The Selection Before The Election feat. Rizza Islam

on speaking to the grown a second. We're gonna last to be kicking and at the end we leave it with just a lift, just firs like you want to revisit, so your first like a listen to JOm folks like it's all folks that we take it. I can't do what you don't do what you do, I can't do what I do. Hey, hey, hey, this is comedian Play Monroe and welcome to this week's episode of Laugh and Learn here with my wonderful producer, mister Aaron. Listen you guys, I missed you all last week, but I'm so glad

I'm back this week. We are going to have an amazing time today. I got a conversation I want to have with somebody who who piques my interests, And y'all know I'm not interested in much, but he it's my interests. Uh. He sparks my few. He makes me think about who I am and why I am who I am in this country. And I'm not talking about my sexuality. I'm talking about this beautiful badge, a body that God bless me with, this topic of melody that I love. So I'm not gonna even go down the whole list and

all of that. We're not going to do all that. I just want you, guys, all my flamemts to welcome to good brother mister Zard Islam to the show. Ladies, y'all makes a Nord. I'm a whole proud of myself. Come on, I'm you know, I'm honored to be here with you. I know you were there with me, so we were foundly. So this is a beautiful thing. And as soon as you said I need you to come on show, I'll say, and you tell me the time of the day. And I appreciate you being so so

just Um, what's the word I want to say? Um? Oh, I can't think of it. I just said a brain. Well, I appreciate you being so receptive. Well, I want you my audience. I understand is that the zon is a full on Muslim, I full on train as woman. The optics are beautiful, the heart is magnificent, the color is the same. But we are Americans. Once you guys, to always remember that, then whatever your presentation you see, if you born an American, you're an American, You're an American.

We had the greatest, dopest conversation yesterday on Reason's platform on um, oh, let me get a fight, let me get it right. Oh oh, I can't even think of it at all. What's the name of an intellectual extremists? My job messed up that name three times trying to sit actual uh. And it was great. It was a

it was an honest It was not an interview. It was an honest conversation between two American black people in this country, which is what we're gonna do today because right now you were so instrumental and so inspirational for me during the pandemic when my mind was I was teeter tiring on the fits about if I wanted to get back toinated, and I just listened to so many different peop but when I ran across you, it really made me sit down and think of what I wanted

to do, now what somebody else wanted me to do. It made me think about what I wanted to do. And I know you're a couple of years younger to me, I'm only thirty nine, but I wanted to know. And this is why I want younger people to understand what older people. It's not that we don't listen to that we don't want to learn. We just it depends on

who's coming from and how you are transferring that information. Right, We're clear you were genuine and concise them in a lot to me, why was this so important for you? It's what I want to ask for you to stand your ground when it came down to the back thing. Absolutely. First thing is my mother's a naturopathic doctor, right, so she was a medical nurse first, so she knew the ins and outs of what the system was doing. She

was trained by them, She understood the system. She was trained in the system, and she had a problem with the system because they started to push nothing but pharmaceut of course, so it was natural pathic remedies during no vitamins, minerals, exercise proper dive. That's how it used to be until they switched everything to take a pill. Take a pill, take a pill for everything, Take a pill. And so she saw that as a problem. So she said, you

know what, I'm going to switch into naturopathing. So she started to pursue the naturopathic remedies and just stayed right there. And that's how she raised us. We were raised right here in Compton, California, probably one of the only families who didn't get sick. None of us took shots. Anytime we had any kind of sniff or anything we could golden seal Alavia like that's we went to that. So from that point, just in my childhood, I was always

raised to be this way. So as a point when it came to these shots and people not learning about the history, number one, and it's not just Tuskegee. Tuskegee actually is one of the small circumstances compared to all the rest of the other circumstances. But when I started to see what they were doing to the people, I said, I can't sit here knowing that I've been involved in this topic for nearly a decade, long before this virus.

In this whole process, Oh, there was there was plenty of us, please others that I personally were involved in, and I said, I can't sit here and let the people get lied to like this. I just I can't do it. I at least I'm going to give you information that we can make your own decision. That's what it's mean about from the very beginning for me. Get the right information so you can make your own decisions. That's that is. That is fantastic, And I'm telling you

reason out. I was. I'm I'm not anti vaccine though I'm not even a Bac saint, but it was the way that it was presented to me. It was warp speed and then to sit outside and the sun and get to go for three days rest off. It was just made me nervous. And I'm like, I got too much foreign pronicle in my body. As it is with the black market silicone, I got breast in plants, I axios. What of them to those two different ingredients don't get along.

It ain't let you. I could take a spoon and stick it in and pull one of them out, right, That's true. But the limb or lost my ability to

see you. No, I just was like I was afraid everybody would like saw But I love the fact stood on that and I watched you do that because I I think for myself, I want to ask you because I got a lot of backlash right not taking the dam and did you You know what, It's not that I received backlash because people pretty much knew, like I said, they knew me for years before this about other shots, so they've already known. But the same thing, it's not

that I was against shots in general period. It's that you have to be informed about everything on both ends, a good and a bad. And that's the problem that I noticed, which was, you know, doctors and medical professionals, they have something called informed consent. This is what they're

supposed to give the patient. But the sad thing is if you don't tell them I want to get informed consent, then they are not necessarily going to give it to you, which means they're going to give you the good and the bad, the positives and the negatives and the alternatives. So if I want to take this shot, what are some of the other things that I could do? They're don't give you a naturopathic route, to give you the herbalist route, to give you the nutritionist route. That's what

informed consent is. They're supposed to give you these things. But because they were not doing that and they were attacked and people and all that, I said, well, you can attack me, but you're gonna attack me. Just know you're gonna get all the smoke with all the facts. That's all you're gonna get coming from me. And that's what they ended up doing. That's why they didn't bring you on certain platforms. But the platforms I did go on, they got all these facts. And today it stands true

everything that we said. That's that confident in you, that can I ask feel a personal question. Where you raised by mom and dad or just a single parent? Most of my mother? Let me tell I tell your mother, I'm taking my head and my wig off to her. I admire you. You let me tell what I out you the most, that you stand on, what you believe. It is so many whishy watching people out here with the masses and don't use their own brain. And I'm telling you, because it's the most popular does not always

make it the most right. And it needs to feel right to you. And I love that about it. And I watched you take a lot of heat. We watch I just watched Pupid think when you get when it came out with all the foolishness at the Twitter has shut you down and we found that that you were on the list of the FBI and everything. How did that affect your career? I want to know about you

know what? You you know how it feels to be black ball, to be talked about, to have jobs removed from you, to have some of your own colleagues not respond to you anymore and not pick up the fall. You know how this feels. But for me again, because I'm not necessarily in the commercial world. I'm not in the performing arts, you know, for example, and I'm not

in sports and things like that. It didn't necessarily do much in that arena, but it did do certain things when it came to speaking engagements, interaction with certain platforms. People not wanting to be around me, because you know, when you hear FBI list, you hear in government watch lists, some people take that as a badge of honor, which I did. I absolutely did. I said, wait a minute, so you're attacking me because I'm speaking the truth that

benefits the human family. I'm not just fighting for black folk, I'm fighting for everybody right and you attack me because of that to that as a badge of honor. Did it affect my money? Yes it did. Did they shut down my platforms absolutely, because we use social media, you know, to sell our products and to you know, make the things known that we want people to know or to

promote whatever we're doing. So when they cut my Facebook at over one hundred and thirty thousand followers, they cut my YouTube at one hundred and forty nine thous subscribers, they cut my original Instagram at over half a million followers, which two and a half three years ago, I was

over half a million followers back then. So if they didn't shut me down, I'll probably be upwards a four or five million, right, So all of that affected me financially absolutely, and indeed cause people to kind of shy away from me because they got nervous. They got really nervous, like wait a minute, matter of fact, I'll tell you this blame. When that happened, they announced this from the

