NYC PRIDE is coming in hot! 🌈 Pull up to PRIDEANDFRIENDS.NYC for the Brooklyn Day Party on Saturday, June 28th, 2–9PM . This Week’s Catch-Up: 🎬 We’re watching Love Island USA Season 7 — and yes, we have thoughts. 📽️ The Travis Scott: Astroworld documentary — heavy stuff. 💍 The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 is finally here — two years later, and we’re ready for the drama. Also… we're heading to Bali and Thailand soon! If you’ve been, comment your best tips, hidden gems, or must-avoid mistake...
Jun 25, 2025•43 min•Season 3Ep. 132
This week, we’re unpacking A LOT. First up: the ICE raids in LA. We’re spreading the word, sharing where to donate, and why staying informed matters more than ever. (resources below) Then, Fletcher? JoJo Siwa? Billie Eilish? All dating men during Pride Month?! Feels homophobic, honestly. We also give you the rundown on our Philly & DC Pride adventures, queer joy, wild moments, and a few hangovers. And in our Family Meeting , we hear from a listener who’s four years into a relationship and st...
Jun 11, 2025•50 min•Season 4Ep. 132
We’re catching up on all things Pride, from Philly to DC! Join us June 6–7 as we host Havana Nights with TASTE Takeover, celebrate queer Latina joy, and ride the DC Pride float to see Cynthia Erivo headlining! Then we dig into the hot topic: What does it mean to “make being gay your personality”? We unpack why it’s celebrated, why it’s judged, and why authenticity is what really matters. And in this week’s Family Meeting: What if you’re ready to travel the world but your partner isn’t moving wit...
May 28, 2025•46 min•Season 4Ep. 131
We dive into our weekend celebration for Lilly's birthday (who's been on the podcast twice!) We then quickly chat about the encounter at Boston’s Liberty Hotel where a cisgender woman was asked to prove her gender in a bathroom, shedding light on the ongoing challenges of gender identity and public perception. We also dive into the evolving concept of lavender marriages which was once used to hide LGBTQ+ identities and now transforming into modern mixed-orientation relationships. From Hollywood ...
May 14, 2025•46 min•Season 4Ep. 130
We're catching you up on everything going on the past few weeks, life, drama, healing, and a little oversharing (as usual). We then dive into some truly unhinged lesbian stories that will leave you gasping, laughing, and possibly texting your ex (don’t do it). Let’s get unhinged. Family Meeting "My wife asked for a divorce after 10 years together, saying we're no longer compatible and that life feels overwhelming. Now she says we can 'date' after selling the house and moving out." FOLLOW LES CHA...
May 07, 2025•59 min•Season 4Ep. 129
In this episode, we reference Dr. Lynda, the Lesbian Couples Coach, and explore how love languages can be uniquely expressed in lesbian relationships. From quality time in nature and playful moments to affirming words and cozy cuddles, we dive into what real connection looks like and how to love each other more intentionally. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUB...
Apr 23, 2025•50 min
In this episode, we explore how to go beyond the usual "How's work?" and ask deeper questions like, “What are you learning about yourself right now?” to build more meaningful connections. We also dive into key questions for new relationships, inspired by therapist Jeff Gunther. What counts as cheating? How do we handle privacy, exes, and boundaries? Tune in for insights on fostering communication, trust, and understanding in any relationship. List of Questions: https://www.instagram.com/experien...
Apr 09, 2025•55 min•Season 4Ep. 127
In today’s episode, we dive into the latest lesbian dating drama (TikTok Reference LINK with Beeca Moore & Shannon B.) and what it's really like navigating relationships in the queer community. We also talk about our Les Chat NYC meetup! Talking Points: Boundaries with Same-Sex vs. Opposite Sex : Why we tolerate different things from women than from men. Long-Distance Love : Why long-distance is so common in the LGBTQ+ community and how it really works. Besties with Exes : Why it’s a lesbian...
Apr 02, 2025•43 min•Season 4Ep. 127
In this AUDIO only episode of Les Chat , we’re catching up on everything from the progress of our 75 Soft challenge (46 days to go!) to some exciting updates on our upcoming Thailand and Bali trip (don’t forget, it's the last month to sign up for the payment plan). Plus, we’re thinking about NEW merch drop, with a focus on queer pride gear just in time for Pride Month! We dive into the Doechii controversy (the Grammy-winning bisexual rap artist) From her viral dating red flag comment to the cont...
Mar 19, 2025•39 min•Season 4Ep. 125
In this episode, we talk about the WNBA drama between DiJonai Carrington and NaLyssa Smith, explore what it means to be "heteroflexible," and discuss the complexities of being queer. We dive into why labels matter and how being queer is more than just a choice. LINK TO WNBA PODCAST VIDEO CLIP BEING QUEER IS A CHOICE VIDEO FAMILY MEETING “I’ve been in a 1.5-year relationship, and recently, my partner has been hanging out with her guy friends more often. When I mention it, she says I’m being contr...
Mar 12, 2025•39 min•Season 4Ep. 124
Is Love is Blind secretly a lesbian reality show for straight people? We break it down and give you our raw, unfiltered thoughts Welcome to Raw Conversations with Les Chat Podcast (the audio version only) , your bi-weekly Wednesday deep dive into all things personal growth, relationships, and any random thoughts we have! In this episode, we’re sharing an update on our 75 Soft Challenge, we have 59 days to go, and we’re reflecting on the 16 days we’ve already conquered! Then, we dive into Love is...
