S2 E2 - Love Island! Ft. Hoda

嗨大家 Welcome back to episode two of season two guys. There has been a change to the frequency that we'll be uploading our episodes. We're going to be uploading every So um yeah, so without further ado, do you want to introduce yourself? We're so excited to have you. for coming. I know this has been a long time coming as well. You're like one person we really really wanted to have on here. Yeah. You like to talk and like she needs to be on

Love fucking Island. Love Island has actually I'm not gonna lie, I kinda regret. Because I realized what happened in the end, and I'm like... No it was a very it was very much of a season that was like hit miss hit miss hit miss. Yeah, yeah. Especially at the start, it started very slow. It was like a slow burner type of TV show. I was like, okay, it's not. And um ooh don't be doing that. Don't be hating your fellow sister. Do you not like her just because it's not true?

No, they were. No, no, no. What you need to understand is without our people... I get that, but I feel like the villa is a different such situation than in real life. So once you're like giving that person Somehow it's an unspoken rule that they have, like this is the same. I didn't agree with that at all. Imagine that. Literally from when you wake up to when you go to school. And they even say like our feelings are much more Yeah, yeah.

Millie and Liam were like and even I didn't even think Tyler even likes cads like that. So I dn that's why I was like, Oh, that's what it was easy. Not even about the days. I genuinely don't think he likes her. I think I think she likes him No no that I think he she likes him more than Even when those And genuinely when you see even the way he looks at her when they're around the villa Yeah.

like much of them. It's always like the white coloured like the white coloured kulha. The white color. The white coloured couples. Like, Yeah. On there for five years. I knew they were just doing that so they could like push them in the light but I knew they were gonna win regardless. It was so lovely to you. They didn't even show him Oh, I forgot about that. What was her name? Someone. But they did show that in the movie night. Even in the last... No, but the postcard, I understand that.

But maybe it's'cause they had What after that scene? Wallaha was so mad because she was so happy in the moment. She was like, Oh my god, he was telling. Child. No. No. Faze. Actually I think she's got

Well deserved. She's actually a girl. No but Does he understand like that to people? uh like as the least compatible. Yeah. Sorry, it just wasn't necessary. Like it's the whole point of No, you know what it is as well. I think she herself knows that they're not compatible at all. So she's literally trying to fight that as much as she can.

They have everybody has their own problems going on. Do you see like a Liberty and Jake situation? Like do you do you think I if I was in that situation I was Liberty and Jake, do I have time to tell you you're Like I don't understand why you're getting so uh caught over and like even Liberty and Jake, like they to be honest, like if they didn't And they didn't even get angry when people And that exactly.

she should have been And especially if you're saying things like, I don't find him funny, he wears all this designer clothes, he's like a completely different person than I am. To them. yw'n yw'n yw'n yw'n yw'n yw'n yw'n yw'n yw'n I feel like I'd be dropping s I don't think just Just so you can gauge from Unless you're not sure. I mean no one is gonna be the same ever. So like you just have to figure that out if you guys are compatible or not. Like if there Babe. Yeah or whatever.

Maybe just give it another. You guys da da da but she's like, No, you know what, I think it was just maybe dah da go babes, I'm so by all means. Yeah. No, I take out an advice. Hãy subscribe cho kênh La La School Để không bỏ lỡ những video hấp dẫn Yeah, yeah. Exactly. I just wanted your T. I genuinely wanted um I'm not gonna lie, even though I think Faye and Teddy's a psycho, yeah. I just wanted them to win. Okay. I didn't like it. कर दो कर दो कर दो

Is that how people receive me? No, no, no, honest to God, I was... Like I do understand. No one else is screaming with you. Why is your voice on 10? Like, and if everyone is yeah, and everyone's looking at you like you're actually mad hated, then surely you're doing And he's like an and it it would have been different had he been screaming back at her as well, but he was so quiet. He was like quiet. I know. Do you think he's an idiot? Because why do you keep going back to me?

It needs to be like your breath of fresh air, not the fire that's gonna row you up. Do you see how quick he took her back? That's why I'm saying you don't have a backbone at all. Yeah. Yeah.

