Episode 60 - A little Q&A. In this episode we take a little break from the normal and spend some times going over a list of questions that got posted on a Facebook group. Sit back grab your pizza rolls and enjoy the conversation Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us out at Instagram @kinkyframeofmind • Instagram phot...
Apr 16, 2021•55 min•Ep. 60
Episode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer. In this episode we talk about not being a Debbie Downer. We all know one and know what its like when we see them. We talk about the different types of Debbie Downers. From the woe is me, to the over serious, the negative Nellie and so on. Then we talk a little why sometimes people act like this. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Li...
Apr 09, 2021•50 min•Ep. 59
Episode 58 - 9 questions to ask - In this episode we look at an article that popped up on a couple Facebook groups about questions to ask future partners or dates. It goes from hierarchy to are certain dates special to are certain acts and even how will other relationships effect us. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com Then Check us...
Apr 02, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 58
Episode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold In this episode we take a look at the difference in Hotwife play and Cuckold. We look at why people enjoy both of them and why they can be a benefit to your relationship, We talk about being educated and knowing terms when talking to people and if we dont know the importance of asking questions and finding mentors to show us and help us.
Mar 26, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 57
Episode 56- Do you have a Hall Pass In this episode we discuss how to ask people if they have a Hall Pass or play separate. Finding the best way for you to find out, is it asking upfront, watching them and seeing or paying attention to post on social media. Next we look at an email from a guy trying to control his partner to play more. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative ...
Mar 12, 2021•59 min•Ep. 56
Episode 55 - The Miami trip, in this episode we talk about out little get a way to Miami, we hung out this weekend with a lot of the AltPlayground Podcast family. we discuss our travel days and our great time there. We discuss the culture differences in Kansas and Miami lol. we got to meet the people from https://www.jetsurf.com/us/ it was fun to watch them. Sit back and enjoy our fun story Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Communit...
Mar 05, 2021•55 min•Ep. 55
Episode - 54: Which one of US is going to handle this - In this episode we discuss talk about some issues at a recent meet and greet, how a persons behaviors can set the tone and example. we also discuss having consent to do things. Then we discuss about a Facebook question on how we handle or who will handle issues when they come up with others. Have a plan on how things will go Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there ...
Feb 26, 2021•42 min•Ep. 54
Episode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!! Its our ONE YEAR!! In this Episode we have to email questions the first is about if stickers are ok on profile pics cause of work issues. We give our views and pointers on that. The next one is we look at a couple that has had a few issues in their path in the lifestyle with other couple and see if there is a common error Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merc...
Feb 20, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 53
episode 52 - switchy switch, welcome back to our fun show. In this episode we have a couple questions asked to us the first is about a sub that wants to become a switch for her partner, we share our views on switching. then we have a couple that has limited time to meet and we discus how they can make the best bang for their time. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at Shop Alternative Lifes...
Feb 12, 2021•45 min•Ep. 52
In this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is is about how do i not come so fast. So we look at techniques and things that can help you slow down on cumming, we discuss edging a little. We talk about the old joke of thinking BASEBALL. The second question is about what to do when one of the couples is done and what is your out plan, how long do you wait or what is the plan, we discuss thing we have heard and experienced as for how to get out of this or ending the playtime. Che...
Feb 05, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 51
Episode 50: Vanilla Friend play? Good or Bad? So we made it to Episode 50!! In this episode we have two messages we look at, the first is a common problem in the lifestyle how to handle a guy that is to touchy and how people can judge you if you stop him. So we discuss why we need to stop this behavior. what to do if this happens to you ann who we should tell. The second question hits a little closer to home, a guy messages and says he is interested in his friend playing with his wife and how it...
Jan 29, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 50
Episode 49- First play chaos. In this episode we discuss a message about a couples first attempt at solo play. So many rules and communication issues that we reflect on and share our views on what could have been done to prevent and help this situation. Also there was some maybe hidden agenda on the part of the date and his girlfriend. So we talk about hidden agendas and how they can ruin a great opportunity. Check out Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind AltPlayGround Its our site of choic...
Jan 22, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 49
Episode 48 - First date play ? In this episode Don talks about a few exciting upcoming things in their world. Then we look at some emails we got, first is playing on the first date or not? what your rules and how does it work for you. Then we get an email about how to tell someone its not working out. so we look at that and discuss ways but we also look at is their a reason this couple has a track record of only playing 2-3 times with couples Check out www.kinkyframeofmind.com www.altplayground....
