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We're gonna last cut of the kicking and at the end we leave it, which is a lift dispirit, like you want to revisit, so your first like a listen, young folks, like it's lit all folks that we take it. Do what you do, no less, do what you do, no less, do what I do? Good Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome to laugh and Learn. I'm your hosts Flaming Row along with my beautiful co host Lauren Hogan. Hello Laurence. Hey flame, how are you welcome to laugh and learned?

Let's party, Let's party, Let's party. Girl. You know I had a baby over the weekend? Oh did you? Uh? You? But one point seven pounds. His name is Dexter. I keep going to call his dog Denver and I'm not even on one of my loveliest How are you, Lauren, I'm good. I'm good. Um, I know that you did some traveling this past week. How was that? I went to the A t L two for the Mr and Mr Mr and Mrs Black Universe Passion. It was the thirtieth year anniversary. I had a great time. You know

who came to the pageant? I think our executive producer came to the Passian didn't with me as a guest. She's on the filming the movie, Tiffany Hattes, and so she wanted to hang out stay. So she said, what you're doing, So I'm going to the Padget and Sunday come going to the Padget with me. So she came. She brought her security guard, Danny, who was very pleasant. I love Danny, and she had the best time. She wants to put that damn thing on film. But Mornique

was also there with Cherry to Boom. I didn't see Monique. I saw Cheery, but I didn't see Monie. I think she would shit way in the back. And uh yeah, I had a great time. Tiffany had a wonderful experience. Uh it was it took it took me back to yesteryear when I used to do pageant, So I won't do that no more. But I had a great time, uh home, and I'm ready to take laughing learning. And you've been home, and yeah, oh, because you had just

left Atlanta. I realized, Well, first of all, I left Atlanta because I went from homecoming, came back had the flu. So I'm just getting over the flu. And I still sound a little crazy. I was spreeing, I was spreading my life, thought I was. I caught the flu. And then because last Wednesday I even did a day trip to San Francisco for work and I should have kept my but um home. But I did the math. I realized I had seven flights in fourteen days. Oh seven fourteen.

That's my lotter, you know, and that's my birthday. Oh well, we go back, and you sound so much better, look so much better. As it is done, let's get into a low and Hogan, Oh before we get into it. If you guys are listening to us to that today, please listen to the latest episode of Horrible Decisions with Wheezy W t F and Mandy B. I was a special guest on the show and it aired yesterday at Oh we raised it up just a little Tan a little tank. I love that. I know they all will

start talking about horrible decisions. Right we were talking about sex, baby, mama's baby, daddy's swallowing, catching and throwing it out, all of that. So you have to listen to the conversation. Well, I had to let the lady so I don't swallow. That's babysitting. I don't babysit. I don't watch Hildre I

don't I got my own keys. I don't babysit. If y'all want to know the explanation and go listen to the go listen to the YouTube, Go to my Heart under the Black Pact Network, or wherever you listen to your podcast at what we're going along with Hogan because in the news this week has been just just you know what bothers me the most. I'm just gonna hit because it's going to be the first thing I want

to talk about. Everybody who knows looting, all my framemts and all the listeners know that I loved me some Nancy Pelosi. Y'all know I loved me some Nancy Pelosi, and I thought it was so sad saying and so tragic that her personal residence was invading. I'm telling you you please spare attention to the timing of the things that happened. This lady is second in command to run this country behind Comla Harris, who is the vice president, and and somebody got to her personal residence. That it's

very scary. And thank god that Paul, who's eighty two years old, were praying for him too. Was was agile and was able to fight off this terrorists that broke in her home with a conspiracy theory because and now that you're not gonna try to push and say, oh, he was mentally unbalanced. Someone's wrong with him. He asked were as Nancy three or four times on different occasions. There was nothing wrong with him. He knew exactly what he had to do. He was trying to kill Paul Felosi,

