Keeping in with the Spiritual Intimacy theme, Alana had the pleasure of interviewing Aaron and Jennifer Smith! Authors of The Marriage Gift, Aaron and Jennifer chat about their journey of spiritual intimacy and prayer and how intimate but necessary it is. Check out their website here! Find them on IG here! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebo...
Oct 25, 2023•45 min•Season 8Ep. 4
A successful marriage involves more than just two individuals; it’s a partnership with each other and with God. This partnership is fortified through prayer! So join Alana, Tiera, and Kyle as they discuss the importance of prayer in a Christian marriage! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want t...
Oct 16, 2023•30 min•Season 8Ep. 3
Attending church together is a priority for many couples, and is an important one. But how else can you up your spiritual intimacy? Join the KS Team as they dive into really practical ways that you can have more spiritual intimacy in your marriage! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR revi...
Oct 09, 2023•38 min•Season 8Ep. 2
Spiritual intimacy is one of the most important, yet least talked about, aspects of marital health! Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what spiritual intimacy is, what is a Christ-centered marriage, and what roadblocks try to keep couples from cultivating this in their marriage. Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of November is all about Spiritual Intimacy! Don't wait!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon...
Oct 02, 2023•34 min•Season 8Ep. 1
Trigger warning: the KS team talks about miscarriage during this episode and wanted to disclose that and send love to those who have experienced loss or those currently going through it. Shout out to the patrons who chose this weeks episode! Want to become a patron and get all the sweet perks? Tap here! This episode is a tough one, but one that's been requested for a long time. Praying that it's helpful in whatever you've walked through, or can help in the future. Want more from Kingdom Sexualit...
Sep 25, 2023•36 min•Season 7Ep. 32
You asked and they answered!! Alana, Tiera, and Kyle answer an assortment of questions sent in by YOU, their listeners and followers! You won't want to miss it! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 18, 2023•27 min•Season 7Ep. 31
Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Been itching to hear more of our thoughts on the topic of sex toys?? Then this is the episode for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the topic more in depth and build off of last weeks episode. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad ch...
Sep 11, 2023•37 min•Season 7Ep. 30
Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! The KS Team is going through the Do's and Don'ts of Sex Toys in this part 1 of the 2 part series! The goal of this series is not to persuade you to use toys, or shame you out of using them, but rather to educate on both sides! Links from today's episode: Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more from King...
Sep 04, 2023•23 min•Season 7Ep. 29
Flirting seems to be so important at the beginning of a relationship- pursuing one another, heightened excitement, and so much passion! But once we get married some of that starts to change, tune into the episode to hear why and how to get the fun and passion back! Links from today's episode: The Flirtation Experiment Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adch...
Aug 29, 2023•24 min•Season 7Ep. 28
The KS Team has an exciting announcement... they're releasing a brand new MEMBERSHIP!! You'll hear all about it in this episode where Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go over all of the exciting perks that will be fun for you and your spouse AND will increase connection! Want to join the club?? https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/uniteandignite Use the code UIEARLYBIRDPODCAST and get 20% off during the early bird window! We can't wait for you to join!! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out!...
Aug 21, 2023•26 min•Season 7Ep. 27
Want to get to know the KS Team better? They put a questions box over on Instagram asking "what are some things you assume about us, individually and as a team?". So in this hilarious episode Kyle's wife, Samantha, presents the assumptions to each team member and they share whether or not it's accurate or not! This episode is a hoot, so tune in! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/ad...
Aug 14, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Season 7Ep. 26
Is pain during sex normal? What is vaginismus? How can husbands support their wives in this journey? Alana and Tiera chat with Jessica Seitz and they blast through those those questions and more in this incredible interview! Jessica's Instagram: @painfree.intimacy Jessica's website: painfreeintimacy.com Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Aug 07, 2023•39 min•Season 7Ep. 25
Shout out to our incredible Patrons who picked this weeks topic!! If you're interested in becoming a patron or learning more about Patreon go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality! Ever wondered how to go about sending spicy text messages to your spouse?? Curious what to say, or if there's a secure place to even do that? Tune into the episode to find out!! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Spice It Up FREEBIE! Opposites: Location Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram F...
Jul 31, 2023•43 min•Season 7Ep. 24
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedroom, you're going to want to tune into this episode! Shout out to our incredible Patron's who chose ...
Jul 24, 2023•35 min•Season 7Ep. 23
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Jul 17, 2023•33 min•Season 7Ep. 22
The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!! Links from today's episode: ONE Extraordinary Marriage Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jul 10, 2023•44 min•Season 7Ep. 21
Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to get $50 off any package! - TempDrop Fertility Tracker Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want...
