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and Learn. And I know it sounds like I have a list, y'all, but I don't. I'm getting five implants put in my mouth, so my my speech has a little impediment right now. So just work with it and deal with it. I think I speak clear enough that you guys will understand. But every now and then, my tongue you caught between these damn screws. So work with it and deal with it. Thank you for joining us. Thank you to my wonderful producer, Mr Aaron, your guys

platform Animal. Yeah, so we're gonna gant me go ahead and attacking some of these subjects. First of all, I hope everybody's Valentine's Day was great. If you even celebrate Valentine's Day, because if you're good to your partner, wife, for Lisbon, spouse or whatever you're sleeping with all year, then you don't have to do all of that during the rest of the year. You could just make your work. You got to go all out chocolate, roses and candy,

but you still should get a little taste. I called Valentine's Day, take it because I told my part to just take it. Oh, just take off. You can have just take everything. It's all yours. Secondly, we're gonna go on until because we did. We it was a grandis and we didn't get a chance to cover the grand Bes. I thought that Grandmas was a great, great show. I thought that Trevor Nulla did an amazing job. I love that the Deale got a chance to meet the Rock

and I love that Beyonce one. She was late because of traffic, but she looked beautiful. She did give a great shout out to the queer community, and hats off to the Grammys showing so much queer trans positive representation with with um of the First Young Lady winning the first Lady Kim Petris was the first transgender woman to ever win a Grammy, and Lizzo had the big girl come out and introduced her, and it was just so

much transpositive representation, which is greatly appreciated. Lizzo. One, uh that Harry Styles is sexy all the way around. I don't know if he metro sexual, paying sexual skill of sexual, crock pot sexual, a big pot, sexual, green spots. I don't know what sexual he is, but all I'm trying me on very, very saxety, and he won the Album of the Year. Overall, it was a great show. Little Very gave a great speech about you know, embracing yourself

body body body love. You love the skin that you're in, no matter what size, shaped, color, whatever it is, you have to love with you are. So overall, it was a great Grammys Treviory and a fantastic job. We're moving on from that because I got to get into what it really, really, really really is. So Tuesday, last week, President Joe Biden gave his State of the Union address. I personally thought that Joe Biden did an amazing job.

First of all, he remembered all the words and he was so sharp with it because so many people challenge his memory and his capacity because of his age. But Biden actually addressed the Heckler's right there and went back to what he was talking about. He showed you all that his function was there, that his clarity was there, and he put up in those uncertain terms that if you bring something across my table that I do not agree with, while I am the president of these United States,

I will veto it. I thought he was quite gangster for that. They did have some ignor ram asists screaming out, yelling out when he said that they wanted to get rid of selfist security and Medicare, and he didn't lie, because they did, and they don't want to put on Front Street starting with a couple of ridiculous people that shouldn't even be in the Senate anyway or Congress. But that those were Republicans, and I didn't vote for them, y'all.

I didn't vote for them. But overall, I thought he gave a great speech, and I thought that he is doing a great job. I wish he would have turned though, because then here, like you said, he don't know where he had he can remember his memory. He's having a little see now this function. I wish during the middle of his speech he would have stopped and said, wait a minute, what's happening? Where in my hat? And then everybody would have been like, oh my god, see we

told you that. He wouldn't turn around said I got you either where I met. I'm having the State of the Union dress because I am the president of these unities. Oh, that would have just destroyed the party. They would have lost it because everybody questions his validity, because of his sanity, or because of his insuringness, because of his age. Oh he were to box the ass is up there and Joe Bidy, I need you to call me. I need to be on your teams. I can make it, make

it fine. If you make it fun, people will take it in a little easier. Tragically, Well, before we even get to that, I want to say that pay Payton Gender pay jen Do Jin Juice I can't pronounce the name. I think it's Jinjuice was sentenced to life in prison. If you're not familiarly with who that young man is, that is the young man I'm being respectful, the murderer,