but Paul was strong enough to fight him off. So pressed to Paul, and he beat that man and all that he able to hammer, uh, fractured his skull and everything. It's just it's and now the Republicans are saying that, um, it was whatever, the conspiracy, it's a conspiracy theory, whatever, and it came up with some outlandish bs and it's ridiculous when we are living in a crazy time, which is why we need to get I s is to the pole or mail in your mail in balance so

y'all can vote. I thought it was saying, lord, I'm sorry, but it was about Nancy. Those girl was ready going to in fight the man. No. I mean, in general, it's just unacceptable that that happened. But I think that because Trump became president, he really just opened up a can of worms of violence that you know, a lot of these crazy you know, white folks feel emboldened to do these things. And I'm glad that Paul Pelosi is okay, But I can't imagine you being attacked in your home, Like,

how would you ever ever feel safe there? Again, that somebody broke into your residence and he's in his eighties, Like, he's not, you know, young, So for you to attack this old man based on whatever conspiracy theories you have concoct in your head about the Democrats, it's crazy. And he was really looking for Nancy, he was really trying to harm her. Yeah, So whist was out on Nancy since January six. Nagent's gonna hear as that woman, Nancy

is a woman of a certain age. She's not even a young woman, y'all doing all this and making all this ub just for power. But these Republicans are playing chess and that checkers, and I wish the Democrats get on board. Well I saw too that apparently since Trump, she's received like the most death threats and threats of violence against her than any other political UM figure in d C. She's gotten the most of everything um and partly it's because of you know, Trump and what they've

said about her and everything else. So it's just it's it's crazy that the level of promoting violence like this is supposed to be the political space, but everything is just turning into violence. Case in point in January six, it's it's it's ridiculous, and I'm like, my heart just goes out to Paul Pelosi, the fact that he got hit in the head with a hammer and has a fractured skull behind some lunatic. I also want to say,

where's where the hell was their security? But anyway, well, hopefully after this incident, thank god nobody was killed, and even though Paul has been in critical condition and I see you for a couple of days, uh, hopefully it will beef up the security around that speak of the house. So security should people all the time, but unfortunately, see it doesn't. I don't think she gets security like that. I think she has to come out of her own

pocket to pay for security. It's not like the president of the vice president where taxpayer dollars pay for secret service. I could be wrong, but I don't think that she gets that. So our president's nephew, so I mean governor's nephew, So I think he would chip in and make sure that she's safe because we got the best governor and state in the country. He is the auntie. That's his auntie. Yes in need. Yeah, it's tragic lowing. And I'm telling you all these because of a dog was because of

this spootionce that Trump did. And now you see on the news today it comes out to say that the person who was helping to push the conspiracy theory on the Supreme Court was Clarence Thomas. Yo. I'm sick of him, I really am. I'm sick of him. I'm sick of his wife. Um, I can't say that. I can't say what I'm thinking because I can't wish to uh, you know, bad on people, but uh Clarence Thomas is probably the most problematic black person, or one of the most problematic

black persons that we've seen in a long time. And I know he's trying to you know, he's against it from the action. He tried to say that his wife wasn't involved in the whole election fraudence, the election steal that Trump tries to promote, and she was. He initially tried to block Lindsay Graham for from testifying, but you know, I got a tap on his shoulder and now all of a sudden he said he wasn't involved. I can't stand Clarence Thomas. I really can't. He also said that

him and his wife never discussed politics. They left those in the in the ballrooms. They never brought it to the being room. He would know what he brought to the being room, because I don't think he's been in the being room with him. I e a black woman blue the whistle, one of many, many many years ago. What was her name, lorn Anita Hill, and we didn't believe her. They wanted to say that she was this

and she was there. Believe They tried to create this at every level, and the trooper always comes out I don't even understand why he's still sitting on the Supreme Court. Shoot well, I mean a similar situation happened with get Brett Kavanaugh, and that woman who came out against him was white, and that still didn't do anything. So we see what happens in this country. Two women exactly. It's ridiculous.

