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How Can We Help? Crises Across the Globe!

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Laugh he he he laugh. If you watch coffee Time too, Baby, you know the name flame, my role also known as my role Flame. Come in with last and come in with jam love lounds. Baby, you better catch it when you can't drop a knowledge from fatherhood to politics, shouting now comics just paying homics. What's up? Tip? Yeah, you know she raped shot towns on speaking to the ground. And second we're gonna last cut of the kicking and at the end we leave it, which is a lift

dispirence you think you want to revisit? So your first like a list that Jill folks like, it's lit, oh folks that we dig it today. Nopkis do what you do? No, do what you do? Nopkiss do what I do? And no. It was just funny because Caitlyn Jenner was so upset and baffled. Like the video of Caitlyn Jenner being baffled. It's so like sixt of Californians voted for Gavin Newson, what you voted for, You're just going to get the

governor that you're vote. I'm like her voice quit on her that day because baby, when I tell you, she went from Katie to Bruce that day, where you're going to just to go she was talking about me, right, Okay, I to you didn't have a snowball chance of Helen when she was not gonna win. It's just not for her. Politics is not her thing. She needs to stick to um Wheatie's or you know, maybe maybe she could be

maybe she could be a driving instructor. Just don't go to kayth And Jenner did just get some special on Netflix, though, I did see that. So about you know, Bruce Jenner's career, So well, how can she speak on Bruce she identifies as Katie. Yeah, but I'm being politically correct here, you know, I'm being politically incorrect. How could she identify as Bruce when she how could she tell Bruce's story when she

identifies this Katie? Yeah? So but that brings up I remember what we said we were going to talk about NICKI to dragon Nick. She spells it draggon. Somebody should have dragged the ass on? So where too? I tried to. I thought that it was quite inappropriate for this young Asian transgendent woman to speak on behalf of black biological women,

which is the word that I use. I do not use this gendered biological women, cause here it is, and y'all gave me a lot of backlash and a lot of draft And the only reason I know it's because she told me, and don't told me because you know, I don't read the comments, because I do not care what you think. Uh I made a video saying that because she's saying that black women are in competition with

transgender women. Oh well, and more to that, she said that she doesn't get any of her inspiration from women. She gets her inspiration from trans women about how to look, and nobody's doing it like trans women. But proceed, you go ahead of trans women. Learned how to emulate women from watching guests who women. I ain't learned how to be no woman watching this nig over here. I never had to be no woman from watching the main I did not. I did not learn how to be feminine.

I didn't learn how to dress feminine, do makeup All that comes and stems from a woman. So until we, as a trans female or trans community, decided that we will respect the givers of life, because everybody within the sound of my voice and in this room and on this live feed were brought in this earth through a woman. You came from your daddy's nuts. But you was brought to a woman. And hear me when I tell you, and y'all don't like me when I say this, and

you know I don't give two funks. The man made vagina and God giving vagina two very different things and have three or four very different functions. Because the one that the doctor gives you got one function you gotta dilate, you gotta little bit up. It makes you happy, good for you. The one that God give you gat skills and tricks that made me and start wars, build homes, build countries and everything else and pre procreate life. And I'm not discrediting any transistor is what she is because,

like you say, I identify as a woman. I feel like a woman. My question is, how could you possibly ever know what a woman feels like? You have never been a men myself included that that's just me saying that you have never been You will never have a woman's heart and or mind, which is completely different from the way a man is set up with his heart in mind. That now you're holling or vagina don't make you a woman? What please tell me? What does please

tell me? What does because every brother I lay up with, they got a vagina. That nigga is my woman. And I mean he got a vagina he identified as it. He but hey, I've seen it. Oh it's pink and pretty.

I had to be graphic about it. And I'm sorry, ladies and gentlemen if it's it was a little too much, But it's getting out of hand now, and you're not gonna muddy the waters with the food bullshit and until we respect biological woman because the first woman you really learned how to be a woman from is the person who raised you, which is your mom or who ever been put in that position, grandmother, auntie, whatever. But that is the truth. And y'all don't want to hear that.

Y'all want to get mad at. You can't tell me how No, I cannot tell you how to feel. But you also can discredit a woman to tell her that she's less than you when you're trying to live her life. You walk into her fucking shoes, so you will discredit her. Ridiculous, be made bit just be double man. Well, I think that was my my main issue, because we all know we're not going to sit up in here like sit here and act like, you know, transgender, the transgender community

hasn't experienced trauma. We all know that. But the way that I see a lot of things is before somebody looks at your sexuality, they're looking at the color of your skin, if we're gonna be honest about it. So my issue was, you know, the transgender community is very like, please respect my pronouns, Please respect me and my being and everything. So for somebody like the heat of Dragon to come out and basically disrespect women to push your

own agenda, it's like, the hypocrisy is ridiculous. Women, But you can't even speak on Asian women because you have never and will never be biologically a woman. Yes, you had an s r S, but you do not understand that when having an SRN surgery, which is sexual reassignment, they don't They don't remove your penis. They take the inside out and use the skin of your penis as the lining of the walls of your vagina, so technically

he's still there. Yeah. I just don't appreciate hypocrisy, Like, if you want the same respect, you have to give it to You can't be one sided and say respect me and my pronouns, and how I like to be addressed. But then you're gonna come up and of all of all women, you wan't disrespect black women for real, well you were. She was doing it for attention, and she

has nine million follows, she's twenty one. She's lost in the sauce, and again she will never understand what it is to be a woman that alone, a Black woman or and she's Asian, so so you're neither one of her communities, right, so you'll never know what it is to be a Latino woman or either an Asian woman because player, you was never born a woman. You was

born and you live in the world. You live in a society where we have the tenacity, the due diligence, and the wherewithal you can live the life that you choose to live, because that's how the life that you chose to live in this country freely, because in some other countries they blow your brains out, they would they would just tie you to a pole. If you have not seen what they do to uh transgender women in

third world countries and gave me in. They feed them, um, they tell them to yeah, put them on, They tie them to um uh the poles and they sit time in the city square and they feed them lacatives in water, but they superglue their mouth and they asked, and they erect them and their ears. So your your waist has nowhere to go explode. You die right there in public and funny, it's ridiculous. But you just want to talk about Oh I'm this, I'm that. No, you you You're

lucky that you live here not somewhere else. Mark, we talked about this last week. My thing is this. Uh, first of all, I told you that she was gonna disappear. She disappeared. Uh, they canceled her. Really well, I would say that she they canceled her, but they definitely Uh, she went into hiding. She didn't have much of a choice. Um. And I said all my comments previously in the week. But what I will see is this, I am tired of other trans women who the community wants to hear from.