the young man murderer. They killed ten black people in Buffalo, New York and they found him guilty of ten counts the first degree murder, so he was sentenced to life in prison without PAROLEE. I hope it's a state prison. I hope they don't make it a hate crime and

put him in the federal prison. I would like for them to charge him with a hate crime, but not put him in the federal prison, because it'll be too easy put him in a state prison, because then you're on your own, whether you're in protective custody, medical ward, or whatever. The gods have no issues with looking away. Well more time. I'm not active for invite. Sometimes justice comes in many, many different forms. I thought it was ridiculous. One of the sons of one of the victims actually

physically tried to attack him. You guys in court went after him and the police have to subdue the man. But I'm like, let him get a couple of licks in just to get justice. It is prepollerous that they allowed him to live, you know you, I've seen them execute people for less. But I don't know the policies of of execution in New York State, but I personally think that why would you allow him to live? That is costing the taxpayers. And this man is only nineteen

years old. He could live to be a hundred offer state tax money that we have to pay for. I'm a taxpayer. Don't want to pay to us for towards him. And now he has all these regrets. In course, he's sorry. He don't know what he was thinking. He was following some sites that told him to kill black people. That again I have seen before and I will see again, and I will say to God, take the last breath out of my body. Racism is a learned behavior. You don't.

You're not born racist. Somebody teaches you that, somebody insteals that hate, that bitterness, that that ridiculousness inside of your DNA. You're not born with that. Somebody teaches you that they need to start involving some of these people who raise these people and let them know that this is what it is. But nevertheless, he still got ten years. I mean, he got life in prison without parole, and he's nineteen

years old. And we'll see what the outcome will be, because I think it's tragic and curious to all the families and all the victims involved, because I think that was horrible. Meanwhile, while we're talking about guns and gun control and gun reform. It is. We are forty six days into three and we have had sixty seven mass shootings, including one just yesterday or day before yesterday, and um in Michigan, in Lansing, Michigan at Michigan State University. It is,

it is so unsure. It's because I'm not gonna say unsafe. Is unsafe now be anywhere, but it's so unsure to know when and where it's going to happen. It's happening at grocery source, churches, a movie theaters, all the places that you think you would be safe, and you should be saying the most unexpected places of the shootings are going down. And it blows me that they want to put a mask. They want to put a ban on books.

They don't want us to learn about our history as African American people are black people because I'm black, I'm a Black American Africa. They don't want us to learn our history. But now you want to keep selling guns that will make us history. I'm telling you, I am a set of such a cross worlds with America and their philosophies and their policies and what is important and what is unimportant. I need American to get there for her priorities together, because some things are important to some

things are not. Three students lost their lives just today at Michigan State University. And as a parent who has a student in college but not away anymore, he came back home. Uh, you know you petro father here stuff like that or think things like that happening because you're so far away. And even when if you could get there on the dime, the police will not let you cross the lines and go in to check on your kids, to check on your your you know, your your child.

It's crazy, crazy, crazy, but they keep hiring all these ridiculous, cowardly officers. And when I say that, I'm saying that so many officers have the shield and the badge, but not the training and not the capacity to be good police officers officerly. When I was a kid, officers were known as officer friendly. They're not so friendly right now. A lot of them are. And all it takes is two or three bad ones to make the entire bunch

look ridiculous. And I'm telling you, the two or three bad ones that y'all sitting out here for representation is making the entire police for US across the United States look messed up. It's looking jacked up for everybody because it's great, crazy crazy crazy again. I want I wanna acknowledge the fact that Joe Biden, our president. President Joe Biden, y'all keeps saying he's crazy and just ain't working in any work. But Joe Biden been shooting down balloons, like

keep playing uh, Space Invaders. They keep sending balloons over here, and and here's the killer. Everybody's blaming. Joe Biden said he shouldn't have shot down those balloons from China. He should do this, He shouldn't have did that. Those without the first time those balloons were leaked over here. Those balloons have been over here since Trump's watch, but nobody said anything so Biden, as as the man commander in chief of these United States, I thought he did what