And I guess color don't make a difference because we are doomed, and we are doomed, and we are doomed. And hear me when I tell y'all, if the Republicans win, they're going to be more embolding to be more nasty than they have been. If they lose, we go on the war. So all you were here times somebody got labels. I got rear bottom, I got Gucci. They bulls go through those. I just purchased my firearms. So I feel much better now. It's times that we're living in. On

all honesty, it's crazy. And I was in Atlanta and we were in Georgia side we had they had a branch and I was talking to so many of the younger demographic. They were all gay, but they were younger demographic. Um, and I'm like, okay, y'all came to the pasget. We had a great time, y'all. You know, did you get your vote in? Did you cast your vote? Did you I don't even know if I'm gonna vote. I don't think it's gonna make no difference. When I heard it, I was so heartbroken, and I got I got angry

about it, but not in a way too. I wanted to push back. I just was like, you know how important it really is for you guys to vote. You went through all this and got a new outfit to come to the pageant, You flew in from out of town, you got a hotel room. The vote is free, especially when you live here, because a lot of them lived there. But I was talking to the ones that from out

of town too, I said, the voting is free. The difference will be freedom and the loss of democracy, because we don't have that much democracy on our side already in this country, and we if we lose a little bit that we got, I don't even know what kind of situation we gonna live. Me. These were between twenty and thirty year olds. They were very uninterested in voting. They were very uninterested in voting. It was very disheartening

for me and to hear that's happening in Atlanta. You know, last week we talked about the article that I read about the student from more Our School of Medicine. Where they're especially in Atlanta and Georgia in general, they are really trying to suppress folks from voting. So and it's it goes back to what I've said before. If your vote wasn't so important, they wouldn't go through such links,

so that way you wouldn't vote. So to hear that somebody saying that they don't want to vote because they feel like it doesn't matter, I really want to smack people like that because I'm just like, can you look at history? Can you do some research, like can you understand this concept of what not voting could potentially lead to? Because you're all the same people that want to complain when you get people elected that aren't going to actually

do for your community like you need them to. But you the same person you don't want to vote, So what you're complaining for. It's chucial times. Lauring Hogan. He's your people, here's your young he's your young folks. He's your young folks, Lauring Hogan. I don't know where we're going. But Joe Biden made the speech to day talking about just the Yeah, and I loved that President Obama has jumped on the bandwagon, has finally hit the campaign trail

to really push push, push, push push. I only hope and pray that it's not too late. I don't think it is. I think that this is he's doing it right on time. I'm gonna be honest, it's the last push. I think that he didn't earlier and it probably wouldn't have had maybe less than that. But because we're literally going some molection day and month, I think he shot. Yeah, it is God Jesus. Well else are we going, Lauren Hogan because you got to leave look you the top.

We gotta talk about Dwayne Way and what's happening with him with his ex wife. Yeah. So the ex wife apparently came out and see it that she didn't want Zion to change. Zia is the way way transgender daughter, that she didn't want the desire to change her name AI and possibly her sex. I think because they were talking about listening her as female and to until she was eighteen, and possibly a sex change. You're not really hate to talk about that subject. But I know that

that is Dwayne and that lady's child. But as they transiender person that's well passed eighteen. In stages of life, your mentality changes. So from eighteen to twenty four, I might want this, but from twenty five to thirty one, I might want something else. From thirty three or forty, I might want something entirely different. The difference is if I changed my man, I could change my mind back.

If I changed my sex, I cannot. So I hope that they take the time to actually let this child live a little life, experience some things before making such a drastic, irreversible situation, because it is really common to light now that there are so many trans people who want to a revert back that's male and female, and science ain't caught up with that yet. Science ain't caught up with that once it's gone. Yeah, from what I read is that she wants to legally change her name.

