Jayneen Sanders is a mum of three, author and educator. Her childrens' books teach kids about body boundaries, respect, consent, body safety, feelings and emotions. It’s every parents’ worst nightmare to think of something happening to their kid. But Jayneen’s work seeks to empower kids to become the boss of their bodies and teach parents how they can model respectful behaviour and boundaries at home. In this important conversation, Steph asks Jayneen about the importance of calling ‘private par...
Nov 21, 2023•32 min•Season 1Ep. 287
It’s the start of SCHOOLIES week and sorry to sound like boomers but please take your rules with you. You sent us your Schoolies stories and we LOVED them but seriously…please take care of yourselves out there. We also reflect on our episode with Sue & Lloyd Clarke, the parents of Hannah Clarke who was tragically murdered with her three children by her estranged partner. We share your feedback from the episode and discuss the tragic death of 21-year-old water polo coach Lilie James who was b...
Nov 19, 2023•34 min•Season 1Ep. 286
Roxie Nafousi is a self-development coach and bestselling author of ‘Manifest’ and ‘Manifest For Kids’. In 2018, Roxie hit rock bottom after a years-long on/off relationship with drugs. So when a friend recommended she listen to a podcast about manifesting, she had nothing to lose. The podcast, and manifesting, ended up changing her life. Now Roxie supports other people to change their own lives through manifesting in 7 straightforward steps. In this chat Roxie shares about her journey to manife...
Nov 14, 2023•46 min•Season 1Ep. 285
Today we open the Kic mail box and hear from YOU: what did your boyfriend's mum do with your stuff? Are the scales in shopping centres deliberately placed outside women's bathrooms? And we answer your D&M: "I love my boyfriend but his insecurities make me doubt myself and question if I deserve any better. Should I break up with him?" And Laura shares about posting her daily schedule on Instagram and trying to find the balance between work and looking after herself. SPECIAL SHARES: Laura: sal...
Nov 12, 2023•34 min•Season 1Ep. 284
You’re exhausted from feeding all night and your partner is playing golf. If you’re currently in the depths of the newborn phase, and resenting your partner for going back to their normal life, you’re not alone. Mum of two, relationship coach, and host of the ‘Parenthood’ podcast Leonie Akhidenor has heard it all (and worse) so we asked for her help to answer your questions. Steph & Leonie discuss the resentment that parents can feel when they’re taking on more of the load than their partner...
Nov 07, 2023•35 min•Season 1Ep. 283
We asked for your grotty habits and you guys showed up! Steph was horrified when she learned Laura only washed her bra once a month so we asked you guys for your grotty habits and we’ve never felt so seen. So if you pick your nose, share your utensils with your dog or floss your teeth with your hair…you’re not alone. Also, Steph shares what was going on in her head when she was named the global face of swimwear brand Seafolly. And we say hello to our new producer, Lindsey! SPECIAL SHARES: Laura:...
Nov 05, 2023•36 min•Season 1Ep. 282
Sue & Lloyd Clarke have gone through any parent’s worst nightmare and they’re using their experience to help other families. Sue & Lloyd are the parents of Brisbane mum Hannah Clarke, who along with her three kids Aaliyah, Laianah and Trey, were murdered by Hannah’s estranged partner in 2020. In response, Sue & Lloyd created the charity ‘Small Steps 4 Hannah’ with a mission to HALT domestic & family violence through education, advocating for legal & social change and supporti...
Oct 31, 2023•28 min•Season 1Ep. 281
In Steph and Laura's catch up today, the topic of vibrators of course comes up once again (wouldn't be a Monday episode without it), and we find out one of the girls may not be washing hers after each use. Is this normal? Let us know in our @kicpod DMs on insta! On another sex-related note, Laura's husband Dalton has something called sexomnia, where he's trying to get some in the middle of the night while he's asleep - so what does Laura do when he tries this? Also, today is a sad episode as a m...
Oct 29, 2023•40 min•Season 1Ep. 280
Em Clarkson is a new mum and the founder of fitness community ‘The Have A Goes’. At 8 months postpartum, Em's body looks and feels different to what she’s used to, but instead of getting caught up in the pressure of “bouncing back”, she’s appreciating what her body is capable of and finding empowerment through rebuilding her strength and fitness. Steph & Em discuss how Em went from running in circles in the dark and hating her body, to leading a fitness movement, her debilitating experience ...
Oct 24, 2023•44 min•Season 1Ep. 279
In a recent episode, Laura opened up about her fear of not coping if and when she has a child. This conversation ended up getting an overwhelming response from you guys saying how much you can relate. In Steph & Laura's catch up today, they speak with listener Lena who perfectly articulates what so many of us experience pre-kids. Also, Laura's got an update on her stolen car! SPECIAL SHARES: Steph – Sex Education , series on Netflix Laura – ‘ How to De-Stress: Relaxation Intervention for Ama...
