knowing that you had to like go back and face those things. Like your stomach hurts. You don't want to go and you don't want to handle it. You're nauseous. But you would go home, you'd have interactions with your family, You'd go out and fucking ride your bike, rollerblade, whatever. You'd go and do something and distract yourself before you had

to go back into that. I think that a big part of there being such a rise in like child suicides and self harm and things like that is hugely due to electronics being able to have so much access to things, things following you home and never actually getting to have it turned off.

If you always have somebody negative saying something to you or telling you, you know, that you're not good enough or that you're ugly or you're, you know, whatever about your body or whatever it may be, that's something like one or two people saying something consistently can make you feel like it's the entire world. And when you're in school, it's everybody's saying this. No, it's fucking Katie and her little Kunti friend. We need to get beat up after

school. Everybody's not saying shit. Yeah, I do think that that is what's wrong with children is like we are allowing them to grow up quicker and quicker and quicker. And I will just say I do not know what the fuck these kids are wearing. What are they wearing? Because I'm just gonna say I was not allowed to wear this crazy shit. But my mom would also lie and give us a 40. OK, so I I'm just not understanding where let's let our kids wear nothing and post it on the Internet.

You know, like these 12 year olds going on these little trips and posting all these bathing suit pictures like what the fuck is going on? And then I drove past the high school the other day and there were, like, yoga pants and crop tops and booty shorts and sweatpants and pajama pants. And like, we at least used to have guidelines. Like, you can wear jeans, they can't have holes. You can wear shorts. They've got to be right above the knee. You can't wear pajama pants.

You can't wear athletic wear or, you know, whatever. But now they're just like, please come to school so we can get our government funding. Thank you. No, you know what it is? I'll tell you what it is. It's the fact that there's been such an uproar about the fact that, oh, well, girls are being told that they have to have, you know, longer skirts, that they can't have torso showing or whatever because it's a distraction to boys.

And so people are uprising about, Oh, well, that means that you're sexualizing children or you're doing ABC and D No, actually it should be protecting children that they shouldn't be out here half dressed in public anyways. Like if you want to walk around home and you want to, I tell my daughter all the time, you want to walk around home in your sports bra and your pajama bottoms, fucking go for it. I don't care. You're inside of your home.

But when you go outside, you're going to need to put a shirt on and clothes to be out in the public. People, we do sexualize children all the fucking time.

And other people doing that doesn't mean that we shouldn't still be putting things in place to protect children and be able to make sure that they're OK. It's the same thing to me as saying, oh, well, I'm not going to watch them or whatever because it's just so silly to assume that, you know, an adult would sexualize them and kidnap them that you're just feeding into, you know, sexualizing children. No, it's like a realistic thing that happens and it's the

responsibility. Of adults to help guide them to not do that. When you're 18 and you want to fucking do whatever you want to, go do whatever you want to. But right now, there's not a reason that your underage body needs to be on display for anybody, regardless of how much self-control people should have. And the thing about that is like, when has expectations of what should be happening ever

actually fucking happened? And I watched a video the other day where there was like a 17 year old walking home from school and this guy pulls up and he's like, hey, do you want to go with me? And she's like, no, you're weird. She was like, that's literally what her she started recording it, but she was like, no, you're weird. And he was like, oh come on baby, I know you want to see or something. And she was like, I'm 17. And he was like, have you ever

been with a real man? What the fuck? And I think the guy ended up getting arrested because she had him on camera and he was identified. But you can literally go to the sex offender map and you're like life. And if you want to prevent this, live by a school. Live in a school zone and there won't be any around. But other than that, baby, you are fair fucking game. And if you're not near a school zone, wrap it in because they're going to be everywhere.

And you know, honestly, I try not to live in fear. So I don't look at it for like around my house, 'cause I will shoot you. I do not care. Like, we'll talk about it at court if you're. There, I don't know where it is, it's either in the Midwest or the East Coast, but there's my husband was just watching. I want to say it was like a news report or something, but there is a literal pedophile park right near a school.

