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Left On Read

Hello and welcome to Left on Read. A weekly podcast brought to you by Instagram sensation Julie Haynes aka Twins N’ Me and TV producer Brenda Dennehy also known as Brenda’s Bits. While Julie manages the single mom life in Cork, Brenda has crossed the Irish sea for a career in television in London. Never afraid to laugh at themselves, the hopeless romantics share their disaster dates and dilemmas after being left on read more times than they'd want to admit! While Julie has been the victim of several catfishes, Brenda once faced the humiliation of being ghosted by her very own boyfriend..of three years! Both Cork natives, the girls will be bringing you all the best banter and topical conversation that everyone is talking about .
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Episodes

Bonus: Threesomes and Tight People

A listener gets in touch to get advice from the girls after her boyfriend's suggestion of a threesome with another man leaves her questioning their relationship. And there's talk of the most awkward subject of all - money, as Julie and Brenda hear from one girl who's owed €1600 from her boyfriend. Send in your dilemmas to LOR@GoLoudNow.com.

Sep 07, 202313 min

Julie's run in with the Guards and Brenda's delivery driving days

The girls are sharing tales of driving around Cork city this week as Julie explains how she got pulled over after one too many oat milk lattes while Brenda reminisces on her time spent delivering chips when money was tight. Julie's twins are headed back to school and already looking for ways to stay home and after their first ever live show, Brenda and Julie catch up on their experience performing in a sold out Cork Opera House!

Sep 04, 202349 min

Bonus: Exes and Emigaration

Julie and Brenda disagree on whether or not one listener should allow his hot and cold ex girlfriend to stay in his life, 'submarining him' as Brenda calls it. Julie says block her, but Brenda thinks he should give her one more chance. They also offer some advice to an American girl who has moved to Sligo with her fella but is struggling to make friends and considering a return home.

Aug 31, 202314 min

Dresses, dates and disasters - A Debs special

It's Debs season and Julie and Brenda are reminiscing on their dresses, dates and a few disasters - Everything from gate crashing to stolen deposits! There's also chat about the return to school and Brenda's recent run in with the fire brigade, and more importantly, the firemen. And Julie wants to know if anyone else has seen a Deliveroo worker cycling around Cork with just one wheel? Email LOR@GoLoudNow.com to let her know!

Aug 28, 202339 min

Bonus: Herpes and Home Friends

The girls hear from a listener recently diagnosed with genital herpes, who is looking for advice on telling prospective partners as she returns to the dating world. And they answer one listener's dilemma as she struggles to decide whether or not to tell her friend who has recently returned home from Australia about a divide in their friend group. Send your questions, dilemmas and opinions to LOR@GoLoudNow.com.

Aug 24, 202312 min

Loneliness and leaving loveless relationships

The girls hear from those who feel alone or stuck in loveless relationships, including one farmers wife whose husband is choosing silage over a roll in the hay! It has Julie recalling her own decision to end her relationship with the twin's dad and asking if she would do it again. Meanwhile, all of Brenda's running has her in need of a new bra, and she reveals her new cup size and shares some listeners tales of their own first bras. Get your tickets to the live show, this Friday 25th of August h...

Aug 21, 202343 min

Bonus: Slaps and Sex Work

In the first ever bonus episode, Julie and Brenda tackle your dilemmas and listener questions! They kick off with a woman who has been turned off by her new fella's revelation that he's visited sex workers in the past and another listener who wonders whether her friend was right to slap a man who grabbed her hand to dance. Send your questions, dilemmas and opinions to LOR@GoLoudNow.com.

Aug 17, 202312 min

Left on Read? More like Left the Building

Brenda's date with her Eastenders actor doesn't go well, or really even get going at all, and has her longing for the days when her date might just leave her on read rather than flat out leave the building. Feeling a bit hopeless about love, the girls hear from listeners also struggling to find a relationship, including those in their 30's who have never had a boyfriend or who only found a partner later in life.

Aug 14, 202338 min

Julie's back in the saddle and Brenda's spreading rumours

Julie's off to the races risking the rain in a white dress with a fresh spray tan, and after Barbie gets the girls reminiscing on toys from their childhoods Brenda reveals her secret bed partner - A teddy bear! And when a listeners email arouses suspicions, the girls deal with urban legends from all across the island.

Aug 07, 202338 min

Breakups, betrayals and a new actor for Brenda

Julie's blossoming relationship has come to an end after a friend betrays her trust to troll him. Meanwhile, Brenda is getting called desperate for going on multiple dates, but it's not stopping her from matching with a well known face from EastEnders.

Jul 31, 202343 min

Julie's fella sleeps over while Brenda gets blocked

Julie has her first sleepover with her new fella, despite trolls sending him messages to warn him off her. Meanwhile, Brenda has two uninspiring dates and then discovers a third guy she was actually interested in has blocked her! And the girls are joined by two special guests to hear about a Leaving Cert holiday gone awry. Tickets are available for the Left On Read live show on the 25th of August as part of the Cork Podcast Festival, visit www.corkoperahouse.ie to get yours now!

Jul 24, 202339 min

Sexy dreams, workplace crushes and subscribing to OnlyFans

Brenda's having sexy dreams about men 10 years younger than her and doesn't know how to feel about it. And to make it worse he works with her! It inspires the girls to reminisce about the good and bad of a workplace romance. And Julie asks how would you react if your fella had an OnlyFans account?

