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Kinda Dating

Natasha Chandelwww.kindadating.com
Because who says they're in a relationship anymore? In each episode, comedian and dating expert, Natasha Chandel, along with cool guests break down the dating world and try to answer the proverbial question: why the fuck do we all have commitment issues?! Get ready for honest and insightful discussions, hilarious personal stories, and a refreshing, PRACTICAL take on dating, love, and commitment that applies to everyone whether you’re single, married, or figuring it out. Listen to the most diverse array of guests get super real -- ranging from New York Times best-selling authors like Mark Manson to global comedy sensations like Russell Peters. Our episodes feature expert therapists, seasoned dating coaches, actors, musicians, influencers, Showrunners, and even Natasha’s parents and exes spill the tea! This is NOT your typical dating podcast. Kinda Dating is a lighthearted podcast that often gets deep. So let us help you “get it in.” Errr… find love!
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Episodes

Letting Go of the Ghosts of Relationships Past

Holiday season has begun, which means it’s the season of the ghosts of past, present, and future. Today, Natasha Chandel and Rithu Jagannath (writer, producer, podcaster) discuss the ghosts of their past, and how they have kept them there in order to invite a more positive future. They share practical tips on how to let go, including setting boundaries on social media, reframing your story, to the role of acceptance. They also shed light on the real meaning of forgiveness (it might not be what y...

Dec 19, 20231 hr

Jack Selby: These Are Real Dating Dealbreakers

“That’s a dealbreaker.” It might be one of the most overused phrases in dating. Jack Selby (co-host of Iced Coffee Hour podcast) joins Natasha Chandel for a candid discussion on their annoyance with that phrase, and what truly qualifies as a dealbreaker, as opposed to preferences. They get super real about what men consider dealbreakers versus women, the role of age in determining them, and how to know if you’ve found “The One.” The pair challenge each other’s beliefs in this fun but raw, honest...

Dec 12, 20231 hr 3 min

Thais Gibson: Mastering Your Emotions

Emotions are at the core of all relationships, but sometimes we are blinded by them. Thais Gibson (author and founder of the Personal Development School) is back with Natasha Chandel to help us understand our emotions. Why do we get emotional in certain areas of our lives versus others? What is the fine line between mastering your emotions and being unemotional? Is anger always a bad thing? She helps us see our emotions as information and transform its role in our dating lives in this wonderful ...

Dec 05, 202343 min

Thais Gibson: How Integrated Attachment Theory Heals Core Wounds

We’ve all got a core wound that’s eating away at us, and our quality of life. Thais Gibson (author and founder of the Personal Development School) sits down with Natasha Chandel and explains how her Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory helps bridge the gap between your attachment style and your subconscious belief patterns. She breaks down how the different attachment styles present themselves in relationships, why we are secure in some areas of our lives and totally insecure in the dating world,...

Nov 28, 20231 hr 7 min

BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!!! Does Everything Happen for a Reason?!

In this special Thanksgiving episode, Natasha Chandel drops some bombshell news! She makes a life-changing announcement and brings on two of her best friends - Aisha Holden and childhood BFF Diya Dadlani - to talk about the events that led to the moment no one saw coming. They discuss the importance of being grateful for your past (even those f-boy exes), the journey to self-empowerment and the blessings it can lead to, and they ask themselves: is it destiny or free will controlling our lives? O...

Nov 21, 202357 min

Allison Raskin: Navigating Relationships and Your Mental Health

Dating can be anxiety-inducing for the best of us, let alone if you live with mental health issues. Allison Raskin, mental health advocate and author of “Overthinking About You: Navigating Romantic Relationships When You Have Anxiety, OCD, and/or Depression” sits with Natasha Chandel to share her experience navigating dating and eventually marriage while having OCD. She talks about when to bring up your mental health issues on a date, how to talk to your partner about your needs, and even shares...

Nov 14, 202346 min

Ali Rosen: Are Second Chances Worth It?