Take your rhetoric and things that we talked about that day earlier in the morning, way before somebody else went on their platform to spew your nine minutes of what we talked about, and before they realize that that person posted their video, they were under game magazines Instagram page bashing Flame for what Flame had to say. But the other person wants to come on with their platform and say everything that Flame said to the t then they

praise it. Y'all have to stop being messy out here and make up your mind facts or facts and opinion. It's an opinion, and just because you don't like the person that's coming from, that's it right there. Doing and Dying and Lauren both said the same thing two weeks ago.

They just don't like me. But I said this, and the thing that kisses me off is that we were having a real conversation about it with people, multiple opinions, and people had a problem with it, and they took glimpses up the line and posted it on that person social media. But then when somebody else would they want to hear from, makes a nine minute video for a quick click, fake thing, then people want to praise her and say that she is the godmother and fairy godmother

of the community. It's just it's it's ridiculous. But the Keta Dragon, Michael Yeager is a really known model. She's upset because he didn't want anything to do with her. She felt for him and she misunderstood what he was sending her way, and he found a beautiful woman and dated her. Shortly after he did a video for the Key to Dragon, and that's why she's upset. Michael Jager, if you are closeted, please set your boy up because I am lips locked. How about Michael Yeager just didn't

want to s a fight. He just didn't want to fight, so he wanted got him. He wanted got him a woman that he didn't have to a fight within. Oh down, Yeah, a're funny today, yo, d yo job play. Hey y'all, Hey, don y'all do it? Look here, hey, Mark Anthony. I don't know who Nikita Dragon, who she is, but let's start by disrespecting the black woman and women and women and women period. No, No, I'm sorry, No, this is not the time. Okay, Okay, we're gonna go with that.

He says, Yes, no, I'm saying to your point, Don, because if we're gonna talk about it, the most disrespected woman in America is the black woman. So this is gonna be the time we are going to talk specifically about black women. So go ahead. If you're not black, African, American, colored, whatever they call this, shut your damn just shut was she tried covering it up because she went on her post and then said black trans women in black LGBTQ or gay men, they are the trend setters for the

black or for the community. So she tried fixing it. But again she's not black. The other thing is her own community is a want anything to do with her because she continues to stereotype Asian people for fashion statements and for click bay, and they got they read her for filth when she did it during New York Fashion Week. They said, stop using us when you do nothing for your community. So she really doesn't have a home. She's

trying to find her home. She's surrounded by her lunch, a bunch of yes men, and she needs to go sit down on the operating table and get her nose drop. In the black community, you don't talk about black women. You don't if you don't talk about something that you don't know nothing about, Okay, you keep your mouth shut until you can until you know what us women go through. Okay, then maybe you can say a little bit about it. But because your mouth is opening, you don't know nothing

about a black woman, a woman theory. You need to shut up and figure out who you are and where you came from, find out about your heritage. I'm just saying, okay, now, um, I want to touch on real quickly about the ennisy. Come on, they nominated five thou black people and only two one done one of the acting category. Yeah, none one. Okay, Cedric's monologue was horrible, and Cedric can do better than that. Apparently he didn't. He wasn't in the room when they

wrote his jokes. I don't know Cedri can do better than that. I know that I know he couldn't. Um, let's touch on the brother with the white dress on and the taco met Shawn. He does not gonna get who was that? Oh my god, you did not have and and and and thank you don for bringing that up because I almost forgot about that player. Let me tell you something. Y'all want to attack little nos X for living his truth, but at least at least little nos X should be attractive. That's child last night. That

was just that was utterly ridiculous. It was utterly didn't they didn't they don didn't you notice that they kept when they came on, he was all man and and look, let's don't get I have no problems with you want to be who you want to be and how you want to do it. But let's just the far please, you're gonna have a low cut dress on, that's just like me have a hair, I need my chin and I'm going in front of people. Wait a minute now, well, wait a minute now, because I got a hold long wait,

Let do you understand what I said? And when I'm he had a whole full row talk on me. Yeah, I wanted to call my instition. It's like girl that And then they wanted holiday that Billy Porter is the fashion guru. Now, I didn't hate the outfit that he had on last night, but it didn't even fit him. Well, it was all blousy and fall up. I'm like, if you're gonna look at the outfit, look at the entire outfit.