Jul 03, 2023•33 min•Season 7Ep. 23
Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn...
Jun 26, 2023•38 min•Season 7Ep. 22
Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana did with Kim and Darlene Unrau. Combining all of the training these two have creates this incredible Jesus-loving, marriage-equipping, and very wise couple! So tune in and enjoy the wealth of knowledge that Ki...
Jun 19, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Season 7Ep. 21
Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Canada, answers all of these questions and more! Kyle and Alana bring the questions that YOU ask...
Jun 12, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 7Ep. 20
You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview with Unrelenting Pursuit!! In this episode, Alana and Tiera sit down with Brad and Lisa Valencia and explore the intricacies of affairs and their impact on relationships. Brad and Lisa share their story and then they discuss what constitutes an affair and the difference between emotional and physical affairs. The concept of "affair-proofing" a marriage is debated, along with thoughts on friendships with the opposite sex and whether porn ...
Jun 05, 2023•52 min•Season 7Ep. 19
Shout out to our lovely patrons who decided on this week's podcast episode topic! Want to know more about Patreon? Check it out here! In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are in the room and learn how to spark desire even when you're utterly exhausted. They also tackle the aw...
May 29, 2023•37 min•Season 7Ep. 18
Join the KS Team as they explore the challenges faced by newlywed couples in navigating changing family dynamics and dealing with finances in this new season. They discuss the concept of "leaving and cleaving," highlighting three important aspects: financial leaving, emotional leaving, and spiritual leaving. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle also emphasize the importance of open communication and setting boundaries with families, while maintaining empathy and understanding. Additionally, the Team provide i...
May 22, 2023•37 min•Season 7Ep. 17
Engagement is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful and confusing. Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about advice they DID receive during their own seasons of engagement and advice they WISH they had gotten while they were engaged. Some tips they shared were; when it comes to sex, take your time and learn each other's anatomy, find trusted mentors to help keep you accountable during dating and engagement, have conversations about "sexpectations" before AND after the wedding, get good premarit...
May 15, 2023•33 min•Season 7Ep. 16
In this episode, the KS Team has some very special guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating!! They discuss the challenges and joys of singleness and dating in today's world, particularly from a Christian perspective. Kait and JJ share their own experiences and insights on a variety of topics, including: What does the dating world look like today, and what are the biggest challenges facing Christian singles? Navigating talking about sexual history when dating someone who's had previous rel...
May 08, 2023•47 min•Season 7Ep. 15
Listened to our other orgasm series episodes but still had questions? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go through questions that you guys, those who did the Orgasm Survey, asked! They answer questions like: How do I tell my husband when I didn't have an orgasm? What's the best way to learn to orgasm the same time as my wife? Why do some orgasms feel better than others? Can some only orgasm with a vibrator? If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's...
May 01, 2023•32 min•Season 7Ep. 14
Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! If you're looking for a sure fire way to have multiple orgasms every time you're intimate with your spouse... the KS Team is sorry to disappoint. In this episode, Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about the mythical creature of multiple orgasms and whether it's really possible to achieve. They reveal the results of a survey they conducted and they also talk about the role of cer...
Apr 24, 2023•38 min•Season 7Ep. 13
Have you listened to part one of the Orgasm Series yet?? If not, the team highly recommends you check it out before listening to this one! In this episode Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about many of things they skipped over in the first episode. Things like, practically, what are the first steps when it comes to having an orgasm? Does using toys have an impact on my ability to orgasm with my spouse? And they also go through what YOU, those who did the orgasm survey, found helpful when it came to f...
Apr 17, 2023•1 hr 12 min•Season 7Ep. 12
*unfortunately Alana's audio isn't great in this episode, we're sorry about that!!* It's the series that SO many of you have been waiting for! Alana, Kyle, & Tiera go in depth into what an orgasm is, some of the statistics from our orgasm survey, what kind of orgasms there are, and what YOU say they feel like! This is the first part of our series, so if there are things we didn't cover in this episode, just wait! It might be coming!! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality ...
Apr 10, 2023•48 min•Season 7Ep. 11
It seems like couples are either very pro shower sex, or anti-shower sex, which one are you?? Tune into this hilarious episode as Alana, Tiera, and Kyle share the pros and cons of shower sex, what lube to use, and positions that make it easier!! If you and your spouse don't actually shower together yet, that's a great place to start when it comes to this! Schedule a time to just be in the shower together! Then, as you get more comfortable, try something new! Shower sex can be a really fun way to...
Apr 03, 2023•25 min•Season 7Ep. 10