White House. From the White House, they said the list of twelve people, they said they are called that disinformation. Does you're talking about? Jen Saki, who was the former White House Press secretary, said these people are dangerous. They announced this from the White House. Once that happened, I had the first two artists. I'm not em gonna say their names, but two major artists, celebrities called me asking me was I okay, saying that they knew I was

doing the work. They knew I was helping the people fighting for us, they said, but man, I didn't realize that it was to this degree that the government is really pissed off at you and eleven other people. Man, this is crazy, And I said, no, this is really what it looks like in modern time when you truly standing up on principle against this system. There are levels to this thing that says, so now y'all see what it really looks like. Who was one of those people,

Nick Cannon we heard from? And I want to ask you as a black man, and it just as a man. This has nothing to do with your faith or your religion. Did you ever rethink where maybe I should not have because I have had that because just like you, I was blacklisted. I've lost money from my own community because I speak the way I speak and feel how I feel. But in my head I was like, well, maybe I should have rethought, and the maybe and then something took

over me. It's like no, because then I'm lying to myself. I can Latin to other people. I can't look far and Latin me. It's hop that's right, that's right. I'll tell you know it. For I was always raised this way. See, I was never a conditioned to look up to the system in any way. I didn't believe in white Jesus, I didn't believe in sounding clause. I didn't. I'm not indoctrinated at all. Whatsoever should I say, for the most part, to my knowledge, So therefore I never had that as

a mentality. But then again, my reality is different so other people like yourself who had that, Because you're like, wait a minute, this is really messing up my livelihood. It does cause you, from a responsible viewpoint, like, wait a minute, maybe I could up going about that in a more wise way. Be could I have said it differently? It's natural to think that way. For me, I said, I knew exactly what I was getting myself into. I already knew now that I think they were going to

move as swiftly as they did. Hell no, I did not expect it to move so quick. But when it happened, I said, you know what, I'm not surprised. I will say the other part of it was that it did hurt slightly because people who you think really are going to stand there next to you be there for and you said they're gonna, they're gonna be right there, some of those people were not. That was the only thing I will say, you know, but outside of that, I

expected everything else. With you being such a religious person, would you believe because I'm strong believer in God? Absolutely? Did it make you run to your faith more because your faith is shaken? Your faith? I ran to God on my knees, on my faith down like this didn't don't let my mouth, which you gave me as a gift, also be my confident. I don't want yes critical point.

Absolutely absolutely, that's that's definitely, that's where we That's where my faith goes before and after these trials, before and after. You know what I mean, we we always say, you know, I seek refuge. I seek refuge, envied all a lot from the accursed Satan, you know, I mean, I'll always seek a refuge because I know this is a battlefield

we're going out too. So make sure of me, protect me, shield me, you know, give me the strength that I need the guidance, you know, the motivation to stand on integrity. A lot of people, you know, they say I'm with God and with God. But once the integrity is tested, like you said, it's a lot of people who don't make it because your faith starts to go more into money, money, money versus God. And it's like, okay, how what how

much does a dollar cost? For real? For some people, like what he really willing to sacrifice to make it to that other side? Because you already know the rich man, he would give up all of his wealth to have another day of life. He tried to get into head. He tried to pay God to get into head. And it's like, yo, he really, you're not gonna that. Don't work around there. And there's certain things that we have to you know, understand, is that some of us don't

have a price. And once you get to that, you know, people who get to that point, they see us and they respect us more because they have multimillion dollar companies, but they don't have no peace, They don't have people that they can trust around them, They don't have a sincere group of family members who they can love because they don't cut everybody of y'all sacrifice people. They you know, cut corners just to get to where they are, and a lot of them regret it, you know. So so

making money, it's not a problem. It's how we do it, you know, It's just how we do it. Now, were you raised in the Muslim faith or did you become a Muslim after he became a grown up. I was actually raised in the nation of this Islam. And I mean everything from praying in Arabic, all of that happened. I was praying Arabic before I knew what I was saying in English. The brother, my baby brother is a practice in Muslim Now he's in there, he's been into

the faith for a few years. He just breaks out in phrase three or four times a day, and it's sabbaticals and everything. And so when he knew that I was talking with you, and he's like, because my Marcus, he said, Mark, you're talking brothers. I said, he said, oh my gosh, wow. Yeah. See, I've told you get a lot of love speaking to anyone else. But when he knew I was talking to you, he almost had a belt that wow, because this is what's going to

blow people's mind. When I was on the Breakfast Club the last time I talked about how I listened to the teachers of the minister, Minister Rachon and teaching me, reminding me that I'm a black man, a black person in this country, and but my presentation is so different. And when I got it, I told that as an email from one of the brothers of the nation. So and when you told me what you told me yesterday, I want you to know that made my heart. My

heart smile. It really made you, said ba. I told some of the brothers I was interviewing you, and they smiled and then up. You know, that is kind of a heard of to me that a would accept a person of a transgender experience like you know, not like welcome me into the fall, but just to be cool to want to listen to me. Come on, I don't know what, don't seriously risk. I'm telling you, I'm being

a woman a long task. I have went over many many hurdles and heels and dealt with all types of people from even when I was in prison to politics everywhere and everybody. Just because they have don't have a religious faith, they don't open up to me because my presentation is strong, and I stand on who I am. I'm not going to eat for nobody but guy he

got personally. Yeah, I can't explain these titties. I told you, brothers, because you know a lot of people think that the Muslim brothers, starting with the leader spell Hey, I never heard. How is it that you and these brothers can show this solidarity towards somebody like me? And I'm asking a very honest and genuine question. No, no, I'll said this way. And see, one thing that a lot of people get mixed up is the religious dog with the spiritual practice. See,

we were spiritual people. We have a lifestyle. That's that's another thing. We don't really have a religion. We have a lifestyle, all right. So that means you don't sacrifice your people because you think they're not worthy to go along with the practice. And now that means you separate. Now it's like on the hold on. We all came about a hill. A lot of us came from families

who did drugs, soul drugs, was in prison. We came out of prison, some of us ourselves that being on the street, in the street, around the street, we just come on seeing we gotta we gotta keep things real for some people out here. That's why when I talk to people and I'm like, I'm a black man from Compton. At the end of the day, you can say whatever you want to say. My family then did it at all? From like I said, drugs, game bang and I got bloods,

crips my family. I just had a family gathering because you know, I lost my older brother, one of my older brothers recent so we had a going away ceremony for him. I'm talking about bloods right here, crips right here, some of them drinking over there, something the smoke it over there, and here I am. I'm an active us the nation of this law, Bony's family. I don't need to judge my family you're talking about. It's like, wait a minute, I can be in that grave in two minutes.