Compatible. Sorry, but they aren't what do you want to do? No, why it's not compatible. They're not compatible at all. Because, like, I'm sorry, how are you gonna? Like she Haleli. Halalalalaly. Listen. What about I He's a doormat. He's not a doormat. I swear he's a doormat. She walks all over Bravish. He acts she actually walks all over him. How many times has she screamed at this nigga and he keeps running back from what? No, that's obviously I understand that. Not even that, he should have.

We don't obviously we don't get to see how much she's actually robber, but like Like they're my favourite as well. But I just can't get over Toba butt. I love Tob I love T. When he literally said I was screaming at the scream. I said what? And then when she made that. Oh god. No, I actually love them. I actually love Toby. He's he's just a funny. He doesn't know what's going on. She's twenty-four. Well not much much older than the colour. Is Chloe twenty four?

So look at the age difference. I'm twenty four and she's been through my God, but I'm saying because like I didn't know Toby was that young. Do you not even leans? Just twenty twenty two in the other. Oh my god, yes. Sure do I So you would have wanted them to go. A hundred percent they they are very genuine. I do think.

You know, just when sometimes you want that fairy tale like the reason why I like Love Island, I just want that fairy tale from start to finish. You know what I mean? That's what I'm watching. At the start it was just they're more like Just Yeah, they're more like just lust. There's more lust than like And I think their love story was great. Do you think the way he's gonna dash so far? No, don't say that because what's your name? No, but I think that's so suspicious.

This is probably their favorite person. And then on the inside of the villa, all the girls hated him. No one was talking to him. And they literally said that. They're like, he's probably But I didn't think that

is giving me the light skin and dark skin like versus that and I don't like it at all. I don't think she didn't know. But she also got plenty of He was giving her everything. Like he was literally showing her that So I understand where her madness stems from But I don't I agree with the fact that she's coming after on Caz, yeah. Well, violent winners that I just said that.

I'm glad it's over. Oh my god, it's ten too time consuming. It's too and the spoilers, I can't even come around you guys because someone's watching episode one, another person's all the way on episode fifty. Yeah. It just doesn't match match the conversation. It doesn't make sense. I'm so sorry if I was Regardless he follows me. fat fifty K and he ought to still come with me. No, honestly. I would have loved it in that moment if Millie I would have loved it.

I would've just loved that. That would've perfectly... Why does why does it no one ever take the one ever take the money? And to be honest, I thought you know when I would I would have expected babes, you came in a week ago. Exactly. What money am I splitting with you? Like I won because I won. It wasn't great. Um, but that show... Huh? That'd be bad. Be serious. If I found someone in there that I actually liked? Yeah.

Because then I just feel like a clown if I just keep the money in the money. It shouldn't be it shouldn't matter about the money. If it was given the opportunity. But the question is are you gonna I'm gonna take both, yeah. You can't take both. I can't take both. He says he's gonna leave me both. The host she said fifty K Allah. I can take Is he gonna leave me in with K? What a fucking pussy oh you were there for the fucking

I don't know. Genuinely I don't know. I don't know what I would do. Is that how art? You're begging for fifty K that much? What a fake. What a beg. What a beg or I don't know. But if I felt like an in my gut an in It's not nice. What do you mean it's not nice? Because he on the dream Imagine he got it, imagine he got it, you'd be mad if you don't have to get it. But it's different'cause you're a guy

Like, no, like no gender. No, like no regardless. No, no, no, but I'm saying regardless, like Yeah, maybe you were perceiving yourself as some selfless human At the end of the day, these niggas are gonna be Yeah, so you shouldn't care anyway.

Mind you, let me just put this in the case. I freaking love that girl. She got offered two million from Mr. She genuinely doesn't. But now she signed a deal with Kyle. No, no, she signed a deal with I want to do I'm sure you're not going to be able to do that. She's like a woman. I think that's fine because they're so young, she's twenty two. Well how old is she on the show? Wait, she's not twenty she's twenty four this year, but she's not twenty four.

Than you. Maybe twenty-three or twenty-two max. That's what she is. She wasn't 19 when she was on the show because her show. No, she wasn't. Oh my god, I'm not sure. Her man is twenty two as well. He's only baby. He's still older than him. I love her YouTube channel. Moving on from this topic, I wanted us to And some questions. What is it? Mm-hmm. Yeah, it's one channel.

