Send us Fan Mail This week the title says it all! We talk about a couple that is dealing the ending of a relationship with another couple. How to handle it, how to deal with the situation when one of the couples is being petty and vindictive. This week we also talk about the concept of drama at events, (The Grow up part). Why it sucks and how stupid it looks. What you should do when faced with it. Finally we talk about having some common sense and acting it ( Fucking up) Some of the shit we have...
Nov 04, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 181
Send us Fan Mail The title is funny but the show is important. This week we talk to a couple that is having communication issues and part of that is how much time is spent at a party in play time. This weeks question hits on a lot of different areas: Communication, honesty, getting on the same page, boundaries and more. The best part..... This couple has been in the lifestyle for 10 plus years. This show is a great reminder that you always have to stay alert and make sure your main relationship ...
Oct 28, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 180
Send us Fan Mail It was Kole's 30 year Class reunion and yep our lifestyle was the topic of conversation. Yes Kole Looks different, long hair, finger nail polish and a serious attitude. Yes some of the class had found the Only fans page of Ms Amanda and her dirty twitter. It is so funny that the vanilla world is just so uneducated about the swinging lifestyle. If you are going to be in this lifestyle you need to understand what people don't know who are not! This week we talk about all of the co...
Oct 21, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 179
Send us Fan Mail It is party season and are you ready? Do you really remember how to talk to people to actually get a chance to get laid or are you going to sound like you are clueless? It is amazing what a little thought and planning can do. You will also be surprised how much more fun you will have. The Second part of the show is all about how to behave after the fun is over and the next day. How do you behave, what do you share and what do you not. What is ok to talk about and when does it be...
Oct 14, 2021•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 178
Send us Fan Mail It's party season everyone! Yep almost Halloween and all of the get togethers, hotel take overs, swing events etc. So that means we have to talk about the singles. Single guys, Single women and where do they fit in the Sex Food chain. Yep in the Ecosystem in the swinger world Singles are damn important! So this week we talk about, the good singles. We are not talking about the handful of assholes, but rather the respectful single males and females and how they can feel more comf...
Oct 07, 2021•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 177
Send us Fan Mail So what an exciting show! First we let it the cat out of the Bag that we are bringing back Krazy Winter Nights! That will be a show all on its own but mark your calendars for Jan 15th, We do also actually answer some questions. We all know we all have different work schedules and our 1st couple has a problem, they work every weekend. They want ideas on how to be able to get hook ups during the week. We try to come up a couple of options and solutions for them. Send us your ideas...
Sep 30, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 176
Send us Fan Mail This week we had a couple of questions that were totally new. We answer a question from a couple that is frustrated and ready to say Fuck it. They wanted to know why do we stay in the lifestyle. What is your draw, is it still hot for you? That was the easy part of the show. Next up was a couple that their adult son knows what they do. He has friends that were newly married and had questions. The son brought Mom and Dad and his friends together...... Well guess what? Yep they hoo...
Sep 23, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 175
Send us Fan Mail So this week we are talking about a lot of everything and a lot of nothing, LOL So we talk about sex club we are going to visit. The end of the sex at work. The over all mood and how much we need this vacation. Get ready to laugh, and see what we are all about. We do also talk about no go lists how to get on them and how to stay off of them. This is important (really important at a vacation spot) This is the show you need to hear to really get to know us. To hear all our shows g...
Sep 14, 2021•56 min•Season 4Ep. 174
Send us Fan Mail This week we talk about being truthful and being up front and having a clue. Yes if you are at a lifestyle event, or on vacation at a place that could turn into lifestyle fun this is the show for you. We start off talking about a new couple that wanted to know if it was ok to "ask" a couple if they were down for some swinger fun. They were on vacation and did not want to break any rule. Listen to our answers and see if you agree. The second half of the show we helped a couple th...
Sep 09, 2021•58 min•Season 4Ep. 173
Send us Fan Mail This week we tackle the issue that has thrown many people in to a tail spin, Religion and the Adult alternative lifestyle. The issue of morality affects those thinking about swinging, BDSM, Going to Clubs like Hedo, Temptation or Desire. What is right, what is wrong and can you be sexually free and open and still have a relationship with a higher power. Do we have all the answers? No, but we give you our perspective and hopefully it helps or at least causes you to have a convers...