So why am I gonna waste my time trying to judge you knowing that, like you said, you having your experience. But you know, at the end of the day, what this system sees you, as sees me, as sees us as they don't give it them. We can call ourselves with them whatever we want to call ourselves. Yeah, like you are expendable and we're gonna get rid of you as quickly as we can. That's it, you know. So we're family at the end of the day. That's all I got to say. I love that. And and first

of all condos is for your brother. Excuse me, but uh, And I love that you see people. That is hard. I tell people see the people I'm seeing what they look like or what what the Nolin nations they are to see the pros to see me. I'm so fair with that, which is why I'm treated so differently. And one community it's treated so another way. In my own community,

it's ly to me. But I'm i'm, I'm I'm like you were telling me that too yesterday, which um, which blew my mind because to be honest with you, like you said, Minneso Farcan doesn't spew hate. We don't spew hate.

It's just the true haters who happen to control a large amount of influence in media or banking or sports and industry of you know, I perform arts, acting, etc. When we speak the truth about this system, the people who run the system don't like the fact that we're speaking the truth about the fact that they run the system.

They say we're haters. And it's like, but you don't have any documented, you know, circumstance of us attacking anybody outside of self defense because we not know soft people either. All right, we do believe in self defense, but we don't go out attacking people. We don't attack you because of your agender. We don't attack it because your religion. We don't attacking because of your gang relation, your politics.

That's not how we are. We do our best to be civilized and be a good example because we know we came from the same situations. That's it. So we just do our best to be a good example. Most of their lives. Muhammad said, don't condemn the dirty glass, simply put a clean glass up next to it. Just be a good example. That's all I meant so far our concept. And he said, I love my family who is LGBT and this and that. He's like that, don't that'll move me? He said, But how you treat people?

Does that? Man there, and so many Muslim brothers yourself included, have just I love, you know what. I love the sense of family and community that the Muslim brothers push, especially over than their wives and their women. Because spinning me in a so disrespect. And I'm not talking about just black men. I'm just talking about me and in general, so dis to women, you know, and fair minister, fair count. I always teaches love your wife and and and watching

over the black He talks about the black woman. But and I know he means women in general. But I know he he though he's part of a talks about us and that and that is you know where he's not this. He don't need to be. He wasn't raised in the white out holes. He was raised in a black house. We can only what we damn No, I was raised in a black house. I know what it is to have a black mother. But they and not

admonishes women and holds women up. I wish some of these younger brothers would hear that and learn that and understand that you will never be a successful man in this life. To me, this is my opinion without good women or good woman on your side. That's a fact.

I strongly believe that. You know. And and when I say that as a trans woman, they're like, well what that So if it's a fifth, if you got you a good man on your side or whatever you have, I'm looking at that too, But I'm just saying that you need a partner in life to lean on to in terms of this and that now you both hold your own equal weight. But I love that he because I'm old school, so I believe that the man is

supposed to take care of the household. And I pushes that and so me if the woman got to do this. Some of these young brothers philosophy is so off to me. Reason I'm like, I can't even get it. You can't get through to him because a man is fucked up. Yeah, this left but it And they look at me like I'm an anomaly, like are you a man or you a woman? I say, I'm flaming row. I don't need to be anything else. There's no explanation I need for

nobody else. But your brothers be so powerful. And you know, after haven sit down with you yesterday, came home and watch the watch in Malcolma, the police station. The point. Now, I love it. I'd love to see that. That's the reason why having the conversations are necessary, because, believe it or not, you know when you bring up the minister

and then how we treat our women, et cetera. And you said you can't get through this life without having that, you know, good strong woman next to us, especially growing up in our communities. You know how this is. Our families have been destroyed and strategically divided. But you know, you you have an image of a time where you saw most of our families together or at least practicing

that mentality of family being together. That that was. It was a little different now because social media, because we're looking up to these false idols in certain people in relationships that don't even really exist. They don't practice what they preach, and they're putting up a good facade for some of them, but in it's all these false standards

being put up. So our generation is getting caught up in this track watching these people, and it's like, wait a minute, I'm going to first of all, not only have a woman. I'm going to be married, because we're taught that we're only fifty percent a Muslim until we get married. We're not even to reel a full man until we get married. That's what we're taught in the nation. So I'm like waiting and I'm not there handicap the whole top fifty mins. I'm at it right, So I'm like, okay.

Until that happens, we can't even fully call ourselves that because that means we are completing the other half of our faith when we come together. See it's it makes it more of an obligation to have a level of discipline, build yourself up, you know, sharpen yourself as a man, so that when you finally do come in contact with the proper woman, you can treat her the way she needs to be treated, respect our she needs to be respected.

And they're taught the same way as sisters, you see, because this whole world to change us into something that's crazy as hell. You know, on the base level, no morals, no ethics, don't treat nobody the way you want to be treated, just crazy, regardless to your orientation, regardless to your politics, regardless to or read any of that. We have to be able to treat others the way we

want to be treated. So that's how we're taught. But when it it comes to how we treat filled, the sisters were very critical about that because of how we were manipulated and I would say reverse engineer, taking out of our manhood and all of our humanity into something that's an enement so we have to relearn that. You know, yesterday you're not we're talking politics and I brought up Biden and I know you're not a biding supporter. I'm

not a politics but yeah, are you right? But we can't we can't get away from because they're always gonna keep like, take us to your leader. I wish with did the aliens to come? I wish the leader was that other one that orto because I out of took the aliens get take it with yall. But so with you not? So do do you vote? I knew im ote locally for the most part, but almost part because I know that directly can be UM obligatory meaning they have to buy by that mayor city council, school boards,

all that stuff. WI. Everybody should be doing that regardless in your city because that affects directly, absolutely, exactly exactly. And then when it comes to that as far as the presidential election, UM, I haven't participated in that. I would say maybe the last two presidencies. Uh, you have it, but you did? Did you vote for president the first time? But that second time? I have to ask you why

because I've absolutely Well. The first thing is, you know, we have to always remember that this system is the system it has. It does not respect any person that has its own agenda, and it has to survive. It base itself in the system of white supremacy, and it's

doing its best to survive. The crazy part is that we believe that if someone who looks like us gets access to that seat, that they are now going to do things for us because they now have the seat, when the reality is the seat is the seat, no matter who sits in it. Sometimes to make it a crazier person sitting in it, a person who may care more about one demographic of people than the next, a person who may say I'm here to do this or that.