We've sat down, we've spoken about it, I've told you how it's made me feel. Yeah. And then you've gone and done it again. I can't come past that. and and you're constantly trying to find ways to like put me down. Yeah and Oh yeah, that's a good thing. Yeah. Anyone who stops. I feel like I'm not sure if you're you winning I feel like that to me like you know there's people that eat you from under? Yeah Like why are you like That to me.

You know that overly like yeah. Babs, I don't know you're from nowhere, but why you actually That is evil. Are you four, five, or ten? Yeah, I want to know, but I'm not even gonna go. Something that's like say something really big happens. No, you're gonna hear it from me. I would literally like you know genuinely you know that I how I would react. I won't even dignify you with a response. اشتركوا في القناة اشتركوا في القناة Like, yeah. Like, do you know what I mean? Like, all that. Especially.

Yeah. In the sense like I would Yeah, okay. I don't have the time, the energy, nor the love that much love for you. Yeah. For t for me to sit you down and tell me tell you how much of a shit person you are.'Cause in this point I actually have nothing good to say for you. But I actually have تقول لها هو أشي غروف the fuck out of you Period, as you should. And I'm so rude for that, but Wallahi, like I can't help it. I think you're

Then you'll just see that they're showing you like a bad face. Do you get what I mean? You've done me wrong and you act like nothing has happened. I didn't give a social piece. run to me in public and give me this big hug and this big like it's not necessarily The second question is how do I Why do you keep puffing and puffing? Yeah, okay. Nah, I'm just like they're like big questions. Yeah. Okay. I can't even tell you.

shit with my parents and I feel like I would for me everything's like a bit of a joke. A bit of a joke. Just a bit of banter. Just a bit of banter. Ah, in a second I'll tell my mum. In a second. In a second, sorry. I can't tell that word. I can't say that word without saying in a second. Oh my God. Regardless how hard it is, wallaha bite the bullet. Just go for it.

Yeah. I have more kids to know what you think. Really? Do you think that Like we've both kinda said like yeah, we agreed like that marriage is the next step, like Oh no, that's not how far is it. Yeah. What about you? Honestly, I I don't know. I don't I genuinely don't know. I think I would I don't know. I think if I'm talking to that person, same thing actually. Tell me I'm not like If you're talking about it. I just be like, Oh hi, brother. I think she's very chill, whereas my dad

Dad, oh my god, because my dad, I can't play around with him. If I'm bringing a guy to him, that's the guy I'm gonna marry. So if I I have to be like really sure, that's why I'm so So I would tell my like Yeah, I agree. You want to tell you something fast? I know! Yeah, yeah, yeah, from when I'm going out

That's what I'm saying. First c ever conversation we have. First every yeah. I wouldn't tell that. I wouldn't have. But when he messages you, that's exactly when you can tell him. Yeah, I'm gonna tell my siblings when I'm gonna. So I feel like I would keep it to myself. Literally. I would keep it to myself. Meet you meet up with you in real life.

family like to the point where it doesn't bother me like and then even tomorrow if I say if this nigga and everything he stands for, yeah, I'm done. I'm done. Period. No one's gonna question my judgment. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, brothers are the best thing in the world. Mm-hmm. I feel like just guys think they can take like advantage advantage of it. Oh hundred percent no one I don't think the reason why I don't think anyone would take advantage of any of us because of that.

And I think that's even like a that's like respectful as well. Yeah. Literally. That will shield you from anything. Yeah. Promise me, even like promise you. Promise me, you'll do it. Promise me, you'll do it. And you just, like, we were talking about this before. Excuses for them, excuses for them. They're my friend, like they're my friend and they become a friend. Like your your your partner becomes like your almost like your best friend. Do you get what I mean?

married yet and you're just like in that like dating phase you had a life without um without this person so you can easily Like I feel like that's what it is like'cause people feel like a sense of like oh my god I'm so Yeah, personally. almost since and even dating does a light light turn like you wanna you're getting to know Those terms, I don't want that.