Sep 02, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 172
Send us Fan Mail Yep we talk about it. The Only Fans cluster fuck! What is going to happen and why does it really matter in the lifestyle. We focus on the challenges of Lifestyle people, the average person and the fall out no only from having only fans accounts but all of the other little companies that have popped up to fill the void with the new rules on Only Fans. Can you really make a ton of money? Is it worth it? What is the real cost? This week we are keeping it very real. Give the show a ...
Aug 26, 2021•56 min•Season 4Ep. 171
Send us Fan Mail We have a treat. In almost 5 years of doing the show we have never done an interview. ( We just don't) but we have made a special exception for Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent. We are excited to have Promescent as a sponsor of our show, but we believe in the product and felt we need the top man at the company to tell you, our audience about the company, the product and why we are excited about them. SO sit back and give it a listen and get ready to get excited as well. Check out...
Aug 23, 2021•1 hr 2 min0
Send us Fan Mail What a crazy show. Yes we talk about Garth Brooks, Yes we talk about Kole Getting emotional Yes we answer questions! The first question is a story of lots of mistakes by 4 people. What happens when someone accidentally puts a penis in the wrong hole, and the person says go for it, even though it is against their own rules, that all 4 people talked about before play started? You must listen to get the whole story and we want to hear if you agree with our advise. The second questi...
Aug 19, 2021•57 min•Season 4Ep. 170
Send us Fan Mail This week we talk about the most kick ass party of the summer, Krazy Summer Nights. I promise after this show you will be ready to sign up and get your camp on for our Krazy Summer Nights 2022- the Golden Edition. We talk about our New Ms Krazy Kasbh Milf winner, the activities, the games, the fun. The awesome campground Natural Pines resorts ( http://www.naturalpinesresort.com and our sponsors and so much more. What a great time and wow will next year be off the hook. Out door ...
Aug 11, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Season 4Ep. 169
Send us Fan Mail Yep this week Kole got a real eye opening experience. He found out just how challenging it can be to go to a club or swinger event as a single! The funny part, we have been to the club before and the people are all very nice. This week we talk about the Mind Fuck that Kole did to himself and how walking in another persons shoes gave him a new perspective of the adult alternative lifestyle! Give the show a listen and get ready to laugh your way to a new view of being a swinger! W...
Aug 05, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 168
Send us Fan Mail This week is a show about ass, kind of. We answer a question from a Lady who got a zit on her butt and cancelled a playdate, but this question proves it is not what you say but how you say it. She was embarrassed about her blemish and was vague in her cancellation and that is how the miss communication and NOW the rumors have begun. The second question is about making an ass of your self. We answer a question from a new couple who miss heard a conversation in the Ladies room, bl...
Jul 29, 2021•57 min•Season 4Ep. 167
Send us Fan Mail This week we get Kinky and I mean with a fetish or a kink. Ms Amanda finally got to dabble in the world of Kink and participate in rope play. She did Suspension for the very first time! Amanda really takes over the show. You are going to get to hear her opinions and description's of the event. We also talk a lot about all of the though that went into doing this, the questions to ask and how awesome the guy was that did it!! IF you have every thought about this or other kinks thi...
Jul 22, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 166
Send us Fan Mail So This week we started off with some serious tech issues, LMFAO!!! So sit back and laugh your ass off as we get silly in the beginning. We talk about all kinds of silliness. These are the shows that are the best. OK..... So we do actually talk about a couple of actual issues. We help the 1st couple as they deal with the fear of running into someone they know at one of the events. We talk about how to handle it and the fact it will happen. The second couple has a question about ...
Jul 14, 2021•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 165
Send us Fan Mail This week we go into the real story of what it feels like as a guy when your shit won't work. Not Just ED but the real deal of getting older in the Lifestyle. How as a guy have to deal with the fear of if the Girl says yes and having problems. We still laugh but we bring to the light a whole bunch of truth! The honest, true issues I deal with and so do so many other guys. Its time to be honest with ourselves about the Lifestyle and the fears and failures! Tune in to get a new pe...
Jul 08, 2021•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 164
Send us Fan Mail This week we talk about our Trip to Club Forbidden Omaha ( www.forbidden-omaha) and the great time we had. The trip out allowed us to reflect on the path swingers take, from being newbies all the way to long term vets. Follow us as we talk about how cool it was to hang with couples that have been in the lifestyle for 6 months, and people that were the very first people we met at our very first Meet and Greet almost 11 years ago. This is a fun show, lots of laughs and tons of fun...