But the seat is the seat, and it always has its own pre written agenda, literally before you even sit in it. So Obama, we're taught, was selected before he was elected. And okay, what I mean they really he was a good community organized in Chicago, did a lot of beautiful work in Chicago. I mean, he was really doing some good work. So the brother he's not some somebody who just popped up. No, he really was doing

legit and the good work. But when they became the presidency, they already had a pre written script so that they could do certain evil things with it. His face, a black man's face on it, so that they could later on say say, look we put your guy in there. Look look what your boy did you see. So now a lot of people blabe Obama for everything bad. Was like half the stuff y'are talking about was under Bush.

Some of the other stuff was under Clinton. So but you know, like, wait a minute, so you're just you're just trying to fast the black man. Wait a minute, this is the seat of the president of the United States or y'all got to remember this. So he didn't go in there and do all these different things. The system did what it did had his face in it, and some of these moves he did contribute to as well. So he has take responsibility for the good and the bad.

But we always have to remember the system. The seat. This is the seat of Pharaoh. This is the seat of modern ron audomn Babylon. It's the seat. So whatever it comes with the seat is what comes with the seat. That's why we have to separate it. And that's black people. We definitely thought he was the second coming. Let me just yes, we can see. I love that he was

selected before he was elected. But two things. I'm from Chicago to the reason he was successful because he married a black That's a fact, and that is a fact. And he was such a cool gent. I love his you know, he was like the male Stacey Abrams. You never see him get the temper stays the same. He's always factual. Ready, you know there was I love and I love Stacey Avons because Stacey Abons come so correct. I want to be a quick like that, but I

get emotional and I'm cousin out everybody, everybody. I got. She equipped and ready to do that. We talked to him about that. Yes, that cannot wait for people to hear the interview that we conversation that we had yesterday and your your your woman was the what's her name? Again? It was nice, she's so pretty. Let me Chell something my thoughts. She was beautiful when she y'all came to the club last week. But yesterday when I got the chance to see her, and I was like, oh my god,

this lady is. I'm like god, it looked like that is And this is why I admire and respect women. I am a female impersonator and I'm speaking for me I'm not speaking for nobody else in my community. I admire women that are beautiful like that because that is what I aspired to be when I'm working, when I am in my element, and I want to be a beautiful woman when I'm not working. I don't want even

nobody to recognize me. Unfortunately they do, but um that and I will always give respect to a woman because I think of my mom. You know, I look like I act like my mother. I tried to get away from my mother as much as possible. And every time I'm gonna look into me or I see that, Wow, that's with makeup on or without. But it looks like some of my community and sisters are trying to come just completely discard that. And I don't get that, but that is there. It could be bad at me anywhere.

When that interview, I call it like I see it,

and that that hopefully that any disrespectful to nobody. But I'm telling you that it made me really rethink about who I was, Like, maybe I should never speak on politics as footing out to my community or what have you, but it's so baffling, and I'm telling you, the world is such such an uproar with all the foolishness and all the crime, but petrified that if we lose the White House and November, I'm not even that more afraid to Trump as I am the other one from Oh yeah, yeah,

I understand. Yeah. See, that's that's the thing when it comes to politics here. This is something that um, a lot of people don't know actually because I don't. I don't talk about it too often. But when I went to college, I didn't graduating first off, right, I went to Compton College. My major was political science. So I was going to go into politics. This was my goal. I was going to go into politics, run for schoolboard. Yeah yeah, I was serious too. I had the whole

thing mapped out. I mean when I was running forum the associated student body president over there and comptic that I put a picture up of me next to Obama as my promo flyer to run for stuit By. I was so serious. I was eighteen to two thousand and eight,

you know. So I was really serious about it because I said, you know what, the way that I could help by people is by going into politics to help to you know, do things that really impact that really changed conditions, or so I thought, and that was until my first day. I'm talking about the first class playing my teacher who was an alumni from UCLA political science teacher. I will never forget this, this short, little white man

who just said the truth. He opened up the class by saying, for those of you who think you know anything about politics, just know that everything you thought you knew is a lie. So first thing this man said, I'm like, Okay, I'm listening to him. He said, no, politics is not controlled by the vote. Politics is controlled by money and money interest only. And those who have the money control the vote, and those who control the vote are the ones who control the destiny of everything else.

And so when he said that, it hit me because I'm like, yes, votes matter in certain instances. They do. They're not totally, you know, useless. But to vote comes from a word which means a witch. So voting is a witch right. You're praying for this, you're wishing for this. But it also has the economic side under it. That's why only certain groups of people get things done, because they have a written agenda that they present to these politicians,

backed up with economic power. That's the side that we lose in because we don't put our dollars behind our passion. We have to put our dollars behind it. Then we'll get more things done. And that's the point that I started to look at and I said, damn so but you know, I said, well, man, I'll end up getting assassinated, you know, before I end up getting that position because I'm not going to compromise. And that's when I said, I can't go into politics. I have to go into activism.

And I chose to go that route. Oh thank you for educating us. I never knew that. I said, the institution is so broken no reason, because I'm telling you something right now. If we would just stop looking at us and thinking that we were good enough for us and when I say, uh, but we keep looking for acceptance from another group that will never give us our full credit on who we are as just who we are, it ain't get being back. I am black, Okay, that's

the elephant in the room. I'm black, and that's the elephant in But damn it, I'm talented. Forget friends, listen to my knowledge, listen to the jewels that I have, and he helped me develop who I am. Don't see what you want me to be, See who I am. I hate that we don't see right, I said at the time, which is who's in our scurs. And then we want to feel bad if we lose certain things that we shouldn't because we got to be good enough for us. I always tell you, we got to be

good right, that's right. I tell people that's all the time when they start going into the topic of police brutality. For example, when they start saying that, you know it's normally one. You know, when I'm debating with people on the other side and they're like, well, the black throats who just comply, And it's like, you know, just comply, just just just do what they say. And it's like you think we don't do that. We do that all

the time. I said, you do know that when a police officer polls is over, they never asked are you a Christian? Are you Muslim? When they find the gun, they don't ask you Hebrews are like, you're passing after this, you're black crap. They don't ask these questions. They see who we are, They know who we are. We need to see ourselves and know ourselves and know who we are. It's just that simple. The system is united about who we are. We need to be united about who we are.

I think that one more time, please, I want that's what the name of this topic gonna be. That's gonna lead the name of this episode. And remember that you know what's some crazy reason you said something I said in my comedy, And I say all the time, if the police put me over, they see black, if they don't give a damn if I'm trans or gay or LGSNOM, they see black, And you're right, I put my hands on the dashboard, look at my purse. But you know I have learned how to work the system my hands.

And when Kovid came out and age was so big, if a police come off to come at me, I ain't gonna even last said. I won't start coughing and say I'm trying to get to my medication. If you are already afraid of me because of my skin, then let me save my life and scared shit out of you to let I know I got you. I've been a tricky world, so I have to learn to tricks to manipulate the world to what to be what I wanted it to be. So if I'm pulled off about the police and or you one of them. I get

the coffin. I'm sick. I'll tell you anything because the objective is to get home to my children. So why will you right? You're right, You're right, and that I have hands to learn those tricks and will teach those to my children. If it's going to say getting foster, they want to get hostile. They they push everybody they can to put their hand on your heart. Why your heart beats so fack because I'm petrified for my life. But I'll tell them you should be for yours because

I'm contagious. What the hell away from me? I hope you're down all of that, right, Yeah, you know. And I'm saying to you guys and to y'all, and I'm sitting as a joke, but that is my real life reason, that is my real truth. Often I'm not stopped by the police officer thing because I'm a I'm a good driver both for the most part, I have legal right now.