ワーファーカファテカフェ Good night. You should actually say goodbye. Good night. Oh my gosh. Hundred next question is would you rather have a big yeah how about you i would i could always yeah i could always picture myself having a massive wedding yeah i feel like i am that person yeah That whole element of looking perfect stresses me out and I feel like I would be the opposite and if I was I feel like mm I feel like there's two things. I I have one Yeah, in temptation. Don't have no shape of the biggest.

That's what I see. But in the sense that we're not going to be able to Whereas when it comes to She has a lot of friends. Yeah. And I feel like them they would get a first daughter getting married, so like expectations. And obviously ADL and stuff like that, they feel a type of way. I would genuinely, in my heart. Yeah. You wouldn't. I mean, some people would be like, because I honestly wouldn't hate it. Yeah, I wouldn't hate it. I'd love that. Let me get to the planning.

Yeah, but I wouldn't mean I can see it. Like you guys know me when I'm stressed. Let me book a flight. Am I someone to bury Well, you're gonna be right there plating it with me? That's why. In the sense that I'm stressed I'm gonna be stressed out. A little bit stressed out. I'd be stressed. No, I'd be str I'd plan most of the things by myself. I think just for my own. I love what I do things. I think just know what you know what.

This is what I want. I think you would be because you're just very like structured and organized. So you would know and you would have everything done. I just want a massive nika. Yeah. Yeah. I want a massive tuna. Yeah. And we're gonna take photos. Yeah, like in a cute castle. No, I think it's so strange that Yeah. And like if you says Akbad, like I ain't even there. What are you Akabali to? I know, but someone are so set in their ways that they would never No way.

They don't even let her show up to our siblings' weddings. What makes you think they're gonna let you, the entire bride, come to her and then you're not gonna be able to do that? If you guys want that to be like a

I'm just saying with the Western like the Somali Western culture, yeah. By us wearing a white dress, we're incorporating Western Dahana. So why can't we incorporate our own Dhakan with the Deen? Like because I With somebody's like no the guys will you know who be in one corner because I mean, if the women and men... I think Pakistanis do that and stuff like that. Changing that look look how long it took us to incorporate small white people This is gonna take you a while to do it.

No, but like changing something that they've they've grown. That's why I say that. That's gonna be so hard to do. So while I start grafting now, talk to your parents, get them used to that idea of bitcoin. I feel like they're genuinely I feel like they genuinely just enjoy doing it. their own party at night time, whatever. Like I wanna come to that, I wanna come to the me men's one. I w and you know what You can switch that up.

But I also I think it's because That's more from for the girl whereas the Nikah is where the guy I can see that his standpoint. Yeah. But it's literally not from that standpoint. That's what it's become over years. Do you get what I mean? Dude, the night before. Good luck. The night before, like well, I'm actually the night before. Yeah. But that defeats the purpose of having an He might as well just have a colour. But she's saying she wants that.

wants to share. And then they can just repeat it on the next one. Yeah, but then what's the point of having like shiaq layer to do all that like stuff? That's for you. That's for you and other people. But And I wouldn't f around. Oh my god, you are disgusting. No, because I feel like we're like Like you're nervous for the wrong people. Like, I want you to be nervous that you're marrying me. Yeah. Not that you're standing in front of a chef promising. But he can still be nervous about it.

I mean... First dance like privately. Really? Like some weddings people ha tell the guests to leave and they have their first dance privately. I So while the wedding is going on you're gonna tell the guests to leave. And it can be overwhelming for you. Like love is just risky. I love it.

Okay, next question. What's something that shouldn't be embarrassing? No, it's same. Sorry, I do. for help. I'd rather die, man. and it's not a good thing It's actually not a good thing. I'm suffering mentally and physically. It's not a good thing. Absolutely figure no, I'm not gonna be struggling at the cost of myself. Oh no, I'd rather get someone else to show You said I want someone else to struggle with me or I'm just um even just it's literally the question.

It's not even the act of it I love it's so Not weak. That's what I get. I hate bothering people. Rejection or if I'm like bothered. I never know what never think of a weak thing because I think I like I'm But that should be my I don't know. What's one thing for the that you find embarrassing that over. Oh yeah. Oh my god. And sometimes it can be

Yeah. As if I did that. Like so embarrassing like I fell over my own feet but how? But I think that's something you should be embarrassed by because why would you own saliva. I think that's embarrassing. Especially when you're in a conversation with somebody like talking you're

Shit. Yeah, Wallah. That is embarrassing. That is bad. Oh, sometimes even when I you know when you're just like you're standing, like I realize And then sometimes I don't know what it is, but I'll be standing on one leg and then I'll start I'll stumble and then I'll just look at the other thing. I'm like, but I shouldn't be apologizing for that, but I'm sorry that you just saw me stumble. Yeah. Actually it's jarring. Especially because people get... But I'm... I'm...