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are the poster children of second chance romance, but are they the exception or the rule? Ali Rosen (rom-com author of “Recipe for Second Chances”) and Natasha Chandel explore love’s do-overs. How can couples ensure they don’t repeat the same mistakes? What is the role of forgiveness when giving someone a second chance? And when should you just let go? Ali and Natasha share a great rapport in another informative episode of Kinda Dating! → Book a 1:1 Coaching with N...

Nov 07, 20231 hr 3 min

Why You're Getting Ghosted

You thought you had a great date, y’all have been texting it up, then suddenly the person disappears! WTF?! Happiness coach, Rob Mack, and author of “Happiness From The Inside Out” joins Natasha Chandel in shedding light on the real reasons why someone ghosts and how to manage the inevitable disappointment. That said, is there ever a good reason to ghost someone? → Book a 1:1 Coaching with Natasha or optimize your dating profile with PROFILE BOOSTER! Learn more here! ← → Watch video clips from t...

Oct 31, 202345 min

Rushi Kota: Asian Men are Hotties!

Asian men have traditionally been overlooked in the dating world but no more! “Grey’s Anatomy” and “Ne withver Have I Ever” actor, Rushi Kota, returns to Kinda Dating to chat Natasha Chandel about new narratives and positive representation of Asian men in media that is trickling down into dating norms. They discuss controversial topics like the algorithmic failure of dating apps, the perception of masculinity, the idolization of Eurocentric features, and how film/TV has evolved, putting Asian an...

Oct 24, 202346 min

Rushi Kota: How to Manage Temptation

Temptation is a real dating challenge in today’s online world. “Never Have I Ever” actor, Rushi Kota, joins Natasha Chandel to share his personal experiences after gaining fame from the hit Netflix show, and shares strategies of how to manage temptation when in a relationship. They discuss the fine line of healthy flirting, why resisting temptation could be setting you up for failure, and communicating your feelings with your partner. Is it a normal part of relationships or is it indicative of a...

Oct 17, 20231 hr 8 min

Identifying and Changing Your Limiting Beliefs

It’s time to explore the power of belief. Psychoanalyst and podcast, Talia Bombola, returns with Natasha Chandel to help us uncover and transform the most prevalent limiting beliefs in dating. They discuss why we have them, and share practical strategies to overcome self-doubt and negative self-talk, paving the way to happiness, in this eye-opening new episode of Kinda Dating! → Book a 1:1 Coaching with Natasha or optimize your dating profile with PROFILE BOOSTER! Learn more here! ← → Watch vide...

Oct 10, 202352 min

How to Boost Your Dating Confidence and Assertiveness

Discover expert advice on enhancing confidence and assertiveness in dating and work life with psychoanalyst and podcaster Talia Bombola, who joins Natasha Chandel as they delve into topics like self-worth, overcoming fear of failure, and understanding gender differences in confidence. Learn valuable insights on setting boundaries, navigating difficult conversations, and asking for what you need without fear. Tune in to this empowering episode of Kinda Dating for actionable tips to boost your dat...

Oct 03, 20231 hr 11 min

Carrie Berk: What You Can Learn From Gen Z About Self Love

We all feel we’re living a rom-com but how often do we learn from the craziness of our dating lives? Carrie Berk (influencer and author of “My Real Life Rom-Com”) joins Natasha Chandel to talk about her new book, and shares the wisdom she’s acquired about relationships at 20 years-old. Carrie reveals how she went from ridiculous situationships to a stable, healthy relationship, her biggest takeaway about love, why playing a little hard to get is still important, and how Gen Z views relationships...

Sep 26, 202355 min

Are You Asexual?

Originally recorded January 2021 – Sex is an important part of a relationship for most people, but not all. Dr. James Simmons is back with Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden to help us understand those who identify as asexual. He dispels the myths around this sexual preference, and shares the path to positive asexual relationships. Are you asexual? Is asexuality a result of past trauma? How do you navigate sex if it’s just not a thing for you? All this and more answered in this informative, fun, t...