Mar 05, 2025•47 min•Season 4Ep. 123
In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids. FAMILY MEETING “I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her 'friend' over our relationship.” Source: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/lesbian-myths-debunked FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.inst...
Feb 26, 2025•39 min•Season 4Ep. 122
Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship? Family Meeting: "I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunately care what people think. She is the woman of my dreams but I don’t know if we can have a relationship if I’m not out the closet yet." https://linktr...
Feb 19, 2025•42 min•Season 4Ep. 121
We’re back after an 8 week break! Ahhhhhhh!! There is SO much to catch up on but we can’t fit it all in one episode. Dayra shares insights from her recent NYC LGBTQ+ speech, and we give updates on work and new home life. Finally, we share 23 ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day as a single, from binge-watching your favorite series to planning an out-of-town getaway, enjoying a parent-child date, or even hosting a singles dinner with friends. FAMILY MEETING “My wife/partner of 10+ wants an open ...
Feb 12, 2025•51 min•Season 4Ep. 120
In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits we've noticed since living together. Tune in for all the updates and good vibes! Family Meeting: "Was in a LTR with a man for 8 years, started dating ...
Dec 16, 2024•52 min•Season 3Ep. 119
In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass , where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices. Dayra shares why this scenario would be her worst nightmare, and we wrap up by discussing the things we wish we could tell our younger selves. Tune...
Dec 02, 2024•55 min•Season 3Ep. 118
In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune in for an honest conversation about healing, support, and the importance of visibility in both Latinx and LGBTQ+ spaces. Family Meeting Question 1. "I...
Nov 18, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 117
In this episode of our Q&A podcast, we catch up after a brief hiatus—Dayra just returned from her trip to Colombia! Join us as we dive into your questions, share travel stories, and discuss how life has been keeping us on our toes. & DON'T REMEMBER TO VOTE!! Family Meeting Questions “My gf lied to me about having two abortions…” “I’ve been dating this girl for 4 years but her child is so challenging & disrespectful” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.c...
Nov 04, 2024•48 min
Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights. FAMILY MEETING “Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks after my father passed away” “My gf of 3 years recently broke up with me to try things out with her ex, a man” FOLL...
Oct 14, 2024•45 min
Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline. In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of LGBTQ+ Latinas who have paved the way for representation in the media. From trailblazers to modern icons, we quickly highlight their impact and discuss...
Sep 30, 2024•41 min
In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend—or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations. Family Meeting: "My girlfriend and I were dating for a year . She recently found out that when we took a break I cheated on her with my baby’s father..." "Can we talk about how racism doesn't only apply to white people but also othe...
Sep 09, 2024•48 min
In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time. Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ+ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face discrimination and violence, which can make them hesitant to express their love openly. We share stories of real-life attacks on LGBTQ+ couples, includin...
Aug 26, 2024•47 min
It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone? THAILAND TRIP DETAILS: LINK Family Meeting: 1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were long distance... She left her ipad home one day, found sexual deleted messages w/ a guy…a guy she was hanging with when we were long distance. " 2. "As a newly gay...
Aug 12, 2024•56 min
Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. • Follow @https://www.instagram.com/p/C20DZv6upQy/?igsh=YnZxMThkdTMwdGxz&img_index=2 on Instagram. Family Meeting • "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day" • " Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m ver...
Jul 29, 2024•46 min•Season 3Ep. 110
Les Chat family is going to BALI!!!! This week's episode we started of with shout outs to those that book their spot for our group 2025 Bali trip! Then we jump into to some hypothetical couple questions from Therapyjeff's IG page. Would you stay with me if: 1. I changed my political affiliation to the other side? 2. I wanted to be physically intimate with you 50% less often? How about 75% less often? 3. I had to move somewhere 3000 miles away for a year, which meant we’d be in a long-distance re...
Jul 22, 2024•42 min
Bali 2025: Sign up for updates - https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link https://classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc". We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme. Family Meeting 1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend...
Jul 15, 2024•42 min•Season 3Ep. 106
Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife. Family Meeting “Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for over 2 years” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodca...
Jul 08, 2024•43 min
This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” .. In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, shedding light on the differences Lily has discovered along her journey. Family Meeting Questions 1. "I’ve been married to a girl for 5 years, we started hav...
Jun 24, 2024•1 hr 1 min
From the blissful honeymoon phase to the real challenges of long-term commitment, we explore it all. Learn how falling in love can impair critical thinking, why we unconsciously pick partners with familiar flaws, and how attachment issues and milestone pressures can impact your relationship. Discover the importance of tolerating each other's bad habits, overcoming grudges, and negotiating differences without feeling betrayed. We’ll also discuss the swipe-left mentality from dating apps and how t...
Jun 17, 2024•1 hr
In this episode 104, we explore the evolving world of queer dating post-pandemic. Technology has made dating easier, yet it comes with challenges, especially for queer women. We review top lesbian dating apps like Zoe, Lex, and Her, highlighting their unique features. We also share 10 essential tips for a secure and successful online dating experience, from setting boundaries to avoiding catfishing. Links Mentioned in This Episode: Best Lesbian Dating Apps: Reddit Responses 11 Best (and Free) Le...
Jun 10, 2024•1 hr
