Each week we talk about an adult themed topic. This week we are talking about Puppy play 101 based on the article written for us by Emmeline Peaches . Rants Strictly come dancing star offended [4:21] Strictly come dancing star Susan Calman has said she is "offended" by the row over her dance partner on the show. The openly lesbian comedian has faced critisim online for agreeing to dance with a male partner. She also notes she is getting a lot more critisim than the fellow competitor The Reverend...
Sep 16, 2017•46 min•Season 2Ep. 37
As I was walking my dog today I realized why observing him brought me so much joy. Dogs are carefree, adventurous, curious, and high-spirited. They are, in every sense of the word, boundless, and they live their life in the moment and to the fullest. Yet, although dogs may also enjoy independent exploration of the world they also happen to be loving, dedicated, and sweetly submissive. Who wouldn’t want to bring at least some of these traits into their sub/dom dynamic? What Is Puppy Play? To give...
Sep 12, 2017•7 min•Season 2Ep. 37
This week we are talking about our article Sex blogging: Why gender makes absolutely no difference written by Innocent Lovetboy . Big thanks Big thanks to Hot Octopus for putting us on their top sex podcasts list Rants John Lewis scraps 'boys' and 'girls' clothing As one of the leading UK department stores John Lewis has taken the surprising step of getting rid of gendered clothing. Their own lines will now no longer be aimed at a specific gender. Read more School students take on homophobic Bis...
Sep 09, 2017•40 min•Season 2Ep. 36
Let's address this issue without flinching. Despite what the media try to tell you there are undoubtedly some amazing male sex bloggers out there. They may be harder to find - or slightly lower in profile - than some of the female big hitters, but they are there. There are lists made, posts written, and networking at events, and you only need to do a quick Google search to find a male blogger. However this is my tenth year of writing a sex blog. When I started, I was one of about two boy blogger...
Sep 05, 2017•6 min•Season 2Ep. 36
This week we are talking about the article from our blog called " Sex Invisible " by KD Grace . Rants Donald Trump officially bans transgender people from the military [3.10] Donald Trump officially instructs the US Military to stop accepting transgender troops into service. Read more Far right leader Pauline Hanson wants a public vote on abbing the Burqa in Austrailia [9.15] To go along with a public vote on whether the country should allow gay marrage, they also want to ask if the public wants...
Sep 03, 2017•41 min•Season 2Ep. 35
In the age of pixels and videos, airbrushed ads and billboards, sex sells, but only glamourous sex, only the sex of youth and beauty. Let’s be honest, we live in a world where no one wants to see ‘mature sex.’ In fact, in our visually oriented lives, sex and age are not words that compliment each other. Sex between people over forty is something best kept out of sight, out of mind. When viewing scantily clothed people, we want them to be attractive. When reading a sexy novel, the characters we s...
Aug 30, 2017•7 min•Season 2Ep. 35
This week we are talking about Asexuality and Kink based on the article written by The Pagist . If you have not read it you can listen to it here on the podcast or read the article. Last week we made a little mistake. We said it was all quiet and there was little to report. Just as the Nazi's came out in Charlottesville. We recorded that episode a bit earlier than normal so we could go to a super secret meeting that weekend. Out hearts go out to the victoms in Charlottesville and Barcelona. We w...
Aug 24, 2017•35 min•Season 2Ep. 34
I’ve previously written here about some of the questions asexuals receive about our sexuality (or lack thereof). One I didn’t cover was the responses we receive when we come out as kinky. Kinksters are generally considered to be people with a PhD in sex, so it’s understandable that when the average person finds out someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction is kinky it would cause gears to grind to a halt in their head and the words: ‘But, I thought you were asexual?’ to come flying out of...
Aug 21, 2017•7 min•Season 2Ep. 34
This week we are talking about Body Positivity based on Candy Snatch's article (listen to the previous episode to hear the audio version). It is something we all encounter every day. For some it is a non-issue, they are at ease with who they are. But for many feeling positive about their own body is something they find hard to do.