was necessary. He shut those down because we don't know whether they were looking for places to drop bombs or to drop some kind of mustard gas, what kind of intel was being received through those balloons. I think that Joe Biden made an executive decision and shut those balloons out, and I think that was great he's getting his ass handed to him behind it. But you know what, sometimes you get to take control and be a leader when nobody else sees it. Sometimes you have to be a

leader when nobody else wants to be the leader. And he was hired to be the president of using the United States, and he, my DearS, is being a leader. So guess what if Joe Biden old ass and said to run again, My old ass is gonna vote for you? Got my vote, Joe, especially if I gotta get Nikki Haley,

Mike Pence, Trump, or the scientists. Meanwhile, Rod de Santis, who is still trying to ban books on African American history because he don't want us to He don't want us to be reminded of the horrible things that happened to us as black people in this country. Meanwhile, on that aspect, he's doing all that he can. He's he has not thrown his officially thrown his hat in the ring to run for president of the United States. Oh but he's coming, and it looks like he's gonna do

pretty well. Not for me, but it looks like he's going to do pretty well. Very scary, y'all. We're living in some crazy, crazy times, and I hope you guys get yourselves together because you just never know what's gonna happen from day to day. I also want to give a shout out and prayers to um to Theoria and Turkey. Turkey had a mass of seven point eight earthquake a week ago and so far they have it's more reported more than forty one thousand deaths because of bad infrastructure.

The building codes were not up to part so when the earthquake came, and at seven point eight is massive, its it's gonna shake even the best well equipped buildings. But had the buildings been up to code, maybe they able to stood a fair chance of, you know, being able to deal with the impact of the earthquake. Because sometimes the earthquake and even as bad as the tremors they come after it, that's what bring it down. But

bad infrastructure is bad infrastructure. So now the President of Turkey is under fire for allowing and not really enforcing building code on so many buildings and so many people have lost their life. They found two young brothers, two young twins yesterday after being under for forty hours, being other rubble alive. Thank you Jesus, I'm telling you life, God is when he wants you, He's going to come and get you. But and it's not your time, and

it's not your time. It is so many people are the woman had a baby while up under rubble, she dad, the baby survived. It is so tragic. And they do have real websites. I don't know any of them off hand, but there's one in Orange Country that you can donate because those people need tints and it's freezing over there. They need blankets, they need water, they have children. So imagine if we will put in that situation, or if you were put in that situation. So if you can,

please donate to a worthy to that worthy cause. But make sure it's a reputable site because with the pandemic and with so much Internet foolishness, so many people have become uh scammers and con artists that you will be donating money and they'll be putting it in their home pocket for personal use. Just we're talking about donating money and putting it in their own personal pocket for personal use. Can we talk about George Santo because George Santos had

a sad story. George. If you're not familiar with who George Santos is he sussenator and running one in New York and and fabricated his entire resume, made up all kinds of stories that his grandparents was in the Holocaust. This thing ain't even Jewish. Um made it up all kind of schools and what he did and what he did not. But when he did not make up which was true, was that he had people donate money for men who dog had cancer or some kind of disease,

and he pocketed all the money. The man never got received any other money towards the dog or anything. So hear me when I tell you that the scammeras are everywhere in the Congress. Send it everywhere. So just because you see them with a title does not mean that they're honest. That don't make you honest. They just make you have a title, and sometimes you lie to get it. Joy Santos and he savage a bill towards the GOP with in Florida, says, don't say gay and no more

drag shows. Meanwhile, he's openly gay and used to do drag shows. But I don't hear my l G B t q I A plus two seven dands three eight six Community saying a damn thing. So don't get mad at me. Get mad as the one you need to be mad at, the one that you have absolutely nothing to say about, which is Mr George said. Though it was I'm laughing because it hurts, but I'm laughing at it because it's prepoulously ridiculous. On and in nicer news and better news, we want to talk about um. Please