It's inside of the school zone. It is these tiny home community that was created for pedophiles who get out of prison to go and live together and have like support or whatever inside of like their community space. They are near a school zone and there are members of the community who go by this school zone with firearms because they do not trust these people being here. There's, there's been complaints to the city. There's all types of different

stuff that's in play. There's news reports about it. They have all types of programs and stuff, you know, asking them to come in and, and whatever. And they do not send these people somewhere else. They do not get them out of the school zone. Nothing. They're literally with seeing kids walking home every day right by this place or whatever. And the people inside of the park are like, well, we can be rehabilitated and you know, whatever. I believe in rehabilitation for

so many fucking things. If you're a pedophile, you're a fucking pedophile. There is not rehabilitation for you. Yeah, I honestly am like a big fan of like if you rape a child, you should get the electric chair. That's all I can say for it. Like I don't I don't support it. I don't support integration or

rehabilitation. Like I do think that our justice system does a really good job of prosecuting and punishing people that have tax evasions and drug things if it involves money, not even drug users, they let them back out or drug dealers, they let them back out. But like major distribution of the drugs, like the the drug Lords and the people, people that actually make the money, those people get punished, but everyone else can just let go everyone else.

Like we're going to put you on parole, We're going to let you go back out. We're going to take your fees every month. We're going to, you know, limit you from jobs and housing and voting and owning a gun and you'll be back in here in two years. Like that's what they want. There is no real rehabilitation for long term offenders, no matter what it is 'cause their end goal is to keep you in prison or back in jail or in

court. I mean, and that goes into the whole thing about the justice system is like, why is it that people who have, you know, cannabis offences are in jail, prison longer than people who are out here terrorizing children? Like how what is the scale here? And why is it always, you know, it has to be this set amount of things? It's just like super fucking weird. Yeah, our justice system is very picky, choosy, very choosy and very like doesn't make fucking

sense. The moment that they legalize weed recreationally in different areas, everyone in those jails in those areas should be let out. It involved that, you know, I understand that they're saying, well, it's not legal on a federal level, but the federal government is letting you operate as long as you give them money. Make it make sense. There's so many things I could say, but I think you should pull a card. It doesn't make sense.

And instead of spending time reforming the justice system and doing all of this, we're more worried about what's happening everywhere else and discussing everybody else's problems and jumping into wars, other places and whatever. Instead of putting our time and energy towards strengthening our own communities in our own spaces and fighting for, you know, justices and things that need to be done in our own

country. Because it's so much easier to jump in on somebody else's business and somebody else's problems. That's my rant on that. OK, We got card 56 for Moonrise. Our sign is Cancer and Leo, which I love because the reading that I did right before this was all about fire and water energy. So us having Cancer and Leo is amazing. The gift is enrichment and the shadow is distraction. Reaping the rewards of the gift is not about abstaining from life and its wealth of

offerings. It's not about denying your senses or aspects of your world. When you're completely in tune with who you are and what you cherish, you no longer require the outside world to be the source of your joy, forever fleeting. Instead, joy follows you. It lives within you. The air of desperation that you once held in the shadow state melts into a gentle ease and you're able to engage in your experience with a jovial, full

hearted essence. The moon rises with a softness that you feel in the core of your being. Buried within the shadow is an addiction to stimulation, especially with regard to sight. That's hilarious. Much of our current social world thrives on entertainment and distraction. As such, our attention span has shortened substantially and despite the onslaught of images, sounds, videos and media, we still find ourselves wanting

more. There is never enough and there never will be. The Shadow urges you to keep seeking for more elusive cures in the outside world of fantasy and Facade, while the real remedy can only be found within you or alongside the stars. Your themes are attention, fulfillment, essence, and stillness. That's so on brand. That's so on. I know, I know. Look, you all, we support whatever decision you make, but try to be the best person that

you can just try. Watch your life change by being the best version of you and everything else will reflect that back to you. So we love you all and we will see you next time in Candy Land. Bye. Bye.

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