Sep 19, 20231 hr 8 min

Maz Jobrani: Balancing a Career and Relationship

Struggling to make time for your relationship with mounting work demands? Join comedian and actor Maz Jobrani as he sits with Natasha Chandel and dives into the secrets of balancing a thriving career with a healthy marriage. Maz Jobrani opens up about his 25-year career on the road, revealing the challenges he's encountered and the lessons he's learned along the way. From carving out quality time to maintaining constant communication, he shares invaluable insights for couples facing similar stru...

Sep 12, 20231 hr 15 min

Are Men Only Looking for Sex?

Evan Marc Katz (dating coach for successful, smart women) is back with Natasha Chandel to delve into a little controversy! He reveals how men and women approach dating (and ultimately sex) differently, and discusses the concept that men look for sex and stumble upon love. So is there hope? Evan thinks so! He shares practical tips on how women can weed out the bad apples, leading to a spirited debate between he and Natasha on the “when to have sex” rule. It’s a titillating conversation that will ...

Sep 05, 202357 min

You’re Not Attracting but Accepting the Wrong Partner

According to Evan Marc Katz (dating coach for successful, smart women), you’re not “attracting” the wrong partner, but rather “accepting” them into your life. The veteran dating expert joins Natasha Chandel and reveals the unique challenges modern women come across when looking for love, discusses the role of personal accountability, and shares tips on how to avoid wasting time on the wrong person! It’s a thought-provoking new episode of Kinda Dating! → Book a 1:1 Coaching with Natasha or optimi...

Aug 29, 20231 hr 3 min

Candice Horbacz: Sexuality & Porn in Relationships

We talk about sex, but Candice Horbacz (former adult star and host of Chatting with Candice podcast) sits with Natasha Chandel to help us embrace our sexuality. She shares her journey to conscious sexuality, reveals the differences in the way men and women approach sex, and how to become more comfortable with yourself and your partner. She also discusses the hot button topic of porn - if it’s setting unrealistic expectations, and ways porn can be helpful to a relationship! It’s a must-listen new...

Aug 22, 20231 hr 18 min

The Secret to a Healthy Relationship

It’s hard enough finding a partner, but even harder to maintain that relationship! Luis Miranda (Brand Strategy Director, DJ, and Natasha’s better half) is back with Natasha Chandel to share the secret to their lasting relationship. The pair discuss their differing communication styles, how they navigate cultural differences and miscommunications, and learning the importance of when to talk! The couple, who met just three weeks before the lockdowns, get real about how they overcame obstacles in ...

Aug 15, 202336 min

Optimize Your Dating Profile and Your Personal Brand

Swiping with no success? Maybe it’s your profile! Luis Miranda (Brand Strategy Director, DJ, and Natasha’s better half) joins Natasha Chandel in an intimate episode discussing the secrets to making a standout profile. The pair talk about meeting on Hinge, how they optimized their dating profiles, and Luis reveals the importance of identifying and expressing each dater’s personal brand. They talk about the importance of accepting your identity, being your authentic self online, and share tips on ...

Aug 08, 20231 hr 6 min

How to Catch a Cheater Pt 2

Mackenzie Fultz (private detective) and Hanna Anderson (comedian, armchair sleuth) a.k.a. the hosts of The Dating Detectives podcast continue their hot conversation with Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden on catching a cheater. Mackenzie reveals her stakeout secrets, and the ladies discuss hot topics like is snooping ever okay? Should you share your location with your partner? They share specific ways to practice dating safety, with Mackenzie and Natasha being on one extreme, and Hanna and Aisha b...

Aug 01, 202338 min

How to Catch a Cheater Pt 1

Have your spidey senses ever tingled with your partner? Mackenzie Fultz (private detective) and Hanna Anderson (comedian, armchair sleuth) a.k.a. the hosts of The Dating Detectives podcast join Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden on how to follow that feeling and find out if your partner is being loyal… or is a damn cheater! Mackenzie talks about her experiences as a rare female PI, and the ladies discuss everything from why people cheat, to the Keke Palmer and Jonah Hill scandals, their personal e...