It's twenty twenty three, and I'm joking about this, but the situation is barbaric because you know, I still have to teach this to my children now and we're talking about that, and I hate that. I would have thought that my kids would have been able to drag without No, I would have thought George was the worst of my problems. Yeah, it's a reality. And that's the main thing that I think that's one of the most powerful things we discussed was people forget the children. They really forget the fact

that we have an entire generation. This thing doesn't end. We have to pass this down to the next, then they have to pass it down to the next, and so on and so forth. We want to equip them with as many solutions and not problems as possible so that they can get around the problems that we went through. That's what we're supposed to do, given the wisdom and guides, so that they can go through less issues because they

their arm they know exactly what to do. Yeah, Pops told me this, Moms told me this, The uncle to this. Auntie told me that, I know what that is. Yep. I see that they're getting a map on that. That's what we want to give them, you know. And so we get caught up in this individualistic I'm not trying to leave nobody. I'm gonna live my life. And it's like, you got too many people right now who feel like they haven't lived yet. But it's like, wait a minute,

you have children. Now, you have an entire life that you have to look after. So you can't just be out here be irresponsible when this whole life is watching you and looking up to you. So they're gonna do what you do, say what you say, They're gonna add how you act. And that's something that a lot of people in this generation, you know, specifically I don't know, really lose sight of. So when we talked about that, I'm we covered that in almost every topic we discussed.

Was the children. Yeah, too many parents nowadays allowing teachers and hentering their theories their children. That's like they're not raising their own children. And it's scary because especially these younger parents, they don't listen to the elders, the eldest you know, they oh you, oh, you don't know. You don't know. The elders no, because not because they they they heard about it, They dive through it, they survived, so they can how to go this way instead of

going that way. For this reason. It's not that this is a faster way, but this is a safer way. The dunk kids A knuckle is that you do know that generation z Z is the last letter of the alphabet. So after that, I just gonna stand this high close to earth and we are that's real. No, this is real. It's real. And this thing right here is the biggest gift and the biggest curse at the same time. This

right here, it's it's it's crazy. It can give you all these space feed on one hand, but it could put you in a trap and each on a situation to where you can self incriminate yourself for the rest of your life. I mean, it's just it's too many things, man. And that's why again I tell people this all the time, do not put things on social media that you do not want to come back onto you. Just don't. Just don't, Yeah, because you know now they're going after the res at

really they're using your words against you. I'm like, this is right, So y'all making art imitate life. It's very real. This. I know art sometimes does imitate life and we live in fantasies. But now y'all were making art imitate life. So if I make a rap song and say I just shot up the Grandmam and blew up the train, and that happens down the line, even if it wasn't me, But y'all gonna use it at me just because I use those lyrics and I might have been in the

vicinity it is, you said. The reason I wish that y'all could get to these young brothers. I wish the Muslim brothers could reach these young brothers. Y'all track, and I'm not talking about reaching back going to where they at. You got to get up in their money, but I don't know what it requires for y'all to get you'd be surprised, I know. See. The thing is it's not promoted that much. It's not promoted that much, but we talked to a lot of them, a lot going to

reach out to us. And I'm talking about the artists, the rappers of course, and were always in the hood. You know that that's what we stay in the hood. So that's that's that, so they know it's in the hood.

But the social media, the way it's set up is don't promote the successful moves, promote the hood, Promote the gangster, promote that, promote the drugs, the money, promote that, but don't promote your spiritual life, how you're eating properly, who's guiding how are they guiding to, you know, have more morals ethics? How you you know your manhood, your masculinity or your femininity, your womanhood. They don't want that to

be promoted. I'm gonna tell you this. I was on dream Chats with Noriega, and Noriega told me, he said, the reason. Do you know that there is no artist development anymore in rap? He said, there used to be, as you know, artist developed. They would teaching about credit. They were teaching about how to you know, where to put them money, how to operate, and interviews, things like that. He said, they took that stuff out. I said, I said, well, also,

I'm going to tell you this. They also make sure to keep a division between the generations of hip hop rap artists and things like that, because you will teach them the game about contracts, You'll teach them how to get their money, You'll teach them how to operate so that they don't get caught up in things. And they make sure they keep you apart. He said. He's out telling me right now. You not know how true that is. He said, they keep us divided. That's that's another thing.

A lot of them are kept away from us. The activists, the researchers, those who have the knowledge, the wisden like yourself, the guidance. You've been through this comedy game long enough, you can give some real good game. But they make sure they keep people in between. They have handlers, is what I'm saying. And it's it's a strategic thing to keep us away from our people. It still don't work. We're gonna get to them, you know, may take a

little more time, but it's a real thing. I would love for the you brothers with men's and fairy kind of brothers like you to get a hold of some of these younger athletes. I've watched what happened with Jayon Brand just recently because he fled. They go from rags to richest, and they don't have anybody in between and say, hey, ten dollars yesterday, now you get ten million to day. Slow down, calm that it could all be taken away

in a second. But they don't have strong being like you that we need, we need strongly to get right in between yesterday and tomorrow morning overnight. Hey, it's gonna look good to you. They're gonna offer you everything. Think, slow down, understand that just like you get it that fast it could be taken away that they when they went after h Irving carry Irving. I wonders he didn't put that out. He re shared something and they went after him and made him grovel it and apologize and

took a takeaway. And that is the power of money and power, because when you don't have it, and then you get it and you get used to it, you don't That's true, that's true. I made my millions first because they yeah, but they don't know me. And God cool that that player loved me because I love That's real. That's where all the money really is. That's where the wealth really comes from. And again that's why I said, the rich man will pay you for your peace of mind.

He will pay you to have that because he ain't got that. Most of them are living in the hell right now, billions and billions of dollars and they don't have anybody they can trust. I talked to a lot of them, A lot of them I talk to, and they tell me all the time, reason I don't know. I don't have this person I can trust. I thought, I can trust this. Now that's when it's doing this to me. Man, I can't believe and we have to now go backwards, you know, how is your family life?