It didn't fit him well, it was falling off of him with this on tire of RuPaul scripted show winning for this stuff. I'm sorry. I'm over the Rutpaul's drive race. I get that that he is now the most decorated uh black you want some sort of I think he's almost decorated black entertainer. Uh there is right now in

history but my thing business one that's show scripted. In my opinion, it doesn't count because I'm just learning this and I'm continuing to learn to us as Flame brings me on and introduces me to people and ask Flame introduces us to drag people, drag means across the country black trans women. I did not realize the footprint that

they had in the drag community. And until uh RuPaul realizes that and starts bringing them on the show and let's representation be shown, I don't really care about that show anymore. But I do want to say one more thing to Nikita Dragon. Stop outing people's business. Because if Tiger comes and finds you and you're found in an alley somewhere, don't Brian say it was it was because you were trans. It's because you're putting people's business out there and that's not your story to tell that needs

we need to get over that. And then Lauren, I know you were very involved in the community. Whatever this new speak like this new term for non binary now it's indigenous, their indigenous specimens. Oh why didn't even hear this? That's why the Indian people. No, no, this is now for who are are men who are comfortable presenting as both men and women. They are called indigenous species. That's because is taken. I own it. Thank you, very new to me, Mark. Shoot, that's a new that's a shout

out last night. Yes, called indigenous species, are indigenous something. It's like, yeah, anyways, it's that's the you know what that I like? It's the dead people when they show all the dead people that died, because I sit there and be like, oh I forgot he did what Damn I thought they got last ship. Oh yeah, I like that part. Don You're done. You're a cold piece. You're a cold piece, is done because you know that's the only enjoyable thing. Okay, now I have to admit I

watched the clown Clowne is good. I'm gonna have to watch that. I'm gonna have to watch they want a lot of And what's the lady's name from from London who won this year and last you from the ground, Yeah, she's she's watch the show any who? That Ted Lasso. So I don't watch all these shows. I don't know nothing about those shows. But but the Queen is very good. It was beautiful see Dabbie Allen receiving that award long overdue. You know, they always wait till our people about dead,

you know, before they can get an award. Uh, it's if I don't know, it's just five thousand black people just nominated. It was the best just to me was at least she got nominated. That was the message that obviously, Well that's what I was happy about with with m J. Rodriguez because even though she did not win the Emmy, she we still want history because she was the first one to be nominated. So hopefully it will opened up the doors. Just like what Mike said about RuPauls d race. Now,

so Nick is my girl. Now they still don't that trans women on the RuPaul's drag race. They let trans women be on All Stars. But now it since so neat one, maybe they will let down their roadblock in a trans entertaining what does are not trans women? No, no, but I will say this and because I lost so need too and I know what's your friend, but I'm gonna bring it up. So need to not deserve to win.

That was just a for the trans community to be off of Routpaul's back because Rutpau's doing them in control. So Nick should not have one, so let's just say that. So that was just a little that was a trolling moment. And again, like I said, it's a scripted show. So Nick is beautiful and great, but that was not well. I gotta say, I don't watch it. I don't know who should have won. I don't watch this show, but I was glad they she won that money. Somebody asked

that the blacks get the black sketch, ladiest sketch. They did not. They lost the seven, they lost the Stain Night La everybody black was nominated in and they won. Now can we talk about what really now? Can we talk about since we talked about me and in women's clothing, can we talk about what really wasn't funny? Was the guy with the Asian guy with the silver hat that had that had her boot soon doing the steps. I don't care about none of that, but it wasn't even funny.

Whatever he was doing, it just was. It was ridiculous. It was horrible. The whole the whole writing team need to go, oh no, you never let me tell who was funny? What's seth because he didn't give a damn He didn't. Yes, Sethgan basically said y'all lied to me to get me here. Y'all said this was outdoors, it's not. Corona is still an issue. He was livid. I loved it though. Okay, don't have a question of plaime. You're in the space, Lauren, You're in the space they talked

about and this was Wasn't this film in California? Yeah? I think so. Yeah. I think the Emmys were here, they talk about mass mass masks, vaccination, vaccination. None of the celebrity they were all on each other with no masks, but they were vaccinated. Yeah, I think that was That's the thing. Now with California, they're pushing that, regardless of your back said or not, you need to be wearing a mask. In California reinstated their mask mandates. So I'm

just saying, well, they're they're creating new guy sidelines. I will tell you this, Mark quick. I think this is coming down like in the next two weeks. Is that any indoor or outdoor events or any like public gatherings, as long as you're vaccinated and can show proof of vaccination, they're allowing you to come in and you can remove

your masks. And another component of that sometimes they're going to require you to produce like a negative COVID test within I think it's like forty eight hours upset event, So that's what I'm assuming probably happened. You have to show proof of vaccination. They even made a whole joke um with what's his name, the actor Kim ken June, like he was thinking it wouldn't let him get in because he didn't show his proof of his vaccination card.

Like they made a whole joke about it. But I think that's what the parameters were, Like, you had to get a COVID test and then you have to show proof of vaccination order to get in. So that again I think everyone, do what do what you need? Do you?

I'm just saying they should have done that before they put on this big broadcast that is going to be used as a political event, and it does not help the issue a hand with this vious Well, let's not do it that much complaining about how many black people didn't win the ship because Shirley Ralf was my personal friend just became the vice president. Ann yeah, yes, she has just won the vice presidency of the Emmy, so she's on the board. Now let's say, yeah, right, right right,

let's screen after this gear? Did she did she get on before the em She's gonna be yeah, but she just got on right before the Emmys. They had a whole nomination and she won. So hopefully it'll be before I know you guys are gonna talk about it. But I will say a lot of people I'm sure didn't talk about that Haiti and uh and immigrants coming versus the Afghan and not letting people in, and then what's going on in the southern border. I will say, there's

there Jackson. She did come out finally, she did pressure Joe Biden for them to address the discrepancies with allowing these thirty thousand Afghan immigrants here but the people who were trying to flee and come here from Haiti the the cretical way. She did address that, and she is holding Biden's feet to the fire. So I know you guys will talk about that, would believe, I just it should be state ripped. It should be congressmen. No, No,