get your voting rights up. Make sure that you are voting towards you turns you. Four is upon us and we are getting ready about to choose the president, and they have changed the voting laws in sixteen plus states. Make sure that you are registered, or your ducks in the row, your ass are dotted, your teas across, make sure everything fits with everything, because I'm telling you right now,

they're trying to change that vote. And the black vote was not so important, they wouldn't do all and everything they could to make it as hard as possible for black people to vote, including giving water in hot states when you're studying in the land, or giving food or way. It is ridiculous and it is preponderous. And I need you guys to be safe and sure of what you're doing and keep your head on the swivel, because baby, the world is getting scarier and scarier and scarier. I um,

I pray us to Ukraine. The war is still going on with Russia. And you know what I want to say. I want to say, I'm hoping and praying that China is not standing balloons over here to try to push us going to war with them, because I honestly, I don't even know if America is physically equipped and I'm not talking about with weapons, I'm talking about with soldiers

to have a war with China. You have to understand that under the Chinese regime, on the Chinese regime, those soldiers are born and and and and set up to be soldiers from birth, and which means that they in their head all they know is to do is kill, kill, kill, kill kill. You know, I don't even know if it's with compassion, because nobody knows what's going on in China. You can't say anything against the government. You can't say anything against sign up because you would come up missing. China.

Play no games with y'all. And I don't know if we're equipped even um um medically because according to you know, number forty five, China the pandemic came from China. But now you see all these documents coming out and send different things. But if they dropped something something like that over here in the air and the water in the milk and the food, we don't know. We get so

many supplies from China. I don't think we get food from China, but we get so many things, and they could just put it on something like a mustard gas or something like they kill one of Um Kim Young jung, Kim Jong Yu's sister or somebody and with some kind of stuff across the face, and the man just died in three days in a horrible, horrible suffrage. It is very scary for us to be in war with a country that is so equipped with with with weapons like that.

They don't always take guns and bullets and weapons of mass destruction. Plus, we keep hearing, we keep hearing all these words. This one word that scares the hell out of everybody. And that word is what's the word Errand that word is um. What is the word with the nuclear?

That's the word nuclear. We keep listen if if they, if any other country releases a nuclear weapon, it will open up a plethora of other countries to release their nuclear weapons, and then you know, if you don't have bonkers or a place that will block the nuclear stuff, we're all going to be walking around here with one A and one league. Just change all our names to a hoc. It is just very, very scary the situation

that we're live in. So please please vote, ladies and gents, please pay attention to what is happening in your country. I can't say what to say when you're out in public because you just never know when, when and where. I'm sure those students, those three students, and it was only three and I'm not saying that like it was insignificant, but we have had mass shootings this year and ask you where they killed nineteen kids and then they just and on the on the anniversary of the Michigan State

University shooting, was the Parkland shooting. Is I don't know why these kids are so angry, so many people suffering examp for mental illness. But I think what happened was that during the pandemic, people had to stay home and realize who they were. You had to face you, you were stuck in the house with you, and situations that you didn't know things about yourself that you found out code you didn't found out over time, you found out code that I don't really like myself. I'm not really

happy in my situation. You were. You were so systematically machined to do the same routines, to do the same thing every day, over and over and over and over, that when something came out of nowhere and put you in a box, you realized that, oh my god, I've only been surviving. I haven't been living, I haven't been driving. I've just been going through the motions systematically, day after day after day after day. The pandemic gate people at home, time at home alone to realize I want more or

I don't want to be more. It's whatever you found out about yourself. So many people are living in mideray. I think the whole world. I think the entire world, not just America. The entire world needs therapy. I think they just need to put couches out everywhere and just over the bullboard. Whatever language you speak, and we need therapists to speak us, to talk us down and bring us back from the fantasy that we were living in.