I didn't read. I didn't see anything about the sex change part. Well, that was the clickbait that they put on there because I listened to it that click. But usually if the parents is giving that child that much leeway and the child decides they want to do something else because it seems to be popular, they just roll with it. And I'm not saying that that is the

situation in this case. I'm saying usually because I can't speak for nobody else's house, but that would be so messed up because that child may like something else down the lane, and if you take it away, you can't put it back. No. I hear you, and I agree with you. I think that I think we've do sentence before. I think that it's a beautiful a way that you know, Dwayne I supported his trials and has said that, you know, this is how my child identifies, this is what she

wants to be called. So I'm gonna fully support her. I think that's beautiful that he's done that. Um, and this is laugh and learned. So let me take let me put the laughing out in the words a little boushi, don't cut us, dick off mine, don't credits dick off my girl saying that that was my god. You know

that Boothy does it for me. I've read that. Um. You know, dwayne ex wife is basically trying to say that, you know, the name changes for them to profit off of money and deals with Disney and those sort of things. We don't know if that's I don't know. I don't know what the circumstances are. I just read what I read online. But I think that is good that you're supporting, you know, your child, and if I get what you're saying in terms of not changing the name officially, wait

until she's eighteen. But um, I don't know. I think it's kind of a catch twenty two situations. So yeah, it is. And I'm telling you as a being a transgender person for so many years, if I had a kid that decided that they were transgender, what have you? Yes, I have the experience, but when a kid gets a certain age and they're grown, they make their own this scisions.

But when I tell you, I would I would try to really put on paper the pros and the cons of what it is and what it could be, because there's a lot of ifs, and there's a lot of wise and there's a lot of this could happen and that could happen. And I wouldn't push all the negative. But you do know that that decision is forever forever. And I think that it's kind of like they say, a person who lost the limb if they used to having that arm or that lag. They still have that

tingle or that itch cutting off that LIAMB. I don't know if you're still gonna have that that feeling. I talked to one of my transgender girlfriends in in Atlanta just this weekend who just had who had an SRS maybe two years ago, and she says she still has the urge to masturbate to like a man, but she don't have the equipment, she said, but the urge sometimes hits her every She says, every blue moon is sporadic, but still no one day. What if it gets stronger

and stronger and it starts happened repeatedly every day. There's nothing you could do to get that feeling back because you didn't took the way. I was like, wow, And I love the fact that she was honest enough to admit that to me, like almost like she regretted the decision that she made. Well, I wouldn't say regretted, but she said that she still has that urge to to you know, to stroke. And I was like, well, what you do about it? She's like, I just try to

go sleep, she said. But the more it happens, the longer it happens. Oh so like the first, she said, it will just happened. Like she think about it for a few minutes, she said, Now she found herself thinking about it more and more. So, mind you, this girl is only forty six, forty seven years old, so what if she needs to be a hundred, it'll be stronger and stronger. That is my thing. I don't it's the

unknown for me. Well, I that's not something I desired, but it would be the unknown for me because clearly I'm not going to give up my orgasm. I could be a miserable bitch walking around here, but if I need to pull it out, I can pull it out. I'm just saying. And I think that that happens because people don't be honest with each other. I don't. I've never had a sex change. I couldn't tell how they feel,

what it feels like. But I think that people should be They that the Wayne Wade's family need to get one girl who has had an SRS for ten fifteen years to just give all different fasies of what they that person has went through, good and bad, to that girl and give it to her in the wrong, give it to her straight. Don't sugarcoat it, make it what it is, so that the least they have the option of saying, you know what, maybe not or maybe you know, but I don't know. People want to hit People don't

want to hear the truth. People want to hear the lines. They want to hear the fantasies. They want to hit us the bad stories. Want it's something bad. But if it's something that they really want to do, they don't want to hear the bad part. They don't want to hear the dark side of it. And most things have a dark side. Well that's also if too, you know, she wants to get you know, the sex change. You know, like you said, it was clickbait, so we story behind it.

But um, I mean, I hope that she does wait if that's something that she wants to do, because you know, your hormones are still developing, you're still growing, you're still changing, your ideologies are going to be different from when you're

this age, you know, twenty years from now. So I hope that she does wait, um to do that, But I don't know how I feel about the mom basically saying like, oh, you only want to do this for our child because it's a profiting thing because mom was headed but acting like she was homeless, and a whole lot was going on back and then so who knows. But in respect of the mom, again, she is the mom. She is the actual mother. She is. That is true.

