In this episode, the KS team is talking to the husbands who have a naturally lower sex drive, and reminding you that you’re not broken or less of a man. They unpack what healthy intimacy can look like when desire is different, and how to navigate it with confidence, communication, and grace. This one’s full of encouragement for both husbands and wives. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: The Higher Drive Wife Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire Join Unite & Ignite Wa...
Jun 30, 2025•25 min•Season 11Ep. 23
We asked, you delivered! This Q&A episode is packed with your honest, hilarious, and heartfelt questions! From postpartum libido surprises and navigating temptation at work, to “Titty Pic Tuesday,” pool sex, and more, we’re diving into it all. Whether you're single, newly married, or deep in the thick of it, there's something in here for you. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Prioritizing Intimacy Episode Becoming Something Podcast 130: Our Heart of Dating episode He...
Jun 23, 2025•39 min•Season 11Ep. 22
Is intimacy falling to the bottom of your to-do list? In this episode, we’re diving into why connection in the bedroom actually matters- and how to make it happen (even when life is bonkers). From flirty fun to scheduling sex without the cringe, we’re sharing real talk, roadblock check-ins, and ideas to bring the spark back. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Beating 50 Percent - code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! MyCounselorOnline - You get $25 off your first month when ...
Jun 16, 2025•36 min•Season 11Ep. 21
Huge thank you to Dwell who sponsored today’s episode! To get the Dwell Bible App go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get 25% off today!! Can music really enhance your sex life? Do Christians listen to music while having sex?? Whether you're team silence, slow jams, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you tune into deeper connection with your spouse! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Worst Songs To Have Sex To- Spotify playlist Dwell Bible App (use our link ...
Jun 09, 2025•32 min•Season 11Ep. 20
Special shout out to our lovely patron's for choosing this weeks episode topic! Become a patron today! Chocolate, oysters, and… cobra blood?! We’re diving into the weird, wild world of aphrodisiacs- what works, what’s myth, and what God actually designed to boost desire. Tune in for laughs, science, and some spicy truth! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Grou...
Jun 02, 2025•32 min•Season 11Ep. 19
Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can bring freedom, connection, and growth in your marriage and friendships!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Pa...
May 26, 2025•39 min•Season 11Ep. 18
Are there things Christian couples shouldn’t do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passionate and God-honoring. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Oral Sex episodes Episode 147: DOs & DON'Ts of Sex Toys Episode 148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys gotquest...
May 19, 2025•47 min•Season 11Ep. 17
Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers those questions- and more! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: 6 Pillars Of Intimacy Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group ...
May 12, 2025•37 min•Season 11Ep. 16
What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we’re sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and savor intimacy the way God designed! Get ready for practical ideas you’ll actually want to try. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Mentionables: code KINGDOM for 10% off Anatomy Of Us- Makin’ Sex Tapes Intimately Us App Evree: use the code KINGDOM for 10% o...
May 05, 2025•35 min•Season 11Ep. 15
Pornography isn’t just a “men’s issue”- and it’s time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christian woman. We’re diving into the stats, the shame, and the silent struggle so many women face- especially in the church. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: SheRecovery website She Recovery Instagram 90 Days to Wholeness Unwanted by Jay Stringer No Stones by ...
Apr 28, 2025•45 min•Season 11Ep. 14
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show! This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement. 2:50 ...
Apr 21, 2025•56 min•Season 11Ep. 13
Huge thank you to Dwell for sponsoring today's episode! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off! Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We’ll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom, and share practical ways to step into healing and grace in your marriage. Watch the epis...
Apr 14, 2025•34 min•Season 11Ep. 12
Feeling like the only wife who wants sex more than her husband? You’re not broken - and you’re not alone. In this episode, the KS team dives deep into the heart of the higher drive wife: the identity struggles, the church silence, and the ache of rejection. We’re breaking the silence, offering real tools, and reminding you that your desire is not shameful - it’s sacred. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Figuring Out What I Like Guide Responsive vs Spontaneous (episode 17...
Apr 07, 2025•32 min•Season 11Ep. 11
Big thank you to Evree for sponsoring today's episode! Use the code KINGDOM10 to get it for 10% off! Want to keep things smooth in the bedroom? 😉 In this episode of the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast, we’re diving into the world of lubrication—both the natural kind and the many options available to enhance intimacy! From the science behind your body’s built-in moisture to the best lubes for different situations (yes, even in the shower! 🚿🔥), we’re covering it all. Whether you’re looking for more c...
Mar 31, 2025•53 min•Season 11Ep. 10
Wanting to take your intimate life to the next level? Or curious as to what else you and your spouse could do to add some extra spice and fun into the bedroom? In this episode, we will break down several things you can do in your sex life whether you find yourself in the beginner, intermediate, or advanced stage of intimacy! Tune in now! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Episode 221: Fundamentals Of Healthy Sexuality Awaken Love 31 Nights of Intimacy Dwell app KS Shop Fi...
Mar 24, 2025•55 min•Season 11Ep. 9
We love recording Q&A's and you seem to love listening to them! If you have a question, email it to us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com and we’ll aim to answer it in our next Q&A! Links from today’s episode: Betrayal Trauma (Episode 206) “My Husband Was Addicted To Porn” (Episode 96) “The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me” (Episode 97) Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It? (Episode 218) My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Marrie...