Oct 22, 2023•23 min•Season 1Ep. 278
Savannah Sachdev has gone for a run nearly 850 days in a row now, and although that may only seem possible from someone who is a pro runner with extreme motivation, for Savannah, she began running purely for the amazing effect it has on her mental health. Rather than focusing on distance or time, Savannah listens to her body and runs what she feels is right for her on the day. Her goal is to promote movement each day, regardless of what that looks like for every individual. In today's episode, S...
Oct 17, 2023•50 min•Season 1Ep. 277
In Steph & Laura's catch up today, Laura reveals something that recently happened when she went through airport security that was by far the most embarrassing thing she's ever experienced in her life!! Also, there's something so many of us experience and are afraid of, but no one is talking about it. In today's episode, we not only talk about it, but also give some advice that will hopefully help you next time you find yourself having this thought. SPECIAL SHARES: Steph – Fourth Wing , book ...
Oct 15, 2023•32 min•Season 1Ep. 276
Chessie King is a content creator and the founder of BABYHOOD - a platform to support, guide and empower parents through their first 40 days post-partum. In today's KICBUMP episode, Steph chats to Chessie about some of the similarities and differences between their kids Rae and Harvey who are similar ages, how she balances work and motherhood, overcoming struggles with sleep, building your own motherhood community, and how to help your friends when they need it most in their parenting journey. P...
Oct 10, 2023•50 min•Season 1Ep. 275
We hope you're ready to cry tears of laughter all whilst squirming and potentially gagging at the same time. In Steph and Laura's catch up today, we asked the question 'when did you not make it to the loo' after Steph's little mishap last week, and the stories you guys sent in were the most horrifying yet hilarious we think we've ever had sent in to this podcast! And have you ever had a friend get with your ex? Or perhaps you're the friend that has dated your bestie's ex? Today we have a D&M...
Oct 08, 2023•33 min•Season 1Ep. 274
* Trigger Warning: This episode discusses disordered eating. If you or anyone you know needs support, contact The Butterfly Foundation on 1800 33 4673 (1800 ED HOPE) * Steph Elswood grew up as a professional dancer, in a world where a lot of the focus was on body image and where disordered eating was quite common in her circle. She has since healed her relationship with food an exercise and is now a health and fitness advocate, as well as the Director of body confidence workshops 'Stay Sassy', a...
Oct 03, 2023•46 min•Season 1Ep. 273
In Steph and Laura's catch up today, there's quite the mixture of raw honesty and light-hearted fun. Laura explains that there's a looming time period in her life that she fears she will not mentally cope with if & when it eventually happens, which is a very common fear that a lot of us have. Plus, Steph shares a hilarious story of not quite making it to the loo! And Producer Mandy poses a 'would you rather' question that involves watching footage of yourself in a very compromised position! ...
Oct 01, 2023•34 min•Season 1Ep. 272
Rachel Maksimovic 's 4 year old son Lenny came into the world pretty unexpectedly when she was living abroad in Bali, and with someone she had only been seeing for a few months. Given the cultural differences between them and some other challenges they faced once she fell pregnant, Rachel moved back home to raise Lenny on her own. As any single parent would know, there are some extremely tough moments that come with it, and in today's episode Rachel opens up about the mental and financial load t...
Sep 26, 2023•39 min•Season 1Ep. 271
In Steph & Laura's catch up today, Steph shares her experience with something extremely difficult and humiliating that she went through in high school, plus the conversation is brought back about the mental load on women and ways to divide the chores at home so that it's equal. Speaking of things being equal, we also hear some alarming statistics of the gender pay gap in Australia. SPECIAL SHARES: Steph – Miley Cyrus’ song ‘Used To Be Young’ Laura – Taking photos of your outfits before you g...
Sep 24, 2023•36 min•Season 1Ep. 270
Sydney Cassidy is the founder of Gym Girls Locker Room – a community of like-minded women looking to build strength and confidence at the gym where they can support, encourage and communicate with one another - which we are sure you’d agree aligns so perfectly with what we do at Kic. Sydney began her fitness journey at a low point in her life, mainly pursuing exercise for her mental health, saying "fitness is more about how it makes me feel than what I get from it, physically”, which many of us ...
Sep 19, 2023•40 min•Season 1Ep. 269
In Steph & Laura's catch up today, we reminisce about the days where prank calling someone as a kid was the most hilarious thing in the world - but Laura is shocked by one of Steph's mischievous childhood pranks (surprising since Laura is now quite the prankster herself)! This got us talking about some other hilarious nostalgic memories so enjoy the trip down memory lane! Also in today's episode, we hear your hilarious email fails after we shared some of ours last week. We learn some very va...