And then teach them about certain basics. And it's like, like you said, these young brothers going from ten dollars ten million, they don't know what the hell to do. They go crazy. I mean, it's like you're like a child on the candy store, but the whole world is open to you. Now you don't know what to do, no discipline or nothing. Here's the killer reason. They keep

seeing it and then they keep repeating it. The guy player in Vegas last year who had the car who lady hundred of dollar speed, you know, because he had a three hundred thousand dollars sports car and he was I got millions of us. They feel invisible, like you can do, like they can do anything. Money's gonna stop a bullet. Kobe Bryant resting pieces when his baby five hundred billion dollars world renowned that when the helicopter went down, the money true making piece. I thought Kobe was great

when I couldn't believe it. But I'm telling you, I hope I never make the Simpsons cartoon because everything that is cold Simpsons, the Simpsons let me everything that came to them, been on the census like years ago. That's true. That's funny, oh Simpsons. So you say, I hope that when when people get a chance to listen to Laughing Nerd and when they get a chance to listen to us on intellectual extremists next week, that they can see we are two very different people that having a real

convers This is all I want people to see. It ain't got to be this, this, this, this, It could be one level, one people, one America. But therefore, the powers that be, like you said, it's so many interferences that they follow because people don't know who they are in here and then here that they played following the leaders. So if it's not popular, then it's not worth righting. And the main thing that they are afraid of it is the unity of the people, because once the people

are united, the system will fall. They know this, they know so they have to do their best to keep us the vibe. But still it didn't work, and it's not working. We will be united as a people, that's the fact. And like you said, even if it's I live on this block, you live on that block. We pass each other. We may go to the same grocery store cent We have our own areas, but we come together for things that are needed, and we don't have to attack each other. We can disagree with certain things,

but we don't have to be disagreeable. We may not see eye on certain things, but we take each other's eye out. We still want each other that, you know, be ego and have justice and fairness. So no, you know, I think this is going to do a lot more good than bad. And some people may get mad at it. I really don't care because we're doing what's right regardless they ain't not really too can enough money away from me anyway, I'm glad, you know. It blows me reason

that it was. You was just making a point and I wanted to about us living in the same I tell my trans sisters and brothers and LGBT community all the time. They don't. It's not that they want to hurt us all the time or they want to see us. He's not that granted. There are some people who it's just I don't know. For some reason, they want to be violent, and I think that's fear. I believe that that is fear because if you don't understand, then you

go straight to fear. But if you take the time to have a too minute conversation, especially if somebody as cool as me now might tell other queens that's cool, it's me. Let me just let y'all know that. But if you you don't see that, oh my god, this is just another person. The presentation is different, the lifestyle is different, but this is another human being. And I don't they You straight people and people outside the community

don't wish it. Always wish to see ill will or want to see us not eat or hurt or But when we come in with this attitude of like, oh they don't like me, or they don't they don't like what I am, it's not even always the case. I understand the misunderstandings, and a lot of time it is just I don't understand it. So it reversed me back to fear, and we, as the LGBT community or trans go straight to the defense. We go straight to the defense. Experience has taught me not to go straight to the defense.

That story I told you about Kenya bears and I didn't finish that story yesday, so he saw me with one set of eyes, but by time I finished explain it to him, how much I enjoyed the movie and what the movie did for me. He looked at me with a whole different set of ads. In two minutestries, I changed his man. He put his arm around me and took the picture with me, and the body language said it all because I removed the level of fear that I'm not this, I'm just another person having a conversation.

I couldn't enjoy the movie because I'm trains. I say the same thing everybody else say. It is preposterous to me, but I'm gonna. I'm it's gonna I'm gonna stand alone for a long time. I do know that takes the way that we're gonna make some changes. This will do, like I said, far more positive than negatives. Will be a lot of people looking like wow, I can't believe I just saw that, And like you said, just have an actual conversation, because the same thing with me, see mine.

The extreme is deal with white people. It's that they're like, wait, okay, you in the nation this line, don't y'all hate white people? Like if we hate the white people, why am I not breaking your face right now? So? Why am I not attacking you right now? Y'all here about six staves. He got huge hands. Really, I'm like, come on, you know so, but when we have a conversation like damn, why are you? You know you have families, you you eat too, you okay, you want to be safe and

have peace and you know, just have a decent life. Okay, it's the same thing. But we have to treat each other how we want to be treated. You know, it's just real simple. I'm not gonna come at you and be aggressive towards you. That's not how we do things. Have a conversation. It's just that simple. We're talking nations.

Lam Yeah, communications solve que Because you put up a post recently, I don't know if it was the old post or a new post, and he says trans women are me and dressed up as women, and trans me and our women dressed up as me. I don't know if you were quoting somebody else, or if that was

your feeling or what have you. But let me ask you a question at very so, whenever you have a kid, because you're going to have children one, they're cup quite a few of what if one of your children ever came to you and said that they felt like they would transgender, how would you personally? That's when I say

a pregnant hypothetical. But I'll respond and I'll say, well, the first thing is, I asked them what made them come to that conclusion, as you know, is there something they watched, something they read, something they self did, something happened to them, you know, really going to the source of things, because we all know there's a source whatever it is, but there's something that caused that to click

and turn on or anything. So I'd ask my child questions and I really asked them and analyze and then go into helping to educate them about what these things are. Do you even know what trans is? Do you know what that really means? Not necessarily you know what I mean, really educate them. See, like, that's the thing I loved about how I was raised. We were actually talked to and educated about this stuff. This is what that is, this is what they Because when I was younger, I

had cousins who were gay. So I was four or five six years old, I saw some things up. Hell was that? And my mom would taught me and my sisters were teaching me and my brothers educated. Oh that's what that is. That's what that is. That I was like, oh, okay, so they actually taught. They taught me what this was. I'm not going to attack, going to learn, ask questions, educate,

and enlighten. That's how it needs to be because, to be honest with you, in today's time, the majority of these children are falling into a trend because of what they're being promoted to and overwhelmed by and being propagated with, and they don't even know what this stuff is. I saw a video right before we got on of a child and I said, whoever the parent is of this child is extremely irresponsible and wicked because I said that ten year old didn't write what she's reading right now.

This ten year old child said I'm a ten year old trans non binary and started saying, you know what about my lifestyle threatens you so much? They were reading this in front of the school. But I was like, you're ten years old? What is non bulinary transgender? Not? I said, whoever this the parent, whoever old that thing for that child is. I said that you are extremely irresponsible because if that's where the child gets to, then that means they've gone through experiences, they know what that is.

They know what it means. Okay, if you can articulate it thoroughly and you genuinely have it in your mind and your heart, your spirit. Like you said, it's a thoroughld experience. It ain't a coaching put on. It's not a hate where in a pair shooes you put on. It's much deeper than that. And most of these children that they don't have none of these experiences. It is propagadat heded as a trend that they are being conditioned to jump into. For the most part, in this generation.

I can't speak for other generations, but this one, I ask them, so, what does that mean? They can't even

define it. I'm like, okay, it's it's a it's an a gim yeah whatever it answer is that you were still willing to work with you a child, because I hate when when I hear say, well, I'm just gonna disgregard them, I'm at my reeds or whatever you have to here is because I have some friends who have gay kids that they have just turned their background, and I always tell them, as soon as you realize that the love for your child is stronger than what your

child has become, you're gonna be a whole person, because that made you a whole man to me for real reason. If I ever thought anything else, which I never did, that right, there was a bona fact. Great answer, because at least you're willing to take the tab to deal with your child doing I got I'm transgient. I had a daughter when she was fifteen or sixteen. She's like, dad, I think I like girls. I gave it no energy. I didn't feed it. I said, okay, okay. Two days

later she had a boyfriend. She picked the worst ones off the bunch, but she never looked back on it. Sometimes I think when you don't feed it, it just won't grow. That's not the cases, but in this case

it worked. Now I almost wish she would get up, But I love that because and I had a conversation with a young lady recently, Angela Stanton, who has a transgender daughter, and they was all in the public, all on Donna, I'm not down Hill on doctor Field and argument call each other's names, and when she and I, because nobody had listened to this woman, so when she talked to me, she thought, well, I thought, definitely, when you become transgender, they cut they can't tell y'a off.