Aug 20, 2017•35 min•Season 2Ep. 33
This week CandySnatch has written an article about body positivity and what it means to her. Why you need to stop being so critical of how you look and concentrate on how you feel. You might be able to control how you look, you might not. But it doesn't define who you are, you get to decide that.
Aug 16, 2017•6 min•Season 2Ep. 32
This week we are doing something a little different. We have two very special guests: Kayla Lords and John Brownston from the amazing LovingBDSM podcast . We are talking about this weeks article on protectors . Are protectors a good thing? A lot of people coming into the kinky scene (female subs especially) can think it is a good idea to have someone look after them. There are plenty in the scene who are willing to help them. But are they really doing it for the right reasons and is it really he...
Aug 11, 2017•41 min•Season 2Ep. 32
This is the reading of this weeks article "Proctors" by Zak Jane Keir.
Aug 09, 2017•7 min•Season 2Ep. 31
This week we are talking about our article Colour my kink written by Emmeline Peaches . Colour can have such a huge affect on your mood, so getting it right is very important. This week we are also sticking to the new format of 30 minutes. Keeping it trimmed down as much as possible but that doesn't mean we don't have time for some rants. Rants Little Shop of Horrors is being remade There are a few films that I think should never be touched. Among them is the musical version of Little Shop of Ho...
Aug 03, 2017•30 min•Season 2Ep. 31
Colour has a huge affect on how you feel, but you don't always notice it.
Aug 01, 2017•7 min•Season 2Ep. 31
This week we are talking about Sex on film. From this weeks blog post by LadyLaidBear. We are trying something new this week, we are going to keep the length of the episode down to around 30 minutes. Mainly in an attempt to stop Andrew rambling on for ever. Let us know what you think. Rants These State Attorneys Are Demanding Betsy DeVos Keep Campus Rape Rules In Place Taxpayers on the hook for Kim Davis legal battle after judge rules she doesn’t have to pay Tories to update transgender laws fol...
Jul 31, 2017•37 min•Season 2Ep. 29
Ever wanted to go to a munch but just don't know where to start or if it's even for you? This week we are talking all about them, what they are, and why you need to check one out. Rants Activity Mommy Buring Teen Vogue US Porn producers can now be sued for harm to minors Jeff Sessions Parallels Anti-LGBTQ Campaigns to the Work of Martin Luther King, Jr. Judge tosses conviction for activist who laughed at Sessions Police Shoot Unarmed Batman Cosplayers at Australian Sex Party Man Arrested for All...
Jul 29, 2017•51 min•Season 2Ep. 28
This week we are talking about how to manage end of life care for people who want to be intimate. Based on the article from our blog written by Jetsetting Jasmine. If you find this a difficult subject then I would suggest you don't listen. Rants London Pride Week Mayor of London Sadiq Khan condemns Donald Trump for not recognising LGBT people at Pride in London Church of England to vote on transgender services Tans boy sues school distrct after being denied bathroom rights Germany's upper house ...
Jul 15, 2017•47 min
What are your rights? Is being allowed to enjoy your kinks one of those rights? Surprisingly the answer to these questions isn't clear. Here in the UK you can not agree to assult, and of course spanking someone is a form of assult. So technically you can never agree to it, and the one doing the spanking can be prosecuted. This week we are talking about the article written for us by Kayla Lords . Kayla writes about BDSM and other sexy matters, and has her own podcast Loving BDSM that is well wort...
Jul 07, 2017•54 min
Notes coming soon
Jun 29, 2017•49 min
This week we are talking about our article by Victoria Blisse called Kink & Religion . Rants Grenfell Tower This week we have to talk about the tragedy that is Grenfell tower. How it is possible for the refurbished tower block can go up in flames like it did with so many lives lost is totally beyond us, and shouldn't have happened. Our thoughts go out to all the families affected. Amazon doesn't want you looking up the price of books on Amazon [12:08] Amazon has filed for a patent that would...