I'm sorry, no, no, she I said. She said, she's you know, as Congress, and no, look it should be how you how you than you know other folks complaint. You know, I don't learned about the lawmaker. And she is coming out and she is going to the fire, and so I will say that I commend her for that because it is hard to break ranks and to go against your own president who is in your party and say, hey, holy this ain't right. We need to

do something about it. Because I don't even know about this until last night, that they're turning away the Haitians, but they're bringing these people from Afghan over here. So yeah, do you think they won't want for black people yet what we're bringing poor afghanswer? I mean, but but but see they come from money. They can get money, they can get h businesses, they all all, I mean all they Okay, y'all going to make it racist, don't be racist on but it's not. But it's not. But it's

not a lot. So you hear, that's the problem. All the people overseas, we can starts they come here, they right, they come, they get food stamps, they get all. Can I get some food stamps please? I'm just saying, so these four Ocasians home has been riddle with Okay, alright, I'm just I'm just saying, okay, dogs, we're gonna get to that. We're gonna get to that because Lauren, what did you say, It was how many people on the plane for Haiti? So basically they are trying so let's

get full background of the story. So there are there is an influx of Haitian immigrants that are coming to the United States, partly because we all know that there was just another disastrous earthquake that happened in Haiti. So there's thousands of immigrants coming in and they've basically been stationed under this bridge in Texas in the middle of the heat um. But Joe the Biden administration whether is actively trying to deport all of these immigrants, Thesatian immigrants

back to Haiti. And so apparently there's up to a hundred and thirty five people that can be on one plane, and as of today, they're sending one to three one to three planes back to Haiti uh per day. So that's with no seats. I don't know what the planes look like, so I'm not about to, you know, say anything that I don't know it's factual, but I just know that they said the planes can hold up to a hundred and thirty five immigrants, and y'all complained about

planing on spirit. Yeah, so I just um, I mean, I know, it kind of just got brought up, and I kind of do have an issue with it, Like why are you tell the Haitians can stay here? I really want to know what the reason is, because it kind of feels like the hunger game sometimes when it comes to deportation. I get it, like, you know, you have to look at things from an economic standp point. I get you. I'm an economics major from Spelling College.

Nobody understands econ more than I do. However, it seems like when it comes to certain race groups, it turns into the hunger games of who can stay here and who can And I think that's a valid point. I know people are gonna say, what we George Bush invaded Afghanistan and Iraq for some oil? Was he dead? Wrong? Apps?

So freaking lutely, And now all of a sudden, it's like we're trying to give you know, some of these Afghans, you know, these Afghan immigrants some reparations here, which I find interesting because you can't give black folks reparations in America as it is. You're trying to help some of these you know Afghans, and we also just you know, launched a whole freaking military strike accidentally, the Pentagon did. So I get we've got a lot of sympathy for

you know, Afghans right now. However, we can't let the black people stay in the country. Hold on, go back to that. You see it that they accidentally released the strike? Oh yeah, depending on it was an accident. Was that they killed instant people? Is that the clean up that? Uh, we don't want to help Who helped us? It's a hypothetical question. I don't want to answer, But what's that to ask? Who? We don't want to help you? You

helped us, but now we don't want to pay you back. Well, the supposedly what happened is the new technology in the military is that there's a way for an aerial view now of where you can see where like isis, activity is or terrorist threats are. And based on this aerial bird's eye view that we have, you can launch missiles to take out the threats faster. That's the whole purpose behind it. However, this initial launch was inaccurate and they

killed innocent people. So the Pentagon is trying to walk that back and That's why you know, Joe Biden's going to New York today to talk to the U n to kind of, you know, apologize on behalf of the United States and say we're getting our ship together. Kind of like Sandra Bland being stopped by the police. They killed innocent people, kind of like Ama are jogging in his neighborhood. They killed innocent people. I'm just saying, I got an issue that we keep sending the black folks back,

but we're keeping some of the other few people. It's just it doesn't there's no rhyme and reason to it, in my opinion, And maybe I need to do some more research and educate myself more. Maybe that's the thing. But I'm just saying it's always an issue when black folks want to come to this country, and have you got seen the conditions that they're living in up under

their bridge at the border. Let's just talk about its degrees in Texas and humidity, oh my god, and babies and kids, and you don't have access to a shower, to drinking water, like you're you're just trying to escape the fact that your home was destroyed from an earthquake. I've been to Haiti and not the beautiful touristic party. I want to pour the prince Ship's rough. I just want to say thank you guy for my blessings, because I'm telling you, Lord, you look so good on the

new format. Can I just say you look so long and lean? I don't think you You just want me to get dress more often. That's all that says. I know, that's the blemy t t Jen and hey Alison, Alison, y'all was heaving in the comments. I was like, let me go grab both of y'all and so we can talk about this hatient immigrant issues. This is not the first time that we turned the Haitians away. This time we were more civilized than we were the first time.

Do you remember like they were just at the border, you know, with them coming in on boats and just turning their boats back around. In both situations are pretty of bad. But I remember this like in the a Beaks or something, that we had a large population of hades Haitians trying to enter the country and we just kept sending them back. You know, I mean, nobody's gonna have it better than anyone coming here that looked closely to being white or having fine hair. And it's acceptable,

you know what I mean. But anytime that iss Haitians or Cubans, it's a bit to do. It is a huge to do, it really is. And they didn't really turn the Cubans away because I worked in the late eighties. I worked at a facility in Washington, d C. Where a lot of Cubans that came over on the boats and they put them in this they called them they called it a facility for the mentally challenged, but they were't mentally challenged. It was like a jail. It was

really like a prison. And they wouldn't let them out. They couldn't come and go as they please. They kept them doped up off skittles. We call them skittles, but they were uh like hound dog. It was medication to keep them under control, to keep them low power, the no no thought process. It was scary. Yeah. So the one that you're speaking of uh T t J. And it was between the nineteen sixes in the nineteen seventies.

Uh mainly when the Haitians emigrated uh to the to the US to try to escape from their oppressive conditions. And so when they came over into the US. Of course during that time. You know, anything with color in the US is going to get turned away, right, Um, but other than the ones that they went and kidnapped and brought over here, which is us, you know. So again, uh, that wasn't between the nineteen sixties and the nineteen seventies. But as we all know, we've been screaming this for

four hundred over four hundred years now, they don't. They only want us, right, We wanted us to build the econom to continue to build what you call their economic system, because black folks built economic system. Rebate me all you want. We did it with all that damn with all the damn copy right right. And so at the end of the day, if we can't come, if they can't, if they can't find a significant need of colorfolks, then they

don't want to eat. They don't wan't want here. And so again that is why they're being turned away in drones because again we can't have all these colorfuls running around. Because ladies and gentlemen understand this, The census has been telling us that the majority will be the majority home.

