Penn and I reflect on some of the most memorable moments of our podcast in 2020. Thanks so much for riding out this crazy year with us. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on YouTube: www.youtube.com/theholdernessfamily Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: h...
Dec 22, 2020•38 min•Season 2Ep. 62
Christmas 2020 is going to be one for the books. Here is how we are trying to keep things positive at our house. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on YouTube: www.youtube.com/theholdernessfamily Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail....
Dec 08, 2020•40 min•Season 2Ep. 61
WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on YouTube: www.youtube.com/theholdernessfamily Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com About the Holderness Family : Penn, Kim, Lola, and Penn Charles Holderness create original music, parodies, a...
Nov 24, 2020•50 min•Season 2Ep. 60
This week, Christopher is back to talk about secret contracts. They are agreements we’ve made with our spouse that we’ve never spoken out loud. However, sometimes we aren’t cool with the role that had been assumed upon us. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on YouTube: www.youtube.com/theholdernessfamily ...
Nov 10, 2020•40 min•Season 2Ep. 59
This week we talk with Elyse Snipes, who is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and podcast host of Trailercast. She is also the Founder of Radical Wellness Collaborative an online platform for modern, holistic wellness and dynamic speaker. Penn and I talk to Elyse about how this year has impacted us individually and our society as a whole. We also touch on how to find a better balance in the midst of chaos. You can learn more about Elyse at www.elysesnipes.com and www.radicalwellness.co . ...
Oct 27, 2020•42 min•Season 2Ep. 58
This week on the podcast we shared an excerpt from our upcoming book, Everybody Fights, and had our marriage coach, Dr. Christopher Edmonston, on to talk all about active listening. Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernes...
Oct 13, 2020•41 min•Season 2Ep. 57
Communication is a big part of Penn and I’s marriage. It’s how we handle parenting decisions that we disagree on. It’s how we decide how many times a week we have sex. It’s how we stay in a happy marriage. On this episode we answer all your questions! WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www....
Sep 29, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 56
Positivity is not my default setting. Luckily I married human Golden Retriever, Penn Holderness, who always seems to keep things upbeat. Penn shares his tips to stay positive in the year 2020. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Inst...
Sep 15, 2020•36 min•Season 2Ep. 55
Dr. Emily King reminds us what we should consider a success for 2020, especially when it comes to our children and this school year. Her recent viral Instagram post prompted us to look at our own expectations and remember that safety, connection, and wellness are most important. You can see her inspiring post here: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEQVOaHHAeg/ You can learn more about her Parenting Course here: https://www.parentingonyourownpath.com/ WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of E...
Sep 01, 2020•40 min•Season 2Ep. 54
Mariah Morris is North Carolina’s 2019 Teacher of the Year and currently leads her district as their Innovation and Special Projects Coordinator. We talk to her about getting our kids ready for school and how teachers are feeling about the start of this school year. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebo...
Aug 18, 2020•32 min•Season 2Ep. 53
WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on YouTube: www.youtube.com/theholdernessfamily About the Holderness Family : Penn, Kim, Lola, and Penn Charles Holderness create original music, parodies, a...
Aug 04, 2020•29 min•Season 2Ep. 52
Are you struggling with what to do about school this year? Us too. So we invited Dr. Hope Seidel onto the podcast to provide some advice. Dr. Seidel is a pediatrician at Cary Pediatrics in North Carolina, with a passion for coaching parents through parentingcoaches.com . She also hosts a podcast called Parenting in a Pandemic that I’ve found very helpful. How are you weighing the back to school decision at your house? WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http:/...
Jul 21, 2020•36 min•Season 2Ep. 51
Even though 2020 has been a dumpster fire, I want to remain positive and hopeful. A lot of success and progress comes out of tragedy. Maybe we needed this. Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your pre-sale copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us o...
Jul 07, 2020•42 min•Season 2Ep. 50
Let's face it, this is not the summer your kids were hoping for. Massive screen time and little socialization could have your kids in a funk. Dr. Emily King breaks down when parents should worry about screens and how to help your kids through this weird time. You can learn more about Dr. Emily King's new online course, Parenting On Your Own Path here: https://www.parentingonyourownpath.com/courses WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Than...
Jun 23, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 49
On this podcast we speak to Jen Hatmaker, New York Times bestselling author and award-winning host of the For the Love podcast. We discuss the importance of listening and learning. At every stage of our progress towards lifetime allyship, we need to listen. And more importantly, learn how to stay silent while we are still learning. You can get her latest book, Fierce, Free, and Full of Fire: The Guide to Being Glorious You here: https://amzn.to/2AazdNM Learn more about Jen Hatmaker at www.jenhat...
Jun 09, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 48
On this episode, we sit down with Donald Thompson and Jackie Ferguson of The Diversity Movement to have a conversation about race and how to be better allies in the wake of George Floyd. Donald Thompson is a friend and CEO of WalkWest. He serves on boards for several organizations in the fields of technology, marketing, sports and entertainment and is a mentor for Black Founders Google for Entrepreneurs Exchange. Jackie Ferguson is Director, Multicultural Programming at WalkWest and lead course ...
