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Kiss and Tel Aviv

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The first and only podcast about dating, sex, and relationships in the White City, hosted by Margot Touitou.
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Dating Israelis: The Biggest Differences You Need to Be Aware Of

In this episode, we dive into the unique and sometimes challenging world of Israeli dating culture. From the importance of family and community to the role of religion and politics, dating in Israel can be vastly different than in other parts of the world. But fear not! We'll share tips and tricks for successfully navigating the Israeli dating scene. Whether you're a local looking for love or a foreigner trying to understand Israeli dating customs, this episode has something for everyone. So sit...

Mar 16, 202347 min

He’s not a “dom”. He just wants to hurt women: a tough conversation about toxic BDSM culture in TLV

Trigger warning: this episode deals with discussions about sexual assault and abuse that may be disturbing to some listeners. We’ll be discussing a recent exposé on a popular nightclub here in Tel Aviv and how it’s owners used it to funnel women into their dangerous, abusive world of BDSM and exploitation. In addition, we’re having a frank discussion about the difference between a healthy practice of BDSM versus when it becomes violent and abusive. Throughout the episode, an episode of “Uvda” wh...

Mar 02, 202348 min

Relationship Status with Israel: It's Complicated

Join me as I delve into the ups and downs of living in Israel. I'll be sharing my personal experiences with the country I call home. From the current political situation to the challenges of dating in the Middle East, I'll be discussing it all. Despite these difficulties, I'll also be highlighting the things I love about living here, like the warmth of the people, the food, my pride in living in the Jewish State and hot Israeli men. A huge thank you to Veg-It-Out, for sponsoring this episode. Fo...

Feb 16, 202341 min

Traits of a Fuckboy You Need to Copy

Get ready to delve into the traits and behaviors that make someone a "fuck boy" and examine how you can adopt some of these characteristics in a positive way to improve your dating game. From confidence to assertiveness, we'll cover it all. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode that will have you rethinking your approach to relationships.

Jan 19, 202342 min

Are We Fucked? Addressing Your Biggest Frustrations With Dating in Tel Aviv

I asked you guys what frustrates you the most about dating in Tel Aviv. But I couldn’t help but wonder, is Tel Aviv the problem or is it universal? From ghosting to the expectation of casual sex to people not wanting serious relationships, I'll be discussing some insight to help you understand how to handle these common dating frustrations.

Jan 05, 202344 min

Why Does Society Have a Problem with Childfree Women?

In this episode, we will be diving into the societal stigma surrounding childfree women. Many people feel pressured to have children, and those who choose not to often face judgment and criticism. We will be discussing the various reasons why some women choose to be childfree, as well as exploring the underlying societal expectations and biases that contribute to this stigmatization. We will also be talking about the challenges that childfree women experience in a society that often prioritizes ...

Dec 22, 202226 min

How to Improve Your Body Image feat. Rebecca Sigala

Boudoir photographer and body image coach Rebecca Sigala joins this episode to discuss how she helps women ditch diet culture and embrace their bodies as they are. In this honest and authentic conversation, you'll learn tips for improving your body image and how stripping down for the camera might be just the thing to help you do that. Since recording this episode, Rebecca has also launched her own podcast, " The Body Image Revolution " so go listen! To learn more about boudoir photography or bo...

Dec 08, 202251 min

5 Ways to Handle Being the Only Single One in the Friend Group

Being single isn't a condition you have to fix. In this episode, I'll share my tips on how to survive, or rather thrive, as one of the last remaining single ones in your friend group. Spoiler alert,: it starts with not feeling sorry for yourself for being single. Check out the inspiration for this video from the Financial Diet .

Nov 24, 202232 min

What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men?

In this episode, we address why dating opportunities for heterosexual men are diminishing as relationship standards rise and how they can address skills deficits to meet healthier relationship expectations. I'll also discuss a few of my own dating updates at the top of the show. Articles cited: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-re...

Nov 10, 202233 min

Why Your Dating Life Sucks (and How You Can Fix It)

Does your dating life suck? Are you going on disappointing dates that seem to lead nowhere? Then you need to listen to this episode to learn what might be causing it and what you can do to improve the situation.

Oct 27, 202229 min

The Only Aliyah Advice You'll Ever Need

I recently celebrated my 34th birthday and as my gift to you, I'm sharing 34 of the best pieces of life advice I can offer. Everything from managing Aliyah to surviving when you don't speak Hebrew to navigating dating in Tel Aviv.

Oct 13, 202242 min

Introducing...Homeland: Ten Stories, One Israel

This week, I'm proud to be showcasing a very special episode of the latest podcast from Unpacked (@jewishunpacked on IG & TikTok ) When a bus breaks down off an Israeli highway and leaves its passengers stranded, Emily, an American journalism student, decides to put her skills to the test...much to the chagrin of her fellow travelers. As she eventually coaxes each person to share their story, Emily uncovers the rich and complex history that every Israeli holds. Each episode is a deep dive in...

Sep 01, 202241 min

The Do's & Don'ts of Getting Dumped: 5 Rules to Follow

Believe it or not, there IS a right way and a wrong way to get dumped. Trust me, I know because it just happened to me. We're discussing how to get through getting dumped without losing your dignity.