So I'm just like why do you keep apologizing? Stop it. It's enough. But yeah. Okay, moving on

Um right for us that um uh we're gonna answer. So the first one is would you rather be friends with a group of girls who are fun or I don't always have to be all emotional off load, uh get answers from and have a good time with. All three of them can like they can work. I'm hella depressed to go home and think about my feelings or load and lucky. Not when I'm going to my friends, we're thinking about our problems and I'm thinking where was the fun? Where was the fun?

Whereas if we if I'm with a sociopath I just know. I'm with a robot. I'd rather not do that. They know emotions. Like at least a sociopath, he doesn't know A narcissist knows damn well what emotions. Yeah, I'd rather be so so nice.

Yeah. But Wallah that's so long teaching someone how to feel. I'd rather teach than someone manipulate the fuck out of me and I don't know what to do. That's their whole thing, but they're literally in love with themselves. They're so in love with themselves that they'll make you feel like you're Love Bummy yet. Mind you everything with them. and everything with them is timing. So it's literally. No you wouldn't want one.

But they make it seem like it's about you. Yeah. Oh lovely. Then if I'm unaware, then I would run away and it's damaging. It's literally so damaging. No, because you know what I'm imagining when you say sociopath, literally someone straight. I could teach that. I don't have time to be teaching you how to be happy sad. Exactly. We'd love to have that and help it before. But is he right or is he wrong? 'Cause then I would love him to tell me.

self consciousness in a relationship is to empathize with them, to be like, okay, I understand that you're feeling this way, it's not gonna feel forever. And he'll say how fine. Like this is the best emotion to have her in so I can run like But like a muccas. But yeah. Today she's coming out with new people. No, but he's literally gonna like So basically, you two want to... Moving on, next question.

And you've come back from the situation you just like And mind you sometimes narcissists are in girls as well. Yeah Fucked'cause that's what just happened to me. Like literally something That something's not right about this chick. Like she just really manipulated And I'm the crazy one. You know what? That's the point for me. Making me feel one thing I hate is one person making it.

And the person just goes to Z and Z is me being the problem. Imagine me saying Y A B C E A D E. And they're convincing me it's A D E. I'm like, you don't know the alphabet, it's A B C al. And they're telling you you don't know the alphabet. Where did you graduate? What? Just confused. I'm just confused. You need to look at it. But it's not always gonna be like that. And someone yes, I see a plan. Yeah, I think you are, but they that's what

It's so amazing. It's like oh I would rather be in that high than lie, uh freaking and when it comes down, it really comes down. Are you gonna be fine to be at home by yourself? You're gonna go you're gonna go out with your friends tonight and I'm feeling like shit. What do you mean you're going out with your friends? Are you not putting me before Like it's just crazy. You can teach a sociopath emotion, sorry. They

You got what I mean? I mean it is their fault. Don't get me wrong. What he makes it sound like I'm sympathizing out of the thing. No, but I'm saying out of the two, I'd rather teach someone how No I wouldn't then be manipulated. No, you wouldn't because would you rather listen wait, let me just say this because I'm gonna figure Okay, go, go. Imagine you're in a s like a very emotional

you're crying about something and that person is just staring at you with nothing on their face. They don't understand what you're going

I'd rather someone that still understands what I'm going through and acknowledges it and is still um. He's gonna remember and he's gonna say he's gonna be a First of all, what you need to understand with the socio- a sociopath is external everything's black and white you know what they're doing everything is like it's not their intention at a freaking narcissist it's internal everything about them they literally know a And they don't care about the way you feel.

Like a who would want to be able to do that. Okay, but doesn't have the episode. All I want to know is do I know that this is happening? Absolut with analysis you don't know and you're still choosing your own. What a lovely because I would rather not know. I want you to know. But then exactly but then that's literally like someone imagine someone bringing your Taking them out of you. Like you're no, sorry, I read a little bit I don't give a shit. Um can I just say something?