Jul 01, 2021•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 163
Send us Fan Mail Get Ready to laugh, no matter how long you are in the adult alternative lifestyle, I.E a swinger you run a risk of breaking your own rules. Well this last weekend Ms. Amanda and I broke a lot of rules and we had a blast doing it! If you want to laugh your ass off this is the show to do it. Ms. Amanda naked in front of the cop shop, Kole making out on a pool table and all points in-between. We guess we need to get out more! Check out all our shows at www.buzzsprout.com/181336 Vis...
Jun 24, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 162
Send us Fan Mail It is the Birthday Show!! Yep we record this on Ms Amanda's 50th Birthday and the show focused on and about age. We answered questions from a 26 year old who was treated rude by a 62 old when she turned him down. We also help a wife who's husband only wants to hook up with younger women when she prefers men her own age. The age question affects all of us in the lifestyle. We go into how the age of kids affects who people will play with, and how large or small age gaps are not as...
Jun 17, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 161
Send us Fan Mail Being New in the Adult Alternative lifestyle, I.E swinging is about lots of fun and lots and lots of learning and some bumps and bruises along the way. This week we answer the question of a new couple that hooked up with a Newer couple and how things got really fucked up really fast. Can we say it again for the people in the back COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION. If you are new or experienced you need to listen to this episode. We will give a spoiler, the couple that se...
Jun 10, 2021•58 min•Season 4Ep. 160
Send us Fan Mail We have a great show this week. We talk about Progressive Swingers. What does that term mean. Are you a progressive Swinger? How much is just lip service? This show dives into the concept of relationships, intimacy and feelings in the adult alternative lifestyle. We talk about all of the what ifs and what can happen. NO this is not a show of just sex stories, it is a show of substance!!! Is the show still fun and funny? FUCK YES!! Do we tell you if you should be a "Progressive S...
Jun 03, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 159
Send us Fan Mail The hair show, A hairy situation, a hair brain idea, you get the point. We tackle the question of what is the "in" to have your privates. Is it neatly trimmed ,shaved clean, old school. Really what we are talking about is confidence and what is comfortable. This is one more question that shows and reminds us of some of the many questions we all had when we were newbies in the adult alternative lifestyle. Basically, swinging is on your mind. We also work with another couple that ...
May 27, 2021•58 min•Season 4Ep. 158
Send us Fan Mail The show is all about comfort! We talk about the great trip we had going to a formal lifestyle fundraising event in Pennsylvania with the awesome Upsidedown Pineapples. Then we start talking about getting comfortable at events. We talked about Krazy Summer Nights and the challenge it is to get naked in front of other people. Kole talks about his own insecurities and things we all deal with. This week we really help several couples get excited and get ready to try new things but ...
May 20, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 157
Send us Fan Mail Ok So this weeks show is a little goofy, but I promise you will laugh. Kole might have had a really bad case of "Squirrel" but we did get around to the question of the day. What is the right way to enjoy the lifestyle? Who has the answer? Is there a correct answer? We try to help an husband and wife, who the wife is just getting back into the lifestyle. We talk about the different ways and signs to look out for when people start to "have the answer". The adult alternative Non-mo...
May 12, 2021•59 min•Season 4Ep. 156
Send us Fan Mail SO how do you balance between flirting and aggressive, why do women seemingly have a free pass when it comes to consent? How do we fuck and have orgies and craziness at swingers parties without people feeling like shit and being the bad guy or gal. These or the topics we talk about. This all starts because of the double standard in the lifestyle and our individual that sent us the letter, was a victim of that double standard. Now he and is wife have set up codes to make sure it ...
May 06, 2021•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 155
Send us Fan Mail This week we things a bit different!! Not just a single questions but a topic. SO we talked about the challenges of couples moving at different speeds and being at different comfort levels. How do you handle when your spouse is ready to go from soft swap to full swap, or from playing together to swinging alone. What if your sexual fantasies that involves your spouse does not line up with what they want, gang bangs, 3 sums, anal or what ever. How do you make sure resentment does ...
Apr 29, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 154
Send us Fan Mail SO we get tons of questions about the adult alternative lifestyle every single week. Even though we all like to say their is no such thing as a dumb question, well sometimes there is. This week we answer 3 of the "what the fuck" questions. From the new Couple that is want to know about hiring a professional photographer for their first hook up, to a couple that has is wondering about trying to pick up customers, yes random customers and having sex with them (Did we mention they ...
Apr 22, 2021•58 min•Season 4Ep. 153