I said, no, that it's at all. So she was and nobody here there was playing to Everybody just attacked her for how she said about a child. So when she and I had a conversation, she was like, flame, you made me know that it was all right, my daughter could still have kids. And she actually started calling her her transgender child her daughter because she wouldn't address the girl that's her door. She was sided and I was telling people, you ain't got nothing to do with that.

That's high kid. I told you that yesterday. When it's your kid, every tree else got to ship the hell up. Not your foster kid, not your adopted kid, not your STEMP kid. When it comes from your own Lloyds, baby, I stand it from the train for one. That's real. That's that's real. And again just just to make it real clear for anybody who's ever thought, you know, again, I have family. You know, it's LGBT and UH and

whatever other ident you know, identification. And they classified themselves at BOO because I wanted to make sure you you were updated with, like you said, some of the new stuff, this younger generation and that this stem is putting in the pot now you're like, Okay, it used to be gay, bisexual, you know, maybe maybe queer a few few letters. Now this thing, this thing is blue. It's blowing up to a level now where it's like, okay, who's funding this.

That's what I was, you know, putting on the table, is this system is funding the pushing of this because the majority of people that I know who are in the LGBT are not in support of most of the stuff that this government is pushing by using the LGBT that use it through that rainbow flag and they pushing stuff on the children and pushing this over here, and it's like, WHOA, wait a minute, you saying I just want to live my life. I want to live my life. I don't want to force it on you. I'm not

trying to cancel you. I'm not trying to prevent you from eat, having a job. WHOA, this is different, but that's what this government is pushing. That's why I wanted to make it clear. It's no hate for nobody when it comes to that. We have family, were family. So I'm so I'm gonna hate you, but I'm gonna be cool with my brother who kills his other brother because he was wearing blue and it's wearing red. Is that? Is that how we're playing this game? Now? See I

don't go in that direction. I don't. I don't agree with either thing. But I know for a fact that if I disagree with that, I gotta have the same energy over here. But I can at least love my people still and say yeah, I may not like a behavior, but I love you. You're my family. See it's real simple that and I'm telling you is if people would stop trying to make it way more than it is and look at it in a simplistic manner or look

at it, it would be so difficult. When you told me that yesterday about you, Rope said that they had a hundred jigs there and I'm like, what, yeah, yeah, And I said this honestly, I said, this can't come from nobody but a white man, and that's where it came from. I'll just to be honest. It is. It is out of control. And I hate that they make some of our black brothers who have their finger on

the parts. Because I thought Nick Cannon was about to do something great with that whole doctor Ceb thing, But I I don't know what happened on the fifth. I don't know if he's still pursuing that, but it looked like when they was trying to take everything. I'm actually in that document I'm in there. I'm in there a lot of people in that documentary. And Nick was saying because of all of what was happening, because how they came out, and I mean they came at him. People

don't even know. People have no idea how heavily they came after this brother. So you know it's that it was put on the back burner for a moment. He's still pursuing it, he did say he is still pursuing it for sure. Um, they still have some more things to record. And the last time I spoke with him about that was a couple months ago. But he's still pursuing it. I don't know when the release date will be. But it was it was a lot. He had to

fause it because it was a lot they were. He had to reorganize and rethink a lot of stuff because it was really big. I knew they messed this man, because this game ain't shit. I'm up. I'm dick, baby, Dick can't even look at it a vagina. They can have a two, baby three up good without doing it. I thought that was phenomena. And when I experienced what

I'm experienced it through my community. But I watched my sister Tiffany Haddis with all of that foodighes that happened with her, and I watched how they tried to manipulate and break my sister. I knew in yeah, I'm built to handle it, but do I want to deal with it?

And so when I wanted to be this famous comedian or this this movie star or whatever, it really made me rethink my values of what I wanted as far as success, because Tiffany always says that when we take pictures, but then people have to look at their own selves and say what level of success do I want? Because what I want to bring into my psyche the higher you get the wire to your blind. We talked about that yesterday. When you open the blind, you have put

yourself on the auction slab. I don't always want to be on the auction slab because I'll tell you to go to hell. But that made me really who are back to be? Like? You know what I'm gonna I'm gonna stay who I am and stay very comfortable being who I am, because if I lose me, and I'm already a whole lot of a whole lot of everything, but if I lose me, I'm gonna lose my mind. And I don't want to lose my man. I don't

because I want to make absolutely absolutely man. I'm telling you, like I said, maintain your integrity, do what you know you love. Stay right then, because a lot of people sacrifice it, did whatever to get up a little higher, just a little high, see a little more money, a little more status, and they aren't going crazy. They got

to maintain it. That's why they got it. That's why they get so high, so drunk, do all it because they can't face the reality of where the hell they are now, and they are not happy with it, a lot of them, and if some of them try to maneuver and maintain but it's like this is how the game goes. The higher you go up, it's like you, this is where you want to go. And then they they, you know, prick off certain people who they know are want to help you to maintain who you are, and

they find them and they pull them off. Your family members, your friends and all that, and the next thing, you know, you look around it as just you and that person who you thought you could trust, but as a person who was set up to keep you and maintain who you are outside of who you really are. It's a it's a cold game. The reason or that sounds so much like Whitney Houston's story because with the way the base they get rid of so that you know, it

could just oh my god, that's so scary. Uh not go, could not go any further with I'll tell you that Tesla Tesla Figuro is the hugest fan of yours. She loves my sister right there. He loves Make sure you tell me my boy, I says, make sure I tell him. Hell up, Oh yeah, we're from the same same neighborhood. Yeah, I found out out a couple months ago when we were at the Revolt summit and we want the same stage. And yeah, she ain't no joke. Though she ain't no joke.

That's that's that's a strong sister. And I appreciate all the words she does for sure. There you ask them all ask you this questions as a straight man. Do you think that men are intimidated by very strong mentally strong women, some of them are. Absolutely some of them are because they're but is they're going to take for a strong a strong woman to get a good man?

Can you know? I'll say it this way. The honorable this was far con said that the nature of the woman is to equal herself up to God, constantly striving to always be better. Right. So that's this is one side of it, because we have to look at the fact that this system is in layers. How we become

now is in layers. So a lot of women are being rewarded because they are looking at keeping the man down, specifically in our demographic, but keeping that man down putting that woman in the position of leadership because we still want to control her. Talking about those who run the system, then you have some of the men who want to maintain the status, but they are now feeling intimidated by these strong women. When a strong and it's not a problem. I was raised by a strong woman. We were raised

by a strong woman. We were raised by strong women. But how you handle that is a sign of your immaturity or your maturity. I don't mind a strong woman being next to me, that's a beautiful bay. But how I look at myself as a strong masculine man is different. A lot of us are not mature. A lot of us are not that masculine. A lot of us are not confident in our education, our ability to articulate information, and our talents and our gifts. We don't know ourselves.