Jan 15, 2021•49 min•Ep. 48
Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG. In this Episode we have a listener question about how to tell someone their penis is to BIG. Then we have a discussion about its a new year and a good time to review rules and goals. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinky...
Jan 08, 2021•55 min•Ep. 47
Episode 46 - end of year in this episode we look back at the last year and talk about the good and bad. then we also talk about how we are all part of the same group no matter where we fall in our play Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom...
Jan 01, 2021•39 min•Ep. 46
Episode 45 - Fair rules. In this episode we look at being fair on rules and keeping a balance. Also we discuss a question that came up on out Facebook group about numbers of partners. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom...
Dec 25, 2020•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 45
Episode 44 - Let's educate new people, in this episode Don goes on a rant about a post he saw on a site about someone getting mad when a new person questioned their dynamic. We talk about how to handle this type of interaction and how we need to help educate new people Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com...
Dec 18, 2020•55 min•Ep. 44
Episode 43 : Just not feeling it - In this episode we talk about a message we got about what to do when you are just not feeling it or feeling sexy. Then we have a question about what to do when the person just wants to talk sex all the time Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gma...
Dec 11, 2020•53 min•Ep. 43
Episode 42: how to get some interest - in this episode we talk about a question on how can i get people interested in me and we take a look at getting started in your rope journey Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom...
Dec 04, 2020•55 min•Ep. 42
Episode 41 - Don't Judge In this episode we talk about judging and assuming people on personality Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom...
Nov 26, 2020•46 min•Ep. 41
Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker Dude! in this episode we look at what is a deal breaker for you and what you can deal we, we both discuss our deal breakers and then we discuss a few answers we go on our Facebook group. Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don ...
Nov 19, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 40
Episode 39 - The hard Question - In this episode we look at a couple questions. The first is about what is ok messaging and how to ask what is ok. The second Question is probably one of the hardest to bring up when was you last STI test and do you have anything Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfo...
Nov 11, 2020•54 min•Ep. 39
Episode 38 - What Party do I go to? in this episode we talk about we are in the busy time of swinger parties Halloween to Mardi Gras is a busy time so many parties and options. We give you a few things to thing about when choosing what event to attend. What will increase your personal chances and enjoyment Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyfr...
Nov 05, 2020•51 min•Ep. 38
In this episode we take a look at age play, we look at different aspects of the kink Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom...
Oct 28, 2020•50 min•Ep. 37
Episode 36 -Quench that thirst. In this episode we discuss some do's and don'ts of meet and greets. We share incidents that happened at a recent meet and greet with us. Then we also take a look at what thirsty behavior is. What makes you appear to be thirsty Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom E...
Oct 20, 2020•53 min•Ep. 36
Episode 35: Breaking in. In this episode we look at an email question that ask about how to break into the scene and how to get invited to events. The the question also deals a little with body type issues so we jump into body shaming a little Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@g...
Oct 08, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 35
Episode 34: What's on your fuck it list In this episode we talk about stuff that makes up or give idea on what's on different peoples fuck it list. We also go into detail about some of our top items on our list Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Facebook Don Kinkyfom...
Sep 30, 2020•54 min•Ep. 34
Episode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension In this Episode discuss the importance of communication in our relationships, but not just how to communicate bit making sure our partner comprehends what we are saying that is the important part. We also discuss communication keyword or secrets words on dates. So we can know how the other is feeling during an outing Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchandise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out a...
Sep 23, 2020•56 min•Ep. 33
In this Episode discuss a couple topics, the first is coming to a party prepared and ready. We discuss pointer on coming to a BDSM party prepared and ready for a scene. In the second half we discuss how hard bottoms can be on themselves when a scene gets cut short or does not go good. altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitt...
Sep 15, 2020•53 min•Ep. 32
In this episode we discuss our favorite position and why we like them. We chat about asking this question on some Facebook groups and the odd answers we got. This the brings up the discussion of being an active and attentive partner Check out altplayground.net Its our site of choice join our Community on there Get all your merchendise at WWW.fullswapshop.com Then Check us out at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/ Twitter https://twitter.com/kinkyfom Email kinkyfom@gmail.com Fa...
Sep 10, 2020•1 hr•Ep. 31