Sep 17, 2023•30 min•Season 1Ep. 268
You could say Charlotte Crosby is one of the OG influencers! She’s largely known for her role on Geordie Shore where the world fell in love with her. In today’s KICBUMP episode, Charlotte speaks about her experience with a life threatening ectopic pregnancy, how she handled this among going through so many other challenges, her birth story and how life is now as a mum. She also addresses how she's navigating life in the public eye with her little one, and how she feels about having Alba included...
Sep 12, 2023•40 min•Season 1Ep. 267
In Steph & Laura's catch up today we address the chat around the remake of Snow White, why it seems they are changing the entire storyline, why people up in arms about it, and what being a feminist actually looks like. We also hear about a serious email fail made by our very own producer Mandy that no one ever wants to happen! It got us talking about some emails we've received that we really shouldn't have! SPECIAL SHARES: Steph – A Man Named Otto, film on Apple TV Laura – The Good Sister, b...
Sep 10, 2023•26 min•Season 1Ep. 266
* Trigger warning - this episode mentions abuse. For support, contact 1800RESPECT * Mitch Larsson found himself living a pretty common lifestyle as a married father and lawyer, but a snap decision one day in his 40s changed his life forever. He became a male escort. In today's episode, we hear about what brought him to this snap decision, what the response was like from his wife, family and friends, and what he has told his 8 year old son. We also delve into another side of this particular line ...
Sep 05, 2023•31 min•Season 1Ep. 265
In Steph & Laura's catch up today, Laura wants some tips on what to do when there's a specific type of communication breakdown in a relationship - what does Steph do with Josh? Are there ways to navigate this without entering crazy territory? If you'd like to chime in with your own experience or advice, feel free to send Laurs a voice note to our @kicpod Instagram! And a few weeks back, Steph mentioned that she was having some gut issues, so today we not only get an update but also discuss t...
Sep 03, 2023•28 min•Season 1Ep. 264
After popular demand by mums in the Kic community, today's KICBUMP episode is with Luka McCabe - the founder of the company Boob to Food , author of Milk to Meals , registered nurse and midwife, as well as mum of 3. Steph and Luka are also joined by Kate Holm - a naturopath, nutritionist, clinical director of Boob to Food and mum of 2 (with a third on the way)! Boob to food is a hub where parents can get all the information they need around baby nutrition to give them the confidence they need wh...
Aug 29, 2023•46 min•Season 1Ep. 263
In Steph & Laura’s catch up today, we revisit the story about Steph’s mum finding some sexy costumes in her bedroom when she was younger, and it sparked the question ‘how did you spice it up in the bedroom, and how did it go wrong?’ – You guys answered and OH BOY, you never disappoint!! We also find out what sticky ingredient Laura has used before and let’s just say we do not recommend! Also, if you’re an adult and you play sport (not at a professional level, we’re talking mixed netball with...
Aug 27, 2023•24 min•Season 1Ep. 262
You may have come across Jordy on Tiktok ( @itsjordysworld ) where she very openly shares the details of her life with a chronic illness and living with an ostomy bag. At age 9, Jordy was diagnosed with a rare case of Crohn's disease - an incurable chronic inflammatory bowel condition where her body attacks her own digestive system. Only a few months ago, she was fighting for her life in the process of a stem cell transplant, but after a successful surgery (and the first of its kind in Australia...
Aug 22, 2023•33 min•Season 1Ep. 261
In Steph & Laura's catch up today, they discuss a recent TikTok trend that sparks the topic of how heavy the mental load is for many women. We hear some stats on how many hours of extra work per week women gain on average when in a heterosexual relationship in comparison to men, and the data is quite shocking. Also in today's episode, we take a trip down memory lane to some of the hilarious and innocent things written in our old school yearbooks. SPECIAL SHARES: Steph – T he Inspired Unemplo...
Aug 20, 2023•26 min•Season 1Ep. 260
You may know Marcia Leone as 'Not So Mumsy' - she's an author, founder of the clothing label Not So Mumsy and a proud mum of two. If you're a stay at home mum who has craved going back to work, or if you're a working mum who has felt guilt for missing out on special time with your children, you are certainly not alone! Marcia has experienced both of these feelings and explains in today's KICBUMP episode why it is important for her to keep her identity of who she was pre-children. She also discus...
Aug 15, 2023•27 min•Season 1Ep. 259
A hilarious catch up between Steph and Laura today reveals that one of the girls had some sexy nurse costumes that her mum found, and what her mum did with it had us in hysterics!! We also hear some other mortifying moments involving parents and the running theme seems to be vibrators! Plus in today’s episode, we have a D&M from someone who received a before and after photo from her friend which left her comparing her body to hers. The girls discuss how easy it is to fall into the trap of co...
Aug 13, 2023•42 min•Season 1Ep. 258