Because reality is happening, but some people are still living in a fantasy if howebody lose you all on that because I'm I'm explained it and I'm listening to them as I'm explained it. But I get what is going on because we are living in such a crucial time and crisis. It is um It is the decisions that you make now that will that will shape your future. And I'm telling you right now we have to stop voting at local levels to get people in office that we want. It will help us, help us, help us,

help us. And just because they're your skin color does not mean that still they think like you or they want the best for you. I heard that Tim Scott, Representative Tim Scott was running, was gonna throw his head the rain for president black man. Tim Scott got black skin, but he dammed showing rol in the rocking with us. He's not and he is not and he is not. They are moving so many bills to change so many

things on the Republican side. And when Roe versus Way was overturned, I told all of my trans sisters and brothers, we need to stand with women on on bodies, on the controlling of their bodies and what the decisions that they make with their bodies because I knew once they went after the head of a sexual women, they were going to come after trans women. I'm a trans woman. I don't want the body telling me what I can and cannot do, or what I can and cannot wear.

It's illegal for being to dress up like this, and and then I'm an entertainment That's what I do. But because we didn't enforce it and we allowed it, and your express said you, I said, you're ex president, not mad your ex President. Donald J. Trump has publicly said the first day he gets in office, he was going to remove hormone blockers and testosterone blockers and all of that for trans children. But that is an overplay for the underplay. He is not speaking about the trans children.

He don't give a damn about keys. He don't care about his own damn kids. He is. That is just the smoke screen to incite the base and the GOP base to make him think that they're trying to trans people are trying to do this, and he's really going after the trans adults. He's just usually keys as a

smoke screen to throw you all off. And I hope you all up paying attention to what he the foolishness that he putting out and pushing away, because that is all a ploy to get him voted into office, because it looks like he cares about the keys, he want to protect the kids. He's not. He's going after the adult legislates. He's going to after the adult trans people, and he is the killer. When he was running for office, we had Republican gays, log cabin gays, transgender gays for Trump.

Trump never meant the transgender and the gay community any good. I said this on the ready in twenty nineteen. Y'all got angry with me and handed me my hats. But there's nothing wrong with me. I'm telling y'all, I see everything. I'm like a crystal ball. I have my own crystal balls, but I'm like a crystal ball. I had lightened up. I think it was getting too heavy for y'all. Please

spay attention to what is happening. If he had his way, my opinion, and I honestly believe it, if he had his way, he would put us all that identify under that l g B t q I A plus umbrella and get rid of us. We will all be on like a leopard island or something he would just get rid of us, because I don't know what it is. There is a fear that comes with the l g B t q I, a stigma on that on that on that behalf, and they are pushing, pushing, pushing to

push us out and get rid of us. I need you guys to pay attention, and I need you to vote us going to be good for you. You. What you have to remember living as LGBT people in this country, in this country, is that we are blessed to have you can You're born male or female, and that's it. That is my opinion. You are boring male or female. But you live in a country that is so rich and so fair, Thank you, President Barack Obama. That is so fair, that allows brute for you to live how

you feel internally. So you can identify as whatever you want to in this country and you won't be be headed for it, you won't be shot down for it in the streets. But the way that the community is pushing, pushing, pushing, is making people pull back. Understand, everybody is not against the community. Sometimes people just don't understand. Sometimes people just can't relate. It takes time and sometimes it will happen organically, and sometimes it just won't understand that the people don't

see you for who you are. You don't need to push your way into them seeing you for who you are. The acceptance is a blueprint that starts with you. Everybody is not going to accept you. Everybody is not going to be from are you with you? Are comfortable around you? You You have to be comfortable with knowing that that, and sometimes you won't be comfortable around those people. Why would you want to be put into space or a capacity when people you're sitting around and you can feel