And what is happening is, I know, particularly in Polk County, they literally dumped over ten thousand uh Puerto Ricans in that city alone, and they identify as white Puerto Ricans and Betsigans are now identifying as white ladies and gentleman. They're not identifying as Hispanic rae. It's white. And so because the census have been telling us that the minority

will be the majority, these people are afraid. They are afraid at all costs, and so they're trying to do any and everything to ensure that they keep this power that they have. So therefore they don't have to put up as much of a fight. And because they've been realizing that, and they realized that it's just a lot of us who don't study the senses like we should.

That's that's gonna that's our downfall. We need to start studying those senses and doing those senses, because I'm telling you Black volts could be far advanced than we are now if a bunch of us ain't started reading that census. Because the census has been telling these people over ten years that the minorities will be the majority. And you know, they're not gonna bring those sations over there because you know, you can't identify those stations as white, and so then

that will that will excuse my laguers with that. What I'm not gonna say that. Well, but that will mess up again the census numbers. That will mess up the numbers, so of course they can't see over here. Well, Allison, I want to speak to what you just said, because I do have friends that are like in this country

that have visas for instance, and I have. It's interesting because it's been told to me, is that a lot of times, especially Latinos that come into this country, you have to identify as something when you get registered to put into this system, and a lot of the times there's nothing for them to check that says Latino or Hispanic. It's very They basically forced you to check white. And that's how you have to identify coming into this country.

So to your point, that's what's happening, is that when we have a lot of these Latino immigrants that are coming in, they're forced to almost strip who they really are and assimilate into being white in this country. And then that's what they do going forward. Because if I'm

assimilating is being white, I'm gonna be treated better. The other thing I'll say to to this is I just thought about this while you were talking to Alison, I feel like this country may not want to have Haitians come come in, because, if you think about it, Haitians were the first group of black folks to be liberated from their oppressors. They might bring in some new strategies in America. Might be like, we don't want them problems. Let me tell you what they're really gonna bring in.

All these all of them, all all them black Haitians gonna become athletes and white women gonna be passing out like Christmas cookies at the office party, and they're gonna make a whole bunch of mixed babies. That's what they're scared of, because you know, in order to get a white woman, how you got to do us hold a basketball, football, soccer ball or one of the balls, because then once you're holding the ball, they're gonna hold your balls. Real talk.

You don't believe me. Look how many black professional athletes are married to white women. And not that I'm discrediting it, because love is love. But baby, they scared them. Haitians gonna be packing and the white girls gonna just say here you go, come get it, come take it. That any any population that comes here that they feel like

they will catch on to the White Way. You know, even the Afghani says they see them as being more civilized than the Haitians here, you know what I mean, And they know that people buy into the indoctrin of the White Way. I really do feel like that. And there's nothing that has led me so that. Um. But if it's just like the Asian population, they thought they had a leg up until this um, this virus came

and then people started showing you what they really really felt. Um. But it just seems like in their minds that you know, we can buy into the indocument and it ever will be anti black, they'll suit up with well shoot TDJ. And they did get a leg up. They got a hate crime bill passed before black folks did. They do have a leg up agents do if we're gonna talk about it too, and again you know, gets knock at

the compromise because it's been there. They just can't get it past and it he and that is a damn shame with it itself, you know what I mean. Um to be that a long about being tab across the board, you know what I mean. Nobody's asking me for extras were asking for fairness, and it's it's a share, it's a share hold on we've been asking for that fairness. Did the hair crame you? But how long have we

been asking? For? Years? Uh? The Amassive Basic Proclamation was saying before then over four hundred years when the first slaveship arrived in America. Fair and asking for fairness is almost is is almost like asking, you know, for somebody for fifty million dollars. You know that they get offended when you asked for feed They like the audacity or like what I asked to call is no, your capacity

is what offends me. But go ahead, yes, you know, so you know once again, just you know, standing in what you want, you know what I mean, because there was not a lot of footage of these people living under the bridge either until here recently. So the media we have to also remember, I mean, we do rely largely on their media, but you know they're controlled too because this each people have been under this bridge, you

know what I mean. In the Afghanistans who are coming over up, a lot of them are howl you know, there are all these drives to give them furniture and whatnot to set up shop here and I've long been saying they're gonna come for people's jobs and get preferential treatment. That's what is that in Gaston? What where the immigrants are? No, I think it's in like it's like Rio, Texas or something like that. I'll look it up real quick. Uh

it is. And it's very hot in Texas, and it's like Lawrence said, it's a hundred percent humidity and there's no place to go, there's no drinking water. It's some miserable conditions. And they're not gonna never report on how many people have died from the heat conditions and from the living conditions over there. And then you know Texas, you know the oil money there del Rio Texas churches to eat. Then gil Coast, they're not gonna keep their people there. They already knew it's a ploy. I need

to move them out as they've been doing. It's like we haven't assisted you know, the ePol who have been in dire constraints of need, you know, to our full capacity, and now we're shocked that they're coming. I just it. It sends me into a small rage seeing how we're treating people. I mean, we haven't treated our own people again in New Orleans. You know that people are still in need there, you know, Puerto Rico. It just it keeps happening, and we extend ourselves to people. I mean

that we owe nothing to you know what. I'm a segue a little bit too, because you guys both kind of talked about this last people we were in d C. If I don't know if you guys saw there was an op ed in the Washington Post that there is a physician in Texas that has come forward and admitted to actually providing an abortion to a woman post this new law being that was passed by Greg abbott Um.