Aug 18, 202238 min

How to Get a Job in Israel

Want to nail your next job interview? Dreaming of working in Tel Aviv's thriving tech ecosystem? Well, you better work, bitch! In this episode, we're covering the most important things you need to know about how to succeed professionally in Israel from someone who's been working in tech for a decade. I'm spilling my tips on the fundamental cultural differences in the Israeli work environment you need to be aware of and the most important question you can ask in an interview. You're going to want...

Jul 14, 202245 min

Friendship Red Flags: What to Do When a Friend Ditches You For a Guy

This week, we're discussing the most common friendship red flags that you guys submitted to me over on my Instagram, @margotexplainsitall. How should you handle a friend who ditches you for a guy, never initiates plans and isn't supportive? I'm here to break it all down. Special thanks to this week's sponsor TCS Telecom who is offering Kiss and Tel Aviv listeners 50% off when you select a bundle deal at tcsisrael.com.

Jun 30, 202232 min

Beige Flags: How to Tell if a Guy is Boring

We've all heard of red flags, but what about beige flags? We'll identify the key ways to tell if a guy is just plain BORING and get into some of the examples that are uniquely specific to Tel Aviv. Special shout out to @itscaito on TikTok for inspiring this episode.

May 26, 202231 min

How to Make Friends in Tel Aviv

In this episode, we'll discuss the best ways to make friends if you’re new to Tel Aviv or if you’ve been here for many years.

May 05, 202243 min

What to Do If You Get The Ick

In this episode, we're discussing the ICK —what it is, how you know you have it, my recent experience with it and if you can ever get rid of it once you've felt it. I also answer some questions from the audience on how to deal with friends who share or like Anti-Israel content on social media.

Apr 20, 202241 minEp. 31

Confessions of a Former "Pick Me" Girl

This week, we're breaking down the concept of a "pick me", what the term means, some classic examples of famous pick me's in movies and TV, signs you might me a "pick me" and even some VERY embarrassing examples of when I, myself acted like a pick me in the past. Warning, it's cringey AF.

Apr 07, 202250 min

Your Friends Are Ruining Your Dating Life

Your friends may have more than an impact on your dating life than you think. From the married friend who tells you you're too picky to the hot mess friend who you may have a codependent relationship with, we're going to break down how these dynamics may be sabotaging your chances at a healthy dating life (and what you can do to prevent that).

Mar 23, 202245 min

The Best and Worst Date Spots in Tel Aviv feat. @israelidelicious

We're joined by special guest, foodie, entrepreneur and spice dealer Kayla Berman aka @israelidelicious to discuss the absolute best and worst places to go on a date in Tel Aviv. We're breaking it all down from casual first dates, to intimate dinner spots and everything in between. Grab your notes app, press play and enjoy our comprehensive list. Thank us later! Don't forget to follow @israelidelicious and listen closely for a special giveaway halfway through the episode!...

Mar 09, 202238 min

Dating Fatigue: Why You Have It & How to Fix It

Do you feel an attitude of indifference, depression, hopelessness or exhaustion at the thought of going on yet another first date? Are you ready to throw in the towel on dating completely? We'll discuss the REAL reason why this happens and how you can find a way to make dating fun again. Plus, we'll answer some questions you guys submitted to me over on Instagram and cover some of my own Tinder updates.

Feb 23, 202235 min

Why Splitting the Check is Bullshit

We’re settling the great debate once and discussing why splitting the bill is nonsense. Plus we'll also dive into a few recent Tinder experiences I’ve had now that I’m swiping after a long hiatus.

Jan 27, 202226 min

I love condoms (the birth control episode).

Why do so many Israeli guys insist that they don’t need to wear condoms? How does birth control impact women’s physical and mental health? Why is there STILL no form of birth control for men? Why are condoms awesome? The answers to these and many more questions will be answered. Press play and find out now! Check out the study referenced in this week’s episode here .

Jan 06, 202249 min

Yes, Pete Davidson is hot and here's why.

In the last episode of 2021, we’ll discuss what’s known as the “hotness gap”, why it’s total bullshit and how society has a long way to go in terms of what we value in men versus women. Pete, if you're reading this, I love you.

Dec 30, 202128 min

Surviving Engagement Season: How to Be Happy Single

And just like that...engagement season is upon us. Whether you're single, in a relationship or even married, this time of year can stir up tons of feelings. This episode will serve as your survival guide and help you navigate the end of the year ick.

Dec 22, 202127 min

i blocked him.

This is the story. No outline, just me on the mic. (P.s. If I can do it, so can you. This is your sign to block him <3)

Dec 19, 202126 min

The Problem with Porn

In this episode, we have a very frank discussion about a topic that so many of us are too afraid to talk about, yet nearly all of us encounter in some form or another and that is PORN. Is it a healthy way to release tension or does it have a greater impact on our bodies, our society and our sex lives? We’re uncovering the truth and the real problem with porn. Links to studies and stats found in today’s episode: Mary Eberstadt and Mary Anne Layden, The Social Costs of Pornography: A Statement of ...

Nov 30, 202146 minSeason 2Ep. 20
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