But we also, like you said, we don't know the home situation, so that that is a very touchy subject. And I hope that whoever, whatever decisions they make for anything, that that town has somebody, honestly besides just her parents that she could talk to of trans experience, and not for the click bake or the likes or the fame or the money, but for the happiness of that person, that she can be a happy person, a happy individual,

productive individual in this society. Because some mistakes you can't take back. And then, speaking of mistakes that you can't take back, let's talk about Elon Musk. The fact that he's officially acquired Twitter can't take back is all of that third surgery, because good god, he look yeah, well, Elon Musk has officially acquired Twitter. He fired a lot of their top execs at the organization or at the company,

i should say. And also to the use of the N word has been up about five percent on the platform since he's taken over, and it wasn't bat me. I didn't even say the N word on Twitter, not one time. It's a whole bunch of them, you know, the white people that are just feel free to say and express how they really feel. I just said, and that's where we at it. If we lose, if they lose, they go on the war. If they win, they're gonna

get more in voted. It was just the timing for me, with the whole pop Pelosi attack and now with him acquiring to Twitter, who will possibly put Trump back on? I believe he's going to put Trunk back on. But Trump has a d a million follower Twitter. He has four million followers on that Boulet platform that he's on, which is still way more than what I got. But I'm not spewing hate. I'm spewing the truth. But I'm not spewing hate. I'm not spewing killhard Maine because you

don't look like mel you don't think like me. That's your choice. But that's where that's where we are. Good God is scared. Well, what'll be interesting is if he lets Donald Trump back on Twitter but doesn't like Kanye West, back on Twitter. That's gonna say a lot. You can have both on for me, you can take both somewhere else. They can go to Winters, guitters, Twitter. But litter, I

don't care, cat litter, dog shit, I don't care. Just I just don't want them to have platforms just spell crazy messages, whether it's anti Semitic, anti black, or super hey, I don't want any of that. I think, like I said, Trump just kind of uh broke the glass ceiling on you know how people are allowing people to freely say how they feel about folks in this country, and it's

just only gonna get worse O case some point. That's why I just want to water fire arm because the level of violence and the hate that's happening in this country right now is it's actually mind boggling to think about. It's it's crazy. It's crazy that you just don't feel safe. I feel protected. Don't look, I get my little dog. My dog's gonna protect me. You gotta stop dropping them. First dog I have in my hand and the dog

I carry my TV, both of them. So it's just, um, it's definitely crazy times that we're living in and um, these elections that are coming up next Tuesday. It's like you said, it's gonna determine a lot of how things are going to move forward, if they move forward at all. So and just the most it's it's just I don't want people to walk away and say, oh, it's just the primaries. It's just the primaries. The primaries are such a plethora, opens up such a plethora of money that

we need to win the big one. Y'all have to get out here and vote. I know, I know, it's a it's disheardening you. I don't feel like I don't trust them. We all have the same feelings that you all have. The only difference is we have to act on the feelings that we do have, which is to get out and vote. All that sitting around and man and hidden lights on the Facebook, and I'm gonna put this post up so that all of that is cute, but to go to the polls and do do the job.

Do the job that was handed to you. As an American citizen. You have the right to vote. Go and vote. Vote and don't vote your future, vote your present, because

the future is bleak. Ship Well, I think it goes back to something that you touched onto the fact that you know, Joe Biden did deliver speech and I ain't talking about protecting democracy because we do have a lot of Republicans that are running in these primaries, their election deniers, they still don't think that Joe Biden really won, and putting in if they get elected to these seats of power, it's gonna determine how ends up and whether or not

they're actually going to properly certify certain states to go with specific electoral votes. That's what's gonna happen. And so these mid terms are actually damn they are more important than election because these are gonna determine who sits in these positions to properly certify elections and saying hi, Louren because herschel Walker is clearly in around another woman, Woman number three didn't come out and they ran with him till they because they want to control of the power.