Jun 23, 2017•59 min
This week we need to appologise a little as we missed last weeks episode. Technical problems abound and it just wasn't going to happen. This week there is still technical issued going on but we did at least get the episode out. Political Warning We do get a little ranty on politics this week. Not a huge surprise considering the attacks and the general election we have just had. If that isn't your thing then I'm sorry about that but we just can't seem to let it go. Book Recommendation Chav: The d...
Jun 16, 2017•59 min
Show notes coming
Jun 01, 2017•43 min
This week we are talking about Asexuality based on the article written for us by The Pageiest . Rants Caitlyn Jenner suffers transphobic abuse [0:50] While coming out of an award ceremony where Caitlyn had been awared the Loud and Proud trophy following her transistion last year, she was abused by some thug in London. Fortunately the police are taking it seriously. Find out more Theresa May wants to control and regulate the Internet [3:08] The Conservative Manifesto lays out the plan for the gov...
May 25, 2017•38 min
This week we are talking about our article called "Why you need Kinky Friends written" by Emmeline Peaches . Did you know we have been doing this for a year I quickly went back and looked over what we have done and it turns out the podcast is over a year old.. and we managed to get to this point without missing any episodes. Which is a huge shock to me. If you have been listening for a year, thank you. Rants Stephen Fry in trouble with Irish police for Blasphemy [4:15] The police in Ireland are ...
May 19, 2017•49 min
This week we are joined by the amazing Candy Snatch as we talk about why plus size latex is important . Sorry if the sound quality isn't up to our normal standards, we did this in the car just after our photo shoot so not in the normal studio. Rants Trumps latest health secretary pick thinks IUDs kill babies [1.54] Trumps newest appointment thinks that IUDs actually kill babies in the womb and has the backing of various groups known for their anti-LGBT stance. Yoest has also said that she believ...
May 12, 2017•54 min
This week we are talking about the article written for us by Candy Snatch on Plus size fashion woes . The idea of a "plus size" isn't one we really like when everyone of size 16 or above is classed as "plus size" when that actually covers 47% of the population. Rants Isle of Wight MP steps down after calling gay people "dangerous" [4:14] Andrew Turner the MP for the Isle of Wight has stepped down after talking to a group of students and telling them that he thought homosexuality is "wrong" and "...
May 04, 2017•1 hr 2 min
Anxiety at Events This week we are talking about anxiety and events. Based on the post written for us by Princess of Kink . Anxiety is something that affects a lot of people but everyone tends to feel they are alone in it, when really everyone in the room and be feeling it some extent. Rants Cornwall Teen Disciplined for Extreme Hair Style [2:02] A teenager in Cornwall is being forced to study on his own after he had his head shaved to support his friend who has cancer. Normally this is somethin...
Apr 28, 2017•59 min
This week we are talking about our article on Couples with Depression written by Princess of Kink . In case you didn't know there was a hurricane in New Zealand (Pixie's homeland) but fortunately it mostly missed the land and everyone was OK. But before we go into that there are a couple of rants. We got screwed on something [3:13] We have been working on latex clothing for going on for a year, it is a labour of love for us. But it isn't kinky, it isn't about sex. It is about great looking fashi...
Apr 20, 2017•45 min
Show notes coming soon
Apr 14, 2017•1 hr 5 min
This week we are talking about our post on Sex and Depression written by Jillian Boyd . It is a very important subject and while it can be tough it is something we need to talk about. Check out the fantastic story of an Alabama drive in owner who refused to show Beauty and the Beast because of a gay character, but was going to show a film about Drag Queens - Thanks CallMeCara. Rants Man in makeup charged with a felony [2:50] A man is being held on a bond for doing nothing more than wearing Joker...
Apr 06, 2017•1 hr 3 min