Jun 01, 2020•55 min•Season 2Ep. 47
-- WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on YouTube: www.youtube.com/theholdernessfamily About the Holderness Family : Penn, Kim, Lola, and Penn Charles Holderness create original music, parodies, and Vlo...
May 19, 2020•32 min•Season 2Ep. 46
What if I told you there was a name to the rollercoaster of emotions you are feeling right now? The coronavirus pandemic has us all on a wild ride, so we sat down (virtually, of course) with Em Sexton to understand why we are feeling all the feels. Em teaches us all about the change curve and helpful ways you can address each stage. Her online course 'Leading Through Corona' is currently available to any of our listeners in middle to upper management who need help navigating this time for FREE. ...
Apr 28, 2020•44 min•Season 2Ep. 45
WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on YouTube: www.youtube.com/theholdernessfamily About the Holderness Family : Penn, Kim, Lola, and Penn Charles Holderness create original music, parodies, and Vlogs ...
Apr 14, 2020•41 min•Season 2Ep. 44
Right now a lot of parents are working, parenting, and teaching all at once. We are doing the impossible. In talking with Dr. King, we gained a silver lining. This time, which is overwhelming for us adults, doesn’t have to be for our kids. Thank you to Dr. Emily King for her wisdom and insight. Visit our blog for her Spirit Week downloadable and read more about her work here: https://www.dremilyking.com/ WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.co...
Mar 31, 2020•38 min•Season 2Ep. 43
We talk to Enneagram expert, Ashton Whitmoyer-Ober, to learn about our Enneagram types and how they can be helpful in all relationships. You can follow Ashton on Instagram at @enneagramashton and learn more about her book here. Take your Enneagram assessment: https://assessment.yourenneagramcoach.com/ WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcas...
Mar 24, 2020•52 min•Season 2Ep. 42
We have talked on the podcast before about fighting, but what about the aftermath? On this week’s podcast our marriage coach, Christopher Edmonston, describes recurring vs. episodic fights and how to stop one from turning into the other. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdern...
Mar 10, 2020•41 min•Season 2Ep. 41
Disclaimer: While this is the most important podcast we’ve ever done, it is about preventing the sexual predation of minors online. We recommend listening first before deciding what you want to share with your kids. Penn and I talk to my friend Roo Powell about her experience as a 37-year-old posing as an 11-year-old girl on social media. Her work has been featured on GMA and Nightline. She is truly a superhero. If you have children who use social media, please listen and make sure they are safe...
Feb 25, 2020•36 min•Season 2Ep. 40
Are you the same person you were when you got married? I know I’m not. I used to be more fun and spontaneous before life happened. So how do you evolve together? WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily Find us on Y...
Feb 11, 2020•42 min•Season 2Ep. 39
When it comes to goal setting I love to vision board, while Penn would rather internalize his ambitions. I love to plan ahead. Penn likes to live in the moment. Today it’s all about compromise. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also love feedback: holdermesspodcast@gmail.com Join our Facebook family: www.facebook.com/theholdernessfamily Follow the journey on Instagram: @...
Jan 28, 2020•43 min•Season 2Ep. 38
Chances are you know someone who has a child with special needs. This podcast is all about how to support these friends, what not to say, and how to be proactive. Thank you to Dr. Emily King for her insight on this important topic. We hope that this will help us all better understand how to support our special needs community. https://www.dremilyking.com/ WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider le...
Jan 14, 2020•48 min•Season 2Ep. 37
We are so excited to announce the launch of Well Body Reset! It is available for pre-order now with a discount of over $50 off: https://www.wellbodyreset.com/ For over 16 years, Dr. Harriet Hansell has been helping her patients achieve their optimal health. After helping Kim with her wellness goals, the pair created Well Body Reset. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also...
Jan 07, 2020•41 min•Season 2Ep. 36
We are so excited to announce the launch of Well Body Reset! It is available for pre-order now with a discount of over $70 off: https://www.wellbodyreset.com/ For over 16 years, Dr. Harriet Hansell has been helping her patients achieve their optimal health. After helping Kim with her wellness goals, the pair created Well Body Reset. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also...
Dec 31, 2019•42 min•Season 2Ep. 35
We are so excited to announce the launch of Well Body Reset! It is available for pre-order now with a discount of over $70 off: https://www.wellbodyreset.com/ For over 16 years, Dr. Harriet Hansell has been helping her patients achieve their optimal health. After helping Kim with her wellness goals, the pair created Well Body Reset. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also...
Dec 24, 2019•26 min•Season 2Ep. 34
We are so excited to announce the launch of Well Body Reset! It is available for pre-order now with a discount of over $70 off: https://www.wellbodyreset.com/ For over 16 years, Dr. Harriet Hansell has been helping her patients achieve their optimal health. After helping Kim with her wellness goals, the pair created Well Body Reset. WE WROTE A BOOK, GUYS! Get your copy of Everybody Fights here: http://everybodyfightsbook.com/ Thank you for being here! Would you consider leaving a review? We also...
Dec 17, 2019•46 min•Season 2Ep. 33