And I kind of wish my Democratic Party would even take a sting they can learn from these These Republicans are like, don't but were going and I don't care what happened. I wish the Democrats will get on that same on that same bus. Right now, we just need them to be a lot more aggressive, not a little bit, a lot more aggressive and stern, and it stand thought, Yep, we really do. But um, I hope that there's more people. Well, I also have seen that I think like over five

million people have already voted. So even though we do have some people like what you were saying in terms of saying that they don't want to vote, it seems that a lot more people are already exercising their right to vote because so many more people have voted in early voting than in previous races. But it's just, um, it's very important at this point in time for us

to get out we're trusted. It seems as that we're trusting the mainly and more than we are trusting being at the post because you can track your Mailly, that's what I like. You can track your vote to see exactly what your vote is at and also to you probably feel safer to mail in your ballot with all of the people that are working in the polls now that are trying to use intimidation tactics. And also I would I feel safe for you know, voting by man

and just dropping off my ballot. I don't have to worry about somebody you know, trying to intimidate me or make me feel like, um, you know I I don't have a right to be here, or you know, forcing me to fill out a provisional ballot. It's damn near dangerous to go to the polls. Again. We live in southern California. I don't feel like that in my neighborhood. But the nigga and me, let me see it. Since

we ain't on Twitter, let me see the nigga. Me want to live in the South and go to one of the Poland places where they're gonna give me a hard time so I can show up and clown trum. What's that saying? I remember a couple of years ago there was a meme going around and like T shirts saying like I'm not my ancestors. I will hit you back because you know and and and I'm getting back last week from the interview, I just saw something said because I said something about non binary folks because I

didn't understand what it was. And so when she explained to me, I said, oh, so they only have identify as nothing. Girl. They're mad at me. Uh they always mad at me. But uh no, I'm not my ancestors. And one person could never speak for one group, one black person, one white person, one trans person. One you can't. So that's why I'm saying I don't speak for the community. Baby, I couldn't speak. I love Dr Mike Luther King, but I didn't agree with his tactics because if you put

your hands on me, I'm gonna hurt you. Yeah, we definitely aligned a little more with Malcolm on that front. But and can we can we agree that Malcolm was faying I would have gave Malcolm sell you know, um, wh don't we talk about that? She was about to

tell it to stop? Whoops? Um. But speaking of people that are trying to stop elections from being certified, we can talk a little bit more about Clarence Thomas because, um, they did report that today that Trump's lawyers saw Thomas is like the only chance to stop the elections ratification.

So for somebody who's supposed to be so neutral and um, you know, not talking about politics at his house with his wife, even though she was texting Mark Meadows, Um, the truth seems to be quite different from what their rhetoric is. So I need him to go to well, they need to change the laws on the Supreme Court on a lot of these positions because this lifetime appointment is not working. Because you may have the lifetime appointment, but again, you change, you may change. Just what we're

talking about, people change. Can we address your background change? It's giving very much red light special. I'm in the I'm in the ladies room. Oh my goodness, is lighting? I need the lighting? That's the nam Okay. Can we agree that it's chilly in southern Califor and you're good God ship, I want to wear a damn sweater. She just wanted to wear hust to y'all because it's black

ladies of ladies and Jim. I hope you guys are listening to us, and when I tell you we we have a little rhetoric sometimes, but we are really pushing the critics the importance of the vote, especially in the state of Georgia. Stacy Abrams really need you guys to come out to the post and make sure she can acquire this governorship that she should have had a few years ago, and then we're back at it. So I

remember Andrew Gillions was the same way. I feel like that he was stoked the governorship was sold for him, and I feel like the governorship was solder from Stacy Abrams. The difference was the choices that they made afterwards. Stacy Abrams was very instrumental and flipping Georgia blue. Andrew Gillian's politics is still fantastic to me. He just got caught with his fans down, uh literally, but politics are still great.