Imagine being manipulated. Everything's like I just genuinely dent could be hitting you with the space pass. But then I'm saying But when you come out of that real relationship functions you're gonna think okay yeah is this you go to let's say Yeah. You're gonna bring that bag in here. Because that's what they do to you over time, they didn't damage. What I need is emotion. I need emotional. But that's like From a plant and they're bringing it upside down.

I don't think you understand with a sociopath you can tell them. They'll be willing to do that. But why does everybody have to be preaching high school? I don't wanna teach you shit, bruv. I'm not your teacher. Oh, rather you pay me and I'm not n I don't know I'm getting paid. You're gonna know because your insides are gonna knock out the No, I'm scared by now because this doesn't even sound like devil.

Shout out to all my shout out to all my homegirls with the narcissist ass thing. Get your ass and run. Period. Absolutely run. And don't come to KC for advice. Don't come to Kcause she will tell you to stay with her. Because I'm playing devil while I'm playing. I love them. See, sometimes you have to understand why people that are in relationships like that are-

Mm that scene you know that mmm was not in agreement. That mmm was like mm okay, I respect the your opinion and scene. See scene's over. And scene. Next question.

or you love your partner more than they love youwait Let's break it down. Everything about them is hella minimum. Basic. Basic ass beings. So so once a guy loves you like one life And the more he breaks his back, the more I know you love him, so break your back again. Yeah. That is very, very toxic though. You're actually so toxic, Casey. When are you ever gonna feel content? You're a narcissist. You and you pick back up that's because not me. There's another gin in the room.

I would get played if I was the one. Because I'm uh Like I'm gonna love my partner more than they love me. I just know. I ideally want that's what I want. I want someone to love me more than they're like, but I just know like I love hard. I I'm definitely not

No, but I feel like with your personality, Casey. I'm sorry, when you're married, there's no such thing as well. I know I'm gonna be That's what I'm trying to say, that's what I'm trying to do your circumstances I'm trying to menapist. Basically with Casey's personality, right? That's what I'm trying to say. I love hobby. And that's I feel like that's me too. I love hobby. But also I don't believe in the big term. You do come off as a...

And you're doing it. I see it as a competition. Like if you when you have a literally not c um, no no no but I'm saying I would equally I want that competition as well. Just because someone Anyways at the end of the day I just feel like it's really important to Love languages. Period. Period. I will go all I would cater to them. How could I exceed in their love language basically? I feel like with that, especially with your part In a different way than

want something back in return. Mm. No. You know what I mean? Like I wouldn't get disheartened if it wasn't as big if I knew I knew it was the best that they could, like I would just love that because they did like the best that they could. Like I would be more in love with the fact that they did the best that they could. I don't know, I have like I have like three like top so what what the highest 'Cause I can do I'm very independent, so I do No, no, no. Gifts is its own.

It is because no, it's not. Giving gifts, it is. It's called acts of service. No guys, it's physical touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, giving gifts. Those are the five. Are you guys sick? It is. It's five I know I'm right, and I'm gonna have that I told you so. Okay, thank you. I hope you guys know that. What's it called? It's five. receiving same shit. Giving gifts is not giving it's giving I don't like receiving gifts. I like giving gifts. So my action I said mom

Um but that was actually a good conversation. I really like that. So at the end of the day I would rather Obviously this and the Shut up I can see all the space and the face that you're making and I know I would not get um played. Man, you have to settle for his love. Okay? You a strong woman. Go get a king, not a fan. Cảm ơn các bạn đã theo dõi. That's what I don't like. But I will still love you a lot. Maybe to be honest. Yeah, so whatever. Thank you guys!

Backup dancer. The backup dance the back. Backup dancer of the day. Miss uh Sarah. Yeah. With her little comments here and there you'll hear it throughout She will be joining us on a separate pod in Sha'alan next fortnight. Sometimes sometimes we do shallow when when we try to convince her. But um yes, thank you for joining us. Don't forget Not be doing any of that. I'm flipping all that out. She's a traveling ass ho. I swear. Um and also don't forget Thank you guys for the first time.