So I don't know what ramifications or consequences are going to come to this position, but I really appreciated him speaking up and speaking out against to say, I'm still going to protect women's rights to choose, and I'm still going to perform these abortions if that's what they're asking me to despite whatever, you know, criminal consequence, man come my way. So how did you guys? I don't know if you guys saw it, But what do you guys think about that? You know, and you have to stay

in your connections, you know what I mean? And so I applied for doing that. But that's all of us on the daily walk. You know what I mean that, you know, people to staying for something because anything, you know, God for anything. And it's gonna be black and brown sisters that are going to compromise their health and getting abortions.

That's what's gonna happen. You gotta find sisters again, you know that had you know, completely distigued themselves or become sterl because white asters are still going to get abortion and and the things of all abortions right, and I totally concur with you again. I concurr T T J. And you know again you have to stay, you have to stand for something. And in politics you can get so wrapped up in your I would say your donors, like who funds you your campaign, and so that to

have your tongue. You're just just the character there. You're just the character there, just as the placeholder. But you're doing what they tell you to do, and so what it tells you to faith, which is why it's always good to run a grassroots campaign because yes, you're speaking from you're still yourself, you're speaking for the people, but at the end of the day, nobody is telling you what to say, so you have to stand uh, you have to stand for something. Um. And again it's only

affecting the bucket brown community. As I was sharing with my stupids today, everything that comes down, it's always going to affect the working poor class because you got a boost wore class and the working poor class. Right. It has been saying that there is no there is no middle class. Right, we talk about this middle class, but it's outer the working for a class or the bootboard class, which is what Marxism was talking about in the eccentrics, right,

the social or social elites. And so you know, listen, it's only going to come down to affecting black and brown people, period, and especially those women. And so a kudos thing unferstanding for standing up, standing up for something. But again, black and brown people gotta do. You know. What happened is a lot of politicians that stood against Trump,

a lot of Republicans that stood against Trump. They're up for elected re election in two they're pulling out because they see that they're not going to win because of the way he has done things. What I would say that how you notice I never spoke about the whole abortion thing because as a as a transgender woman and as a black man, which I am both, that is not my that's not my area to speak up. First of all, I'm not a woman. That is not Men should not speak on what a woman should do with

her body. Period. I don't care what color you are, I don't care what position you are. You don't you're not You don't have that law, and you don't have that right if you're pregnant. If Lauren was pregnant about me, god forbid, uh, because I hope I'm shooting blanks. Uh, not on you blow me. But I couldn't tell. As much as I wanted the baby, I couldn't tell Lauren what to do with her body because I'm a man. That is her body. She's in control of her body.

And until we put to put people in position that will allow women to freely think and say, hey, I'm not ready for this or I can't do this. And just back to your point, Jane, and and and uh, what's your name? Alison? All these backyards or back alley abortions with the hangars if you don't believe that what There was a movie with a little British actress. She was she was a med wife. I can't think of the name of it. But there was also for colored

girls where she went to the back alley. And what you do is you catching infection or you ruin yourself. You're too young to have a baby. Now you're not ready for But then when you found your husband on a man of your dreams and you're ready to have a baby, you have ruined yourself to where you cannot procreate. It is such a scary thing. But you get this

old white national guard in control. We gotta get rid of these old guards in control because there is no reason that a man should ever be able to speak on what a woman does with her body period office. I'm running girl, I'm telling you, Kayden, did I bet I get more than one percentable? I bet I get more than one percent. I'm gonna get more than one percent. The flame that's gonna make sure that I would get more. I'm gonna get two percent, but I'm gonna get more

than one. Well, thank you both so much. You know we appreciate and love you guys, so thank you. All the old white beds who want to talk about, you know, the woman's reproductive you know now they're dipping with their side teems and they funded the calls and then they mean they need to work on they pull out games. Ship. If you don't want her to have your baby, do you put up games? Tighten it up, and tighten it up. Thank you, Jane, Thank you, as I please follow your

Allison is our canadidate flame Mess. She's running for the city Commission in Lakeland, Florida. You could donate to her campaign and Lewis campaign at T t J hasn't shown that she does every Thursday evening at six pm cs T time as T t J. She's very knowledgeable. She thinks she's smiled than me. But I had an issue over here too, So um bye you guys, bye ladies.

All right, So I want to move into our last topic that we wanna talk about, and I think we can just entitle it fatal attraction at this point name. So we're gonna talk about the disappearance of Gabby Petito. So Gabby Potito, I know that she was a twenty two year old American woman from Suffolk County, New York, who was reported missing on September eleven while traveling across the United States with her fiance. Her family lost contact with her in late August when she was in or

near Grand Teton National Park in Wyoming. So as if I think forty eight hours ago, they did find remain in Wyoming that they assume are of Yabby Petito. And then the fiance has also disappeared. So not only did he come back from the vacation without her and didn't

say ship, and now the fiance has disappeared. So I'm waiting to see if this is gonna end up on the episode of Fatal Attraction, because I watched that show so oh where they might not end up Fatal Attraction because that's the black people that people never realized these white folks, these white folks. That's not gonna end up. Or but here's the thing to to the young lady that passed or if if if that's hurt they found her,

May she rest in peace. And to the young man who did it, you're not gonna get away from this. You might get away, you may disappear to another country, but what what you did is with you, and we'll go with you wherever you go. Uh Me and Kendall, we both got here this one. Kendall got here this morning where he said the same thing. I said that young man has probably took itself up out of here because he's back into a wall and he's twenty three. He can't see another way. So I don't know. I

think it's terrible. I feel bad for the parents. Thank God she didn't have any children. But baby, what makes you gonna left to kill your partner? Now this was her fiance, so they were on a roller trip they What did she say to piss him off? Or what was what ill will was he harboring? If he was the one who actually killed her, that he made that made him kill her? Yeah, I mean, I get mad at you, be like, you know what, I ain't talking to you. Get the fun out of my house. I'm

a baby, I'm leaving, But I'm not gonna kill you. Yeah, I kinda agree to you. I'm good to cut somebody off. I'm real good at that, especially these days. But I don't or she could do it to y'all. Yeah, I'm good at that, But I don't know how you have that much anger that you really just you got to

kill somebody, you know what I mean? You know, if it was a life or death situation, I'm gonna protect my loved ones, if I got to take a bullet for them, But for me to really physically kill somebody that I said that I was loving, you know, get more and more I think about that when people grow with parents and stuff, and I take a bullet for my kid, But then when you know some of the gowns that in the bullet hole my show. No, I'm not joking, and it's not nothing to make light of.