We don't know where the hell we came from. We don't know our own family, we don't know our history, we don't know our culture. And because of what we don't know, we're looking at somebody who does know what they know and they walk proudly in it. And that makes us look at ourselves as inadequate, even though we may not say that to a lot of people. Right, So there are layers. Then we may not have that much money, but this one does. Or we may have money,

but we don't have knowledge. See, there's layers, So always layers of this thing. So if a man starts to work on himself, as we're taught, self improvement is the basis for community development. If we want the community to get better, we have to better ourselves. If I see a strong woman, I'm gonna ask her what made you so strong? Let's just say I'm a man who's, like you know, dealing with his strength and I'm working on

building it mask what made you so strong? And you know she's like, oh dang, nobody really asked me that question before. And we have a conversation. Then I can help to bring her down to me, and I go up to her. We could meet somewhere where we interact on a different level. We have to communicate with each other and stop I would say, confronting in a negative way.

Stop competing. Communicate, stop competing. That's the main thing. Me being an heterosexual, masculine black man from Compton who was a six figure earner, I'm able to sit down and listen to a woman speak, not talk over her, or to sit down listen to her letter half her space because she deserves that. I have my own, she has her own. That's why we are side by side, not in the front or behind. And to be hones said you sometimes a woman does, going from sometimes she does,

doesn't mean that makes us less of a man. Those it stain things. I don't mind sitting back and you shine, you shine because you deserve that, or it's some same thing you let me shine over here. That's what submission truly is. I'm gonna end it on this point because a lot of people like you said the submissive slide. People get that mixed up with being a slave. It's like, that's not what submission is, all right. People they hear that, they're like, I want a submissive woman. It's like, wait

a minute. First off, you need to give her something to submit to. That's number one. What value do you bring as a man, so where she feels like you are worthy to allow you to guide her. Submission is to give power over too by your participation. If you participated, you're agreeing. Okay, brothers, all right, I'm gonna let you leave the house. I'm gonna let you do this. Why because you're worthy of it. You got the knowledge clearly, you work hard. You know you you have integrity. Oh

take you, I'll work with you, vice versa. The same thing with a man. I don't mind. I submit to my woman, meaning she does what she does and I'll let her do that and we work together. We have to understand what words mean and stop competing with each other. And that's the that's the thing that will help us. Because this enemy really didn't want us to have good relationships. That's why they never wanted us to learn the science

of mating. They never want us to learn that, because if we did, we wouldn't have all this gender war nonsense going on right now. Good God, thank you Jesus. Let me tell you something. You just educated something, and some ain't gonna get a good wife. Jips from them, jewels. You just knowledge. I hope brown with giant invisible filters all the time, and go with people head When I say, cut forward because they're controlling you, cut the court nobody, They say flame you out of control. I'm not out

of control. I just don't need to be controlled. My mind, in my heart, my spirit controls me. My Lord controls me. I damn saying that. Nobody tell me what to do with my rude ass not to be well stay you know how rude that arrest. But you always maintain respect to you and you see that's the difference to people. Just don't understand people because they don't want to. Sometimes I seem to understand you. I want to understand you that way. When you do something I don't misunderstand it.

Then get mad. No, I know, how does person operate? How do you know? Because I talked to him, I talked to all I went out of conction most powerful. Those two things having communicating with somebody and hearing them clearly, but listening to what they're saying to you. Boom. I could give a million dollars, but I get ten people to listen tomorrow. Hear what I'm saying to you, what I'm pouring into you, not a word that then pitched you off and you ready to go at me. Just

listen to it. I'm gonna listen to you. I'm gonna let you get it all out. I'm gonna hear I gonna hear the trigger word. I'm gonna hear what you're saying to me. That must be a gift that comes with a great strong woman up ring and that's a fact. This I just want to tell you, thank you so much. And I'm telling you right now this is going to do one This for so many people in my community to see this Muslim brother is talking to this trans woman and it is a real conversation. There is no

there is no this grow to an argumentative conversation. We're just talking to them the conversation. Come on now. But you're thinking to me, y'all, I wish you much success. I am so glad that you are back on social media where you belong, so that you can help reach and teach somebody. Because I'm telling you, I listened to you when I didn't even had wasn't very aware of who you were when the whole vaccine and the pandemic was going through. But it was some things that you

were saying. I think I was in the kitchen making a part of grays or something. I had you on a loud speaking. I was like, wait a minute, I'm like this got it. I was like, I don't want to chase So when I looked at this, I said, oh h no shit, he only twelve years old. That was and I said that I allowed to myself. But I'm like, but I kept listening because sometimes we think that we are so old. They said, you can't teach

your old dog new tricks. That's a lie, because I'm willing to receive the information that you're going to teach you to me if you talk to me and not around me. Don't talk over my head, don't talk around my back. Talk to me because I want the information transfer. Transfer your information to me, because guess what, I might have some information I want to transfer back to you. That's right, that's right. This is last reason. I want to thank you for coming to joining me. Now, where

can we follow you at? Where can we find you at? Absolutely everything is under Reason Islam, Twitter, at Reason Islam,

Instagram for now. They should be good by now at Reason after Monday, right true, it's a Reese Islam I X. And also for anyone who would like to schedule me for speaking engagements, whether it's in person, different events in the community, or on platforms like this, you can go to Reese Islam dot com and click booking and most of my um I would say my content right now is on Patreon and Rumble, which are both also under Rees Islam, and they will hear our podcasts and there

he'll be on your podcast. So weird on Tuesday, I believe, I'm thinking to see the Monday Night of tunes. I'm still thinking which one should I hit him with Monday night or Tuesday afternoon, but it will be It's it's gonna be heavy, It's gonna be heavy, and it will be on Rumble. So make sure y'all will follow me on Rumbo. Every is Islam because YouTube took your brother down. We'll see if we go, you know, gonna get back on there, but it will be on rumble. Every is Islam.

It is such a pleasure talking to your young brother. Let me chase it from an old I'm old here, I will say I've all enough to be your parents, which I really am. But I'm not gonna say that right right? Are you young? You're definitely yum. It is the genuine conversation that you have had with me, the respect that you have shown me, the adoration of coming to the club and we're talking. You took the picture of me. You know how what that means to somebody like me. If it made me it felt abnormal for

you to treat me so normal. If you understand. Wow, and this is the old queen, but it felt abnormal to be treated so normal. You made me feel like that Dave Chappelle made me feel like that Tiffany had it. And I'm telling you, if we're looking for the negative is waiting on us. But if you're looking for the positive, you might have to go over hurd or and go around through the back door. But the positive is waiting for you. Sometimes you just got to put a little

bit more effort into it. Wow. Absolutely, And I'm honored again to be on and to have this relationship and to always be able to communicate because we olderly have a communication on both ends, not one side of it's two sided. That's how we're gonna bridge this world. And I appreciate you, my brother, Thank you so much. Mysterieson is Lively. We all see you. Don't hang up yet,

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