051: This Is the Real Reason He’s Pulling Away
Episode description
If you've ever found yourself doing the most in a relationship — planning every date, fixing the energy, chasing his attention, and still feeling like he’s slipping away… this episode is your permission slip to stop.
In this potent solo riff, Melissa breaks down the real reason men pull away when you’re over-giving, over-pleasing, and over-functioning — and it’s not what you think. If you’re tired of trying to “earn” love and ready to become the woman who inspires devotion simply by being in her feminine essence, you’re going to feel seen inside this conversation.
We’ll Explore:
The hidden trauma response behind over-giving in relationships
Why men pull away when you try to do everything for them
The shift that activates healthy masculine leadership
Real-life examples of unconscious self-abandonment (you’ll feel called out in the best way)
How to stop performing for love and start receiving it instead
This is for the high-achieving woman who’s ready to be met, led, and deeply claimed.
✨ Come back home to your feminine.
✨ Stop chasing. Start receiving.
✨ Become the woman he never forgets.
Work With Me:
Ready to break the cycle of over-functioning and unlock your most magnetic feminine energy?
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