Y'all know this, laugh and learned. But it's a same situation. And I know he got to be out of his man. He has to be out of his man. That's just that's crazy. No, they don't report on all the trans women they get killed McQueen artistreet, but they don't report on all the black people that get They surely do not. There's a lot of stuff they don't report on. Why

y'all talking about the FBI need to be dismantled. They should have been dismantled years ago when they weren't even reporting on the young ladies being molested by the goddamn doctor in the in the in the Olympics. Get her. We can hear you guys, not with her and not returning with her. That is some straight up bullshit and ask her mother, I'm gonna come hunt you down and I may just go to jail over it. Where is

my child? That makes absolutely no sense to me. Yeah, well, I think they found the child we wanted on the reason. What is that clicking Mike link? I'm sorry, wait a minute. We can't let Bobby not be safe. It's okay, leave it, leave it. Turn signal on Bobby. It's okay. Special privilege. White people get special prison. The hell they do it to me all the time. The Nerva hands to come home in her car exactly. Yeah, that's what it is

without her. He did leave her the right get his ass out, go get a train home, and she because she had anxiety and he has so I don't know that he had depression to be depressed now, um sleve without her? And what is unforgivable to me as a parent. If my son did anything like that, I would make sure that he had the best representation I could afford, which, trust me, would be Mickey Miles because I don't no money, but I would get them whatever I could afford, get

him hooked out correctly. But I damn well would make sure that that other family especially if you loved them and consider them any sort of family to you. I knew where their kid was, and we go to the authority. You got to be a man. And can I say this, and y'all don't hate me. Thank God that didn't have any children. She had anxiety. He was the press. That kid would have been screwed up. Good guy, A D H D C O P D L G B T A A R P all of all of E B T all of it. How do you just come back

without we're not starting. That is the That that is the audacity of Caucasian young man. That boat is hell. That was Yeah, he's a little to your money. It's not like he was a man about it and did something on his own or white. He went home to his parents. Can't protected. But can I say something else? I wanted to comment on the whole occasion um topics.

Go ahead, Cassie, I just want you to douse yesterday and they had already set back or flew back free thousand pasion and they had second was over fifteen thousand Asians waiting at the border. My thing is, you're flying these Haitians back because they're black. But two, you flew all the Afghanist and how do you know you just sneak some Tabiban's in with are we? Certainly they really checked and really screened all the Afghani people that they

brought over here. I mean, everyone deserved the chance rights America. It worked full of immigrants, So why are you turning away? Just really pissed me off when I was watching the Neusis Dame. That just really made me upset because I'm like, we all deserved chance, right, But no, because they're you know,

we absolutely do. But I think the reason that they're taking the Afghanis is because that we fought a war with them, and we made agreements with them, right, they put their lives at risks to make sure that our soldiers were safe or had the intelligence that they wanted. Yeah, that's I don't I can't speak to I can't speak to that. No, But I'm saying that's why they're taking them in. You know, it's not just what I'm taking all afghanies. We're taking the ones that had a link

to us. Yeah, I've gotta I gotta agree with you on that one, Bobby. That makes a lot of sense because if you think about it, between Afghanis and freaking Israel. We got weird alliances and money trains with the two of them countries, So we don't really know all of the ins and outs of what those you know, relationships are at all. I have to be honest with you, the ladies, I just don't That's what I'm thinking to him. But I know that the Afghani situation is quick, quick,

procoll right, So it's something for us. We promised them and there it is right there. Because the Americans do not like to pay back. We want everybody to help, but we don't want to pay back. Oh no, no, no, we pay certain people. We pay certain people because we still so I'm just saying we pay certain people. We pay the hell out of Israel to make sure that they could overtake the palace Stein's. We pay certain people because you'll pay me please, because I'm with I'm with,

I'm with Cassie. I want my forty eggs and mom, you will need to be a high end, brand new Callec truck. Were Kanye, but this one free. I'm about my own this one for free. We're kanyek seats and I like to be like a light, a light blue please a pale blue thank you. We don't here into the conversation. Jassy, I saw you for a while. He was putting up a lot of flames. I was like, I came in the show without grabbing gassy. So frustrating yesterday watching the thing, and I was like, in the

land of pre an opportunity, Why aren't we creating opportunities? Yeah? But you know what the other thing we have to think about. And it's only just coming to me as I'm speaking to it. I mean, what about how the Mexicans that are down there, they're trying to get over to that we're putting over We ever took that all the Haitians, so we didn't take that. You know. It's it's a really slippery slope. Um And again I don't

know enough about it. Yeah, and I feel like it's a horrible these people they have a hurricane or earthquake or what happened constantly that they're speaking of earthquakes. We had one the other day, did you feel along? It was a little scary. It was shaking. We had earthquake. It was a four point six magnitude earthquakes, which right next what I tell you, I was laying across my bed and all of a sudden, it felt like I had whiplash, like I was on a roller coaster and

things started falling. I said, it ain't never seen that much. Baby. You're right. I'm a saying thank you so much to guys talk about it. Thank you, thank you, Cassie, thank you Bobby, thank you guys for joining us. So listen, we want to thank you all for joining us for that and learned today. I'm telling you, nobody has all the answers, but this is how you get to solve some of the problems by talking about it. We appreciate you guys coming and talking about Lord take us out

