Whether you are single or married, let's have a conversation about the purpose and intent of marriage as God intended it--and how that plays out in a traditional wedding ceremony. My hope is that real talk about what marriage is all about gives you some fuel for the long-range view of your marriage, and a hope and vision for what could be in your own relationships!
Jun 17, 2020•27 min•Ep. 10
In this episode I talk about the importance of being able to say no.
Jun 11, 2020•17 min•Ep. 9
Today we took Let's Be Real LIVE to our platforms for a conversation on how to be civil and disobedient. Of course, everyone is welcome to join our conversation, but this was particularly for my family--those who are following Christ or seek to follow Christ. In this episode, we talk about: -What it means to follow the highest ethic of love (Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 3...
Jun 04, 2020•27 min•Ep. 8
Today I get to welcome to the show Jo Saxton! Jo Saxton is a Londoner born to Nigerian immigrants (to which she credits her tenacious spirit), an author, speaker, podcast host, and leadership coach. She has spearheaded an initiative aimed to help women grow in leadership, and has written books on leadership, identity, and legacy. Her newest book is called "Ready to Rise: Own Your Voice, Gather Your Community, Step Into Your Influence." Her other books include More than Enchanting: Breaking Throu...
May 27, 2020•39 min•Ep. 7
Today on the show, I share with you the problem with the villain narrative and an "against" energy, and how to combat it with compassion and boundaries. On this episode, we cover: -What the villain narrative is and what it sounds like in your head -Why we fall into it -The problem with labeling and categorizing people and groups in a way that shrinks, rather than expands your life. I share with you my favorite moment in the Hunger Games movie and why we all need to remember "who our true enemy i...
May 20, 2020•20 min•Ep. 6
In light of the shooting of Ahmaud Arbery, we interrupt our normal schedule for a very special conversation with a good friend of mine, David Bailey. David is the founder of Arrabon, a ministry dedicated to training and discipleship around racial reconciliation. He's a pastor, thought leader, and friend. At the time of this recording, no arrests had been made in the case In this conversation, we cover: -Why racism is still a real and active evil in America -How to enter into the conversation aro...
May 13, 2020•38 min•Ep. 5
On today's episode, I'll help you slow down your inner dialogue to understand why it's so tempting to choose the victim narrative, and one simple method to keep us moving toward freedom and confidence in a life we love. Connect with Nicole Website: http://www.nicoleunice.com Newsletter: https://exciting-knitter-1634.ck.page/1e62df1636 Instagram: https://instagram.com/nicoleunice Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nicole.unice/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-unice-a0367813/
May 06, 2020•14 min•Ep. 4
Today we welcome to the show Aundi Kolber, licensed professional counselor and author of Try Softer: A Fresh Approach to Move Us out of Anxiety, Stress and Survival Mode--and into a Life of Connection and Joy. I had the pleasure of reading and endorsing Aundi's book and seeing how amazing the book is doing has been a joy, because when I read it I was so moved by her compassionate, gentle approach to helping people come into abundant life through healing from "big T" and "little t" traumas. On th...
Apr 29, 2020•45 min•Ep. 3
Is it possible that even the greatest leaders are actually followers? From following people we want to emulate, celebrities we want to dress like, or ideologies we want to embrace--our human nature is to look outside of ourselves to define who we are and who we want to become. When you embrace the reality that we are all following something, you can take notice of where all of that following is taking you. On this episode, I help you determine what kind of follower you are (there are four types!...
Apr 22, 2020•27 min•Ep. 2
Let's Be Real is a completely honest, entirely practical conversation about how to live our lives with freedom, purpose and abundance.Join popular author and communicator, Nicole Unice, as she brings her twenty years of experience as a counselor, pastor, and coach to a real conversation about the tricky questions and tough decisions in life—and how to find clarity and action no matter what obstacle you may face.
Apr 15, 2020•1 min
In this episode, I give you a new definition for success, the one critical factor that must be present for you to move toward your purpose, and I share the three questions I ask myself when determining how to move forward with confidence regardless of roadblocks.
Apr 01, 2020•25 min•Ep. 1