Jul 25, 20231 hr 1 min

Infla-dating, Sugar Babies, and Dating on a Budget

With inflation rampant, and a looming economic recession, dating is feeling even harder on the pocketbook. Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden talk about the impact of this new normal on our love lives, the rise of Sugar Babies, and share ways on how to date on a budget in this all-important episode of Kinda Dating! → Watch video clips from the show, laugh at hilarious memes, and talk to us by following Kinda Dating on Instagram and TikTok! ← And check out our brand new website! www.kindadating.com...

Jul 18, 202319 min

The Power of Persistence

Finding the right relationship seems to require persistence, but Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden aren’t sure if persistence is enough! Natasha reveals a new perspective on the topic, a missing element, that might just change your approach to dating. They also share tips on how to switch up the dating game for yourself in this interesting new episode of Kinda Dating! → Watch video clips from the show, laugh at hilarious memes, and talk to us by following Kinda Dating on Instagram and TikTok! ← A...

Jul 11, 202315 min

The New Stages of a Relationship

Once upon a time, you would ask someone to an ice cream, and they were your boyfriend or girlfriend. Not anymore! Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden realized they haven’t actually broken down the new stages of a relationship. The duo navigate the murky waters of the word “dating.” No, really, in the beginning is it talking or hanging out or dating?? They also reveal the bridge stage that couples should explore. Whether you’re new to the dating world, joining after a long break, or in the weeds now...

Jul 04, 202324 min

How Your Mental Health Affects Your Relationships

With so much uncertainty in the world, there is a mental health crisis. Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden get vulnerable by revealing their current mental health struggles, how it has impacted their relationships, and share tools on how to dig yourself out. It’s a touching and timely mini-episode of Kinda Dating! → Watch video clips from the show, laugh at hilarious memes, and talk to us by following Kinda Dating on Instagram and TikTok! ← And check out our brand new website! www.kindadating.com ...

Jun 27, 202324 min

Ethical Non-Monogamy or Commitment Issues?

The Multiamory Podcast hosts - Dedeker, Jace, and Emily – join Natasha Chandel to talk about one of her favorite subjects – commitment issues! The Multiamory trio explain their journey in ethical non-monogamy, the labels they have been called, and if it really is a more acceptable form of commitment-phobia. They discuss the importance of communication at all stages, how one might approach their partner to open the relationship, and unlearning everything society has told them about love. It’s a f...

Jun 20, 20231 hr 36 min

Timing is Everything

Right relationship, wrong time. Behzad Dabu (actor, writer, producer, teacher) is back with Natasha Chandel to talk about this horrible but common experience in relationships. What makes it the “right time” in someone’s life? Behzad gives a guy’s point of view and reveals if dudes are really just using the “not ready” line as an excuse to get out of commitment, how and when things fell in place for him, and accepting where you are right now. It’s an honest and inspiring new episode of Kinda Dati...

Jun 13, 202331 min

Age Gap in Relationships

Behzad Dabu (actor, writer, producer, teacher) joins Natasha Chandel for a candid chat about ageism in dating. He reveals his own personal experience dating outside his age, including the age gap between him and his fiancee. The pair get real about why they believe guys date younger, the double standard around women being “cougars,” what really matters in a relationship. It’s a fun, opinionated episode of Kinda Dating! → Watch video clips from the show, laugh at hilarious memes, and talk to us b...

Jun 06, 20231 hr 6 min

Rahul Rai: How Money Affects Relationships

Rahul Rai (Actor and TikTok star) is back with Natasha Chandel and Aisha Holden to discuss one of the most important, but least talked about issues in relationships – money! A partner’s financial literacy, their values and beliefs around money are vital factors in the long-term health of a relationship. Rahul a.k.a. “layman investor” helps Natasha and Aisha the nuances of money in dating and life, why it’s so hard to talk about it, and how to bring it up. Is lack of financial literacy a red flag...

May 30, 20231 hr 14 min
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