because I ain't got nothing to say. Girl, I'm telling you I'm thirsty. I know, well, I'm so thirsty. You gotta water right there. I know I'd hand two over those gonna make me had to peek. Um. No, I mean my closing thoughts are, um, who want I want us to continue to pray for the people in New Orleans because they still have a lot of recovery going forward. Um. I hope that something comes out of this in a

positive light for the Haitians. At the end of the day, because they've already suffered through a lot, you know what I mean. Don't get me wrong, Yes they're a resilient community. But still I don't agree with what's happening around the deportation. So I hope we get that together. Um and more so. You know, I got a busy week ahead, so should I gotta get my mind right at this, get you get your mind right. I just want to say a

personal shout out to everybody on the LABE. Thank you for supporting the show, and thank you guys for following us with the new platform that we're gonna be doing after we finish out this season. What we got ten shows, ten shows left and then we're gonna go to the new format. We had to show it to eight I hearts, so we can hope they will come on with it. We can get a little studio here in the Long Beach and get an audience the studio. Lauren works so

well with people. Oh my god, I have trained her so well. Anyway, this week is Lauren's busy week, and this week I would be in Philly on Saturday, Stillodelphia. Thank you so much, the Black of Big Network. When year anniversary, we are celebrating that on October seventh in in Atlanta, Georgia. You can get your tickets. Lauren gonna put up the bio and all of that stuff later because I don't know how to do that at the

Variety Playhouse in Atlanta. It's at the Variety Playhouse in Atlanta, October the seventh with DC, Young Fly and Horrible Decisions, which are also part of the Black of Fact Network. Oh and speaking of the Black and Fact Network, shout out to my boss and Lawrence Boss and Kindlo's boss and I got your guy to Charlotte Magne and guard on the launch of his new show, which was this past Thursday night. It was a great show. I watched the entire shown. The Seals was great. On There I'm Coming.

I'll be on There I'm Coming. Chico Bean was on there. Rest in Peace to A J. Johnson. I didn't know A J. Johnson, comedian friend of man. We were doing bagging together. Let me tell you the story. So the show Bagging idea with Rapping May who also passed May he rest in peace who was and there was me and Johnny Matte going back and forth and back and

forth back. But it was originally me and A. J. Johnson, but A. J. Johnson was being really nasty and his wife was there, and at the time, I don't know if they were still married. She was not the most attractive woman. I say, every time you say something nasty to me, I'm gonna tell her ugly ass up. So they had to switch it out because I was telling his wife in half. Oh, I was disrespecting her like you wouldn't believe. But it was all in fun. It was a show. So that's why they got be a

Jetty Bank together. So cool. After that, he's like, flame, Michael, play with you because you cant talking about about my wife. You attack the heart. You don't attack the person, You attack their heart. I attacked this heart with you was his wife. But he was a good guy. Um, y'all keep talking about house party and but y'all keep for getting him and I got the hook up. He was really good and I got the hook up. See, I

like him in front of to it. I really liked him Ida the Hooker with Sheryl Underwood and with who was that with master P? Remember that movie? That was a good I liked him in that. But may he rest in peace and also to Michael Kay Williams. I don't know if we've said Michael kill Williams. Yeah, he was also nominated for Emmy last Night for Love of Country. Such a brilliant actor. He had not got his chance to be the lead in anything. But if he would have gotten his chance to be the lead, he was

so pheno I'm sure he would have killed it. Let me tell you something, I don't know what it was. They got romans out with what he died from this and what he definitely your escape is definitely not in the bottom. Your escape is not in a bag, and it's not in the package. You escape is on your knees and asking God to help you find your way. It is not in the package. Well, speaking of an escape, I think that's a good thing to bring up to

is MICHAELA Cole. I think she gave a beautiful speech where she talked about sometimes it's okay to go away and be alone in your thoughts so that way you can come back and see what other blessings you have that are coming your way. Yeah, and she was the one of the od lady who wanted for what was the name of the movie the show She's gonna mess up your world. No, I may destroy you. I may destroy you. I'm gonna tell somebody that tonight, I may destroy you. If you want to hear about it comes

to the Love Lounge, Loveland. Yes, he wasn't players go up. He got burned on the note back. Oh my god, So hear me when I tell you you tomorrow is not promised. You just don't know when it's gonna happen. And he was fifty five years old. You know, they say had a heart attack. They found him at after two days. I'm in his room. But you know, just do what you gotta do to protect yourself. Ladies and gentlemen.

This is Lauren Hogan. You can follow her on Instagram at Lauren Armoney h on Facebook at Lauren Armoney AG, and on YouTube as Lauren Hogan. And this is Slay my role. And you can follow me on Flame Memora. That's it all. That's it. Don't contact me on Facebook. I don't look at that. I don't look We thank you trying on camera. Kendall, who's gonna be editing this show the White Party for me? So we can get it together and get it so to make this paper

because now that's about time to make money. It's about all about making money. Tomorrow is not problems. I don't know what relationship you have with what God that you serve, because everybody has different religions, and everybody called what addresses their higher power about different names. Some is all last something as Buddha, some as God or whoever you see and seek to. You need to have a relationship with him, and you ain't got to go to nobody's house of

worship or temple to do it. Y'all just need to talk on a regular basis. So when your time comes, he'd be like, I don't know you. You ain't never talked to me. Me and man ain't strangers. Then they could love me. I'm gonna be with him tonight. It's called being with God. If you want to be with God, to me with tonight, meet me at Love Lounge at sixty. We will be with God. We'll see you guys next week.

Than you you know what I mean. Laugh and Learner is a production of The Black Effect Network and I Heart Radio. Our executive producer is Tiffany Haddish. The show is produced by Triple Our theme music is by Chrissy Payne. H.

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