the negative energy, energy is transferable. Sometimes your energy hits the room long before you do. You don't even have to open your mouth and your energy is there, negative or positive. That's on you or the person that you be around. The choice of who you choose to be around is yours. That's your choice. I don't choose to be around people I feel like they hate me or don't understand me, or not willing to allow me to

teach them to understand me. Or we come to a happy media that is a place that's gonna get real sketchy and real great. But I'm hoping that um my trans community and my gay community gets together and understand that we have to get people who will allow us to be us. You live in a country where if you have to due diligence, due diligence and the tenacity and the wherewithal, you can live freely to be whatever you want to be in this country. But that don't

mean forcing it on nobody else. Also in other countries, and some of these third world countries, I ran you would be murdered for being transgendered some of these countries that just don't have that. So you have to understand that we take a lot of advantages that we have for granted. Don't take it for granted because somebody else is not living the life that you live because they can't. They're forced to live in dart and it's secret and live in hiding. And we don't live like that. We

live wonderfully, but it is a scary situation. And I'm sorry that's some of my young trans women's sisters don't get that. You know, I understand what you want and understand what you need, but you get to understand what is important. And a pronoun in the bathroom right in my aspect, in my eyes, it's not that important because

the country has really been down to help us. Most establishments, and I'm saying most of the Stavenges Air Force public places have all gender bathrooms, now have neutral bathrooms, or have baby change station bathrooms where there's only one toilet and a lock on the door, so you can be in there, value yourself and you don't have to be putting spaces where you are uncomfortable. They just had a huge thing about a young uh not young, but they

had a woman who says she identifies trains. Mind you, she looked like Burrow Ives or the quicker old man with a full beard and a dress. Sometimes I might identified as tress and went into the ladies room and people have their children in there. I am a trans woman. If I'm saying somebody presentation coming there like that, I'm gonna be very arnest. No, I'm going to pitch a

bitch because it comes along with work. The problem was y'all allowed Kayla gender this micro wave trying to become a transgender woman in thirty six seconds because she was like Batman. She slid down the bad pole and as Bruce and came out as not Batman, but as Caitlin and she didn't go through any of the the hormones or the therapy or the living the life. It just happened.

And so many people saw that somebody trans. People saw that like, Oh, I'm trays, I'm trans, and I'm gonna say this publicly, and I'm gonna say it and I'm gonna leave it right there. I partially blame the sp Awards for allowing forgiving this woman trans a Woman of the Year. That's how was that Woman of the Year when you have all these wonderful female athletes as all these wonderful women out here that's helping people. That was a smoke screen. That was a sensationalism, That was a

publicity stunt. Meanwhile, Carylyn Jenner ran over her car red had a card to them with a white woman killed the white woman in Malibu and when he got some breast and plants and that story superseded her killing a person. When did killing a person become less important as some breasting plants on the man? I'm waiting on it. Answer, y'all take your time with that, because that's how I feel about the situation. So I'm gonna say how I feel. Everybody's gonna be happy with it. But you know, I'm

not here to please everybody. I'm only here to please my heart and flame my role at the Black Effect Network. So it is. It is such a scary situation. And to my lgbt Meal, to please understand, we have to get our priorities and together because we don't always agree a lot of times y'all don't even agree with me, but you have to understand that if it comes down to them getting rid of us, I'm part of us. You were part of us. Whatever your philosophy is and

my philosophy is different. They all see us as one thing. They will get rid of all of us. That is my take on it. That is how I feel. I wish they would do something with the n IRA to control guns because I do not like they're they're allowing all these people to get ahold of our fifteens. The young man who killed the three people in Michigan State, they said he had mental problems. He's a black man too.

His mom died. He was angry, he was bitter. He had all this whole outlet, of all these different places he wanted to attack, and he had plenty of magazines, and he had a our fifteen I don't know what people's obsessions are are fifteens, but it is scary. And the mere fact that y'all want to ban in books but won't ban assault rifles blows my mand just to think about that erased my history, But then you want to make me history. That is what this episode we

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