Mar 17, 2025•45 min•Season 11Ep. 8
You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now! Links from today’s episode: My Counselor Online (You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!) Unite & Ignite membership KS Shop 180: Pregnancy and Postpartum Q&A She Comes First Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! (Oralicious was mentioned in this episode) Covenant Spice Passionista Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom ...
Mar 10, 2025•30 min•Season 11Ep. 7
What does being a sexually confident Christian look like? And HOW do you become one?? Tune in now to hear the KS team chat about it! Links from today’s episode: Figuring Out What I Like Guide KS Shop Intimately Us app Heated Mattress Pad Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad ch...
Mar 03, 2025•43 min•Season 11Ep. 6
In a bit of a sexual slump? Not sure how to navigate it? We've all been there. Tune in as the KS team gives some practical tips for getting out of the slump and into the hump! Links from today’s episode: 30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook 30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook Better Help My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you use our link!) Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group ...
Feb 24, 2025•42 min•Season 11Ep. 5
Tune in to hear the KS team tackle some big questions around selflessness- questions like: What does selflessness actually look like in the bedroom? How do I bring up the need for more selflessness without offending my spouse? and I’m already exhausted—how can I be selfless when I have nothing left to give? Links from today’s episode: Subscribe here! Keeping Score Episode Intimacy with Small Kids episode Resetting Your Mindset episode Awaken Love book Intimately Us App The Flirtation Experiment ...
Feb 17, 2025•42 min•Season 11Ep. 4
How do God and sex mesh?! How can incorporating the Lord into EVERY area of our life actually make any difference? Tune in as Tiera and Alana chat about how God didn't design sex on accident and give you practical tips that will change your intimate life! Links from today’s episode: That Sounds Fun Network Website Awaken Love 30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook 30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook KS Shop Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagr...
Feb 10, 2025•40 min•Season 11Ep. 3
Is your sex life moving forward or backwards? Maybe it's time to go back to the basics! Tune in as the KS team shares some VERY exciting news at the beginning of this episode and tackles the fundamentals of a healthy sex life. Shout out to our incredible Patron's for choosing today's episode! Links from today’s episode: That Sounds Fun Network Website My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you sign up using our link!) Episode 189 with Josh Spurlock (Founder of My Counselor Online) Episode 192 wit...
Feb 03, 2025•40 min•Season 11Ep. 2
It's time to get back to the basics as the KS team dives into The Sex Fundamentals! We'll be covering so many great topics- the taboo ones, the curious ones, and the ones no one will talk about. Join us as we cover things like sexual confidence, how the topic of God and sex mesh, getting out of slumps, and more! Welcome to the Kingdom Sexuality podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 29, 2025•39 sec•Season 11Ep. 1
Curious how Kingdom Sexuality began? What about their stories brought the team together? And what does the future hold? Listen to the end to hear some exciting news! Links from today’s episode: Blog post about KS boundaries KS Shop Starting Life Together Guide Unite & Ignite Episode 206 with Dr. Dave Currie Kyle’s Sextimony My Husband Was Addicted To Porn part 1 The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me part 2 That Sounds Fun Network Website Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom S...
Jan 27, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 10Ep. 7
Don't miss our first Q&A of the New Year! It started out as a "throwback" Q&A with Kyle and Alana then Tiera joined in part-way through! The team answers questions like "How do I serve my husband when my desire is low?" and "How often should couples be having sex each week?"- you won't want to miss it! Links from today’s episode: Interview with Josh Spurlock My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Better Help Counseling Engagement Guide Weddin...
Jan 20, 2025•32 min•Season 10Ep. 6
Tune into this very special episode where Kyle and his wife Samantha chat about the sex fast they did a few years ago. Was it helpful? Would they do it again? Listen now! Links from today’s episode: Kyle’s Sextimony (Episode 94) "My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part 1 (Episode 96) "The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part 2 (Episode 97) Jay Stringer’s Book: Unwanted 6 Pillars of Intimacy Book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instag...
Jan 13, 2025•38 min•Season 10Ep. 5
To wrap or not to wrap- that is the question! Tune into this funny, informative, and light-hearted episode where Tiera educates Alana and Kyle on the ins and outs of condom use! Links from today’s episode: Tiera’s Fertility Page: use the code KSFOLLOWER for a discount! Nixit Condoms: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off SKYN Condoms Let’s Get Checked!: code KINGDOM for 25% off Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram ...
Jan 06, 2025•28 min•Season 10Ep. 4
We often create individual goals for ourselves but do we make marriage/intimacy goals as a couple? Tune in to hear some practical goals you can implement this new year! Links from today’s episode: Dwellbible.com/kingdom Marriage Resolution Guide Intimately Us App Better Help My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Amazon Shop Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram ...
Dec 30, 2024•22 min•Season 10Ep. 3
Tune in as we tackle Christmas/intimacy/marriage questions that YOU sent in! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas, from the KS team! Question Time Stamps: 2:22 I want to have sex in my childhood bedroom while visiting my parents. My husband thinks it’ll be weird to have sex in my parents home. Is it really that weird? 5:27 What are some fun intimacy gifts? 8:01 Are lingerie sets good to buy as gifts? 9:58 What is the best place to put mistletoe? 12:20 How to prioritize my husband w...
Dec 23, 2024•31 min•Season 10Ep. 2
Tune into this repeat episode as Kyle and Alana chat about ways to make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team!! Praying this Christmas is filled with love, joy, and Jesus. Links from today's episode: Come As You Are book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group...
Dec 16, 2024•23 min•Season 10Ep. 1