Jul 17, 202332 min

Vibrators, threesomes and Julie's secret is revealed

Julie's attempts at hiding the podcast and her social media from her new fella fail, and Brenda's worried she might be catfishing someone after hearing listeners stories of being misled by their partners. The girls chat about threesomes, sexy underwear and accidentally gifting a vibrator. To get tickets to see Left on Read live in the Cork Opera House on the 25th of August, visit www.corkoperahouse.ie

Jul 10, 202338 min

Are we dating the same guy? YES!

You'll have often heard us mention the 'Are we dating the same guy?' Facebook page, but this week we did more than just talk about what we see on there. We actually heard the personal tale of one woman, Gemma Hayde who found out through the page that her fella was dating not one, but upwards of 5 different women!

Jul 03, 202332 min

Brenda's asking for a shift and Julie's prank goes wrong

While trying to ease Julie's nerves about an upcoming date, Brenda reveals that she has "no time for the romantic stuff" and will ask a man directly if he's going to shift her or not. Meanwhile, Julie's attempt at a prank goes awry, and the girls discuss FUN-erals and the perils of topless sunbathing.

Jun 26, 202333 min

Julie's first date in a year, getting ignored and flying to America to meet someone

Julie gives us all the details of her first date in over a year, including her ick and why she'd actually be happier if he didn't text her for a few days. Brenda and listeners share their own first date tales, and the girls offer some advice to someone considering flying all the way to America for a date. To get tickets to see Left on Read live in the Cork Opera House on the 25th of August, visit www.corkoperahouse.ie

Jun 19, 202331 min

Pregnancy scares, first times and wild rendezvous

Brenda worries that she might be pregnant and takes a trip to the doctor, while Julie recounts her first kiss and her first time sleeping with someone. We hear some wild locations for a romantic rendezvous, including A&E, graveyards, roundabouts and more! And the girls disagree with one listener who gets the ick around a hairy man.

Jun 12, 202334 min

Playing games, sliding into DMs and the Mile High Club

Brenda's wondering whether she should reply "Hey" or "Hey Hey" after leaving her actor on read for two weeks and an old Tinder match slid into Julie's DMs after spotting her scoffing jellies while stuck in traffic. And the girls share some listener stories about airplane disasters like being on the same flight as a terrorist and the pilot overhearing a couple having sex!

Jun 05, 202336 min

When surgery and travelling abroad goes wrong

Travelling abroad for cosmetic surgery has become more and more common, and Julie herself has previously shared her own story of heading to Turkey. But, it is not always a positive experience and Fiona Lane reached to us, a year after her sister tragically died following a procedure abroad, to share her story. The Facebook group Fiona mentions is 'Victims of Botched Surgery and Malpractice, Patient Support UK' and she urges anyone considering going for a cosmetic procedure to do their research t...

May 29, 202325 min

Brenda's actor returns and Julie's getting catfished

Julie's tales of being catfished and reminiscing on when she told her mother she was pregnant are interrupted by the resurfacing of Brenda's Israeli actor! And the girls debate whether one listener should tell her friend that her husband is sending flirty messages to their group...

May 22, 202333 min

One night stands, the morning after pill, and hen parties

Julie fills us in on the aftermath of a fling while away at a hen party, and Brenda recalls a time when she had to go to the doctor to get the morning after pill twice in one day. And listeners get involved too sharing some of their best and worst one night stand stories, including everything from a broken willy to an escape out a window!

May 15, 202333 min

Dumping toxic friends and making new ones as adults

Have you ever had to break up with a toxic friend? One listeners email has Julie and Brenda recounting times they have had to cut people out of their lives and the struggles of making new friends as adults, and they even reveal how their friendship began

May 08, 202326 min

Julie's visit to a trolls house and Brenda's two dates in one day

Brenda tells us all about her two dates in one day and why she unmatched with BOTH of them afterwards and Julie talks trolls and how they're not as anonymous as they might think! And the girls let each other read their best and worse dating app messages!

May 01, 202331 min

Intrusive thoughts, "mickey pics", and Cork slang

Brenda explains why she has NEVER held a newborn baby, and a listener's dilemma has Julie wondering if sending dick pics counts as cheating. The girls also go through some of their favourite Cork slang that leaves Brenda's colleagues in London confused.

Apr 24, 202334 min

Holiday icks, cheating while abroad and the downsides to romantic getaways

Before Julie jets off to the sun, the girls catch up on trips that didn't go as planned and share their holiday icks. And although Brenda's plans to go away for her birthday were disrupted, she is still convinced she'll be spending a few weeks away on a very special island come June.

Apr 17, 202338 min

Manifesting dream jobs (& crushes), holiday plans, and signs you're getting ghosted!

Julie reveals why she'll be still be celebrating Christmas next February and gets her general knowledge put to the test while Brenda explains how she manifested her dream job - Where her unusual older crush just so happens to work! We also hear about one listener's experience of 'lovebombing' and ask if you can tell if you're going to be ghosted.

Apr 10, 202332 min

Reunited for a Photoshoot, news on Julie and Brenda’s car crash love lives & weeing in public!

Reunited for a photoshoot in Cork, the latest news on Julie and Brenda’s car crash love lives and weeing in public! Brenda’s home from London for a few days and reunites with Julie for a photoshoot for The Echo newspaper. Julie reveals she’s been left on read by her latest Tinder match and the girls discuss a dilemma where a listener ponders whether to match her fathers surgeon on Bumble or not.

Mar 03, 202341 min
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