So put you all that aside and do what's important for you and stop all that on both in my future, my future depends on the future is so bleak. Vote the president. The president is where we need you at right now, right now. And saying all that to say, here at last, learn we have a saying that we're never trying to get anybody to change your mind. They're simply trying to get just to use your mind because

some of y'all don't have one. And you need to go see the Wizard because you'll played too much now because your mind is a terrible thing the ways. And I'm telling you we need all Americans, especially Blue Democrats, to make sure that you are a registered vote and that you utilize the ability the freedom you know that you have to go out and vote because we in a crucial time it's it is beyond scary. To be honest,

it is beyond scary. Yeah, that's very true. Not just vote that we're black, not just because I'm dreams, but just as an American, because they think that America belongs to them. If you thought the America belongs to you, you should have left me where I was at with my bone and my nose and my grass skirt because I was doing just fine. Mm hmm. Well. As always,

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Heart under the Black Effect Network. I'm trying to get you the White Effect. Oh my god. And the other thing you have to say before we um ring off is rest in peace to take off from me goos Um. He was tragically killed in the midst of a dice game. It was a sense senseless violence. It wasn't necessary. It was only twenty eight years old. And it's like yet another young black man that's being murdered. That hurts and over a damned gambling They get out of control, they

get out of control. Yeah, so I just my heart hurts for his family. Um, you know, Quevo and offset To you know, they were really family, you know, nephew, uncle, cousin. And to just to lose another you know, black man to a sense to senseless violence is just it's ridiculous at this point in time and right yes, wow, and they were actually beefing at this moment in time to

Um Offset wasn't really speaking to them. So that also shows you that life is short and things that seem so serious just really aren't that serious because you know your loved ones, you never know they may not be here tomorrow. So I myself just celebrated the we didn't celebrate really more so more in one year anniversary of my mom's passing yesterday. So miss Marsha, let me tell you something of y'all didn't know. Miss marsh miss Marsha love how to flame band. She did, but life is

just too short. You just never know what's gonna happen. So hug your loved ones tight. That would be my main message of what to say in this episode is just love your love, your hug ones. Excuse me, Hug your loved ones very tightly and the beef is not that big. Love your HUGO. Hug your loved ones and hold onto your vote, get your answer, the pose and vote damn. I mean, go out there like your life depends on it, because what you really don't know is

that your life depends on it. It doesn't need um. You can follow flame at Monroe Flame on Instagram and Marcus Flame Monroe Parker on Facebook, Flame Monroe one to five on TikTok and as I always don't follow the Twitter because it's full of porn, it's full of N words and it wasn't even from me. You said, that's not even from me. The point is safer than the N words. You can follow Hogan, Lauren Hogan and Lauren Almighty h on Instagram and Lauren Hogan on YouTube and

on Facebook. Ladies and Jim, we think you so much. Thank you, to our wonderful producer, Mr Aaron. We appreciate you, Aaron as always Aaron giving us. Let me tell you something, Aaron as be giving us all the information before the show. Y'all guess one one week. He just doesn't know it yet. Uh. And we appreciate you, guys, thank you for joining us. A year two of laugh and learn. We're almost coming to an end, but we have enjoyed you, guys. I hope you guys have enjoyed us. I hope you learned

something from us. I hope you laugh with us. And I hope that all the rhetoric that we spent spilled out made somebody's life better. Let me just say that, I hope that we have made somebody's life better by being able to say our truth speak, our truth speak how we honestly feel, because so many people walking around in fear afraid to say how they really feel and feel of losing their job. And I have lost jobs because of my mouth. I have lost situations and positions.

But my talent and who I am and what I believe and will always overcome my fear. Because fear of losing a couple of dollars, they're gonna bother me. I know how to hit the track. Baby, I'm not going minutes court. Did you see that body? I hit that truck. Baby. We love you guys, and we appreciate you. Thank you for joining us for our foodishin. I really regard information and us being informed. We ain't woked. We're informed because some of you wokes need to go back to sleep.

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