Nuances
Episode description
‘Sometimes we are in a space to hear something and sometimes we are not.
When we hear it again later on it may be us who have changed and then we hear clearly'
Rob has been inspired by The Disruptive Entrepreneur podcast and his interview with Ed Millet to explore nuances and how we achieve balance in the world and are influenced in the way we move through it.
We all interact with the world, is it that we need others to believe us or is it that we need others to believe we believe? If you want to understand more about how your mindset and attitudes can be changed by the approach you take to the world and what happens to you when you achieve self-belief then this is a great episode to listen to.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Nuances
- There are many dichotomies in life where there is no clear answer.
- Do you take it all upon yourself, incessantly working until you achieve or do you let it happen as the universe wants it to happen?
- We all come to our own decision about the philosophy we believe or see a balance between the two.
- You can change everything happens to you….. to…everything happens for you
- Changing one word completely alters the meaning.
- If you believe things happen to you – you could feel powerless and that others are in control with your actions being a response to what is happening
- If you believe everything happens for you – you will feel supported and that others will do something that will be of benefit for you.
Persuasion and belief
- Influential people are masters of persuasion, they are believers in themselves and what they are doing.
- You don't have to get people to believe you, you have to get people to believe you believe
- Maybe we should become more authentic and closer to who we are because when you are what you really are, people will believe you.
Blissful dis-satisfaction
- You can be blissful in the present, being in a peaceful state whilst being dissatisfied and using that to drive you on towards your future
The greatest lesson
- No matter the consequences tell the truth – the consequences don't matter, the truth is the truth
- If we cannot be honest and trust ourselves we will never be able to trust others
- Once you learn to trust yourself things change.
Healthy mind healthy body
- Pay attention to both your physical body and your mental state,
- It means the two are interlinked and connected, the healthier you are in each of those the more rounded you will be as an individual
BEST MOMENTS
‘Bill shanks had an unchangeable belief in football, the players, the supporters, himself and he got you to believe he believed'
‘Because you believed he believed, job done'
‘Changing a word in a sentence can alter the meaning and if the sentence is about your philosophy or mindset it can transform your life'
VALUABLE RESOURCES
The Disruptive Entrepreneur Podcast
ABOUT THE HOST
Rob Ryles is a UEFA A licensed coach with a League Managers Association qualification and a science and medicine background. He has worked in the football industry in Europe, USA and Africa; at International, Premiership, League, Non-League and grassroots levels with both World Cup and European Championship experience.
Rob Ryles prides himself on having a forward-thinking and progressive approach to the game built through his own experience as well as lessons learned from a number of highly successful managers and coaches.
The Leader Manager Coach Podcast is where we take a deep dive examining knowledge, philosophies, wisdom and insight to help you lead, manage and coach in football, sport and life.
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